39. Beware of the villains around you

In fact, when it comes to villains, almost no one has ever encountered them, especially for the proletariat living at the bottom like us, it should be common for them to be angry with villains -- if you had the ability to be villains, you would have developed a long time ago, and you would not be on the same front as Zhu You. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 infoOf course, it doesn't mean that Zhu Zhi is a "gentleman", Zhu Zhi is also a villain, writing this article is the behavior of a villain, what kind of husband's behavior is said behind the scenes? However, Zhu Zhi's treachery is a self-defense weapon learned in the constant struggle with the villain, and it is a human instinct.

Soon after he came out of work, he began to fight with the villain. It's a pity that until now, more than 20 years have passed, Zhu Ji still doesn't know who this villain is, it seems that the class enemy is so cunning, and he is so deep. I was working in an office at the time, and as the first person to be assigned to an office after graduation in more than a decade, I didn't foresee the brutality of the struggle. After two months on the job, our office found that a confidential document was missing - a big deal, and it was a document that had to be sent back to the Secret Service for destruction at regular intervals. In addition to the leader, as far as the two people in our office are concerned, I have been in contact with the chief of the secretarial section. Later, I couldn't find it after checking for a long time, and I didn't have to say, the secretary wrote the inspection. As for me, people suspect that I am a section chief. Later, more rumors came out that I was arrogant, arrogant, and indiscriminate with the worker's car, not suitable for office work, and that all bad things reached the ears of the director anyway, which was a huge blow to a fledgling young man. A year later, you yourself asked to sell feed in the retail department, but it was not granted.

The second time was also in the unit. Another leader and I felt that there was a table tennis project that was more feasible, so we went to report to the main leader, but the leader poured cold water on it, saying that there was no market for this kind of project, and the unit did not want to pay for this risk. Another leader and I were not convinced, so we raised money to start it first, and the business was very prosperous! The main leader spoke at the trade union, saying that he was responsible for this project, so how could he do it privately? I don't have to say that we are thankless, and we are considered by the staff to be villains who forget their righteousness. Later, because we saw that we were making money, there were many people in table tennis, and there were more than ten in one county, and business gradually declined. At this time, the leader spoke again, this project was launched by us, and the aftermath should be handled by us, and in the end, we contracted it ourselves, and we did it for a few months.

The third time was on the eve of coming out to run the rivers and lakes. At that time, I had already made up my mind, so I was very open-minded, so I invited a few friends (note, I think of friends) to have a meal together, and during the dinner, I drank a lot of wine, and we talked a lot. As he spoke, he vented his dissatisfaction with the status quo and some views on the unit and the leader (behind the scenes, Zhu Zhi is also a villain). There was a friend who seemed very interested and asked for some details. Unexpectedly, before I got home, the leader called me and asked me to come to his office. When I got there, I found that he already knew everything about what was being said at the banquet. He asked me, why do you speak ill of him in front of others? Fortunately, I had already decided to leave at that time, otherwise I would not know how to live the rest of my life! After listening to a few words, I said, "Isn't what I'm saying the truth?" Walk away!

The villain I met for the fourth time was also a leader. My unit sent me and a colleague to cover a case of student poisoning, in which the county government's leadership was clearly ineffective and the measures were inadequate. Students request hospitalization, but the school and the government require them to be discharged, otherwise they are responsible for the medical expenses. After our interview, the county leaders were very soft-hearted at first, asking us not to meddle in the matter, and even absurdly asked us to "see" the manuscript we had written, which naturally refused and made them very angry. So he threatened to let us have a good show! Sure enough, on the one hand, they called people to dredge up with our leaders, and on the other hand, they went around and said that we had collected money from the parents of poisoned students, so they worked so hard, and they even said that the amount of bribes we had received was 4,000 yuan, and that they had obtained the passbook account number provided by my colleague to the parents through the Public Security Bureau. More than a dozen poisoned students and their accompanying parents were so difficult that they only ate two meals a day, and they didn't eat meat for a month, and they still had money to give us? It's up to them to make up this kind of thing! Fortunately, the unit does not believe this rumor, otherwise we would have been miserable.

I also met a villain in my work in the media, just like the first time, Zhu Zhi still doesn't know who this master is. Once, Zhu Zhi went to an interview with another colleague, and in the process, the colleague had an inappropriate behavior, which caused a discussion among reporters from the same media. After I came back, I talked to two or three colleagues about this (in fact, Zhu Zhi is really a villain, talking nonsense behind his back, and he deserves this kind of ending). Unexpectedly, two or three days later, an anonymous letter came to me, suing the colleague who was on a business trip with me, saying that his behavior did not pick up points and affected the reputation of the unit. The leaders were furious and ordered a strict investigation. Needless to say, that colleague paid a heavy price for his actions, and me? It is generally accepted that he is a villain who writes anonymous report letters. This anonymous letter has achieved the goal of killing two birds with one stone, which can be described as extremely insidious. Once, Zhu Zhi sent a text message to a friend to greet him, but he didn't expect the other party to come up with a sentence: You birdman! I was shocked, how did I go from good friend to birdman, how did I get so fast? What are the reasons for this? I still don't understand, I only know that I must have been calculated by the villain, but who is the villain? I still don't get it.

In fact, in the past ten years, I have met far more than these four or five villains, so to speak, I deal with many villains every day. What is Villain? If you want to explain it, I'm afraid it will take a thousand words. But it can also be summed up in one sentence: a villain refers to a person with a despicable personality, bad moral character, improper heart, who likes to play with right and wrong, sow discord, and gain benefits from it (or harm others and not himself). They like to blindly flatter, disobey, and be suspicious, always suspecting that others have some ulterior secrets. They are good at making small reports to leaders. They have a strong sense of revenge, they will repay their eyes, they will grab honor when they see it, hide when they see difficulties, and they are good at stepping on other people's heads to climb up, at all costs.

Mr. Confucius has long said: But villains and women are difficult to raise. The ancients once said: It is better not to study all year round than to get close to the villain one day. It can be seen that villains are frightening and hateful. Indeed, the king of Hades said that the little ghost is difficult, if you meet the villain, the light one will be noisy, the chicken and dog will be restless, the heavy one will be separated from the wife, and the family will be ruined. In a unit where "the villain gains power", once the villain makes waves, the relationship between colleagues will be tense, everyone will be in danger, the unit will be restless, and people will be exhausted and exhausted. If it is in a country where "villains are in charge", then traitors will take power, and the people will not have a good life, until the country is ruined, there are many examples in history, I am afraid that Zhu Zhi will not list them one by one to earn manuscript fees, right?

However, if you want to be in a unit without villains, that's basically impossible. The villain can be said to be omnipresent, some of the things you can see, and more of them that you can't see - that's the most terrible thing, I don't know when he will jump out and put a shot in your back. Since the villain can't be guarded, what good way do we have to deal with it? Someone provided such a principle: treat the villain leniently, and guard against the villain strictly. Try not to have too much contact with villains, but don't hold grudges with villains either. A villain is a villain, he is insidious, treacherous, and especially resentful, once you have a grudge against him, you have to wait for when to die in his hands.

So, let the villain get his ambition and show off his might in the unit? That's not afraid, there is a saying since ancient times: the wicked have their own wicked grinding. Therefore, the villain also has his own villain to treat him. However, in practice, it is very difficult for us to do this, and there is no indignation when we think that we have been bullied, framed, and slandered by villains. But if you want to fight the villain, I think the best way is to find allies, and unity is the only strength. Once, a person said bad things about Zhu Zhu in front of the leader, I saw the opportunity, and when the guy and the leader were present, a few of our friends went in, and I said to the leader: I heard that someone sued me, and the truth of those things is...... Other allies also help me explain. Under the gaze of the leader, the guy's face was blue, yellow, and black, so he was not embarrassed. Seeing that Zhu Zhi was so brave and powerful, he would not dare to be so rampant in the future.

Therefore, my opinion is that if you are not good enough to be a traitor and not enough to deceive, it is better for you to stay away from the villain. If you can't stand it, you can go to the leader to explain the situation in order to get sympathy and understanding. What if the leader and the villain both wear the same pants, or if the leader is a villain? That...... You can only learn from Zhu Wolf, roll up and leave.