16. A tree that can walk
When I first graduated, I couldn't even afford a bed because I was poor. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 infoMy brother, who used to sleep on the floor with me, came to see me again this year, and he is already a member of the Standing Committee of a city, a successful person. It was very distressing to see my condition. He said that if I hadn't been so tossed and stayed in my original unit, which was where my specialty was, I would have mixed well, maybe better than him. He lamented that I was a weary bird flying around on the branches, and I thought it was a word.
Speaking of his wandering and disaster-ridden fate, it is really unbearable to look back. I walked through many units, some of them didn't let me say, some of them I didn't want to say, and a few years passed in a flash, from 2003 to 2010, 7 years made me feel a lot of emotion. It is said that 600,000 people die every year from overwork in China. According to China Radio International, 1,600 people die every day from overwork. Causes of death from overwork include stroke, heart disease, intracerebral hemorrhage, or other sudden symptoms related to occupational demands. I almost died.
In those days, I was like a peculiar plant in South America, toiling from place to place. This plant is called the curly cypress, and it walks. All it needs is plenty of moisture for it to grow. When there is not enough water, it pulls its roots out of the soil on its own, causing its entire body to curl up into a ball that rolls on the ground with the wind. Once it rolls to a place where there is enough moisture, the ball will quickly open and the roots will burrow back into the soil and settle down. Some of the curly cypress are blown up by the wind and hung on the trees, gradually dying, some of the curly cypress walking on the road will be flattened by the car, and even naughty children will put several curly cypress together as a ball kick......--- After all, these curly cypresses could not escape the fate of death.
So does the curly cypress have to roll around? Someone did an experiment by enclosing a clearing with a baffle and placing a wandering curly cypress in the most watery part of the clearing. Soon, the cypress took root and survived. A few days later, when the moisture in the clearing was reduced, the curly cypress pulled out its roots and rolled up to change places. However, the experimenter paid no attention to the curly cypress that was about to swim away, and cut off all conditions that might remove it. Soon, the experimenter saw a ridiculous phenomenon, the curly cypress re-rooted and survived there, and after pulling out the roots several times and not being able to move a few times, it never moved again. The experiment also found that the roots of the curly cypress were already deeply rooted in the soil at this time, and that they were growing better than at any time, probably because it found that the deeper the roots, the more water there was.
All along, I was like a cypress, changing jobs frequently in search of a good job - how many units did I go to? I'm confused myself. I was impetuous, looking at the mountain and looking at the mountain, changing jobs at will, and finally found that I had been working for several years, but I still did not grow in terms of personal ability and improvement. If I can change my habits like the curly cypress and dig deep into the soil, maybe it will grow even better. But what have I gained now?
I used to think that changing jobs frequently meant that a person was experienced and adaptable. On the contrary, frequent job hopping indicates that he is not adaptable or has low work ability, and if he can adapt to a job quickly, he will not leave easily, because the cost of changing jobs is also very high. I once thought that the next job would definitely be better than the current one, and that changing jobs would solve all problems.
There is such a parable. The owl moved in a hurry and hesitantly. The turtledove on the side asked, "Why do you want to move again?" At this point, the owl sighed and said, "I can't live in this wood, and the people here hate my calls." Turtledove said in a sympathetic tone: "Your singing voice is so noisy that it is not flattering, especially at night, and it disturbs dreams, so everyone hates you." In fact, if you change your voice a little, or close your mouth at night and don't sing, you can still live in this forest. If you don't change your calling or singing at night, even if you move to another place, the people there will still hate you. This parable illustrates that frequent job hopping does not materially change our circumstances. Only by changing the bad status quo can we gain the favor of others.
The outside world is wonderful, and the outside world is so helpless. I still don't understand the meaning of this sentence, but there are bound to be many people who don't understand it. A flower cat stood in front of the window and saw geese flying high in the sky. I thought: how comfortable the wild goose is to live! Like me, crawling under the bed, drilling black holes, catching mice, at most slipping around the yard...... So it cried out, "Wait, geese. I have something to say. A wild goose landed and asked, "Is there anything you want me to help with?" The cat said, "I'm not comfortable living...... and the wild goose asked, "What's wrong with you?" The host prepares food for you and you can sleep well every day. We're out of luck, flying south in the winter to escape the cold, and north in the summer to escape the heat. And you can't mess up the formation when flying, otherwise you will be pecked blind by the head goose. I really envy you. The cat said, "Then let's change." The wild goose agreed, and took off her wings and handed them to the cat. After the cat has its wings installed, it can't fly. It climbed to the top of the ten-story building and jumped down, but it fell so badly that the wild goose felt tightness and panting in the house. I'm hungry, but I don't want to eat the food in the cat's food bowl. The cat returned, and the wild goose asked, "How is it?" The flower cat said sadly: Don't mention it. Your wings don't work. It's better to stay in the house. Then he asked, "Are you resting well?" Dayan said: "I was almost suffocated to death, but it's better to soar in the sky!" Dayan and Flower Cat are not satisfied with their current living environment, and have always thought that each other's environment is better. But after the real exchange, I found that other people's environment was not as good as I imagined.
Eskar sang: This mountain looks at the mountain high / The mountain is full of red cherries / This mountain looks at the mountain high / The mountain is full of red cherries / The cherries are hard to pick and open / I can't guess what the girl is saying in her heart...... The girl on the mountain is still like this, what is the difference between life and it? This mountain looks at the mountain high, this is a very common psychology, everyone has had this feeling, looking at other people's things are better than their own things, other people's food is more fragrant than their own, and other people's answers to test questions are more satisfactory than their own......
However, Zhu Zhi is now an understanding person, and he doesn't dare to have some unrealistic ideas: for example, if someone asks Mr. Zhu Zhi to be a big official, let's say the provincial chairman. I can't do it, I can't do it, I can't do it, I can't do it, I can't do it; Do you have to help me find dozens of flowery women? I'm sorry, I can't protect myself, let alone women, and I don't like it, Zhu Yu is old, and more women are also wasted; If you give me a large sum of money, I can't go, I can't spend it - wait, give me money? How much? $100 million? I promise to complete the mission!