Sichuan pepper is not wrong. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

Even if her ambitions are "lofty", she still has to be "down-to-earth" when she implements it.

However, what is "skill", take it apart, the left is the "hand" and the right is the "branch", and the "branch" is the meaning of "support", stacked together, in fact, it means a kind of craft to maintain life, it can support people's lives like human limbs support the body, and the popular point is that people rely on the craft of life.

It is the knowledge, experience, skills, and means accumulated by human beings in the process of long-term use and transformation of nature in order to meet their own needs and desires, follow the laws of nature, and use nature to transform nature.

And what is "clear reason", simply put, literacy and hyphenation.

Of course, the meaning of Sichuan pepper is not that it is illiterate, so it must be unreasonable.

It's like an illiterate person is not necessarily uneducated, and a literate person is not necessarily literate.

But in any case, after reading and writing, I have developed wisdom, and it is easy to understand the skills to make a living, and all kinds of knowledge that are conducive to making a living.

When it comes to learning skills, most illiterate people have to work harder than literate and hyphenated people.

That's all.

But Zuo's looked at the peppercorns that looked as usual, and after being stunned for a while, he couldn't help but have mixed feelings in his heart.

Looking at the pepper again, the gaze is different.

Sure enough, the aura is compelling.

Naturally, there are some sighs.

One force will drop ten times, and the little girl casually said a sentence that seemed to be ordinary, but the beautiful window paper on the paste.

It also pierced the layer of window paper in her heart, and a thought that she had no time to do before, or even thought about it at all, came to her mind.

From ancient times to the present, people in the world say that studying is about self-cultivation, not about making a living. It's about reason, not fame and fortune.

But in fact......

She didn't understand the men's affairs, so she told her what a woman's family knew.

Since she started writing novels, her mother's family can be regarded as a family of heirlooms anyway, and the boudoir has always been rigorous, and the girls are all young and young. No matter how much of the teachings left by the ancestors are left in the clan now, their sisters are all raised according to the standard of being housemothers.

Regardless of whether the teaching and learning are reliable or not, it is always based on the tone set by the three obediences and four virtues.

From housekeeping, assigning housework, managing subordinates, managing industries, to piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, female celebrity cooking, and coping with advance and retreat...... Not only must they learn all of these, but they also have to learn how to honor their in-laws, how to socialize with their sisters-in-law, how to live in peace with their sisters-in-law, how to make peace with their husbands, and even how to give birth to and educate their children.

I don't talk about the sidelines, but I only talk about how to teach the child to read and improve, how to teach him to understand the world, how to teach him to please his grandparents, and how to teach him to respect his father......

Learn and learn, she was raised in this way.

So much so that it can't be said that it is all over the world, but she did think that for a long time, she naturally thought that half of the girls in the world had received such upbringing.

Until Mrs. Fang guaranteed her this marriage, she was not only guided by Mama Guo, but also fortunate to be picked up by Mrs. Fang to speak.

Only then did she realize how narrow-minded she had been.

I really realized that the original qin, chess, calligraphy and painting are important, but in the end it is just a good façade for girls when they are not married, and although the female red family is fundamental, it is just to take care of the family and run the family in a good way.

These can only be regarded as small roads, and it is enough to marry into an ordinary family, and you can't say that you can have a good reputation of being virtuous and virtuous. But if you want to gain a foothold in the family, it is far from enough.

Just like the sisters of the Fang family, not to mention the concubines, and even some concubines have to learn the laws of the imperial court in addition to these small paths, and they also have to read the palace report to know the court situation, judge the situation, and make the best use of things......

Chenguang who first heard this, she was incredible, not to mention the daughter-in-law, Rao is the sister-in-law of her mother's family or even the son of the sect, and she has never received such a clear upbringing.

But now that she thinks about it, especially after seeing her in-laws' upbringing of the younger generations, she already understands in her heart that the fall of her mother's family may be a reasonable matter.

But no matter the trail or the avenue, they have learned so many skills so hard in order to be able to marry highly, in order to be able to better assist their husbands, to gain a foothold in their in-laws' families, to maintain a good relationship with their mother-in-laws, and even to be able to improve the status of their mother's family......

All of this is for yourself, but it seems that it is not for yourself.

Zuo can't say whether this is good or bad, right or wrong.

But she really didn't expect that Hua Jiao had already seen it so thoroughly at a young age.

Looking at the clear eyes of their sisters in front of them, Zuo suddenly felt a little distressed about the pepper, and admired her a little in his heart.

But I don't plan to say it.

Because she knows very well and is very helpless, even if she breaks it, she doesn't have any solution, so why let them be as helpless as herself.

couldn't help but take a long breath in her heart, Lilac was already anxious, and couldn't help but ask Zuo again: "Sister-in-law, do you have any good ideas?" ”

Zuo nodded slowly, but said: "I have a method, but I can't say it well, I can only say that maybe I can give it a try." ”

Before the words fell, I saw the three little girls opposite with a flash of light in their eyes, and their hearts were relieved, and they couldn't help laughing.

A mouthful of turbid breath came out in his heart, and he inexplicably gave birth to a sense of pride.

Yellow civet black raccoon, the one who gets the rat is male!

Why keep thinking about these things that you don't have, and secretly feel nostalgic.

only faced Lilac's urging, but asked them a question first: "Then let's talk about it first, the purpose of boys going to school is to cultivate themselves and rule the country and level the world, so what is the purpose of us women going to school?" ”

"Uh......" Xiangye tilted her head, looked at the cloves, and looked at the peppercorns, obviously she had a lot of ideas in her heart, but she didn't know how to express them completely.

Lilac also went to see the peppercorns, she naturally knew what it was for, but she was worried about saying it, which scared Zuo.

Huajiao hesitated a little, but in the end he pursed his lips and said slowly: "It's to learn the skills of governing the family and the truth of life." ”

Xiangye nodded when she heard this, the corners of Lilac's mouth drooped slightly, her elbows supported her cheeks, her head drooped, and she also nodded: "I think it is, too." ”

It's just an old man with a "yes" drag.

Zuo Shi looked at the cloves, and couldn't help but touch the pepper's bun.

But the stuffy pepper in his heart was unwilling in the end, and his heart suddenly turned horizontal, straightened his small chest, and changed his words: "It is to cultivate a good wife and mother who is a little knowledgeable, virtuous, and healthy." ”

Without waiting for the Zuo family to come back to their senses, they continued: "It is also to cultivate a good woman who can be a husband, a godson, a good woman, a good family, and a good plant!" ”

Xiangye looked at the cloves, looked at Zuo's, and then looked at the peppercorns, but somehow, subconsciously held his breath and didn't say a word.

Lilac looked at the peppercorns in front of her as if she had changed people, and the scene of peppercorns shooting and injuring "one hand" involuntarily appeared in her mind. I suddenly became excited in my heart, and without thinking about it, I nodded straight: "Jiaojiao is right!" ”

Zuo, who only had a look of shock in his eyes, looked at the excited Lilac, and then at the resolute Sichuan pepper, the corners of his mouth were furrowed, and he was speechless for a while.

Lilac couldn't care about it anymore, and the more she thought about it, the more she felt that what Hua Jiao said was good: "My maternal great-grandmother said that what kind of education a mother receives, she will teach her children by word and deed." Therefore, a woman's talent and learning quality can often affect the life of a family, and it can affect three generations of grandparents. Therefore, if a woman is virtuous, she can naturally prosper a family for a long time. ”

Xiangye nodded assertively, feeling that she somewhat understood the meaning of Lilac's words, but she was still a little confused.

Zuo was a little incredulous, but in the end he had to believe it, maybe someone was born to know it, cloves, especially peppercorns, but she knew much more than she did.

I can't help but think, if these two little girls were born in a big family like the Fang family, they don't know how to attract attention!

It's just that, having said that, if they weren't born in such a relaxed environment as their own family, they could be reckless, even if the pepper was spiritual, it would have been consumed by the deep mansion compound.

Nodding towards the pepper cloves and bay leaves, Zuo did agree with their statement.

But he said, "Let's ask my grandmother to come forward!" ”

"Huh?" Lilac's eyes widened, not understanding what Zuo meant.

Huajiao pursed her lips again, and Xiangye had already come back to her senses: "Sister-in-law, sister-in-law, do you mean to ask your grandmother to come forward to run a girls' school?" ”

Lilac suddenly realized, Zuo smiled and nodded: "Jiaojiao is right, a good wife and a good mother, our grandmother is a model of a good wife and mother in the eyes of the neighbors of Shili and Eight Villages, if her old man takes the lead and runs a female school, it should be accepted." ”

Although in Zuo's mind, the person he admires the most is actually Mrs. Fang, that is really as Hua Jiao said, the upper can be a husband, the lower can be a godson, close to IKEA, and far away can be a good seed.

But in the countryside of Chongtang, she believes that even Li Shiwei's maternal great-grandmother may not be able to win the hearts of her own grandmother.

This is not her flattery, but her grandmother is indeed a husband and a good family.

Although she didn't know how virtuous Chenguang was when her grandmother was a girl and a daughter-in-law, she knew how generous her grandmother was at the moment.

Housework is pushed, idle things are left alone, no opinions, content and happy.

There are old people as role models, how can the head of the family not do their own way, father and son are filial piety, brothers and brothers are respectful, and husbands and women are obedient.

She had heard a slang saying on the river before, called "The old lady sits on the kang, and one blessing overwhelms a hundred disasters".

This may sound rough, but the truth could not be more true.

What's more, even if you don't look at your own door style, just look at your own luck, which is enough to make people move.

Although the pepper sisters are moved, they have their own hesitations.

Xiangye thought for a while, and frowned slightly: "But, but, of course, grandmother understands righteousness and knowledge, but grandmother is not very literate." ”

Zuo explained to her: "It doesn't matter if you don't know much, our female school will start with three from four virtues." ”

Lilac was stunned for a while, and didn't come back to her senses for a long time.

Huajiao raised his head, glanced at Zuo's, and nodded heavily: "Okay, let's start with three from four virtues." ”

In these years, three obedience and four virtues are the code of conduct for women.

Since this is the case, then they simply take the three virtues and the four virtues as a coat, and wrap up those things that are not yet allowed in this world.

Explain to bay leaves and cloves.

Xiangye kept nodding and saying yes, and Lilac puffed out her cheeks, but in this way, didn't she go back again, and there was no difference from what they had before.

Oh, it's not without a difference, if it can really be done, at least their female studies can be put on the table.

It's better than sneaky!

I nodded too.

Fortunately, Lilac was reluctant even if she was unwilling, but in the end, since she had made up her mind, she didn't say much, and accompanied the pepper bay leaf to agree on the details with Zuo's carefully.

There are four sisters-in-law, and there are three of them holding their breath in their hearts, and even Xiangye sincerely hopes that the friends can read a few more words and read two more books.

Xiangye suddenly asked happily: "The third uncle and the eldest brother are naming the school in Dongtou, this time it seems that the tentative word 'Lize' is taken from the "Zhou Yi" 'Duifeng' symbolism: Lize, Dui." A gentleman learns as a friend. Shall we give our girls a name? ”

"'Lize'? Is it settled? Lilac didn't know what was going on, and looked at the peppercorns.

What does "Lize" mean, Lilac naturally knows, it means that the two Ze are connected, and its water exchange is like a gentleman's friend exchanging knowledge and doctrine through a lecture.

The meaning is really good, but it's not atmospheric enough!

Hua Jiao nodded and shook his head: "Daddy thinks the meaning of Lize is very good, but it is not determined yet!" ”

However, she was really interested in Xiangye's proposal, and looked at Zuo's and Lilacs: "Sister-in-law, third sister, if you name our female school, what do you want to call it?" ”

"I want to think about it!" Lilac immediately said, but she decided to think of a big enough atmosphere.

Zuo also thought deeply, if it was an ordinary school, she really had a few names in her heart that sounded good. But the female students, the female students she had seen before were all named after their surnames, and they couldn't help but be ordinary.

The proposed bay leaf was also thinking about it, and I just wanted to think of it, but I didn't think it was good enough, so I went to see the pepper.

Zuo's heart suddenly moved, and he already said: "What do you think of 'Yimou Yanyi'?" ”

"'Yimou Yanyi', 'Yanyi Yimou'?" Lilac was the first to react: "This is very good!" It means for the children and grandchildren, and it can also be said to be for the children and grandchildren to plan for the long term, and the descendants of Rongchang have a good meaning. He grinned and said: "The key is what King Wu of Zhou said, which is atmospheric enough!" ”

Hua Jiao also nodded, this word is indeed very good, but she also thought of a name: "'Rong Knee Ju', how about it?" ”