Chapter 518
"SISTER DONNA, WHY DID YOU TAKE A FANCY TO HE XINJUN BACK THEN?"
Yes, why did she take a fancy to He Xinjun back then? CHARLOTTE'S INQUIRY MADE DONNA'S EYES SHOW A HINT OF SADNESS, AND AFTER A WHILE, SHE LOOKED AT CHARLOTTE WITH A BITTER SMILE: "IF I SAY THAT I FANCY HIM FOR ECONOMIC REASONS, DO YOU BELIEVE IT?" ”
After a little hesitation, Charlotte shook her head: "Although we don't have too many contacts, I feel that you are not that kind of person, even if there is really that reason, there must be other reasons for it." Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info"
"THANK YOU......" DONNA LOOKED AT CHARLOTTE WITH A SINCERE EXPRESSION, "I'M REALLY HAPPY TO BE ABLE TO SAY THAT, REALLY, IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I HAVEN'T BEEN SO MUCH A FAILURE."
In fact, I have been a relatively well-behaved child since I was a child, and since I was in junior high school, many classmates have begun to fall in love, but I have never considered that aspect, I feel that at that age, learning should be the most important.
Therefore, when I was in high school, I always rejected He Xinjun's pursuit, and the reason I told him was that I wanted to study hard and get admitted to a good university, and I would never consider emotional issues.
Because the conditions of He Xinjun's family are really good, there are quite a few girls who like him, but he has always insisted on hanging himself from my tree, and those girls who like him feel that I am not worthy of him and think that I am deliberately pretending to be arrogant.
When this kind of words reached my ears, I was really angry, and because I vowed to study hard so that those female classmates who said bad things about me could see whether I was really pretending to be arrogant.
I didn't expect He Xinjun to always support him, he really didn't have a girlfriend in the past few years in high school, no matter what kind of attitude I had towards him, he greeted him with a smile, and after a long time, I felt that I was a little too much.
I think people just like me, and I haven't done anything heinous, why do I always treat people so coldly? After reflection, my attitude towards him was better, but I didn't expect that he thought that it was the rhythm I was going to agree to, and he would be better and more attentive to me.
After the college entrance examination, he even found my house and brought a bunch of gifts to see my parents, my parents mistakenly thought that I was in love when I was in high school, and after he left, he reprimanded me harshly, no matter how I explained, they didn't listen.
You know how I felt at the time, they felt like they were my parents, how could they not believe me like that? Since I was a child, I have never lied in front of them, but as a result, I was wronged, He Xinjun came to the door again, no matter how cold I was to him, he coaxed me with a smile.
To be honest, I also have vanity, being coaxed by a boy like that, I also have a little joy in my heart, it just so happened that we were admitted to the same university in college, which made me particularly surprised, you must know that his studies are much worse than mine.
Before I could ask him, he told me himself, saying that his score was just enough for the score line, and if it was normal, he would not have been admitted to that university, in order to be in the same school as me, he asked his father to use the relationship, he said that he was not going through the back door, because he was stuck on the score line, and the fight was who had a relationship and who had connections.
I don't agree with his statement, I think, if it's really a matter of using connections, then, is it possible to be squeezed out if you have a high score in the exam? That's simply not fair.
While I was arguing with him, my parents came back and figured out the truth of our quarrel, and my parents recognized him, thinking that a boy who was willing to fight for his daughter was a good boy who could be trusted.
Then we went to the same university, and he always showed up to me as my boyfriend, so no other boy showed affection to me during the whole college period except him.
Then I worked, and I was at the age of marriage, and during the Chinese New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts got together, didn't it become a disguised marriage urging? My parents love face, so they also urged me.
Especially after seeing that my younger cousins are married, they are really anxious, and even ask me what I am picking? said that He Xinjun is such a good boy, what am I not satisfied with? Our family is an ordinary worker's family, and He Xinjun is a son of a high-ranking cadre, and he has been infatuated with me for so many years, just like a stone, and he should be covered with heat.
Then, annoyed, I compromised and went to his house with He Xinjun, for my existence, his parents already knew, in fact, they didn't like me, they wanted He Xinjun to find a girl who was the right person, but He Xinjun insisted, they had to compromise.
Because of this, their attitude towards me was naturally not salty, and then after coming out of the house, I told He Xinjun that it was impossible for me to marry into his family, because I could almost think of what the days of marriage were like.
He said that I would not marry into his family, he would marry into my family, anyway, he would have recognized me in his life, he said that, and really did that, and after sending me home that day, he went back to his own home, quarreled with his parents, and then went to my house with his luggage.
He told my parents that he would be my son-in-law in the future, and he would be filial to them with me.
Seeing my parents' concerns, he clearly told my parents that from childhood to adulthood, as long as he wanted to do something, his parents would eventually compromise, so as long as we got married, his parents would definitely not use that attitude towards me again.
Then, he stayed in my house, and lived for half a year, no matter how his mother begged him to go back, he resolutely refused to return, saying when his parents apologized to me, and sincerely admitted that I was a daughter-in-law, when would he go back.
No way, his parents had to agree to him, and asked my parents to meet together to discuss our marriage, in fact, I was very confused at that time, I didn't like him, and I didn't hate him, but if I didn't get married, delaying it would only make me more stressed, so confused, we got married.
After we got married, we moved to his house, and his parents' attitude towards me was really much better than before, but living with them, I always felt that there was a faint veil in between, especially when his sister went back, I would be even more uncomfortable.
His sister always looked at me with a particularly critical eye, thinking that a girl from an ordinary family, marrying into their family, was simply a matter of burning high incense, but I always put on a look of being wronged, and I absolutely didn't know what to do.
I was very unhappy with his house, I wanted us to live on our own, after all, we were married, I wanted us to have our own space, go to our parents on the weekends, and be there for them when they needed to be taken care of.
After I discussed my idea with He Xinjun, he agreed, and he came forward to persuade his parents, they have a lot of houses, so they chose a set of places in the city center for us to live in, his parents are actually very unhappy, but they don't want He Xinjun to live with my parents again.
So when we moved out, they knocked me on the side, which means that their family has done their best to me, and I am not worthy of their son, and I must be content, and I must take good care of their son in the future.
To be honest, I only thought their words were angry, but when the two of us lived together, I realized that He Xinjun was a child who had not grown up at all, and it was impossible for him to share family responsibilities with me.
Because of the good family conditions, he basically didn't suffer anything since he was a child, and he had no concept of money, anyway, his parents would give him money if he was short of money, so he felt too constrained to work for a while, so he quit his job and played at home every day.
Sometimes I wonder, why does the state allow games to exist? Whether it is a child or an adult, it seems that as soon as he touches this thing, it changes, although the original He Xinjun is lazy, he is willing to coax me, and he will listen to what I don't let him do.
But since he got hooked on the game, he said that everything I said was almost the same as the back of his ear, I forcibly turned off the phone for him, and he went to the Internet café to play without saying a word, and did not come back for a few days, and when he came back, he was almost like an African refugee.
That's it.,Our relationship is getting worse and worse.,Just when I'm going to think about our relationship.,I was pregnant with Tongtong.,For the sake of the child,I decided to talk to him.,Go on well.,As a result,At that time, he promised to be good.,But as soon as those netizens who played games together called.,He went to the appointment like a burning ass.。
After the child was born, we moved to my mother's house, so that my mother could take care of me and Tongtong, he didn't want to listen to my mother nagging him, so he went to work in his buddy's company, with a monthly salary of 1,000 and a half, and the nature of the work was to accompany my buddy to socialize, hehe......"
SPEAKING OF THIS, DONNA SNEERED TWICE, "THE RETIRED OLD MAN'S JANITOR'S SALARY IS ONLY FIFTEEN, AND HE IS A YOUNG MAN IN THE PRIME OF LIFE, AND HE IS VERY PROUD TO HOLD THE SALARY OF FIFTEEN."
I thought he didn't have a sense of responsibility, he moved his parents out, and they came to my parents and said that their son didn't care how much he earned, as long as he was happy, if the money was not enough, they could help make up for it, so that our family would not take the money to talk about things.
It can be said that since the birth of my daughter, we have been a very cold relationship, until I met him in person and went shopping with a girl in his arms, which can be regarded as the end of this deformed marriage, you ask me how I would fancy him, in fact, think about it, I have never taken a fancy to him, but, at the right age, there is no right person, his conditions are good in all aspects, I am so compromised.
When I think back on that relationship today, I will find that both me and my parents were tempted by his family background, because with him, I could be praised by relatives and friends, and my parents could straighten up in front of relatives and friends, so we collectively blindfolded ourselves.
I was very touched when he broke up with his parents for me, thinking that he loved me, but now, I have discovered my sadness, he can be so ruthless to his parents who spoil him so much, what qualifications do I have to let him be infatuated all the time?
So Xiao Wu'er, to put it mildly, my marriage was still harmed by my own vanity, and I can't complain about others, but fortunately, God treats me well, so I met Jiang Long, although we are also in front of many difficulties, but I believe that as long as we insist together, one day, his family will recognize our relationship. ”
DONNA'S NARRATION MADE CHARLOTTE DANCE SIGH, SHE UNDERSTOOD THAT THE REASON WHY THE OTHER PARTY TOLD HER AND THE PAN WAS BECAUSE OF RECOGNITION, AND SECONDLY, BECAUSE SHE WAS TOO RUTHLESS, AS SHE SAID HERSELF, NOW THERE ARE NO REAL FRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS AROUND, AND SHE CAN'T TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER PARENTS, SO SHE ASKED, AND SHE ANSWERED.
Some things are like this, and if you say it, you can't solve anything, but because you have someone who listens, and this person who listens doesn't look down on you or sarcastically you doesn't sarcastic, you feel a lot more relaxed. ,
FOR DONNA'S RELATIONSHIP, AFTER LISTENING TO EVERYTHING, CHARLOTTE DANCE FELT THAT IT COULD NOT BE SAID THAT DONNA WAS COMPLETELY TEMPTED BY THE OTHER PARTY'S FAMILY CONDITIONS, AND IT WAS DIFFICULT FOR ANY GIRL TO BE PURSUED BY A BOY FOR MANY YEARS, OR SINGLE-MINDED PURSUIT.
Even if you are not tempted, in the absence of a choice, it is very obvious who to choose.
IT CAN ONLY BE SAID THAT HE XINJUN WAS SPOILED BY HIS PARENTS, IF HIS PARENTS COULD PERSUADE HIM TO PULL HIM WHEN HE TOOK THE WRONG PATH, OR, HIS MARRIAGE WITH DONNA WOULD NOT HAVE COME TO THIS POINT, AND NOW REGRET IT, WHAT IS THE USE?
IT IS ESTIMATED THAT EVEN IF THERE IS NO PERSON WHO IS ALREADY IN LOVE, DONNA WILL NOT CHOOSE HIM AGAIN, A MAN WHO HAS NOT GROWN UP, ISN'T ONE INJURY ENOUGH?
XU KNEW DONNA'S THOUGHTS, AND AFTER JIANG LONG ENTERED THE BACK KITCHEN, HE NEVER CAME OUT.
Xia Luo Wu said with emotion: "Sister DONNA, God is fair, you chose the wrong marriage in your last marriage, didn't you send a man who treats you sincerely to your side?" ”
"Yes, I also think that God has been kind to me." THE CORNERS OF DONNA'S LIPS BLOOMED WITH A HAPPY SMILE, AND THEN SHE SAID A LITTLE EMBARRASSEDLY, "THIS IS THE AGE, ONLY TO FIND OUT WHAT TRUE LOVE IS LIKE, WHAT A TRUE LOVER IS LIKE, REGARDLESS OF THE AGE GAP, RUNNING FORWARD LIKE A MOTH TO A FIRE, I AM ALSO GOOD ENOUGH." ”
"A person's age doesn't represent anything, it's just a sign artificially marked, a young mentality is really young, and a person's face can truly reveal his mentality......" Charlotte looked at DONNA with a smile and exclaimed, "If you don't say it, probably no one can guess your real age, to be honest, in my opinion, you are three or four years older than Brother Jiang Long, and he is a baby-faced person who does not show his age, so you take age as a matter, It's just a deliberate show, right? ”