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The two candidates were placed in one place at the right time, although they were all young ladies raised in the boudoir, none of them had ever seen each other, and it was not clear how the character and appearance were, and it sounded like it was not very easy, but looking at the tone of the words of the people who said it, they figured out one or two family styles and styles.

Whether this is suitable or not, there is a scale in my heart.

is not only the reason why the impression left by the historian on the Yao family is too bad, but also the name of the Zuo family, and for the Yao family, who was born in a scholar's family, it is also really like thunder.

But Yao still couldn't make up his mind in his heart.

Brother Lobby's marriage is a major event, although in the Qin family, it is no longer a family's words, but a major matter related to the survival of the clan.

After all, if a man is a tree, then a woman is soil, and no matter how good a tree is, without soil, it will not grow into a towering tree.

The talents and qualities of women can often affect the life of a family, that is to say, they can affect three generations of the family. And a virtuous woman can prosper a family for a long time.

This is the consensus of the ladies of the Qin family.

But although Qin Lao Niang is a grandmother, but in the end, there is no reason to cross the marriage of the elder brother in the lobby by crossing the mother and the son.

After thinking about it for a long time, I asked Huajiao to invite Yao's family over and tell her Grandma Yu's intention.

The Yao family had long known that something big had happened to Grandma Yu's family, otherwise the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would not have come to the door so rashly, and they were worried about whether there would be something wrong with the divorce, who knew that they were here for Brother Lobby.

But after only listening to the beginning, Yao's reaction was the same as that of Mrs. Qin, and she sighed in her heart.

But because of the experience of Uncle Yao, even if she has been dealing with Grandma Yu for more than ten years, it can be said that she is completely regarded as her own old man, and she also knows that Grandma Yu is an old man with hills and valleys in her heart, and she has always been safe, but Yao's heart is still full of pimples.

That is still her brother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it is not the same as being said by someone with three or two nonsense words, she is confused by her eyes and mind, and she is sold and counts for money.

I don't know if I should ask some words.

But in the end, the child's marriage is important, and she was so angry that she didn't want to say it, but now that Grandma Yu has come forward, there is still the Fang family behind her, and there are some things that are better in front.

Without the slightest hesitation, Yao Shi tried to ask, "Auntie, is there anything in the way here?" ”

Yao's words were tactful, but Grandma Yu had already been frightened by Qin Lao Niang, and she didn't understand what she meant.

hurriedly gave her a reassuring look, and said: "It's nothing, you should know the old lady's personality, and you can't compare to those crazy masters." I can still pack this ticket, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law just have to put your heart in your stomach. ”

Old Lady Qin laughed when she heard this, and Yao's face turned red and she bent her knees to make amends to Grandma Yu.

Grandma Yu stopped Yao's with a smile, only to suddenly move her mind, looking at the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who were not a family, and did not enter the door, the uneasiness and doubts in her heart disappeared, and the whole person became transparent.

After taking the teacup, taking a sip of tea, and calming down, he said, "I know what your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mean." To tell you the truth, I had been thinking about this all night last night. You should know, not to mention a big family like the Fang family, even a slightly more particular family, most of the family motto has one clause, called marriage. Marriage has always been cautious. But this time, the Zuo family suddenly wanted to marry our family, and he didn't leak any tone before, which really didn't look like this kind of family. But if you think about it again, if this matter is not a rash whim, in fact, the old lady has already been staring at our family and our family? ”

Qin Lao Niang and the Yao family were stunned, and they couldn't help but look at each other.

They really hadn't thought about the possibility that Grandma Yu said.

But I have to say that Grandma Yu's words did open a window for them, if it is as Grandma Yu guessed, then it will make sense if she is in such a hurry to come over to discuss marriage.

Seeing that Mrs. Qin and the Yao family were slowly coming back to their senses, Grandma Yu took another sip of tea and said, "Although our family is not a very wealthy family, we also cultivate and study heirlooms, and our family style is upright, and we have a slight family background. The old lady looks at our family and wants to marry our family, a big marriage event, it should be like this, you say that what I said is right! ”

Sichuan pepper nodded heavily.

In the final analysis, this marriage will make their grandparents and grandchildren so cautious, which is nothing more than six words: the door is not right, the household is wrong.

Their family, and the left family, just look at the regulations of the gate, and you know that there is a big difference.

And not only in their opinion, but even Grandma Yu must have been so worried before.

And in the blink of an eye, the old lady figured out the trick here, and the reason for this is also recognized.

Marriage is a major event, it is difficult to say, and it is easy to say.

It is very easy to be a door-to-door pair, count the number of households on the lintel, the steps in front of the door, the two are contrasted, one is not much, one is a lot, and it becomes.

can be like-minded, to find such an invisible and untouchable thing, but it is as difficult as the sky.

If the right people are no longer dead buildings, but living people, and can meet the right people and the right views, then the direction of the whole world is the same.

Such a couple, such a marriage, and such an in-law are not more stable and interesting!

Sichuan pepper couldn't help but let out a long breath.

She had seen Mrs. Fang, just like Mrs. Yao, although she was older, she was more open and free than some young people.

Since the old man has this heart, then the next thing will be easy to do.

As Grandma Yu said, people see their own family as good, and their own family sees others as good, this is marriage.

As long as the family looks at the Zuo family, the key is that the lobby brother and the girl of the Zuo family can look at each other, and this marriage will not be impossible.

Hua Jiao can understand this truth, and Qin Lao Niang and Yao's family will naturally not be unable to understand it.

Enlightened.

Qin Lao Niang breathed a sigh of relief in her heart, and Yao's whole person instantly relaxed, thought about it, and then said with some determination: "It is said that life is rare to be confused in the world, but if I can understand, it is also rare!" ”

However, Yao planned to ask Brother Lobby before making a calculation.

After all, the major event of marriage is not only related to the happiness of the daughter's family in the second half of her life, but also the boy.

Grandma Yu was stunned.

Don't talk about other people's families, just say that they are in their own family, that is also the words of the parents' order matchmaker, the two daughters-in-law, she is good at marrying the door, where will she ask if the child is happy.

But not only Yao's insistence, but also Qin Lianhu, as well as Qin's father and Qin's mother, also agreed.

Even Roche agreed, and said: "It should be, when my fennel said that I was kissing, I also asked it specially, and let the two children meet!" ”

Grandma Yu was dumbfounded.

When I returned to Lianxi and went into the house to reply, I was a little hesitant.

Mrs. Fang thought that this marriage could not be completed, and she regretted it, but she didn't expect it to be like this.

smiled and said: "This is all because the Qin family feels sorry for the child, I don't think it's anything bad." ”

Originally, it was decided that after the Qin family nodded, they would arrange a proper official media for the two families, and then propose marriage.

But the Qin family had to slow down, and Old Lady Fang pondered in her heart.

Grandma Yu breathed a sigh of relief, but she didn't expect that Old Lady Fang didn't think that the Qin family was unorthodox, so she simply added a fire, and told Old Lady Fang how the Qin family let her brothers and sisters protect Fennel, who was about to be married, to meet Li Qi.

Mrs. Fang really listened with relish, and said: "When I Xiao Chenguang followed my father in office, I saw a large family in the local area, and it was also a well-known Baoai daughter, so I specially built a building for this purpose, which looked like two floors from the outside, but in fact it was high inside, and it looked ordinary, but the inside was its own, and there was not only a partition wall on the second floor, but also a number of windows. If you are satisfied, the marriage will be done. ”

Saying that, he simply said: "I have seen the Qin family's eldest man, a good boy with talents." That's it, in a few days, I will invite the ladies of the Qin family to come over to enjoy the flowers, and I will bother them to take the time to come. ”

It was a surprise.

What kind of person is Grandma Yu, how can she not hear the meaning of Mrs. Fang's words, and thank her again and again.

Mama Guo didn't expect it anymore, but she couldn't let her think about it much, so she hurriedly took the yellow calendar according to what Mrs. Fang said, and pointed to the little maid to go to the outer courtyard to post a post.

However, two days later, when the Qin family received the Fang family's invitation to enjoy the flowers, Qin Lianhu had already tripled the price, and asked the Civil Information Bureau to quickly send the letter to the provincial capital.

Qin Lao Niang said to Yao: "It's not a big deal, the main thing is to see how the child is, when the time comes, you can pay more attention." ”

Yao nodded, but was a little worried, so he said, "Mother, when the time comes, I have to bother you to take the palm of my hand for me." ”

When Qin Lao Niang heard this, she laughed: "I won't go, lest we have so many people in the past, scaring the little girl and telling her not to go." ”

Yao's family was naturally uneasy, and was about to persuade him, but how did he know that Uncle Yao came to the door with an eight-color gift box again.

said that it was about to be Qixi Festival, and the eldest girl of the Shi family prepared some festivals for her sisters......

Yao didn't know that she was here to probe the wind, but even if this ritual was really delivered just right, she couldn't accept it anymore.

The kind words rejected this family business, and Aunt Yao's face immediately became not very good-looking.

Since there are a thousand and ten thousand, I can't figure it out, and I can't figure out what the Yao family doesn't like.

She is also a mother, if this marriage is in front of her, there is nothing to say, there is such a family, not to mention the expenses of her son's imperial examination, even her grandson's pen and ink money, and her granddaughter's makeup have a provenance, and there is something bad.

What's more, the big girl of the historian is not a person who can't do it, she is also a young lady who is literate and hyphenated and has studied!

If it weren't for the old lady of the Shi family who had always made up her mind that she would be recruited, according to the lintel of the Shi family, she would have been stepped on the threshold a long time ago, where would she ask the female family to come to the door so desperately to ask for marriage.

Naturally, the Yao family would not tell Uncle Yao, who was now glued to the word "brainless" in her eyes, about the matter that had just been discussed with the Zuo family, but she was sure that it was not appropriate.

Aunt Yao refused to give up.

He asked tentatively: "Auntie and grandmother know, my mouth is clumsy, or there is something inappropriate, aunt and grandmother don't know like me." That old man Shi's family is really good, and Miss Shi is also knowledgeable, a really good match. If I hadn't really looked good, I wouldn't have opened this mouth to dislike people. ”

said and said: "Otherwise, let's meet the two families, don't we all say that it is better to meet than to be famous, my aunt and grandmother have met in person, and I know that what I said is good." ”

The Yao family was already quite wary of the historian and even Uncle Yao, and the harder she tried this time, the more bottomless she was in her heart, and she didn't let go of her mouth.

Aunt Yao was disappointed, hurriedly said hello to Mrs. Qin, and went home.

Yao looked at it, so he took the time to go back to his parents' house.

But he went to Mrs. Yao's house first, and told her the fundamental reason why he did not agree with Uncle Yao's marriage: "That historian, I can't say it's good, I can't say it's bad, but it's not a good match." I heard my second uncle say that in the Shi family's wooden row, there have often been large discrepancies in accounts out of nothing since the beginning of this year. I don't care if their family is right or wrong, whether they have a falling out with the same clan, and they are very worried, but my family can't afford to carry it, and I can't carry such a pot......"

Mrs. Yao was speechless for a long time, Yao couldn't help but get nervous when she looked at it, squatted down to give the old lady a relief, and Mrs. Yao clenched her hand and bowed her head and said, "You're right!" What a big deal about the inheritance of the clan, how can it be child's play, even if it is recruited, the real estate and land must be returned to the clan, she lived to be thirty years old, and she didn't even understand such a truth......"

Mrs. Yao said and sighed faintly, and said regretfully: "It's because I want to go wrong, I always think that if I am there for a day, there will be no chaos in this family, but people's hearts are always changing, not to mention that I am already this age, and I can live for a few years...... I knew that I should have been like your mother-in-law, and let them go and fight by themselves as soon as possible, but now, I don't know if it's too late......"