115 Dad was hospitalized
On the way to the hospital, I began to regret that I shouldn't have listened to my father, went to a small hospital and wasted time, I was really anxious along the way, and I couldn't wait to take the car to give birth to wings and become an airplane. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
When I finally arrived at the hospital, as soon as the doctor saw my father's appearance, he said very sternly: "The patient has acute bleeding in the digestive tract, why did you send it to the hospital so late, and if you come a day late, you will not be able to rescue it, the blood in the patient's body will be drained, and now you must transfuse blood immediately." ”
As long as my father's life is not in danger, I will be Amitabha, I am not familiar with my own life, so I can only listen to the doctor's words, the doctor: "Now that the hospital bed is tight, you should first go to the emergency room, and then go through the admission procedures when there is a free bed on Monday (that day is Saturday)." ”
My husband completed the deposit and formalities and called my brother. Then I stayed at my father's bedside, and it was past noon, and my husband and Hao'er went out to eat.
When my husband came back from dinner, my brother also came, and there were two men who were often with him, he went to his father to have a look, and then the two people each threw a few hundred yuan to his father, and said to his husband: "It's useless to keep so many people in the hospital, let's go back first!" ”
Brother also said: "I still have something to do over there, I'll go back first, I'll come back tomorrow, and call if I have something." So saying, he went with the two men.
My husband's face was quite ugly, and I felt uncomfortable: something? Isn't it just playing mahjong? Dad is sick like this, he really has a heart and lungs!
After the blood transfusion, Dad's face improved a little, and he was still lifeless, he should be particularly dissatisfied and sad about his brother, right? It was completely dark, and her husband Zhang Luo: "Now that the people are stable, it's useless to keep so many people in the hospital, keep one person, and the rest of the people will go home first and get some things to be sent tomorrow." ”
"I'll stay here, you two go home!" I wanted to stay with my dad and let me go home, but I was also worried that I couldn't sleep.
"You can't stay up late, you will be confused at every turn, if you are confused here, you will not be waiting for the patient, it will cause trouble." My husband doesn't approve of me staying, he is a driver and he can't stay, but Hao'er has never experienced such a big thing after all, how can he deal with it if he needs to make a decision or something? I don't approve.
Hao'er smiled: "It's okay, auntie, it's stable now, if there's something I'll call you, don't worry, you can go back first!" ”
My husband also persuaded: "Is there anything you can still call the shots?" You don't have an opinion when you encounter something, Hao'er is here, if you have something to call, it won't take long for us to come out of the house, let's come back tomorrow! ”
I'm still not at ease, I feel that Hao'er is a child after all, don't you regret it if something happens? But I can't think of a good way.
When I got home with my husband, my mother had already returned from dinner, and when she saw that we didn't ask my father about the situation, the first thing she said was, "How much does it cost?" ”
Not only did I feel awkward and cold, but my husband was also angry: "People are almost gone, how much do you care about spending?" ”
Mom probably felt that she was too straightforward, and asked again, "How is your father?" Not dead, right? "Listening to the tone, it's like asking someone who has nothing to do with her?
My husband started to spoil the water, he really hadn't seen anyone like his mother, money was more important than life. He scared his mother and said, "It cost more than 40,000 yuan, you can go quickly!" ”
My mother was like an eggplant beaten by frost all of a sudden, and tears came down: "Why do you spend so much, where can I get so much money?" As she spoke, she cried and went to her brother.
Soon my brother called and asked how much it would cost, and I had to tell the truth: "That's scaring my mother, it didn't cost that much." "My husband really can't get used to this mother and son.
Soon my mother came back, and she already knew that her husband was scaring her, and she already had a smile on her face: "Your father told me when he was sick, if he died, let me go to the daughters' houses." ”
I thought about the hospital, I didn't know if there would be any accidents, and my mother didn't take anything to heart. My husband was even more unhappy when he heard his mother's words: "I'm sick like that over there, and I don't look at it, but I have arranged my own way back?" I've never seen such a selfish person! ”
That night was very quiet, the phone did not ring, and the next day I hurriedly went to the hospital with my husband and brought some daily necessities. Although my father was better, he was depressed.
I could tell from his words that he had been angry with his brother for causing gastrointestinal bleeding, and if I didn't go home, he was going to die. "Death is death, save yourself from worrying about being angry with him, and suffering in vain! It's better to die, out of sight and out of mind! What does it mean to be alive? ”
Dad's depression made me feel even more uncertain, and I didn't know how to change my father's mind, so that he had the desire to survive and spend his old age in peace.
The husband left some money for Hao'er, so he let Hao'er accompany him. Brother said that he never showed up. When I got home in the evening, my father's attitude was worrying, so I called the second and third sisters respectively, hoping that they would find a way to change my father's mood.
On Monday, there was no hospital bed on the phone, and then my brother went to his middle school classmates and worked in that hospital, so that my father was officially hospitalized.
Two days later, the third sister went to Shenyang to study, and by the way, I asked for leave to take care of my father in the hospital, so I also took a few days off and was sent to the hospital by my husband with the third sister.
That day, as soon as I entered the ward, I was startled, the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law were also there, and I thought that it happened that the eldest sister and his wife went to see my father, and later learned that the eldest brother-in-law heard his mother call that his father was sick and hospitalized, so he asked the eldest sister to come to the hospital together, and the eldest sister was found to have fibroids during the physical examination of the eldest daughter, so when we saw the eldest sister, she was preparing to go for fibroids.
I don't know why I feel very uncomfortable, Hao'er went to Xinmin's aunt's house to have a look, leaving me and the third sister to accompany my father. Dad was still in a bad mood, and he wondered: "What disease do I have, can't it be cured?" Why are they all here? ”
It turned out that my father saw that we all came to the hospital and thought that he was terminally ill, it seems that my father is not really bent on death, we quickly explained, and soon the eldest sister finished the operation, and my husband drove them home, and the third sister and I were left in the hospital to accompany my father.
With the third sister, there are people to talk to each other, and they can discuss things in case of trouble, and my father can already get out of bed and walk, he himself is a person who can't sit still, and he wants to go out after a while. The doctor said, "At such an old age, quit smoking and bars, that's good for your stomach." ”
Dad immediately withered: "I don't smoke cigarettes, I don't drink alcohol, what's the point of me living?" It's better to die! "It's as if there is nothing else to do in life but to smoke and drink.
Dad obeyed the words of the third sister, and the third sister was at ease with me. After another two days, the second sister said that she would come over to accompany her father for two days, and the third sister should also go back to work.
"Shall we go together?" The third sister asked me.
I wanted to go together, but then I thought: "Forget it, I'd better wait for the second sister to arrive before leaving, I'm afraid that she and Dad won't be able to quarrel together." ”