As a problem expert and love consultant, Mr. Zhu has always been the object of young people's pursuit. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoA young man couldn't wait to ask Mr. Zhu for help: he had been pursuing a girl for two years, but the girl said: I have no feelings for you, I can't fall in love! He wanted to know, how could he make her feel it, how did love happen?

How does love happen? This is obviously the Goldbach conjecture in love. Philosophers say that love is actually a desire. Maslow, a Western humanist, divided human desires into five levels, including physiological needs, security needs, needs to love and be loved, needs to be appreciated, and needs for self-realization. The Buddhists believe that "ten years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation can be slept together", and the generation of love requires fate. They believe that love is essentially a combination of "willingness" and "karma", and that the power of both will make love happen. And the legend of the West is even more outrageous, according to the ancient books, love is God with mud pinched out, said that God and his wife are too lonely in the sky, one day, on the hand of a ball of yellow mud, a burst of crackling, according to the appearance of the two gods to create people, two men and women hand in hand, kiss the mouth!

This is complete nonsense! Many people have had this experience: I can't love the big girl (young man) who has been with me for a long time and is recognized as having good conditions (not only can't I love it, but I am like a stranger, and I flash to the side when I meet); On the contrary, as soon as I met the other person, I was sticky (that is, love at first sight)! Others say that I have been dating the man for two or three years (like the poor young man mentioned above), and there has been no love, but then after an incident, I suddenly "called". There must be some mystery in the occurrence of love, my old friend from Taiwan, Mr. Bai Yang has a very profound research, and he has a paragraph that makes a good description: (not much, copied later)

Based on the selfish nature of love, girls (why aren't boys like this-Mr. Zhu Zhi) is not for your money, but must order something for you, or love you honestly; Or love you handsome; Or love you well-written articles and are famous all over the world; or love your officials, and there are compliments everywhere; or love your long little white face, women will be horny when they see it; Or love that you are so learned that you are proficient in Abyssinian, and that you can invent the atomic bomb; Or love you and travel widely, and don't even spend money to go to the dance venue, all in all, she must do something, and there is no love that doesn't do anything at all. The most common phenomenon is: she walks side by side with her beloved boyfriend or beloved husband, she must have a sense of pride, and she is happy; If you don't have pride, things are bad. One day I met a female student on the street and introduced her husband and me, who was a well-known person, and I even paid my respects and said: "I have been looking up for a long time, the newspaper said that you are going to England to give a lecture recently?" The schoolgirls were overjoyed. If her husband had been Mr. Bai Yang, I don't think she would have been so neat in her introduction, and she wouldn't be proud.

It can be seen from this that if a person wants to be loved, then he (she) must first have a little loveliness in him/her. Therefore, all men and women who are still hovering outside the door of love have to face the reality and give full play to your cuteness as much as possible: if you have money, you can buy some stockings and diamond rings for each other, and promise to buy a few scud missiles for her to play with if you get married; With a beautiful face, show your head more outside, and it's best to come back with a few trophies at the beauty tryout; If the article is well written, write more beautiful love letters to her, so that she will be as uncomfortable as eating rat poison if she does not read your masterpiece for a day; If you are highly educated, insert two or three pens in your chest (don't insert too much, otherwise others will think you are repairing pens), and as soon as you open your mouth, it is the Australian Aboriginal language, saying something impressionistic, relativity or something; If the official is big, drive your "Mercedes" car, often come to see her in front of many of her friends, and have bodyguards to guard you during trysts; Thick-skinned, regardless of the sun and moon, regardless of the time, pestering her, there is a way that people are afraid of entanglement, and the slightest fear of even (sometimes this is also a kind of cuteness) and so on...... In this way, it won't be long before love is a thing, not to mention that it can't be sought, even if it can't be stopped with a door panel!

Some people say that my ****** just don't have the slightest cuteness, in terms of appearance, I am on a par with Dong Shi; Speaking of height, he is on par with Wu Dalang; Speaking of figure, he is similar to the naval commander in the movie, and the gallon barrel is slimmer than himself; There is no money, and the biggest official is still being a team leader in a primary school, even with a magnifying glass, it is difficult to find a little bit, is it not saved? Of course not, no matter what, a person will inevitably have some cuteness in him, see if you can find it and play it, you have no money, but you are healthy, and your body is as good as Tyson; You can't write articles, but you talk sweetly, like Ge You, and when you open your mouth, your heart is numb; If you can't talk and coax people, then you will pretend to be deep, and silence is golden; You can't be considerate, but you don't have bad breath and don't grind your teeth in the middle of the night; You don't have a car, but your cycling skills couldn't be better, so it's okay to take a ride and let go of the handlebars for a kilometer or two...... If you can't see it with a magnifying glass, then you can change to a microscope and look for it!

Some people said, Oh, I have so much money, I am willful, I don't even have to squat to, but she doesn't look down on me! In other words, I am so handsome and beautiful, just like Mr. Lu Yi or Miss Chen Hao in the movie, people don't love me either! This is not surprising, there is a saying that "green vegetables and robbs, each has its own good", some people are like this, she would rather love a pockmark as black as Li Kui, rather than a milky little white face; Some people she doesn't talk to those guys who say that they are sweeter than o-benzoylsulfonimide (saccharin), but takes a fancy to a person who is so stupid that he can't beat a stuffy fart with three sticks (just like Miss Huang Rong fell in love with the silly boy Guo Jing); Or maybe she just takes a fancy to a few bits of ink in your stomach, and she is happy to follow you to drink salt water only three times a day - of course, that's fine, or where can Mr. Zhu Zhi, a poor bastard with a pockmarked face and a short figure, find a wife!

In the same way, when you receive the other person's autumn waves, it happens that the other party also has some cuteness that attracts you, and at that time, a wonderful feeling will come to you.

The law of love happens when both men and women have a desire to love and each feels cuteness in each other.