Parents teach their children by word and deed, and they teach their children subtly, without deliberately teaching at all. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

"Huh?!" Zhou Shuyi exclaimed.

was surprised that the method was so simple, and secondly, Peng Jin, as a mother, would disregard her majesty in front of her child and say "thank you" to Nuan Nuan a milk doll.

Zhou Shuyi asked herself, if Peng Jin didn't say it, she would definitely not do it herself.

"Could this be your new 'Parenting Heart Sutra'?" Zhou Shuyi asked with a smile.

Peng Jin nodded, stopped again, and said with a smile: "Actually, it's not counted." ”

Earlier, she also had such an attitude towards Nuan Nuan - democratic, open-minded, and equal, and this was the case when Nuan Nuan was still in her stomach.

For example, because she was accidentally tired, or she was depressed for a while, Nuan Nuan would react violently in her stomach and kick her, and then she would apologize to Nuan Nuan softly, work hard to adjust her state, and patiently comfort Nuan Nuan.

Seeing Zhou Shuyi's deaf and eager to ask for advice, Peng Jin pursed her lips and smiled: "Speaking of which, parents are like a mirror for children to contact and face the world, what they see from their parents, they will learn and imitate."

Therefore, if you want your children to be on the right path, parents must first be upright; If you want your child to be polite, parents must take the lead in abiding by etiquette; If you want your children to be serious, parents must not indulge in pleasure......

The so-called 'teaching by word and deed', 'peach and plum do not speak, and the next is its own', etc., this is the truth! ”

Zhou Shuyi nodded again and again when she heard this, and said with a smile: "In fact, everyone understands this truth, but not everyone can do it!" ”

The so-called "upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked", which is also such a truth.

Of course, Brother Rui will definitely not have these character problems!

It's just that Brother Rui always speaks badly, which is really worrying.

Zhou Shuyi thought so, and looked at Nuan Nuan, who was babbling and having fun, and was full of envy, and when she looked back at Brother Rui who was silent and stared at Nuan Nuan, a layer of unconcealable melancholy appeared on her face.

Peng Jin knew that Zhou Shuyi was worried about Brother Rui'er's speech, so she smiled and comforted: "So, if sister-in-law wants Brother Rui to learn to speak quickly, you have to talk to him a lot."

Also, don't worry, compared to Brother Rui'er walking on the bed in August, Nuan Nuan still has to let me hold hands before I dare to take a step!

Every child is good at something different, and we as parents can't blindly blame ourselves! ”

After being an adult for a long time, you will forget the babbling and toddler things when you were a child, and always want to use the standards of adults to demand children so that they can learn as soon as they learn, can speak good and obedient words, will rush forward, and will be knowledgeable......

But I forgot how many tortuous roads I went through, how long I endured, and how many setbacks I suffered when I first knew the world, came into contact with the world, and integrated into the world.

Zhou Shuyi looked pensive, nodded, and after a while, raised her head and smiled: "Then I'll ...... when I turn around."

Before the word "try" could be spoken, the screams and roars of Nuan Nuan and Rui Ge'er suddenly sounded.

I saw that Brother Rui didn't know how long he had been observing, probably thinking that Nuan Nuan's abacus was a good thing, without warning, he suddenly roared and rushed over, reaching out to snatch it.

Zhou Shuyi was defenseless, and was slammed by the chubby and stocky Brother Rui, and her body was crooked.

In a hurry, she freed up one hand in time to grab the edge of the table, and then stabilized her figure and hugged Brother Rui again.

Nuan Nuan, who was taken aback, came back to her senses, immediately grabbed the abacus and held it in her arms, looked at Brother Rui defensively, and swore sovereignty with a panicked and angry face: "Mine! ”

But Brother Rui saw that one blow failed, and he came with a second, three, and four strikes one after another......

Zhou Shuyi was afraid that she would hurt Brother Rui if she hugged it too tightly, and she didn't dare to tie it too hard, so she could only ensure that Brother Rui would not toss himself to the ground.

This gave Brother Rui an opportunity to take advantage of, and after swooping and grabbing again and again, finally, Brother Rui successfully grabbed the other side of the abacus, clasped it hard, opened his eyes angrily, and roared angrily at Nuan Nuan, but he could only let out a "whoop" shout.

On the other side, Nuan Nuan refused to show weakness, grabbed the other side of the abacus hard, pulled hard to her side, and a long string of words erupted from her mouth, which others couldn't understand and might not be completely clear to herself, and yelled back at Brother Rui.

Although Nuan Nuan is a few months older than Brother Rui, she has become thin because she was sick some time ago, and she has not been able to fully make up for it.

Although Brother Rui is a few months younger than Nuan Nuan, he is very strong and stocky, so his strength is not much smaller than Nuan Nuan.

For a while, the two children were in a stalemate, you fought for me, and shook an abacus bead with a rattle, but neither of them refused to give up first, the little face was red with anger, and the murderous and angry eyes flew to each other one after another, wanting to knock the object down.

Peng Jin and Zhou Shuyi were busy trying to persuade their children, but both children were in a rage, so the effect was little.

I was afraid that if I used improper force, the fingers of the two children would be hurt by the abacus beads, so the two didn't dare to pull their little hands hard, so they could only patiently coax and try to slowly separate the two of them.

Peng Yongxin and the others at the other table who heard the noise had already come over, and when they saw the two children making a fuss, their faces were red, and they were busy and asked, "What's the matter?" Don't hurt them! ”

"All rush to play this abacus!" Peng Jin sighed, Nuan Nuan is a little bully at home on weekdays, and it is not so easy to snatch things from her.

Moreover, Peng Jin didn't want to forcibly snatch the abacus to play with Brother Rui.

It's not because she prefers her daughter and doesn't love Brother Rui'er, the nephew, but Nuan Nuan is now in the stage of germination of the consciousness of property ownership, and she begins to have the consciousness of "this thing belongs to me and cannot be given to others".

And Nuan Nuan is still young, and there is no ownership and use of the object in her mind, which is a different concept, so for any advice she is asked to share, Nuan Nuan will mistakenly think that someone else wants to forcibly take away her and never return it again.

Therefore, the only thing she will do is to hold things firmly in her hands, and no one will give them to her.

What's more, Brother Rui is now angry and robbed, and Nuan Nuan will not take the initiative to give up.

If she forces Nuan Nuan to "share" or even "give", it will seriously hurt Nuan Nuan's psychology, and in the long run, if it is serious, it will even make her dare not fight for her own rights and interests when she grows up, and become cowardly and timid.

The harm is great. (To be continued.) )