In fact, there are so many things that I can't understand. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 For example, the eldest brother's monthly income is more than the annual income of her husband's family, why is he reluctant to pay a few yuan for living expenses, and he has to use unneeded old things to offset it? If there is filial piety, when he sends fruits and specialties for his wife and children, why don't he send more copies to his parents? When you were in the sea of meat, did you think about your parents and siblings who didn't have enough to eat?

Of course, I am even more puzzled: since my mother-in-law knows what her son has done and gnashes her teeth at her son's behavior, why does she have to buy money to send to this son when she is penniless? I have more than enough, there is nothing wrong with dedicating my mother's love, and my son is in urgent need of it, but people don't need it at all, and they don't care about it, what kind of behavior does this belong to? Do you want to touch your son with great and selfless maternal love? Will it have a small effect?

The mother-in-law suddenly scolded angrily: "That thing with no bag and no gas, I don't have any memory at all, when the child was just over a year old, in order to make a lot of money, I went to work in the field alone, and my daughter-in-law recruited wild men at home alone." The neighbors all knew about it, and when he came back from work, he would get divorced. It's only been a long time since I got remarried, and I've gone out to earn money again, do you think dogs can change to eat? This shameless thing! ”

My eldest brother was divorced, and I know that my husband once took me to the home of his second wife, Jiang Yue'e, which was not too big, but very neat and comfortable room, a quiet, gentle, beautiful and generous woman, her husband was a young engineer in the Mining Bureau, who died in a mining accident, and she lived alone with her son.

She showed a kind of indifference in her gestures, that white and pure, although not particularly beautiful, but there was a kind of unearthly temperament, which was not something ordinary people could have. She and her eldest brother were introduced together. It's hard for me to imagine, let alone connect her with the eldest brother, they are simply people from two worlds, and they are not compatible.

The mother-in-law was also quite dissatisfied with the second eldest daughter-in-law: "You see that Jiang Yue'e is literate and reasonable, it is all superficial!" She's also a big liar! Your eldest brother married her, I also had three shops and three covers, a full set of furniture, the two divorced after a year, and your eldest brother quit, so he brought out a suit he was wearing, and the wife of the raised man must not die! ”

I was surprised by my mother-in-law's foul language, of course, my mother-in-law's usual bad words to others were in my ears, but this time I said the words of that docile and elegant woman, I really couldn't agree, and even got goosebumps on my body.

I believe that Jiang Yue'e is not the kind of person who values material things, and it is more likely that the eldest brother will not want anything? I can't accept saying such vicious things for the sake of something that is simply useless or inconsequential in the eyes of the other party. In particular, how can a mother-in-law who believes in gods and Buddhas say such unkind words for things outside of her body?

It's only this thing that makes me appreciate my eldest brother a little. As a man, if you can't even be magnanimous with the woman who has shared the bed with you, is it still a man? No matter how tight the money is, being tolerant and generous to a woman who used to be you is the bottom line of being a man.

To be honest, I don't have a good impression of my eldest brother at all, and I can't erase the face of his insulting father from my memory anyway. I'm the kind of person who pours out my heart and lungs when I like it, and I write it directly on my face if I don't like it. But for my husband's sake, I still have to get by on my face.

A few people sat down to chat, talking and talking, and the eldest brother suddenly asked his husband: "Xiao Ming, you have been in Shenyang for more than two years, and at home, is the salary of the unit still open every month?" ”

I was shocked at first, and when I saw that my husband didn't answer my eldest brother's words, I asked, "Xiao Ming's unit has been funding him?" He didn't leave his post without pay? ”

The eldest brother laughed: "Xiao Ming understands in the unit, and he doesn't have to go to work every month, and someone will send his salary every month." He should open more than 200 yuan a month now, right? He is a front-line worker, with a high salary, and the designation is higher than yours. ”

All of a sudden, I felt that everything was so ethereal, like in a dream, so unreal, so unbelievable. I don't want to believe it, I can't believe it.

If I believe it, it proves that I have been deceived by my husband's family for more than two years, and I am still thinking about my family so much, saving every penny for my family, and even borrowing money from my family with a cheeky face! But they don't even have the slightest sincerity, they don't even have a word of truth, and if my heart could shed tears—blood and tears, my heart would have flowed into a sea of blood.

Even if I know that my husband has this income, can I go all the way to ask for this money? If they tell me that they have this money, I will be happy to say to them: "The money we earn is enough, and the family is so difficult, so the family can use this money, subsidize the family, and the family can be more or less relaxed!" ”

But their family regarded me as an outsider, and they knew to look for me when they needed me, but this kind of thing that saw interests isolated me, and didn't even give me the least right to know. How much trouble is it? It's really hard for them!

If his family doesn't understand me and doesn't believe me, even if my husband doesn't understand me, doesn't my husband understand me either? After getting along for such a long time, can't I exchange everything I have for being a person and for my family for a word of truth from him? Can't he see my efforts, my sincerity? I have a strong feeling of being deceived, feeling that I have been fooled by others!

If the family didn't think of me as a fool, why didn't they put things in the light of things, so that although I didn't get any money, my heart was open and warm. Being deceived and being willing are two completely different moods! I really feel that I was calculated, and after being sold, I still have a good amount of money to help people!

I have turned a deaf ear to what the next few people said, and I have no intention of listening or coping, it seems that all the people and things around me have nothing to do with me, all the people are laughing at me, I have been abandoned by the whole world!

I was stunned and thought: My husband must have left this money at home because it was too difficult for him to come out and hide by himself, so he left this money at home, and he was worried that I would not agree, so he made this decision, right? Or can't he be blamed for this, the current society is so realistic, and everyone should be careful?

How many days did the two of them stay that time, or what did they do? I don't care how I go about it, it's none of my business.

Soon after, when we returned to Huludao, we inadvertently mentioned the salary, and my husband asked in front of my family: "I have been in Shenyang for so long, do you have any letter from the unit?" I heard that my eldest brother has been giving me money? ”

The second eldest sister looked at me and said, "Isn't this my kindergarten where a student's parent is in charge of something in your unit?" I asked her to do it, people are really interesting, I haven't seen anyone, and my salary has been open! ”

In fact, it doesn't matter how they explain it, or if they don't explain it and don't cover it up, my mood will be better? I don't want to find out whose idea it was, I don't want to know if my husband knows about it? He left home to live in Shenyang, can he leave if the affairs of the unit are not arranged and handled well? It was a hard-won job, and the husband I knew was not the impulsive and reckless person.

I once asked him, "You're here, how do you handle your work?" ”

He always replied lightly: "I've arranged everything, you don't care!" ”

In any case, things have passed, it doesn't matter if you have that money or not, it doesn't matter if you know it or not! I don't want to have a disagreement with my husband because of money, and I don't want to belittle myself to the point where I only recognize money and not people! When I chose to share the joys and sorrows with my husband and start from scratch under such a difficult situation, I was ready to endure hardships, and I already valued feelings and people above money and interests!

Actually, the reason why I mind this is not because of money. What I care about is that they don't treat me as family, they don't believe that I will treat this family sincerely, or that no matter how hard I try, the results will still be the same, right?

You should really be mentally prepared, not everyone is as stupid as me, not everyone will treat others with sincerity, not as long as you pay sincerely, others will be sincere to you, some people can be used, some people can deceive, some people can be moved, and some people are born without feelings?

I suddenly understood why my husband always said to me: "Kindness is your strength, but you are too kind, and excessive kindness becomes a disadvantage." "It turns out that sometimes kindness is too easy to be deceived, kindness is too easy to make yourself suffer, kindness is too easy for people to take advantage of, kindness is easier to make yourself scarred!