Chapter 111: The First Gate
Yu Zhaodi was even more confused, just now Ru Li also looked weird when she heard her say that she wanted to eat noodles, and Situ Xuan seemed to mind the bowl of noodles, and now Yu Niandi looked like this again, what the hell is going on. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
In her opinion, the bowl of noodles was nothing special except that the ingredients were particularly rich and the taste was a little better than the ones she had eaten before. "Can't that bowl of noodles be eaten? But I asked you, and he said he could let me eat it. ”
"You've asked Ru Li, God, I'm going back to my room to be quiet, don't stop any of you."
Yu Pandi watched Yu Niandi return to the house with a smile, and Yu Zhaodi asked her again, "What's wrong with that bowl of noodles?" ”
But Yu Pandi smiled and didn't say anything, which made Yu Zhaodi complain, one, two, three, all of them were so strange. Yu Zhaodi felt that she was about to be driven crazy by these people, no, she was about to be driven crazy by that bowl of noodles!
After a long time, Yu Zhaodi learned that the original bowl of noodles still had a saying and a history, and it was called Chumen.
In the folk, when a man who intends to marry comes to the door for the first time, the woman wants to make a bowl of noodles for him at home, which means that it means for a long time.
If the man eats all the noodles, it means that he is interested in the woman and is willing to marry her. If you eat some and have some leftovers, then it means that the man is interested in the woman, but there are some specific aspects that are not very satisfied, and the parents of the two parties need to discuss together.
And if you don't eat a bite, it means that the man is not willing to have anything to do with the woman.
This method of expression is very subtle, and if both the man and the woman do not succeed, it is obviously better to save the woman's face than to reject it outright.
It's just that the first door is something that can only be done in the homes of ordinary people like them.
Like those big families and nobles, the general marriage objects are quite the door, all know the roots, even if there is no intersection in ordinary times, you can also use some opportunities such as wine banquets to exchange surnames and meet each other.
The most important thing is that when the high-ranking officials and nobles of large families get married, they all consider the interests of the family, all aspects, all kinds of interests are taken into account, and what they marry is not an individual, but the success or failure of the entire family.
Therefore, even if there is someone you don't like, you will rarely refuse, and at most marry a few concubines you like to make up for your shortcomings. Therefore, they don't need to go through this step at all.
Because of this, Yu Zhaodi didn't know that there was such a thing as Chumen, so she made such a joke.
No woman has ever eaten this bowl of noodles from Chumen in front of the man, and Yu Zhaodi can be regarded as the first person in history.
And there is a rumor among the people that it is the bowl of noodles in the first gate, whether the man eats it or not, the woman can't eat it. If the woman eats it, then she will not be able to marry for the rest of her life. For this reason, Yu Zhaodi was also worried for a long time.
Later, she thought about Ru Li's expression that night, and thought that he should know the reason for the bowl of noodles, but instead of reminding her not to eat it, he also smiled as she watched her finish the noodles. She decided that if she really couldn't get married, she would also stir up his family affairs and let him be lonely for the rest of his life!
But these are all later words, before going to bed at night, Shen Lingping came to her room and asked her impression of Ru Li. Yu Zhaodi thought of what Ru Li told her, so she picked up some good and obedient words, and in the end, Shen Lingping left very satisfied.
As soon as Shen Lingping returned to the house, Yu Qing couldn't wait to ask her, "How is it, Zhaodi's side...... You okay? ”
"It's okay, I specifically mentioned Ru Li when I talked to her just now, she didn't look very resistant, and she laughed with me and praised him for being good."
"Really?" Yu Qing was skeptical, "That kid ...... So easy to accept? ”
Shen Lingping glanced at him, "What's so strange about this, Ru Li's child was also born with a dignified appearance, and it's not strange that Zhao Di can take a fancy to him." Just ......"
"Are you worried about your family?" After so many years of husband and wife, Yu Qing naturally understands what she thinks very well.
"Alas......" Shen Lingping sighed faintly, "Did you say that the Ru family already knew about it, so they would ......?"
Yu Qing patted her on the shoulder comfortingly and said, "Actually, no matter whether they know anything or not, Zhao Di doesn't suffer a loss in this family business." It was the result of a day of deliberation.
Although he did feel that Shen Lingping's acceptance of this family affair seemed to be very hasty at first, but if you think about it carefully, sooner or later she is going to get married, and it is better to marry someone who knows the root than those blind marriages and dumb marriages. At least, Yu Zhaodi married into the Ru family, and she would not be treated badly by that side.
This is also a good home for a woman.
What's more, with their status, it would be good to be a concubine for those rich and powerful people, but what the Ru family wants this time is to let her be Ru Li's main house.
This is simply a good thing that you can't ask for.
Yu Qing slowly told Shen Lingping what she thought, which made her worry a lot less.
In view of Yu Zhaodi's good performance the night before, Shen Lingping really stopped locking her the next day, and she couldn't help but secretly praise Ru Li in her heart for being like a god. Yu Zhaodi, who was free, began to actively think of ways to make Ru Hongjiang give up the plan to let Ru Li marry her.
But after thinking about it for two days, he didn't come up with any good way, and the Ru family had not moved since Ru Li came once, so Yu Zhaodi relaxed her mind and turned her attention to other places.
Yu Niandi looked at Yu Zhaodi, who was busy coming in and out, she cleaned up the firewood room in the backyard and moved many jars into the firewood room. The jars were neatly arranged in rows, with a path in the middle that could be passed by one person. The firewood room is not big, so three rows of jars are placed in this way, and it is full.
"It's finally good." Yu Zhaodi set up the last jar, straightened up, rubbed her bent waist, and let out a long sigh.
"Zhaodi, what are you doing here?"
Yu Zhaodi looked at Yu Niandi and smiled mysteriously, "Guess? ”
Yu Niandi, who is the smartest person in the Yu family, really can't guess what she wants to do this time. Yu Pandi, who was standing at the door, also looked at her confusedly.
Yu Zhaodi looked at these jars and said faintly, "Actually, I don't know what I want to do......
"No, Yu Zhaodi, you asked Shi Shuqiang to borrow so much money, wouldn't he buy all these broken cans that can't be drunk and useless, right? Now you're telling me you don't know what you're going to do, what are you singing? (To be continued.) )