Chapter 265: Lonely Country
After a long time, Dongfang Yu still felt lonely, the countryside is not as good as the city, everything is different, especially at night, it is pitch black, a silence, as if he has returned to the primitive society all of a sudden. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
Dongfang Yu and Shihui are in two places, and it is impossible for the two to see each other often, and he really feels the urgent longing. However, there is no way, in order to develop, there must be sacrifices. Looking back now, I feel that I should have responded to Shihui's intention at the beginning, and it was better to get married first and then develop. Because, it is the identity of the wife, even if it comes, it is much more convenient. In addition, he noticed that there was a clear stereotype among the people here, who regarded unmarried men as children. Although he is in his thirties, those aunts and uncles still treat him with the eyes of adults and children, which makes him feel awkward and uncomfortable. There are even people who worry about him and think about finding a partner for him. In the countryside, there are many girls who are eager to get married, and there are many beautiful and beautiful leaders. Not to mention, from the perspective of women alone, it is indeed very provocative. Although he was thinking in his heart, how could he have the slightest thought in this regard, not to mention, no matter what Shihui was no worse than these, he would not put the cart before the horse in order to satisfy the moment. Of course, there are often opportunities to look at each other at close range with these soft people, which affects the nerves from time to time, and this aspect alone is also good, how to say it, a feast for the eyes!
Another advantage in the countryside is that you get rid of Juan's entanglement. Beforehand, he hadn't told her about his assignment, and she didn't know where she had gone. Of course, there is no need to tell her, but the most important thing is because it is a troublesome matter, otherwise, it is reasonable to tell her. After going to the countryside, the township re-equipped the mobile phone, so he stopped the previous number and only told the new number to a few key people. As a result, Juan would not be able to find him. Of course, he knew that this was also an expedient measure, and sooner or later he would know. It's just that the water is far away and the water is thirsty, so what can he do.
The first time he came back from the countryside, he first went to Chen Chun to visit and report the current situation. Of course, this is just a reason, in the final analysis, Chen Chuncai didn't want him to report, and went, it was just a kind of etiquette and politeness, to pave the way for his future. Although he was alone in the countryside, there was a little bit of dominance, but in front of Chen Chun, he was still as respectful and humble as before, this person was stuck in his lifeline, and he couldn't move. However, Chen Chun is obviously much more polite and polite than before, and he has lost the arrogance he has always had, which is a bit similar to treating foreign guests. In this way, Dongfang Yu was a little cramped and flattered.
Chen Chun asked him very kindly about some things in the township, and comforted him that a year had passed quickly, and when he came back, he would not be the same as before. Chen Chun didn't ridicule when he said this, and Dongfang Yu's heart was full of fantasy. He knew what Chen Chun meant when he said something different, but he couldn't ask further. At the same time, his gratitude to Chen Chun increased sharply. A simple sentence shows what Chen Chun has been thinking about in his heart, so that his return arrangement is more promising. At the same time, he also felt that it was much easier to communicate with Chen Chun than before. Everyone is progressing in mutual tacit understanding, if one party is high, the other party suddenly has a sense of oppression and oppression. Now, Dongfang Yu feels equality, and many things that he didn't dare to say before seemed comfortable and casual. He inquired about a lot of things, especially about the office arrangement. Chen Chun told him that your situation was the same as that of Dalin before, considering that your subordinate term of office was not long, and the organization did not consider removing you from the post of director of the office, and it was very likely that you would continue to hold this position when you returned, so Zhang Ke was temporarily transferred over and asked him to take care of both sides, and then make overall arrangements for the next step. The office still needs to increase manpower, and we have to wait for the next adjustment.
Dongfang Yu once again expressed his gratitude to Chen Chun, and the great kindness and great virtue did not forget. When it was over, Chen Chun asked him when he would go to the countryside.
Dongfang Yu said that he came back this time to attend a meeting. After going to the countryside, I realized that there were many trivial things at the grassroots level, and it was very important to say anything, so it was rare to come back once on weekdays, and it was not good for him to leave his post without authorization. It's been more than a month and almost two months, and this is the first time I've come back, and it's because of a meeting. Besides, it is not easy to come back to the countryside so far away, and there are unwritten rules in the township, under normal circumstances, the township cadres are required to stay in the township and try to stay in the township.
Dongfang Yu knows the difficulties in the township and is usually very cooperative. It's just that this kind of regulation is a pain for ordinary staff, and there is no autonomy at all. The leadership is relatively free, either in meetings or on business, and there is still a chance to go around the city or other places. Some grassroots people even complained that they had not been to the county seat for almost half a year, and they were afraid that they had almost forgotten where the county seat was. Of course, this is a bit exaggerated, but it basically reflects the fact that the opportunity for the countryside to return to the city, or to rest, is indeed very rare. Of course, in the township, not all day and night, people in the township actually still have their own space, as long as there is no hard work or assault tasks, you can arrange by yourself, as long as you do not leave the township government location, whatever you want. Haha, in this way, it is not to do whatever you want, you can't do things that violate laws and disciplines, and you can't do things that violate morality and ethics. The days in the countryside are monotonous, boring, there is no occasion to go, entertainment activities are limited to playing cards, table tennis, etc., the rest are either surfing the Internet, or walking the streets and alleys, eating and drinking, singing, dancing and other entertainment items are occasionally available, young people can also fall in love, can tease each other for pastime.
Objectively speaking, there must be a situation of playing side balls, of course, it was done behind the scenes, and no one knows. Then again, absolutely don't play the side ball, I'm afraid no one can do it, as long as you don't poke your son and don't cause trouble. In such an environment, it is a test for Dongfang Yu, in the face of the temptations he encounters from time to time, he has also had ideological struggles more than once, but he didn't really take this aspect to heart, his thoughts are not different, twelve months a year, that is, three hundred and sixty-five days, it will pass in the blink of an eye, and he can't afford to lose because this kind of thing affects his career and dies halfway. Of course, whenever I lie alone in bed in the dead of night, I also have this thought, such a quiet night, if you can hug the beauty, how pleasant it is, but this is just to think about. He set a moral bottom line for himself, if the situation allows, he must strictly limit the object of his relationship, and he must not let the old sow enter the vegetable garden to serve a pot, and he must not be stuck to any woman here and cannot break free.
It's strange to say that it didn't take long for someone to introduce a girl to him. Of course, this kind of introduction is a serious matchmaker, and the person who came to the door talked about a girl in a big way, and even led the girl here, which made him quite passive and embarrassed. Many people really don't know that he has a girlfriend and don't know his relationship with Shihui. Shihui has never been here either, and of course, he also has a latent consciousness that he doesn't want others to know about the fact that he has a girlfriend. It's hard to talk about his motives for this kind of mentality, it is said that he has scheming, and he also said that it is harmless in the past, and it is not unavoidable. According to Westerners, this is privacy, which belongs to the private life of the individual, and what does it matter to others.