Chapter 302: Girls' Psychology
Dongfang Ripple said this, and saw Lin Li Feifei glance at Liang Youhuan in confusion, and his expression seemed to be interrogating him, "Since we have to marry anyway, what are we worried about?" The same, so Dongfang Ripple didn't wait for Lin Li Feifei to really ask, so he preemptively continued: "But on the basis of stable marriage, why does Lu Budo still ask too much for such a ritual thing as a marriage proposal?" I think if I am sure that this man really loves me, and all his actions are implemented in every little detail of his daily life, so that I can clearly know that he puts me in the most important position in his life all the time, I will not ask too much for the proposal. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 infoI'm also afraid that because of my willfulness, I'll be a man who really loves me. So the most likely thing is that Lu Budo is actually not sure whether Wu Zheng really loves her at all. At this point, I want to say that there is a difference between boys and girls, I guess that the average boy confirms a girl, thinks I like you, and I am willing to go on with you before deciding to marry a girl. But this is not the case with girls, and in the emotional cognition of girls, there are many reasons for marriage. A man is good to me, good to my parents, if we get married, both families will not be too obstructed, our social identity is equal, I don't lose anything, and if we live together, the future should be orderly and orderly, then I can marry him. A man has a solid economic foundation, and he is willing to pay attention to me at the moment, and he is still very generous where he should spend money, and he is not very stingy with me and my family, and I definitely take the shot, this marriage can also make the family face bright, if I ask for a comfortable life, then I can also marry him. A man is not literate, but understands me, understands me, spoils me, I will feel that I am surrounded by love, we have common interests and hobbies, have words, have common experiences, and have resisted many temptations together, as long as this man is around, even if I have a hard life, but I am extremely rich in spirit, even if the whole world is against it, but because of this man I have the determination to fight the world, I can also marry such a man. In fact, as long as the first two are not annoying, after all, most girls are pessimistic when facing marriage, they will feel that beautiful love is staged, and after really entering marriage, after a few years or more than ten years, it is also family affection that maintains the marriage itself. So as long as I don't hate this man, I can walk with him for the rest of my life. And the latter is supported by strong love, in fact, intellectually I don't want to marry you, but I can't live without you, and my life will be completely destroyed if I can't see you, so I can only marry you. ”
Dongfang Ripple took the time to take a look around when she said this, and found that all the people were looking at her intently, such a strong sense of existence was something Dongfang Ripple had never had, which made her feel very uncomfortable, so she took another sip of water with a weak heart, shrunk her neck and muttered in a whisper: "Isn't what I said a little long?" I'm not a person who thinks very clearly, and I may be off topic when I talk about it, but I'm very fast, and I'm done quickly. ”
"Actually, what you said is right, although I don't really understand it now, but I think if I reach Lu Budo's age, I should think the same way. It's really a bit of a leftover girl who is not married at the age of 33, you look at the usual TV dramas, if you put a broken mouth on the stall, you must be urged to marry every day, so I think girls at this age are likely to have the situations you just analyzed. Ripples, I think what you said is very good, at least I can't think of so much, you see that no one refutes you, which means that everyone agrees with your point of view. Don't be afraid, just say what comes to mind, and maybe show us the way. Lin Li Feifei actually agrees with the views of Oriental Ripples from the heart, girls can always easily understand the psychology of girls, and the sense of substitution between the same sex will definitely be stronger. So when Dongfang Ripple spoke, Lin Li Feifei couldn't help nodding, and looking at Dongfang Ripple's cautious expression at this moment, she couldn't help but agree, wanting to make Dongfang Ripple more confident.
Dongfang Ripple saw that her views were supported by Lin Li Feifei, and the whole person became more confident, she smiled and raised her voice and continued: "If everyone doesn't object to what I said before, then let's combine it with Lu Budo and Wu Zheng, which one does Wu Zheng prefer to Lu Budo?" Personally, I think Wu Zheng should be more inclined to the first option. Wu Zheng is a big leader in their company, and Lu Budo is also a white-collar worker in a foreign company. Although looking at it now, Wu Zheng may have a higher monthly salary than Lu Budo, but in a social environment like China, where men are strong and women are weak, Wu Zheng's extra part is actually not a big deal. Besides, the two have been together for more than seven years, and the parents of both parties must have known each other's existence for a long time, and have already acquiesced to the two being together, so if the two of them get married, no one should object, and if they really want to object, they won't wait for seven years to talk about marriage and then oppose it, right? So in the first case of infinite fit, what is Wu Zheng missing? Now the only thing we can't be sure of is whether Wu Zheng is really good for Lu Budo. Although from the perspective of a bystander, Wu Zhengken spent money to hire our team to help plan the marriage proposal ceremony, at least he hoped that the marriage proposal could make Lu Budo happy, so we must all think that Lu Budo is good without a license. The problem is that Lu Budo himself may not think so. I just read the two Weibo forwarded by Lu Budo printed by Liang Youhuan very carefully, and I found that the most revealing meaning in this is a kind of emotion about the passage of love. The only reason why a woman will be sad about the loss of love is that she thinks that the men around her don't value her as much as they did at the beginning, and she thinks that Wu Zheng doesn't love him anymore. But this is just Lu Budo's own thoughts, she can't be sure yet, after all, Wu Zheng was really busy proposing marriage during this time, and he made it clear that he wanted to marry Lu Budo. At this time, I think if I were Lu Budo, what I would doubt was whether Wu Zheng wanted to marry me because he loved me, or just because I was enough to match him, and getting along for a long time had formed a habit, since I didn't want to end it and it was time to get married, then I could only marry me. If it's the latter, then I can't help but worry, if in our marriage in the future, when Wu Zheng meets someone who can make him tempted again, then our marriage will be in jeopardy. Now I am 33 years old, and I have been classified by society as a leftover woman who married later, which means that I am not so easy to marry. But if my marriage can't come to an end, and one day I get divorced, and I'm already older and still have the name of a second marriage, will it be more difficult for me to marry at that time? I'm hesitant to think about it later. So I have a lot of requirements for marriage proposals, in the final analysis, I hope to find a reason to convince myself in the matter of marriage proposals, Wu Zheng actually loves me very much, and I will not be tragic after I get married. ”
"But according to what you said, didn't Liang Youhuan and Prudential say it before, there is no problem with the marriage proposal plan we gave at all, isn't this plan able to prove this to Lu Budo? So why doesn't she agree yet? As soon as Dongfang Ripple's words fell, Yang Zhuonian was very puzzled and put forward what he didn't understand.
Dongfang Ripple was speechless for a while, looked at Yang Zhuonian in a daze, and couldn't say a word for a long time. In fact, in Dongfang Ripple's thinking, she also felt that something was not right, but just now she only cared about ******** analysis of the possibility of the relationship between Lu Budo and Wu Zheng, and she didn't have time to think about which link she had missed. Hearing Yang Zhuonian's words at this time, she didn't turn this corner in her mind for a long time, so she could only turn her head and look at Liang Youhuan as if asking for help. If there is anyone in this company who can connect all the known clues to the truth of a matter, it is Liang Youhuan.
After Liang Youhuan received Dongfang Ripple's confused and anxious eyes, he first gave her a reassuring smile, and then turned his head to Yang Zhuonian calmly and said: "Zhuo Nian, you are right, if Lu Budo sees the marriage proposal we give, he will definitely be very moved under normal circumstances." There is no problem with the plan itself, we have selected the most reliable plan summary from the subscribers of the many WeChat public platforms, not to mention brainstorming, even the details of each plan are the details of my and Mijin have repeatedly discussed, this is also the strongest plan that our company can give, there is no reason to be picky, I still have this confidence. But the fact is that Lu Budo is not satisfied with every plan, and I also agree with what Ripples just said, so there is only one explanation left, have you ever thought that maybe Lu Budo knew from the beginning that these touching marriage proposals were not from Wu Zheng's hands at all? ”
As soon as Liang Youhuan finished talking, he saw Dongfang Ripple suddenly slap the back of his head with his hand, and said clearly: "Yes, that's it!" I just said that there was something wrong, and now Liang Youhuan said that I only reacted, it must be like this! Dongfang Ripple didn't care what other people's reactions were, only to see her turn sideways in surprise, facing Yang Zhuonian and patiently explaining: "Zhuo Nian, look, if Lu Budo knows that the marriage proposal plan is not Wu Zheng's own idea, then everything makes sense." Listen to me, I have already said it just now, judging from Lu Budo's age and appearance, she knows very well that if she waits for the price and sells, Wu Zheng is her best choice now. If you consider it from the cost of breaking up, it is not a last resort, Lu Budo will definitely not break up with Wu Zheng easily, then this marriage will still be concluded in the end, so there is no use of the marriage proposal ceremony to deliberately make things difficult for Wu Zheng, then there must be a reason why she is not satisfied. And I analyzed it again just now, the reason why Lu Budo is reluctant to accept this seemingly perfect marriage proposal must be because this plan does not make Lu Budo feel the full love she wants to experience from Wu Zheng, so she will hesitate and be unwilling to make a decision. The plan is what we have all seen, there is no problem at all, exaggeratedly, if a girl can experience such a romantic marriage proposal once in her life, this relationship will be born in the future, although there is no regret, right? There is no problem with people, there is no problem with the plan, so the only possibility that there is a problem left is the only possibility that Liang Youhuan said, that is, there is a problem in the docking between the plan and the person who made the plan, that is, what Youhuan said, Lu Budo knows that this plan is not what Wu Zheng thought! Lu Budo hopes to see Wu Zheng's intentions for him through the marriage proposal ceremony, but if he even finds someone to give advice on the marriage proposal, how much patience and energy does Wu Zheng have to spend on Lu Budo? This is the only reason why Lu Budo will overturn the marriage proposal plan we planned! ”
After Dongfang Ripple finished saying this, he stared at Yang Zhuonian with anticipation and asked again: "Zhuo Nian, do you understand now?" ”
Yang Zhuonian was originally a martial artist, honest, straightforward, and his thinking would not turn. If you ask him to protect a person, he can risk his life to keep the other person safe, but if you let him speculate about a person's psychology, it will be really difficult for him. Yang Zhuonian is a little unsure whether his feelings for Du Mijin can be drawn to the relationship between men and women for such a long time, let alone guessing the feelings of other girls? So even if he listened to a long analysis of Dongfang Ripples, he was still ignorant at this time, and after hearing Dongfang Ripples ask back to himself, he could only honestly and apologetically say whatever he wanted. I saw Yang Zhuonian lower his head and muttered in a low voice: "Actually, I don't understand it very well. I'm a little confused, does it matter who gave the solution? You see, the marriage proposal ceremony you want is unique, and the person you marry is also the one you want to marry, and the result is the result you want, so why care so much about who created the result? What does it matter who came up with this plan? Why did Lu Budo hold on to this? The more Yang Zhuonian talked, the more confused he became, he really didn't understand Lu Budo's thinking, in his concept, this was purely nitpicking and finding trouble. Thinking of this, Yang Zhuonian couldn't understand it even more, so he couldn't help but roll his eyes helplessly and complained: "You girls, it's all kinds of entanglements, in fact, you can't get along with yourself, and you don't let others have a good time." (To be continued.) )