90. Someone else's wife
There is a person who has seen my work, who really sweated for me, and said, you dare to talk about such a topic, if Mrs. Zhu Zhi sees it, you will definitely not be able to eat and walk around!
It is also said that talking about such a topic is inherently dangerous. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info But I still have to say it, because it's a subject designated by the bookseller. Less than seven years of marriage have been itching. Wives, sisters, friends, and wives of brothers and friends are all better than their wives. When she is over 30 years old and has a small career, a woman is very unworthy of herself. There are "friend daughters" who often complain to their husbands. "It's been four or five years since we got married, and we're all about to be old, I really don't know what he thinks, every time I see my colleague's girlfriend, his eyes always shine, and he always keeps praising other people's girlfriends for being so good and good, but he only complains about me, so that I don't have any confidence at all......"
As for the reason, the book says that it is longer than a piece of cloth. The book says that most men have the common problem of pursuing excellent girls, pursuing novelty, and pursuing new members of the opposite sex. Erophery is the innate nature of human beings, both men and women will have such a nature, so it is not difficult to understand that men have such a common problem, but it is just a problem in their hearts. Their feelings for their girlfriends are getting weaker and weaker, but their interest in other people's travel is getting stronger and stronger, which is also their psychological factor. Men, why do they think other people's wives are beautiful, this mainly comes from the four major psychology! First, the perspective determines the psychological feeling. For his girlfriend, the quietly passing time slowly wears out the passion of the past. The virtues that were once full of them gradually lost their color in a pair of eyes that stared at it. This also reflects the saying - love is easy to get along with. The second is the psychology of seeking innovation and difference. My wife, after a long time, has no freshness. The third is the psychology of conquest. For those wives who think they are so good, winning her heart is a kind of conquest. Putting someone else's girlfriend who is excellent in his eyes, even very arrogant, is even more of a conquest. People with this kind of mentality tend to want to get what they can't get the more they can't get it, and the more they can't get it, the more they have to get it. Fourth, men need a sense of accomplishment. After experiencing the novelty and satisfying the desire to conquer, the induced passion is eager to experience the next, and the next, and the next. This kind of seeking novelty and difference again and again will make those men get the pleasure of conquering others again and again, and these will make them more and more fulfilling. Some even set goals for themselves, targeting certain people, or reaching a certain number.
According to a website survey, 73% of netizens said that they would feel that "their wives are someone else's good", of which 45% said that they would only have this idea occasionally, and 28% of netizens admitted that they often have this thought; In addition, 26% of netizens said that there is no such feeling that "the wife is someone else's good". In response to the question "Do your friends have the mentality that 'the wife is someone else's good'?" In the survey, 63% of netizens said that their friends also have this kind of psychology. Although most netizens think that their wives are someone else's good, before marriage, will they think that other people's girlfriends are better than their own girlfriends? 47% of netizens said they wouldn't think so, 37% said they occasionally felt it, and only 15% of netizens thought that their girlfriends before marriage were really inferior to other people's girlfriends.
Think about it, how beautiful Mrs. Zhu was at the beginning, Mr. Zhu Zhi didn't see him for a day, like a spy who had lost his target, watery, and his hands were full of oil and water. Now my wife is not fresh, she is older, and of course she is not so smart. Although Mr. Zhu Zhi does not have the psychology of seeking novelty and conquest, he will also feel that there are more beautiful women around him, until he lives a life of "three noes".
There is a passage on the Internet that goes like this: If you marry another woman, it won't be long before you will sigh the same way: Why is she bad? But in the eyes of other men, your wife is very good. Therefore, men should always think about it, but their wife was chased after by themselves with all their might, and the wife has not changed, but your own feelings have changed. I think it's right, and it's too level.
The generous Mrs. Zhu asked Zhu You: Do you have any second and third wives and so on? Now you can have them serve you.
I shook my head.
Mrs. Zhu sighed and poured a urine tray for me.
Dr. Chen from the hospital sneered and said, "I have been practicing medicine for more than 30 years, and I have never seen a second wife and a man who serves men!" You're going to die of this heart! At the critical moment, it's better to be your own wife! Yes, in the sketch "Today's Happiness", Hao Jian said such a sentence: Do you know how many people outside want to get her (your wife)? Indeed, your wife, in the eyes of others, is also someone else's wife. It also tickles other men.
What a wise saying. So Mr. Zhu Zhi was full of emotion and said: Such a good wife, it doesn't hurt to have a few more.
A piercing pain in the face. It turned out that he was slapped by Mrs. Zhu Zhi.
In the song "Men and Women Don't Be Too Greedy", the singer sings hoarsely: Other people's husbands, other people's wives / Love in the eyes and hearts ....... / Forget the dregs, all the way through the ........wind and frost / The hardships that have been walked side by side / Men and women should not be too greedy / Ordinary life is a blessing ....... / Just hide love and not in your mouth / But I really care about you..... / I am willing to take care of you / Take care of you all my life...... This is the simple truth.