Everyone has different dreams at different times. Pen~Fun~Pavilion www.biquge.info you now look back and think about your past, do you belong to these two types:

One is the dream of "rising tide lifts all boats", for example, when you were a child, your dream of being a teacher, how majestic is the teacher? If you want to hit someone, you will be beaten, if you want to be punished, you will be punished, and if you want to be asked to copy the text five times, you will not dare to copy it three times; Once you become a teacher, you feel that the teacher is too hard, how good it would be to be a principal, you don't have to go to class every day, you still go to meetings everywhere, eat big meals, and have gifts for the New Year's holidays; When you become the principal, your heart is ready to move again, if you can become the director of education...... The other is the dream of "getting worse and worse", and it is not surprising that 82% of 7-year-old American children think they can be president. When you are a little older, you feel unrealistic, then you have been the president of the country, no matter how big it is, the dream has been lowered, and it is okay to be a governor, and when you become an adult, the dream has reached the clouds, and you just want to be a good parent.

When Zhu Yu was young, he didn't remember other wishes, which were explained in detail in the article "My Ideal". But there is a very strong desire: like the sixth uncle in our village, he can work as a worker in the county, because the sixth uncle is so spirited, he has taken a train, seen an airplane, and can say anything strange. When I was in junior high school, I felt that it was my biggest dream to be admitted to a secondary school, and I felt that I only had this ability. When I was in high school, I changed again, I wanted to go to university, and I wrote my dreams on the wall to motivate myself. After going to college, I wrote articles, and I wanted to be a writer, but being a writer was too boring, it was better to be an official, but if I couldn't become an official, and I didn't want to be rich, I tried my best to make money, and I wanted to make a lot of money, but I couldn't achieve it.

Regardless of whether they are rich or poor, almost everyone has their own dreams, but there are big and small differences. An old farmer, he may dream of a virtuous wife and filial piety, many sons and grandchildren, and a happy old age, he will not think of being the mayor of Nanning City and the governor of Hebei Province such a marginal position. Similarly, a bureaucrat in an agency, he thinks that he can get a higher position, and he suddenly thinks that his boss will be arrested one day, and it will finally be his turn, so he doesn't dream that this year will be smooth and the grain can be harvested by three or five buckets more! Similarly, a farmer's child regards marrying a daughter-in-law and having several children as a lifelong dream, but if this kind of dream is put on some current party and government officials, real estate bosses, and contract foremen, it will really be laughable to death.

But dreams are not transferred by human will, not what you want to come, if this is the case, Zhu Ji has already gone to Hawaii to bask in the sun, and he is still writing articles here and his eyes are dizzy? Therefore, many people lament the injustice of fate and hate God's partiality. We won't talk about the huge gap between the Secretary-General of the United Nations and the parents, but many people find it extremely difficult to achieve some very ordinary dreams. For example, a certain genius dreams of marrying a beautiful woman; For example, ordinary people want to live a peaceful life; Another example is that a person with a disability wants to have a healthy body......

Many books teach us: in order to realize your dreams, you have to work hard, you have to fight, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed. These great truths have done so much harm and devastated many people: they have exhausted their youth and their money in the direction of their goals that they can never attain. Just like today's lottery experts, they have been shouting: persistence is victory, and there is hope when you buy it. From time to time, another example comes: so-and-so insisted on buying it for two years, and finally got 5 million! It made many people enthusiastic and competing to send them money. This kind of propaganda is very deceptive, indeed, if you don't buy it, there is no hope, but if you do, there is hope, no matter how small your hope is, it is negligible. I think they're despicable. For a while, even Zhu Zhi was keen on the lottery, fantasizing that after winning the lottery, he could buy a car and a house, and ****** was all in vain.

The same is true of struggle and dreams.

First of all, you have to establish your dreams, you don't want to be too ambitious, don't dream of reaching the sky in one step. And constantly adjust it as you struggle, so that he fits your direction of development. Don't laugh at other people's dreams. Sometimes the dreams that you think are not worth mentioning or that are unattainable may be what others need. Even if it's a lottery. Why is the lottery popular, I think in addition to wanting to get it for nothing, it is to give him a huge dream. Why are most of the people who buy lottery tickets poor? It is because in this extremely difficult world, what can bring him hope is not the government, not the unit, not relatives and friends, but the ethereal probability of winning the lottery. It's not so much two dollars as 5 million, but two dollars to buy a hope.

A very interesting story: a fisherman couple in their 30s picked up an Arabian magic lamp, and when they opened the lid, a devil jumped out and scared them half to death! The devil said to them with a pleasant face: Do not be afraid, I will grant you three wishes! The couple said, "We want a lot of money!" The devil snapped his fingers and said, "Good! Now a lot of money is already in your passbook, and you can't spend it all! The couple said: We want to be good officials! The devil snapped his fingers and said, "Well, tomorrow someone will invite you to be prime minister!" The couple said, "We want to live forever!" The devil snapped his fingers again and said, "All right, you will live forever."

The couple was excited. The devil finally said, I have fulfilled the three wishes of you, I also have a wish, I hope you can help me, I have been trapped in the lamp for thousands of years, I have never made love to a woman, and if you can leave your wife here for the night, I will be grateful. The couple thought that with so much money, such a big official, and people would live forever, this request was not too much, so the wife stayed. After a beautiful night, the devil said to the woman: If you are 20 years old, it is understandable, but when you are in your 30s, will you still believe it?

In fact, people believe in this fantasy not only at the age of 30, but also at the age of 300.

There are a few lines of poetry: calligraphy, painting, piano, chess, poetry, hops, everything was not bad back then; Now the seven pieces have changed, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea. Encourage everyone.