Oops, I was accidentally touched by myself!

Tang Fei lightened his slightly heavy expression, showed a smile, and turned his head to look at the emperor. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

"Zhongkang, do you know what day it is?"

The emperor was still pondering, but Tang Fei's question was suddenly shocked to reality.

It is said that 'three-year-old generation gap', speaking of the emperor, although he and Tang Fei have crossed a gap of thousands of years, there is really no generation gap between the two people's thoughts, and I don't know if the emperor is too enlightened or Tang Fei is too conservative.

And the emperor's identity is so noble, and he is usually majestic, but when he is with Tang Fei in private, he really doesn't have a little arrogance, and sometimes he even looks inexplicably like a modern 'wife and three good husbands'.

As soon as he heard Tang Fei's question, the cold sweat on the emperor's forehead fell.

It is no exaggeration to say that if you want to make a questionnaire for husbands all over the world, the question "What day is today" can definitely enter the top five of "the most difficult wife questions to answer".

In an instant, the emperor's brain was running at the speed of light: birthday? Anniversary? Not at all! What day is it?

The emperor decided to test it first: "Fei'er is so stupid, this is not the Dragon Boat Festival." ”

"Except for the Dragon Boat Festival?"

The emperor smiled: "Today is the big day for Fei'er to be canonized as Concubine De." ”

"What about other than that?"

The cold sweat on the emperor's forehead gathered more and more, from the creek, to the river, and finally to the river, and it was about to turn into the sea.

Seeing that the emperor was stammering, Tang Fei smiled mysteriously, and did not sell Guanzi: "Today, it is the first anniversary of the concubine's first meeting of the emperor!" ”

What the hell!

The emperor was stunned: "Fei'er, don't joke, you haven't entered the palace at this time last year, how can you meet me?" ”

"Haha," Tang Fei smiled: "It's not to meet you, it's me to see you." ”

"Last year's Dragon Boat Festival Emperor didn't come to Anmin Tower to 'have fun with the people', the concubines were among the people!"

Tang Fei pointed downstairs: "At that time, the concubine was standing in that crowd and snatched the gold leaf thrown down by Zhong Kang!" ”

Hearing Tang Fei say this, the emperor was also a little embarrassed.

It's as if your boyfriend suddenly told you, 'Actually, I saw you when you were in kindergarten!' You were stupid with a big runny nose back then, haha. ’

It turns out that there are other encounters! And you still don't know about this encounter, but the other party knows!

For many people, a relationship can really change them a lot, whether it is life habits or personality style.

Even they behave completely differently in front of lovers and in front of others.

"I don't know if I did anything ridiculous at that time and was seen by Fei'er."

The emperor was a little nervous: "How did Fei'er feel about me at that time?" Was I personable and dignified at that time, so that Fei'er fell in love with her at first sight? ”

Oops, this stinks.

Tang Fei rolled his eyes: "There were so many people at that time, where could the concubines see clearly, but they just saw a small yellow dot from a distance." ”

The emperor inexplicably felt relieved, and Tang Fei began to break the news again: "But during the singing and dancing performance in the evening, the concubine sat closer to Zhong Kang because of the lord of Chang'an, and she watched it more thoroughly. ”

"Alas~~~" Tang Fei sighed with twists and turns: "But at that time, Zhongkang was always accompanied by a beautiful woman, and then there was a beautiful woman to dance, so naturally he didn't have time to take a look at the concubine~"

"Ahem, ahem..."The emperor didn't breathe evenly, and began to cough uncontrollably.

The emperor really can't refute this, let alone find any excuses.

Although I didn't say that I was greedy and lustful in the past, I was really undisciplined, and I didn't refuse to say that I couldn't say that I was beautiful, but I also randomly accepted or put it aside according to my mood.

In the final analysis, the emperor still didn't treat these beauties as 'people', but more as objects.

Is this a particularly 'domineering president' of the emperor?

But to be honest, what is a 'domineering president' in front of the emperor! No matter how domineering he is, he can still be bigger than the country?

But in this big cloud country, the emperor is the country, and the phrase 'I am the country' is not a casual saying.

When he sees it, he accepts it, Tang Fei has always understood the difference between 'pointing' and 'messing around'.

No matter how ridiculous it is, it is still to recognize our own past, we can manage the future, but we can't control the past.

It is said that 'the clouds are gone', let those absurd past events dissipate with the clouds!

The emperor is embarrassed, that is, he feels embarrassed, and if you don't let go of being aggressive, it will be annoying.

In fact, in reality, many times, you want to talk to your partner about his shortcomings, and let him correct them, but also pay attention to skills.

In fact, people are animals who like to listen to good words.

It's human instinct.

It's not that people are too vain or don't know how to do it, it's just that what people are pursuing in life is a sense of identity, what they pursue is a sense of self-worth, and if you deny him, the first reaction of his affirmative instinct is to refuse.

We always say that 'good medicine is bitter, and advice is contrary to the ear', which is for those who are criticized, not for those who criticize.

No matter how much you 'do it for your own good', he has to listen to it, right? If he doesn't listen, won't it become a pointless quarrel?

When everyone is criticized, they actually go through three processes.

When he was pointed out at the beginning, he may not have listened to it at this time, or it was out of human instinct, in the "instinctive refusal, instinctive excuses". ’

But after more persuasion from you, he will move on to the second stage: 'I'm sorry, reflect, you have a point.' ’

By the second stage, sane girls should stop.

But there are always some more emotional girls, as soon as they see their other half actually bowing their heads, she will be extraordinarily energetic, chattering, and forceful, and she can't wait to vent all her grievances together through this kind of holding behavior.

We call this kind of behavior 'unforgiving.'

Then the conversation between the two men entered the third stage: 'The other half became angry and began to argue. ’

If the boyfriend's 'making excuses' in the first stage is just an instinct, then in the third stage, his 'making excuses' is 'rational making excuses'.

Well, all the hard work he had done was in vain, and he began to use his brain to make excuses for himself, and he felt in his heart that he was absolutely right.

Then you quarrel and quarrel, and the more you argue, the more you deviate, and in the end you don't know why you quarrel, and everything is over.

Therefore, female compatriots, you must remember to grasp the scale, stop in moderation, and remember to be too late.

However, speaking of this 'first impression', Tang Fei was also a little curious.

Tilting his head to look at the emperor: "Zhongkang, do you remember the first time you saw me?" What was your impression of me at that time? ”