There is a boss here, and the unit seems to have no more than me, no less than me, anyway, the boss also said: "You don't have to stay here if you're fine, I'll call you if you have something." Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info "I'm usually comfortable, just in time for the New Year's Festival, as long as I say hello, people will go back to my in-laws' house early." If the unit has something to do with nature, he won't find an expert to do it.

I remember one May Day, I went back to my mother-in-law's house early, and the unit suddenly changed a little, and the leaders of the headquarters asked all the staff to go to work, especially the clerks. But the boss didn't inform me at all.

The leader came to take a look: "What about the clerk?" ”

"I went to my mother-in-law's house in another place, and I couldn't come back too far!"

When I returned to work after the holiday, the leader of the headquarters asked, "Did you go to your mother-in-law's house on May Day?" ”

I was stunned, I didn't know what leadership meant? Seeing that I was stunned, the leader smiled: "Let's go to your place to check, Hong Bin said that you went back to your mother-in-law's house, and your mother-in-law's house is quite far away from Shenyang?" ”

I didn't know what to say, so I nodded stupidly, the boss didn't tell me about it at all.

In the blink of an eye, it was the Spring Festival of 2002, and my husband and I returned to my in-law's house early for the New Year.

The daughter is five and a half years old, and has been in the first grade of the primary school over there for a semester, she sees us as if we don't see anyone, taking care of our own things, if you call him, she will have a look of annoyance, the daughter is not afraid of anyone, it is simply lawless, only when her second aunt is angry, put her hand on her thigh and she will be more restrained. It seems that the second sister has not disciplined the child in this way once or twice.

I wonder if it hurts to pinch the root of my thigh? I don't know who invented this trick? Anyway, the two children of the daughter and the eldest sister's family reacted very obviously to this action, and the performance that could not be unscrupulous suddenly became obedient, it seems that the child still needs a trick, this should be considered a trick, right?

I told my daughter that we had lived in a building, had a separate bathroom, and could take a bath, and that the house was warm in winter and cool in summer, and that it was comfortable to live in. I'm a little discouraged and don't know when she'll be able to decide to go home on her own?

A few days later, when we decided to return to Shenyang, my daughter suddenly said that she was also going home. I couldn't believe my ears. Although my daughter is small, she has a lot of personality and will not regret it as long as it is her own decision. Since our daughter spoke by herself, we hurriedly took our daughter back to Shenyang, feeling like stealing something, for fear of being found out and chased back, we were afraid that our daughter would regret it!

The day after I got home, my husband took my daughter to take me to work. When I saw the boss at the unit, I said that the school where the child came back to school had not yet been found.

He didn't say anything, picked up his mobile phone and called: "Second sister, which elementary school is the best in *Gongna?" If the account is not there, I have to pay a borrowing fee of 3,000 yuan? You don't have to spend money to do it, right? That's okay, that's it, you help me arrange my brother's children in. ”

After making the call, he said to his husband: "That ** primary school is better than other schools, you go directly to ** primary school when school starts, and when you go there, you will say that the second sister will let you go." ”

I really don't believe that things are going so well, but since it is the person the boss is looking for, it should be foolproof, my heart suddenly opens up a lot, and I feel that my fate is so good that I will meet noble people every step of the way.

So my husband and I came to the school at the beginning of the school year, and the principal brought us to the dean of students, and he probably told us who introduced us. The dean asked her daughter a few words, and then said, "I still have to test her literacy skills, I'm afraid I won't be able to keep up when the time comes." ”

So she came up with a lot of pinyin and Chinese characters, some of which I couldn't understand, and my daughter didn't speak, silently wrote on the paper, and handed it to the director of education after writing, and the director nodded with satisfaction. I looked stupid on the sidelines, I didn't expect my daughter to know so much at a young age, and I really sweated on the side!

The dean took us to a class where classes were taking place, and a tall, young female teacher was called out by the dean. Later, we learned that they arranged a popular class for their daughter, a model class that was not easy to enter, and the teacher was a very dedicated and caring excellent teacher in the city. It seems that the person the boss asks for is extraordinary, and the people he can know are also extraordinary.

The daughter also came back to her side, and the matter of going to school was solved, and everything went so smoothly that it was a matter of course. We are happy but still not very sure. I always feel an indescribable panic, and I don't know if it's because of my daughter or something else?

Because my daughter is not always with me, I am afraid that she will want her grandmother to get angry, I am afraid that she will not be used to staying, and I am most worried that she will get sick. After all, if a child is sick and can't speak clearly, what should I do if it is delayed? Sometimes the more I think about it, the more worried I become, and the more I think about it, the more I feel helpless.

Every day when my daughter comes back from school, eats and does her homework, and then falls asleep, my heart has been lifted, for fear that something will happen, until she falls asleep peacefully, my heart can be put down, and finally spent the day peacefully!

For a long time, my daughter didn't say it, but I knew that she missed her grandmother, and only mentioned her grandmother when she was angry and unhappy, saying how grandma was, comparing my behavior to her and grandma, sometimes I even said how grandma said how I was, I was shocked and helpless, I don't know if my mother-in-law said me in front of her daughter, was it unintentional or what did it mean?

I can only talk to my husband, I know that if I go to ask my mother-in-law, either she doesn't admit it, or the two of them make a half-red face, of course, according to my cultivation, I will not compete with the elders for long and short points, but there will inevitably be a gap in the hearts of the two people. I'm a man who loves to be quiet, and in some people's words, cowardly! I'm embarrassed to do anything, I'll tolerate everything!

In my daughter's mind, I was in stark contrast to her grandmother, and I had long since been replaced by her grandmother who loved her dearly. Every time I talk about this, I feel an indescribable pain in my heart, I am speechless, grandma is deeply ingrained in my daughter's mind, of course I can't change anything.

The last thing I like is my daughter's vacation or my mother-in-law coming to the house, probably because I am jealous, and I really don't like my daughter to stay with my grandmother. Are you too selfish and narrow-minded? But this is really impossible, as soon as the holiday is over, my daughter can't wait to go to her grandmother's house, and we really can't leave her alone at home.

Every time my daughter returns to her grandmother's house, I feel a sense of frustration, or the only thing I can do is regret, and from time to time I regret my decision, regret not taking my eldest daughter personally...... But everything is still the same, and I can only face the reality helplessly.

Unknowingly, her daughter has entered the third grade of primary school, and her personality is getting stronger and stronger, as long as she recognizes things that others can't change at all, sometimes she and her husband can't do anything about her. But she's still a more sensible child. There are many things that adults don't have to worry about.

That year coincided with the SARS epidemic. My husband suddenly received a call: the second sister was going to hold a wedding, so the family of three began to prepare clothes to go back to the wedding.