Chapter 102: Causes of Feelings
After Du Mijin finished speaking, he asked Dongfang Ripple with his eyes if he understood what he meant. Pen Γ fun Γ Pavilion www. ο½ο½ο½ο½ο½ο½ γ info Dongfang Ripple nodded and slowly digested these learned clichΓ© skills, and said with admiration: "No wonder my grandmother always said to me before, 'If you are not afraid of thieves, you are afraid of thieves', dare to love Sister Du, you are the thief." It's so sad to be the person you're thinking about.,This preliminary work is simply awesome.,Isn't this a calculation?! Du Mijin just wanted to complain, "Are you so boastful?" I heard Dongfang Ripple add again: "Wait, Sister Du, there is one last question, how are you sure that what Chen Zimu said to you must be the truth?" β
"Frankly speaking, in fact, I'm not sure, what Chen Zimu said is the truth." After Du Mijin finished speaking, she saw everyone's collective disappointed little eyes for a moment, she spread her hands, and after giving everyone an expression of "no way", she patiently continued: "If you haven't experienced anything yourself, you can't be particularly firm in saying whether it's true or not, so I can't be sure if what Chen Zimu said is true." But don't be discouraged. If we want to confirm something, we must first find a way to lead to this matter, so according to our previous analysis, I made up a story that is roughly the same, and I am the female version of Chen Zimu in the story. Psychologically speaking, confiding is more likely to gain the trust of the other party than interrogation. In fact, if you think about it, this is really the case. A stranger comes up and asks you a lot of privacy questions, at this time your psychology must be resistant, you may not say, even if you do, it is difficult to ensure that you do not lie because of vigilance, so at this time the words are difficult to distinguish between true and false. But if it is a person you trust who has the same experience as you, and you take the initiative to bring up a topic yourself, the situation is very different, it is likely that you have been aroused to speak, and the confession you get is much more credible. So you can take a look at the chat records between me and Chen Zimu that I summarized for you, most of the previous ones are me taking the initiative to vent about the pain and helplessness I feel because I miss someone I can't see again. It wasn't until Chen Zimu himself said, 'I'm actually not much better than you,' that I naturally switched the topic to him. This process of waiting and complaining is very painful, but the big taboo is to rush to achieve results. People have different personalities, and we don't know how similar our experiences are to each other, so we never know when the fish will bite. But just like fishing, patience is the key to victory. As long as the other party does not show obvious boredom with your topic, you can continue to talk about your own things, until a certain point in the things you say touches the sensitive line in Chen Zimu's memory, and he will naturally trust you unconditionally as you show your trust in him. Because any secret is a kind of torture for too long, Chen Zimu also needs to vent, at this time, you who are as sad as him are the best person to confide in, because your lives have no intersection. Since it comes to venting, it must be a real emotion, no one will complain to others about their false experience, combined with what Chen Zimu said about the past, I briefly compared it, Chen Zimu's network dynamic upload time, everything is consistent, so according to the analysis, Chen Zimu is not likely to lie. β
Du Mijin deliberately paused when he said this, and seeing that everyone had accepted his explanation and no longer had any questions, he continued: "Now you can trust the conversation material in your hand. is similar to what we guessed before, Chen Zimu in his sophomore year of high school was still a little fat man with low self-esteem, and because of his stocky figure, the girls who were interested in him at that time were probably less than a fraction of what they are now. Chen Zimu's personality is relatively passive, even if he meets a girl who has a good feeling, his expression is more subtle, and his appearance is really not outstanding, so there is no love to talk about. It's a real blank piece of paper, except for the occasional trip to play with classmates who are very compatible, there is basically no entertainment, let alone any emotional experience. And the mysterious woman we guessed was the cousin of the classmate who was staying at the same time as a nanny at the same time in the god subtitles, called Xu Hong, a rural woman who went to the city with her husband to work. looks very ordinary, has small tiger teeth when he laughs, and his cheeks are some of the mountain cannon red that has been accumulated from doing farm work all year round, and the whole person has the temperament of an urban-rural junction, very down-to-earth, and definitely not a beauty. β
Du Mijin said this, Prudential couldn't sit still, and he sighed in disbelief: "Is this okay?" It's too exciting, isn't it? Rural married older woman, and teenage high school little fresh meat...... How did she take down Chen Zimu? This woman is really very means, what did Chen Zimu like about her? How did she catch up with Chen Zimu? Sister Du, are you sure you made a mistake? β
Du Mijin glanced at Prudential expressionlessly, his eyes were full of disgust for his appearance, Prudential received Du Mijin's gaze and muttered unconvincedly: "That's right, it's too illogical." β
"There are many illogical things, and I will tell you a fact that will surprise you, not only are they in love, but it is Xu Hong, who Chen Zimu took the initiative to chase, and she has been chasing for more than two months. From a certain point of view, Xu Hong changed Chen Zimu's personality and life. After Du Mijin finished speaking, he looked at the stunned reactions of Prudential and his friends, and nodded affirmatively. In fact, it is not difficult for everyone to accept this fact, it is not difficult to understand, such an official match is placed in a TV series, and appearing in the same frame will inevitably make people feel disobedient, not to mention the real existence and life? So Du Mijin patiently explained in a good-natured manner: "There are many causes of love, in addition to the heartbeat of men and women pulling each other, there are also touching and pity. Chen Zimu went to the city's key high school, and his score in the college entrance examination was 550 points, ranking 17th in the class. This academic performance and his own personality and appearance at that time were destined to have a particularly weak sense of existence in high school, and almost no one would pay special attention to him. At this time, the warmth and care he gets, because of scarcity, will be infinitely magnified in his heart, which is the so-called principle of 'sending charcoal in the snow', and Xu Hong is precisely because of this that makes him special. Chen Zimu went to play with his classmates and met his classmate's cousin Xu Hong, Xu Hong treated Chen Zimu like a younger brother at first, would cook delicious meals for him, would chat with him, and was willing to take the trouble to listen to him talk about his thoughts, and slowly, Xu Hong had a sense of intimacy among his peers in his heart. In addition, he got married early in the countryside, and Xu Hong was only 22 years old at the time, not much older than Chen Zimu. β
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