Chapter 272: Waking Up (8)

As long as there is a glimmer of hope in the heart, no matter how heavy the misfortune from the outside world is, no matter how great the disaster originates from oneself, there will always be a new path under our feet. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info There is never a real desperate situation in this world, and happiness and pain are relative. "There is no way out of doubt, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village", many times when we are depressed because there is no way out, we don't know that there is a window next to us to open for ourselves.

Man's biggest enemy is himself, only by defeating himself can he face everything, at any time as long as there is a chance to work hard, we must give up complaining, give up pessimism,

Actively put yourself into the struggle, because things will always turn around. Many setbacks and difficulties are not terrible, what is terrible is that we are knocked down mentally first. There are only two endings when encountering difficulties: either defeat the difficulties or be defeated by them. When we actually step over, we feel like it's just an experience. In many cases, difficulties and setbacks are not an opportunity.

In the vast sea of people, we always hope to find an eternal joy and happiness, but life is not as smooth as we imagined, but accompanied by many difficulties, rapids and rapids, we often fall into extreme pain and disappointment. Disappointment is like a sinful hand, tearing us apart in an attempt to pull us into the bottomless abyss. In this time of "no return", hope has become the warm and brilliant sunshine in our hearts.

Therefore, believe that there is always a window open for yourself. Pain, failure, and setbacks are the stages that must be experienced in life. Crying is a lifetime, laughter is a lifetime, we might as well give ourselves a hope every day, give ourselves an open-minded mood, and bravely face the ups and downs of life. Once frustrated, the understanding of life deepens a layer; One mistake adds a layer to the comprehension of life; Once tribulated, the connotation of success is more thorough. In this sense, if you want to be happy, if you want to live a happy and fulfilling life, you must first truly comprehend failure, frustration and suffering.

Everyone has their own highest ideals, but only a few have succeeded in achieving their ideals, and the reason is that most people lack the belief that they will never despair. Never despair is no matter where you are, there will always be hope in your heart, only never despair can we use patience to find opportunities, create opportunities, and slowly embark on the road to success. When the doors of fate close one after another, never doubt, let alone complain, there is always a window that will open for you. No matter how helpless life is, believe that life is always good. No matter how bitter we feel right now, believing that bitterness will be sweet. No matter how many times God plays tricks on us, we must also believe that we can grasp the boat of life.

In front of him, there was no way out, and he unconsciously stopped. But if you don't move forward, how can you be sure that there is no bright village ahead? There is no hopelessness in this world, only desperate people will automatically block hope and bury themselves in the dark.

We are often convinced of what we see, and we react absurd stories in our minds based on the fragments we see, and what is even funnier is that we will feel terrified of these stories that we have made up, and turn away in advance in order to avoid imaginary danger or pain. When we leave, we also rejoice that we had the foresight to save ourselves from further harm. But when we look back curiously, we find that things are not as we imagined or not so serious, making us turn from a smart Zhuge Liang into a stupid coward.

On the other hand, when things really get out of hand, dwelling in despair is just an escape, and the predicament will not disappear because of despair, but will only get worse. We can't all go all the way, and we will always encounter rugged paths or treacherous mountains. Is it because the road is getting harder that we are going to stop? Unless you are willing to stay where you are for the rest of your life, you must actively look for ways to move forward. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, there will always be a moment when you reach the end, as long as you don't stop and don't retreat, no matter how long and difficult the road is, you can finish it.

There is no such thing as despair, only despair. Desperate situations are often imagined when people are afraid and uneasy, and there will always be hope, only depends on whether you are willing to persist and work hard. If you insist on closing your eyes, it is useless to hope that you are close at hand. No matter what situation you are in, don't take the initiative to give up hope, take one more step, and maybe you will see a different scenery.

If you are not put in a desperate situation, it is difficult to surpass yourself and the past.

"I believe that everyone can find an exit for themselves in a desperate situation."

Life is really hard to say, and when you reach a desperate situation, you will be alive.

There are no desperate situations in the world, only people who are desperate for their situation.

Mentality and will determine survival in a desperate situation! There is no hopelessness in life, and nothing can be lost without hope. Desperate situation is not only an ordeal, but also a kind of awakening and sublimation of life.

Good times often make people lose their fighting spirit, do not want to make progress (or "good times often make people lose their heroism and passion"), and even greed. Pleasure, corruption, and depravity, the successful can persevere, while the loser gives up trying to change his fate.

Go to the poor place of the water, and sit and watch the clouds rise. Life should not be discouraged, even when the mountains and rivers are exhausted, you can also have the leisure to watch the white clouds. When things are at the worst they will mend. It's not straight, but you can sit and watch the boat flow, what a big heart!

Where the water is poor, where there is no water, that is, the desperate situation where the mountains and rivers are exhausted and there is no way out. Not all of them will survive, it depends on what posture you adopt. Isn't the mountain very high where the water is exhausted? That's better, with a height overlooking life. So, don't be disappointed when you're in a desperate situation, because that's where hope begins.

Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and it is inevitable that you will encounter obstacles. Some are physical barriers, some are psychological barriers, and some are environmental barriers. You forge ahead bravely on the peaks of love, career, and learning, but later you find that there is a dead road under your feet, dangerous rocks are towering, barren grass, and the mountains and rivers are exhausted, and the sad and lost state of mind will inevitably appear. But it's not the end of the road. If there is no road on the ground, you can look up at the sky, and you will be in a desperate situation, and your soul can still have a sky to swim in.

If you are in a desperate situation, don't curse. When God gives you a car, he will first let you learn to drive, or let you play the role of a character who died in a car accident. (To be continued.) )