Chapter 451: Life and Death Like a Draft (5)

"There is a way out, and there is a way out. "This is a phrase that my mother often says, and whenever I face difficulties and fear difficulties, my mother uses this sentence to encourage me.www.biquge.info

Many people have the same confusion and complaints, such as how depressed they are in their own small hometown, how unwilling they are to spend their lives like this, how dissatisfied they are with their work, and they don't know whether to leave or rise up to fight back. You ask me, I don't know how you should choose, life is your own, and no one can make any choice for you.

There is a courier I know well, and I have worked with him for three years. When we first started working together, he was in charge of receiving and delivering the mail, and when I moved, he helped me arrange the company's van twice, and sometimes he would stuff me in his triple jumper and send me back to my house as cargo along the way. He often told me about his life as a farmer in his hometown, his parents' worries before he moved to the city, and the terrible world of city depictions that the villagers had depicted for him. At that time, he lived in a very suburban part of Beijing, with a low salary, hard work, a pregnant wife, and a child about to be born.

There must be a lot of people who want to say, "What kind of work is this still doing in Beijing!" But he's happy every day, even if he sends the wrong courier. One day, he suddenly handed me a bunch of courier orders from other companies and said to me, "I opened a courier company, you can see that I will use mine." I was a little stunned, and there was a feeling of "Hey, hello Boss Zhang, can you still jump on me three times today". After that, I rarely saw him coming, and I thought that his child was born and went on vacation. After that, I could only see Shan Zi and not see him.

One day, I asked about their company's courier, and the young man said that the boss had gone to Shanghai and opened a new company in Shanghai. I asked him worriedly, "Isn't the market in Shanghai fierce?" How can the new express stop! The young man smiled and said, "Our boss must have a way!" He's been doing a good job for months! "What about the wife and children? Isn't the child just born very young? "It's over, let's go to Shanghai together!"

At that moment, I glanced back at the various colleagues sitting in the office with sad faces, and raised the black screen of my phone to take a picture of my own face, and a breath of "life is already so difficult, some things should not be debunked" rose. It's not that it's great to jump ship and start a company, it's just not developing to stare at the screen in the company, I want to say that only courage can make you make changes.

Each of us feels that the more we live, the more introverted we become, the more autistic we become, and the more we grow up, the more lonely we become, so that we have the thoughts and feelings of "changing to a new environment, and I probably won't get along well with other people, so I'm going to wait and endure and make do". It's not so much that I'm autistic, but I'm lazy and don't want to break through the safe zone that I've built up with great difficulty. As a result, everyone lives in envy, jealousy, hatred, complaining, and complaining about others, and the students who have just graduated live as if they were 30 years old.

There is a sentence in "Refuse to Be Mediocre": Many times why are we jealous of other people's success? It is precisely because you know that it is not easy to do something and are unwilling to do it, and then you become angry at your own laziness and incompetence, which can only be balanced by jealousy and slander.

In fact, going out does not necessarily mean going anywhere, but more emphasis is placed on changing the status quo that you are not satisfied with. Someone asked me, you often say that you must persevere, how can you persist when you run out every day? In fact, it is a belief to adhere to, not a place, if you feel that a place makes you live a particularly uncomfortable life, work is particularly aggrieved, and have no other ideas except complaining and suppressing, then you should consider going out. As the lyrics say, "If your dream fails, then change your dream." "You can't say that there are great prospects out there, but for sure you will meet new people, have new opportunities, and even change your life.

Many people feel that they can't do it in a company anymore, and they need to think about whether there is a problem with their own ability. There are many possibilities and distractions in the workplace, not just ability, who says that he can't do well here, and he can't go somewhere else? Come to think of it, it's true, in the workplace you can always see people who can't stay in one place and are like fish in water in another. Sometimes going out is not only about finding new opportunities, but also about finding the right place for you and building new confidence and joy in life.

Don't torture yourself in the same place for too long, don't live with yourself for a long time. The way out, the way out, the way out, the way out.

Is it often confused, has it learned to be decadent, is it a lack of goals and is at a loss, warn you, don't fall, you are not qualified!

Don't fall, you're not qualified! You weren't born into a wealthy family, don't learn the disease that only princes and princesses can get without the life of a prince and princess, people have the time and money to look up at the sky and go to depression and hesitation, you don't, you have to struggle, you were born with the burden of family and life! Don't waste all your time complaining and complaining, no one is sorry for you; Don't see yourself as the hero and heroine in the story, people are naturally beautiful and kind-natured, what about you, the advantage you can give yourself is ability, however, if you are blindly decadent, even this last chance will be lost, and you will become a useless waste!

Whether you're a college student shrouded in the shadow of disappointment or a struggling worker, you have to find your confidence and work hard. Otherwise, just accept your fate, you will be in a mess for the rest of your life, do nothing, don't blame others for despising you and looking down on you, because you deserve it!

So, from today onwards, either work hard to chase your dreams, or be the mud on the soles of other people's feet, the difference between cloud and mud, but so, don't fall, you are not qualified! You need to see whether your failure is due to your lack of Bole or your own inability!

The best way to love yourself is to work hard to make yourself excellent, if you are decadent, don't be depressed and have no confidant, can't find true love, because even you don't love yourself, and still want others to love you? Just ask, what do you have to love, do you deserve it? Often what a person cares about is not money, but a heart of struggle!

Wake up! Don't fall again!

Be sad and don't tell anyone, they will never understand what it feels like to be on your side.

Sad, quietly squatted down and hugged himself, letting the tears fall to his heart's content.

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The excitement is not over......

Find out what happens next!

Respectfully, please, and wait

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(To be continued.) )