After more than half a month, just in time for the Chunming butcher shop to finish living early, I wanted to go home on a whim again. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info so the two of them made a bus and set out on the way home.

got out of the car at the entrance of the village, and the two of them talked while walking, and happened to meet Aunt Zhang in the village, and greeted me from afar: "The wild goose is back?" Come back and help your brother clean up the house? ”

I was confused: "What are you doing cleaning up the house?" ”

"Isn't your brother married? What's up? You still don't know? ”

"My brother is married? When will it end? With whom to tie the knot? "I can't believe what Aunt Zhang said, it must be that she doesn't know and speculates that her brother is going to get married? How can it be? Mom and Dad and brother have already decided to marry Baojuan Huang, why would they suddenly want to get married again?

"That's your own brother, why don't you know that he wants to get married? Who in ten miles and eight towns doesn't know that next Sunday, your brother will get married to the daughter of the ancient family in the neighboring village! That girl is not only good-looking, big and tall, but also able to speak well, and has seen the world outside! You two are really a good match! ”

I walked into the house with a full stomach full of suspicions, and sure enough, the house had undergone a drastic change, the east and west houses, the upstairs and downstairs were all completely new, the walls were whitewashed as new, and the room was filled with new furniture, the one I bought last time in the city, and there was a festive atmosphere everywhere.

My brother was hanging a wedding photo on the wall and watched us follow us outside. I couldn't wait to ask, "Didn't you say the wedding was canceled?" Why did it tie up again? ”

My brother's face turned red, and he said in a hurry: "She's pregnant, she can't get married!" That's the way it is anyway, let's end it! ”

It turned out that when my brother told Baojuan about Huang, Baojuan found the matchmaker crying and making trouble, and said that she was pregnant, and the matchmaker said that she would not do anything, saying that my brother had ruined other people's daughters, and it was impossible not to get married now. Either you wait to go to jail or you don't have the wedding as scheduled, there is no other choice.

Originally, the parents were wavering, but as soon as they heard that the woman was pregnant, the parents who dreamed of hugging their grandson aroused a strong desire to hug their grandson. However, more importantly, my parents answered the phone, so they made up their minds to hold the wedding as scheduled.

The call was made by the third sister in the field, and when she heard that her brother's wedding was going to be canceled, she was very angry and said, "What are you messing about? Not enough toss for this day? Over the years, how many times has he become a man today and a yellow man tomorrow? You always rely on his temperament, this time you can't let him say anything, now that the woman is pregnant, she can't be yellow, you should get married and get married immediately! ”

As soon as my parents heard the third sister say this, they immediately had the backbone: "This marriage really has to be married, and I hugged my grandson, and the woman can't help but be unforgiving, listen to the third child!" ”

I couldn't say anything after listening to these words, and only then did I really know how many pounds and taels I had, and I was slighted for no reason after some hard work, what else could I say? I was so scheming, so bitter, and even begging, it was not as good as a sentence on the phone of the third sister!

It's come to this point, I've done my best, I don't need to blame myself for saying that Baojuan is good, and I'm restless, they are willing to get married, I have already said what I mean, they won't listen, what can I do? The road on my feet is my own, and even if I want to do my best, I have nowhere to go! As for the outcome, it's not up to me to control it, it's enough for me to do my part.

When I heard that my brother was getting married, my in-laws came from Huludao and we came home the day before the wedding.

The third sister's in-laws also came to my house that day, my in-laws are more than ten years older than the third sister's in-laws, the third sister's father-in-law is the principal of the rural primary school, it can be said that he is also a figure with a head and a face, in comparison, the in-laws not only look much older than them in appearance, but also cannot speak of the same day in style.

My in-laws seem to be ordinary people who have never seen the world, very inconspicuous, and even a little shabby, and the in-laws of the third sister are extraordinary, elegant and have status and status, and the mother is expensive with her son, the third brother-in-law is prosperous, and Chunfeng is proud, he is a heavyweight figure in the unit, and he is a pivotal figure in my family.

Look at my husband again, thin and dry, I don't want anything, don't talk about it, I just fart without making a sound. And the third sister has been loved by her parents since she was a child, she has a personality and insight, not only is she decent, her temperament is refined, she is generous, she has a kind of gentleness, and she has a successful career, which is enviable.

I'm completely different, cringe, can't even say complete words, don't even have the courage to see people, always have low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, not to mention in big things, I don't have an opinion at all when I encounter things (except for my own business), compared with my sister, it's just a heaven and an earth, we know that we can't compare with them.

That day's wedding felt gray everywhere, and my brother didn't even smile with a tense face, I really don't know if he was a little happy at the moment? Is it pain or despair?

That day, the third sister was unable to participate because of a business trip, and the remaining three sisters plus the four sons-in-law were forgotten in the corner, and when the banquet dispersed, several of us were hungry, and then we had to add another table outside.

A table of people sighed while eating, seeing and hearing unseen, how could there be a scene where my uncle was ignored? It's too bad to treat bean bags as dry food! I'm used to this kind of forgotten and neglected thing! Others, on the other hand, were very dissatisfied and puzzled.

The guests dispersed, because our third sister's in-laws and I had to take a long-distance bus home, and the highway was two miles away from my house.

My brother brought a neighbor's tricycle to take us to the road, and there were two people in the cab of the tricycle besides the driver, and then something happened that made me feel embarrassed and even feel like a pinprick.

Mom and Dad and Brother pulled the third sister's in-laws to sit in the cab at the same time, it was really unexpected to me, if they pulled my mother-in-law and the third sister's mother-in-law to sit in front of me, I would really think it was the most normal thing, I really can't believe that even from the perspective of respecting the old and loving the young, I shouldn't let the elderly mother-in-law climb into the car body and then stand in the back of the car.

But this is the case, at that time, I felt very embarrassed, and I also saw that the husband next to me had a very bad face. At this moment, I really regret that I shouldn't let my in-laws join in the fun, I feel that all people are looking at me with a discriminatory gaze, I'm sorry for my husband, I'm sorry for my in-laws, I am ashamed and secretly resolved: I will never make this kind of mistake in the future that I will lose face and regret again.

I endured my own distress, endured not letting the tears flow, at that time I could only hate myself for being incompetent, if I also had a head and a face, wealth, if I could also get ahead, as for letting my elderly in-laws also suffer with me?

I don't understand, they are also guests who came to attend the wedding, and their in-laws are far away from the city, and the third sister's in-laws' house is only a dozen miles away. They all spend money on gifts, and my in-laws bring a few gifts from relatives, and the third sister's in-laws are only their own, my in-laws are the in-laws of the children, and the in-laws of the third sister are also the in-laws of the children, why is there such a different treatment? I don't understand where the etiquette is for entertaining guests, and what determines the distance between people and people. Is it just for money or power? Do relationships between people really have to be that complicated?

On the way home, none of the four of us spoke, my mother-in-law was well-informed, of course she saw the strange scene at that time, of course she couldn't say that my family was not, and her heart must have been very unhappy. Of course, my husband is even more unhappy in his heart, he is angry with my family, but he knows that I am not feeling good in my heart, he is forcing himself to suppress himself that he has not had a seizure, or he is also blaming himself, blaming himself for not being able to let me raise my eyebrows in front of my family, right? Of course, he thought that his wife was expensive with her husband, and he was even more heartbroken when I swallowed my anger!

Although no one mentioned this incident again, I was obsessed with this matter, like a thorn in my back, I can't blame anyone, but I told myself many times to know my identity, no matter where I am, don't talk too much, I am not a popular and valued person, I am just a dispensable, insignificant little person.

That time, the in-laws stayed at home for two days and then returned to Huludao, because the second sister was alone at home to support independently, she had to take care of Nuoda's family, but also had to take care of the children in the kindergarten, and a girl was afraid of being unsafe at home alone.

What I didn't expect was that my father-in-law was the first and last time he came to my house, and I clearly remember that he kept the vegetable garden I planted in the backyard neatly and neatly, the cucumber rack was erected, the tomato rack was also propped up, and the yellow leaves of the green onions were all picked cleanly, and there was not even a single blade of wild grass.

Seeing that my father-in-law was silent and only cared about work, I was indescribably moved, and I secretly thought in my heart: When my conditions are good, I will definitely take my in-laws over to support them, and I will do my best to be filial to them.

But in the end, I didn't realize my wish, it was the tree that wanted to be quiet but the wind didn't stop, and the child wanted to raise but didn't wait. My father-in-law didn't give me this opportunity, and every time I thought of my father-in-law's silent expression for many years, I always had an indescribable and indescribable pain in my heart. (That's a later story, I'm off topic now.) ）

Of course, Baojuan hadn't conceived a child for a long time, and I remember that my mother was quite indignant when she mentioned it, thinking that she was cheating on my family. Mom said: "It's been almost a year, and her stomach hasn't moved yet, is she sick and infertile?" ”

I replied casually: "She is too fat to get pregnant, and the book says that the old sow is too fat to delay the calf!" ”

Unexpectedly, this sentence became the fuse of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the mother publicized it everywhere: "What kind of pregnancy is she pregnant with so old and fat?" I can't get pregnant at all! The old sow is too fat to carry the calves. Of course, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been tense since Baojuan entered the door, and this time it has become more and more out of control!

The words came to Baojuan's mouth: "Is there such a mother-in-law?" Say I'm an old sow, say that the old sow is fat and can't take the cubs? ”

I'm really speechless, should I be the culprit?

After my in-laws left, my husband and I started a dull life again. Unexpectedly, one day, this blandness was finally stirred, like a calm river, and suddenly a naughty little boy jumped in, and the pool could no longer be calm!