Nie Shui'er is one year older than Xia Luowu, and she is nineteen years old after the New Year, so there is no need to rush to find a partner at this age, but the second aunt and Nie Wei'er are always in front of her, and the meaning in and out of the words is that she can't compare to Nie Wei'er anywhere, and she has been holding back this breath, so if there is a suitable candidate at the moment, she doesn't mind falling in love earlier. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

But although Xia Luowu said that the man would not agree to meet and look down on her for such a reason, she still couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart, and felt that in essence, she was no different from Nie Wei'er in doing this.

In an instant, Nie Shui'er was so entangled......

Looking at Nie Shui'er's changing face back and forth, Xia Luowu was speechless: "I said, as for you, how normal it is to go on a blind date, it will be successful, and it will not be pulled down, and it is not that you must be together when you meet, look at the way you are entangled!" ”

"No......" Nie Shui'er looked at Xia Luo Wudao with a bitter face, "Wu'er, I think I'm not kind to do this, although it's important to raise my face for myself, but it's a bit too much to go to other people's backgrounds, right?" ”

"Hey......" Charlotte sighed helplessly, "Shui'er, then let me ask you, if you introduce a person who has nothing and nothing to go on a blind date with you, is it kind if you are willing to go?" ”

"Of course not!" These words rushed out of his mouth, and the look on Nie Shui'er's face became even more entangled, "Wu'er, do I want to be a bitch and set up an archway?" ”

"Is there anyone who does this to pour dirty water on himself?" Xia Luowu glared at her, and then her expression became correct, "Shui'er, whether it is the public opinion guidance of our peers, or the literary works we are exposed to, love is a very sacred thing.

It can be said that everyone feels that linking love and background together is belittling love and blaspheming love, and even many times, everyone especially doesn't like to listen to the word "householder" and thinks that it is a feudal remnant.

But in fact, is that really the case? After a pause, looking at the thoughtful Nie Shui'er, Xia Luowu continued, "In my opinion, marriage is two people with compatible personalities, working together for a lifetime.

At this point in life, we will leave the imprint of being together, but in the end, what we need is the company of both parties, which determines that the same ideas, similar thoughts and hobbies are very important.

So, this involves another problem, relatively speaking, two people with similar family backgrounds may be similar in what they have been exposed to since childhood, and in the process of running-in, it will naturally be easier.

Of course, this is not absolute, nor does it mean that people with similar family backgrounds will necessarily have the same thoughts, but it is just that they are judged from a conceptual point of view, and there is a key point, whether the two are similar people.

Just like Nie Weier and Yang Miao, they are the same kind of people, if you were to change and understand what kind of person Yang Miao is, it is estimated that you will immediately hide far away, and you don't want to interact with each other, and I have Yang Shuo is suitable, not only because of his background, but also because of his character, with you, you should complement each other very much.

I'll admit it, I just wanted to introduce you to each other, and my original intention was that if the two of you were together, you would be able to straighten up in front of Nie Wei'er, but if you think about it, is this the main reason?

If his personality is the same as Yang Miao, even if he is now the heir of the Yang family, even if he can make you straighten up in front of Nie Wei'er, I will not bother to introduce you to each other, well, on the other hand, if he is that kind of person, it is impossible for me to become friends with him.

Therefore, in general, background is only one aspect, people, is the most important, and in marriage, there is no need to taboo the background, there is a person you like, living the life you want, it is better than having a person you like, tired in firewood, rice, oil and salt, right? ”

After being silent for a long time, Nie Shui'er nodded: "That's right, in fact, people sometimes have such scruples, just to show that they are high-minded and deliberately care about these things, to put it bluntly, it is also a kind of vanity, it is simply too unexpected people's opinions, and they want to flaunt that they don't love money." ”

"Right!" Charlotte nodded approvingly, "If you have met someone you like now, and his family background is not very good, but you really love each other and are willing to fight together for the future life, then I support it."

But you haven't met such a person now, so why do you have to refuse good conditions just to find someone who claims to be high? In this way, wouldn't it be even more inappropriate for me to be with Qiao Mu? ”

"Wu'er, to be honest, sometimes I have a feeling that although you lived in an ordinary family when you were a child, no matter from temperament to opinion, you definitely don't look like a ...... from a small family" pondering the wording for a while, Nie Shui'er said, "Our family is also good in Yincheng, but compared to you, I am more like a small family, sometimes I think, if it wasn't for the fact that we were together all the time in elementary school, I am very familiar with you, I have to wonder if you have been dropped." ”

Charlotte smiled half-truthfully: "Yes, I was dropped, and I dropped the bag when you didn't find out." ”

"Small!" Nie Shui'er rolled her eyes at Xia Luowu speechlessly, "If you have that ability, I'll take a look at another one." ”

Charlotte: "......"

"Hehe, no way, right?" Nie Shui'er smiled proudly, "The happiness of my sisters depends on you, when will we be arranged?" ”

After thinking about it, Xia Luo Wu said: "Tomorrow, I can arrange for you to sit at a table when the wedding banquet is scheduled the day after tomorrow." ”

"Okay." Nie Shui'er responded happily, she is a cool character, since she has figured it out and plans to accept this opportunity, it is naturally as early as possible, procrastination is not her style.

There was no problem with Nie Shui'er's side, Xia Luowu called Yang Shuo and asked Yang Miao about it first, as she expected, it was Yang Miao who was talking to Nie Wei'er, and Yang Miao had already taken Nie Wei'er to the old mansion.

"So urgent?" Xia Luowu was a little stunned and said, "You said that Yang Miao is not very old, why do you hate to marry so much?" ”

"He now pins all his hopes on women, doesn't he hate to marry?" Yang Shuo's voice was full of disdain, "Now that I think about it, I am ashamed of myself at the beginning, is it worth me to lie dormant for so long?"

Wu'er, thank you so much, if you hadn't encouraged me and persuaded me, probably I would have to keep pretending, maybe pretending, everything would have gone into Yang Miao's hands, and I wouldn't know how I died when I died. ”

Xia Luowu smiled and said: "Okay, don't talk politely to me, I called you because of an important matter to discuss with you, I have a special iron best friend Nie Shui'er, will you meet tomorrow?" ”

Slightly stunned, Yang Shuo said with some surprise: "This is to introduce me to a girlfriend?" ”

"yes." Xia Luowu nodded, "Grandma Yang and Aunt Xie are about to make you die, what's the matter, you can put forward the plan, right?" ”

"Okay." Yang Shuo responded happily, "If someone else introduced me, my first reaction would definitely be to refuse, but if you introduced it, I believe there must be a score, if it happens, prepare a big red envelope for me." ”

"That is, of course, the big red envelope can't be missing......"

After making an appointment for the time and place of meeting, Xia Luowu hung up the phone and looked at Nie Shui'er: "Okay, it's set, by the way, Shui'er, I didn't tell you just now about the reason for the acquaintance between me and Yang Shuo......

After listening to Xia Luowu's detailed account of the process of meeting and becoming friends with Yang Shuo, Nie Shui'er slapped her on the shoulder: "Bastard, didn't you say it earlier, if he compares me with you, how can I look at it, it's over, it seems that he definitely can't look down on me." ”

"I said, do you just pick the words you want to hear?" Charlotte rolled her eyes at her speechlessly, "At first, he liked me, but later, he really only wanted to be his best friend." ”

"In your place, it should just be your best friend, in his place, I guess it's not ......" Nie Shui'er looked at Xia Luo Dance with a serious face, "Don't bully me because I don't understand anything, in fact, I understand."

I think he is willing to give up pursuing you and be good friends with you because he knows the gap between himself and you, and he has changed his way of knowledge, otherwise, I guess you can't even be ordinary friends, right? ”

"If you mind, don't do it." Xia Luowu was also a little annoyed, she was anxious just now, and she should explain the matter first before calling Yang Shuo.

"I don't mind." Nie Shui'er shook her head, "Xiao Wu'er, I understand what you mean, if you didn't recognize Yang Shuo, you probably wouldn't have become friends with him, in fact, you also know in your heart that his feelings for you are more or less complicated, so you especially hope that he can find someone he likes and live a happy life, right?" ”

Charlotte danced with some apology in her eyes: "Subconsciously, I should have thought like that, I'm sorry." ”

"What's so sorry about this?" Nie Shui'er said with a serious face, "I'm not inseparable, you are willing to introduce me to him because we are both happy people in your heart."

I don't resist meeting him, if he rejects me, it's nothing, if he is willing to give both parties a chance, I will ask the doubts in my heart, I just made it clear to you, I just don't want me to ask him about it, spread it to your ears, let you misunderstand my thoughts. ”

"Okay." Xia Luo smiled happily, she especially likes honest people like Nie Shui'er, so after so many years, even if they don't meet many times, their feelings have not changed at all.

The meeting between Nie Shui'er and Yang Shuo was very smooth, the two of them were very eye-to-eye and temperamental, and after sitting together for a while, Xia Luowu said goodbye, she had done her best, and the rest was up to them.

Walking on the green street, the breeze blows on the face, and the whole person is bathed in a very comfortable state, tomorrow, she will get engaged, and since then, everyone in the circle knows that she is the fiancée of Qishao, well, she has to work harder.

Although Qiao Mu emphasized that she should not work too hard, she knew very well that if the gap between the two people was too big and gradually became a silk flower attached to others, sooner or later, it would be annoying......

Halfway through, she received a call from Jin Wanhong: "Xiao Wu'er, I'm back, I'm waiting for you at your house." ”

I haven't seen her for a few months, Jin Wanhong's temperament has changed very much, looking at the girl in front of her who was wearing jeans and a white shirt and smiling like a spring breeze, Xia Luowu rubbed her eyes unconsciously......

"Why?" Jin Wanhong smiled and pushed her, "It's only been a long time since I saw you, and I don't know each other?" That's too unconscionable, but I took a leave of absence to come back to your engagement ceremony. ”

"Godmother, why don't I think I haven't seen you for a while, you've been reborn?" Charlotte smiled and took her hand and sat down, "Looks like you've had a great time this time, right?" ”

"Yes, with those simple children, I feel that I have no worries, even if it is poor and there is no entertainment, but I feel a hundred times more fulfilled than my previous life." After a pause, Jin Wanhong's cheeks were flushed, "Wu'er, you have a godfather." ”

"Really?" Charlotte looked at her with a look of surprise, "Where is he from and what is he doing?" Are you back with you? ”

"A native of Beijing, like me, is a volunteer teacher, this time he came back with me, I asked him to go home first, and tomorrow I will take him to your engagement banquet, don't dislike it?" When she finally inquired, Jin Wanhong was really a little apprehensive, not because she was afraid that Xia Luo Dance would not like the boyfriend she was looking for, but because she remembered her previous reputation, she was afraid that her appearance would make Xia Luo Dance difficult.

"What nonsense?" Xia Luowu rolled her eyes at her, "The godmother ran all the way back, and brought her godfather with her, which shows that she attaches great importance to me, and I don't have time to dislike it, how dare I dislike it?" ”

"That's good......" After hesitating, Jin Wanhong asked in a low voice, "When I came over, I met your father, he has been wandering back and forth outside, I can see that he wants to come to you, and he is a little embarrassed, have you informed him?" ”

"Nope." Charlotte shook her head, "I won't object to him coming, and I don't care if he doesn't come." ”

"Actually, he's quite pitiful......" Looking at Xia Luowu's face, Jin Wanhong hesitated and continued, "I'm not saying good things for him, I really think that he has not been easy in the past few years, and his changes are really big, some things, you have to let go when you should let go, this life is not long, if you really want to let go one day, but he can't see it, you will definitely regret it." ”

"I ......" Xia Luo Wu, who wanted to say that she must not regret it, suddenly paused, yes, she can't always make decisions from her own position, what she has to consider is, if it is Xia Luo Wu herself, will she forgive Luo Huajin?