183. See through the essence of all things
"I don't really have any evidence of your purpose for doing that, and maybe it's true, as you say, if only you knew it yourself. www.biquge.info Mr. Zhou did not intend to waste time on meaningless arguments, and continued: "It is difficult to completely cure this problem, and I can only play an auxiliary role, depending on what you do next." ”
"Look what I'm going to do next......" Bai He replied lazily, not forgetting to knead Teacher Zhou's chest in the embodied world.
"That's right, but before I help you with therapy, I want you to make it clear again what you really think, are you unable to handle the relationship of the opposite sex correctly?"
"If I say no, how do you say the next thing? I'm so kind, I'm sure I'll answer yes. Bai He still looked indifferent, but what Mr. Zhou said was indeed true. Since the moment he was rejected by Lan Ning in junior high school, he really couldn't handle the relationship with the opposite sex correctly, and when he saw a good-looking girl, he would shyly avoid his gaze, and he would collect the girl's mask to satisfy the perverted pleasure in his heart, and he liked the feeling of peeping at the girl's fatness......
If it is for Xia Meng and the future life of the two, Bai He is willing to change himself, provided that Teacher Zhou really has the ability to change him.
"Very good, you have taken the first step to know yourself correctly, then the second step will be taken by Mr. Zhou and you. The teacher asks you, have you ever had a question at some point, what is a living being, what is a human being, what is a woman? Why would you like women? Why do you feel different about different girls? ”
"If I can tell what I think, I guess I won't be able to finish it in three days and three nights, teacher, you better go straight to the point!" Bai He smiled and said. He hadn't thought about these questions, and even thought about them much more than that, because the reason for being alone all the time gave him too much time to think, and he thought about many things more deeply than most people.
"Since you have thought about it, have you ever thought that men and women, even like mammals, are flesh and blood, and they will be born, old, sick and die, eating, drinking, and lazing? It may make you feel uncomfortable when the teacher says this, but the fact is that the girls you like, the glamorous girls, are all the same as ordinary people, and there is nothing special about their appearance. ”
"Let me see through the essence of the matter?" Bai He instantly judged Teacher Zhou's purpose, she just wanted to warn herself that the essence of people is the same, as long as she figured this out, she could correctly handle the relationship with the opposite sex. But for the current Hakutsuru, this kind of rhetoric is completely useless, because he had thought of this a long time ago, and wanted to tell himself to see through the truth the essence of the world, and it turned out that he failed, or rather, he saw away.
Bai He once heard a sentence: I understand the truth, but I still can't live this life. For him now, he knows too many truths that others don't know, but in the end, he still lives a mediocre life like most people. I know that I can achieve better results by working hard, I know that I can make more friends if I become what I don't like, I know that I can meet more girls without staying in the dormitory all day, and I know that everyone is a dirty body when the case is removed, but what can I do if I know?
Got it, it's not like nothing has changed, and continue to go on day by day like people who don't know?
"Teacher, what you said is not wrong, because the truth is what it is, but unfortunately, most human beings, including me, cannot change anything even if they see through the essence. That's right, it's true that the essence of everyone is the same, but whether it's making friends or choosing a mate, why do everyone choose better and more beautiful people? Even if everyone has the same essence, there will be differences. Clever people, stupid people, hardworking people, lazy people, tall people, short people, beautiful people, ugly people, honest people, treacherous people, rich people, poor people, high-ranking officials, ordinary people, it is precisely because there are so many people with different personalities and appearances that we must pay attention to a person's external and internal appearances, and it is not important whether the essence is the same or not. ”
After listening to Bai He's words, Mr. Zhou's eyes lit up, he didn't expect him to be able to say such connotative words. Over the years, Mr. Zhou has encountered a lot of examples of not interacting with the opposite sex, most of them are thoughtful after listening to what they said, and realize that girls and boys are the same, everyone is an ordinary human being, as long as you make friends with a sincere heart, you will definitely gain the friendship you expect.
There are also a small number of people who think they know everything and show disdain, and try to distort Mr. Zhou's original intention with some crooked reasoning, such as the essence of human beings and cockroaches are composed of molecules, why don't humans mate with cockroaches? There are also people who say that books are made of paper, and the essence of the word yellow. Books are the same as famous books, and so on.
She hasn't seen someone like Bai He who put forward her own opinions and explain them reasonably, so that Mr. Zhou can understand his inner thoughts and be able to communicate further. During the five years she worked in the psychological counseling room, she was either a strange thing with a mouth full of trains, or she was what she said, and it was completely one-sided counseling, so she became interested in Baihe at this time.
"You're right, in social life than the essence, more people value a person's inner and outer appearance, but the teacher thinks that you pay too much attention to the girl's appearance, if you can pay attention to her inner and think about her essence while paying attention to the outside, the teacher thinks that your problem will be slowly improved."
Bai He smiled slightly, as if he had expected Teacher Zhou to say this, he had already prepared what he was going to say next, raised his eyebrows and said: "I did this a long time ago, I want to practice the ability to hold feces in her stomach even if I see a glamorous girl." ”
Speaking of this, Teacher Zhou secretly laughed, although what Bai He said was a little disgusting, she was still very much looking forward to his next words.
"To tell you the truth, I did practice this skill, but at the same time, I also saw the pursuit of that glamorous girl by the people around me, so I understood a truth. A person can wear nothing at home, can not wash his hair for ten days without going out, can not brush his teeth for ten days, can secretly do some obscene things, can put on all kinds of distorted expressions to himself in the mirror, but once he steps out of the house and comes to a place where there are people, then as long as you hide these bad habits of yours, no one will care what you do at home. Beautiful girls will still be liked by boys, while ordinary-looking girls are very cultivated even at home, but it still doesn't help. ”
"So you've come to the conclusion?" Teacher Zhou roughly guessed what Bai He was going to say.