Chapter 196 of their respective attitudes

And Yan Qingqing couldn't help it at first, and said indignantly: "I'll go, a junior, and jump out so arrogantly, it's amazing to be pregnant!" Sister really wants to go up and slap her a few times! ”

And Cai's didn't reflect, he didn't know what he was thinking with a wooden face, and Yan Qingqing didn't know what he remembered, his tone became more and more ruthless, and his eyes were fierce: "Sister Cai, don't be too sad!" Your husband, the scumbag, and that mistress will have to get retribution sooner or later! ”

Yan Qingqing's puffed little face became a bun face, so comforting Cai's. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

And Cai's looked at Yan Qingqing and smiled a little bleakly: "Sister, don't worry. It's okay. ”

For Yan Qingqing, who has a lively temperament and can't adapt to everything in this era, and her thoughts are still stuck in the 21st century, this is a scumbag cheating that has enlarged a woman's belly, and dog men and women have shamelessly appeared in various occasions at home to show their affection and disgusting behavior!

And that junior is even more shameless to show off, it's too limitless, and all of this is the fault of that scumbag! ungrateful, a typical example of liking the new and hating the old, if she wanted to castrate this kind of man to the dog a long time ago!

And as a typical big family mother in feudal society, the princess Zhao of Zhenguo does not understand what love is, in her understanding, the love of husband and wife is fake, haven't you heard the phrase "close relatives to distant husband and wife"? The point is that you have your own children, sisters-in-law, and the power of the family in your own hands, so you can live comfortably.

As for men, if there is a woman, if you are promoted, you will be an aunt, and if you have a child, isn't it also a concubine! You must know that the concubine is always different, and the concubine can never inherit the family business beyond the concubine!

So from Zhao's point of view, Murong Yunli was finally abolished, what is this child in the belly of a woman who doesn't know where it came from, there is no need to threaten at all, just a clown who jumps off the beam!

Although a woman needs the favor of a man, the favor of a man is not the most important, her position as a wife, the respect of her husband and the heirs are the most important.

So in her opinion, Cai's attaches too much importance to this matter, it is too trivial and big, it is completely unnecessary, and she also adds to her own blockage, and separates herself from her husband, why bother?

Therefore, she looked at the Zhao family earnestly and persuaded: "Sister Cai, it's just a concubine, you just follow the general's will and promote you to a noble concubine, what a big deal!" I'm pregnant, it's a son, it's born! Anyway, she has never been able to cross your position, that is, isn't the child born to the concubine still a concubine, where can it be compared with Yunli? Therefore, you are too worried, you have the same knowledge as this woman, you have not lowered your identity and style, and you have separated from General Murong, and you have not been as good as this little slut! After being promoted to a noble concubine, put it in the backyard, the rules are bigger than the sky, and if you are restless, don't you have the means to grind a woman? If you are restless, it will be sold after a meal, and I believe that General Murong will not say anything! ”

Cai Shi looked at Zhao Qingliu with a pale face, reluctantly squeezed out a smile, and held Zhao Qingliu with a hand like a dead man, "Thank you sister for your enlightenment, it's just, it's just ......"

Indeed, Zhao Qingliu's words can be regarded as heart-to-heart, and it is the best way to solve this matter and ease the relationship between husband and wife, and in ancient times, a man took a concubine, gave birth to a child, and as a woman who was a wife, she could only watch, so comforting and enlightening herself, and finally the husband and wife respected each other, and the wife was virtuous and generous, which was family harmony.

This is a common phenomenon in ancient times, where the general respect between husband and wife is greater than affection, so the two can grow old with each other. The princess of Zhenguo is the most typical example, the last time she saw her husband drunk and his cousin Qingqing and me, and was in the middle of that kind of rumors by her mother-in-law and husband, but she still reacted quickly, developed things in the most favorable direction for herself, and was even more tenacious to keep the child in her womb.

After that, the husband and wife did not turn against each other because of this, they didn't even have a cold face, they still lived their lives as usual, and the Zhao family took advantage of the guilt of the prince of Zhenguo and gradually took control of this man into his own hands.

And what Zhao Qingliu said, Cai didn't understand, why didn't she want to do this, but every time she wanted to do this, she wanted to accept her fate like this, give in, and be virtuous and generous, there was always a voice in her heart shouting hoarsely: No, I don't want this! I don't want to! I'm not reconciled!

If that's the case, then what is her persistence all these years? What is the tribulation, the love between husband and wife, the honor and disgrace between them? At that time, their husband and wife used to have a heart-to-heart relationship, and he once vowed that he would always have only sons and daughters born, what are those vows!

If, if it weren't for these, she would naturally be a virtuous and generous wife! Take care of his backyard! However, now the oath in her head is still there, but this man has changed his heart and hexagram regardless of the love between husband and wife, and he is ruthless, which makes her feel cold!

So, how willing she is! How happy she used to be, how much she looked forward to it, and now, how desperate! How chilling!

At that cardamom age, she fell in love with this gentle and elegant man, and the Murong family had declined at that time, and she was still the daughter of the bright spring Jiangmen, and later, she finally tried her best to marry the person she wanted.

After the two got married, they have been living a very peaceful life, and Cai's finally racked his brains to please this man, and finally touched this man's heart, so she had the oath that this man gave her, and she smiled like a flower in his arms at that time, and only felt that she was in a good mood and floated to the clouds.

At that time, she was thinking, even if the husband and wife live a dull life, even if they are poor, what is there? She is not afraid of hardship, what she likes is this man!

After a year of marriage, there was no news from her belly, she was very anxious, but Murong Hai held her and whispered in her ear that she was not in a hurry, and then she finally got pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.

It was also Murong Hai who hugged his daughter with a smile, kissing his daughter's tender face and smiling: "Yuechan, I like my daughter!" I love it! Anyway, you won't just give birth to one, we'll just have another life! ”

The last words made Cai's face blush and spit on him at the same time: "You are so annoying!" However, her heart was as sweet as drinking honey!

Later, Murong Hai insisted on putting pen to paper, and she was a virtuous helper behind her back, and she never gave up all the way, and for some reason, after giving birth to her first daughter, the second child was delayed, she didn't know how much medicine she took, but there was no improvement. And before she got married, Murong Hai had a room, and she generously promoted those two rooms to be aunts. When there was no news about her second child, Murong Hai always insisted on her oath, the two aunts were not pregnant, and even she didn't have to worry about this matter, Murong Hai would let people send the shunzi soup directly.

Therefore, for Murong Hai at that time, she loved very much! Very happy and happy, later she became pregnant in the northwest and gave birth to a son, and her husband's status is getting higher and higher, but Murong Hai still fulfills his original vow, and there are almost no other women around him besides her.

Later, after she returned to the capital, her husband still told her in his heart that even if he had a woman to serve him, he would always only have his own daughters and sons.

Because he has been with him all the way, because he has always done it, so she believes it. However, until now, Murong Hai has given her a slap in the face! A basin of ice water! She was stunned! And after it is reflected, it is unwilling, it is resisting, it is questioning! Those past times, who are you swearing to!

However, Murong Hai didn't see her, didn't listen to her, and even was ruthless to the extreme, not even entering her yard! not only informed her that she wanted to make this woman a concubine, but also sent someone to protect this woman, lest she do anything again! She was really angry and wanted to laugh at the time: what kind of temperament she was, he didn't know, he actually guarded her! Is this the man she's been living with for almost twenty years? Since when did it become so strange that she didn't even know it?

Is it because she's old? So, did he let that woman show off and play right and wrong in front of him? Is this the so-called mutual trust and support between husband and wife?

Therefore, those past tribulations are shared, never abandoned, and the so-called oath is treated in his indifference, and in the despair, it disappears little by little, and finally, now, she no longer wants to miss a little!

Even if this man wants to turn back, she is afraid that it will be difficult for her to forgive!

And among them, only Yu's can understand and know Cai's mood best, so she gently persuaded: "Sister Cai, don't be discouraged, wait a little longer, can you bear to give your husband and your feelings to that woman?" For the sake of your children, you also have to fight strongly! You can try to win back the general's heart with a new focus. In this way, the woman and the child in her womb are nothing! I think you and the general have been in love for many years, and it's very easy to win it back! ”

But Cai Shi shook his head, his eyes were so dull, and his smile was so ugly: "Sister, things are not as simple as you think, I can't even see his face now, how can I win it back?" He didn't even give me that chance! Now, what if you are unwilling? What if you don't give up? ”

Thinking of this, Cai's face suddenly rose with a resolute, as if it had erupted into destruction, and gritted his teeth: "However, they don't think about it!" Don't! ”

And Yan Qingqing applauded and admired Cai's courage, lest the world not mess up: "Sister Cai is really mighty, she should take revenge on this pair of scumbags and!" It's a lot of trouble in the general's mansion, it's best to strip this little three naked and parade on the street, and the child will beat a bowl of safflower, it's your scumbag husband You should kick it quickly, and find a ...... again."

Before he finished speaking, he was scolded by Shao Xunmei: "Yan Qingqing shut up!" Pay attention to your identity! "A girl's family, here is a lot of nonsense, the more you talk about it, the more you go too far, and the chickens and dogs are restless, and then find a good one! She thought it was a society where everyone was equal in the 21st century!

Yan Qingqing was a little unconvinced with her red mouth, but she was looked at by Shao Xunmei with a cold look, and immediately, just wilt! So, just shut your mouth and don't say anything more.

And the Zhao family obviously didn't pay attention to the little girl's words, they just laughed it off.

And Shao Xunmei frowned and looked at Cai's family, her eyes were very calm, neither consoling nor enlightening, but just said in a very plain and normal tone: "If you really decide to let go, then let's leave!" ”

"And leave?" Several women took a breath of cold air, but they didn't expect the princess to speak amazingly!

Shao Xunmei nodded: "Yes, Heli, since you don't want this relationship anymore, then it's sad to stay there, and there's no point in nostalgia for the past." As far as I know, the people of your mother's family are also capable, so you won't have nowhere to go after you leave, and you believe that you also have an industry in your hands, which can guarantee your life, as for Murong Yunli, you can fight for it and take it, anyway, he is not rare, right? In the future, if you teach well, you may not be talented, or when the child is older, it is okay to stay in the general's mansion and inherit the family business. ”

And Cai's eyes opened, listening to Shao Xunmei's words, and stammered: "No, I can do anything, but if I leave and my son stays in the house, won't my son have no one to take care of him in the end?" When the time comes, after Murong Hai straightens that slut again, won't that slut's son also become a son-in-law! When the time comes, my son's position will be in real danger! ”

Shao Xunmei shook her head and looked at Cai's with a panicked face and sighed: "Sure enough, women live for their children, both ancient and modern!" You must know that even if Murong Hai straightens this woman, and this woman finally becomes the real general's wife and obtains the command, it will be five years later, and by then, Murong Yunli will be fourteen years old and have grown up, do you still need your protection! ”

Therefore, it is unlikely that those that Cai thinks exist! However, Cai Shi still shook his head resolutely: "No, if I really leave, my son is in Murong Mansion by himself, Murong Hai doesn't care about him, that slut wants to harm him, he is still young now, isn't it easy?" ”

Speaking of which, it's still for his son! It's really a thousand miles of worries! Most of a woman is dedicated to her family and her children, so after her husband has an affair, most wives will choose to forgive for these reasons.

And if the wife Hongxing is out of the wall, then most men will choose to divorce.

What's more, what about the feudal society where the exploitation of women is more serious? It is too difficult for a woman to reconcile, without her own career and the support of her mother's family, she is like a fish without water, and she will die directly on the beach.

Therefore, Shao Xunmei thought for a while and said: "Then, you don't have any expectations for that man, it's like being separated from him, anyway, you are in the backyard, you want not to see him, it's very easy to get along with him for old age!" Cheer up, just focus on raising, protecting, and nurturing your own children, and you don't need to care about anything else! He just takes another concubine, and having a child has nothing to do with you, just treat him as dead! Can you do this? ”

And Zhao added: "Remember to take the housekeeping in your own hands!" "Otherwise, all this that the princess said is in vain!

But Shao Xunmei pouted: "That man doesn't want it, what else do you want for housekeeping rights?" It's not that she doesn't have an industry in her hands, and she still has her own family to rely on, as long as she fights in the clouds, where can she not fight for this breath? ”

And Cai's was obviously shocked by Shao Xunmei's resolute and straightforward attitude, which she never thought: I will leave if you are ruthless, so simply ruthless! What's so hard about it?

For a while, these people's ideas and attitudes filled her ears, and she finally shook her head suddenly, her eyes blank and said, "Let me think about it!" You can always think of a way, well, you can always think of a way! ”

In the end, she nodded as if she had strengthened her belief, thinking of this, her godless eyes actually regained their brightness, and looked at everyone with a smile: "Thank you sisters for your kind advice, I thank you here!" ”

And several people looked at each other, but they were all helpless: what can they do when they encounter such a situation? No matter how you think about it, it's sad, and how to deal with it, it's all bloody injuries! (To be continued.) )