Chapter 102: Strict Father and Mother

There is no doubt that Lu Bu is extremely fond of his only daughter. Although Lu Bu is capricious by nature and does not have 100% trust in his subordinates, but for his relatives and family, Lu Wenhou can still do quite well, at least much better than Liu Da'er, who broke his own son.

For such a only precious daughter, Lu Bu doesn't say anything about picking stars and moons, but at least he has fulfilled all his responsibilities as a father. As the old saying goes: if the son does not teach, the father is guilty. The son here is a general term that includes daughters. Lu Bu teaches his daughter what he needs, and he always teaches without a trace of selfishness.

Lu Bu's life can be said to be a life of wandering, and he has footprints in various places in the north. In Bingzhou, he is famous for his martial arts, in Luoyang, Sili, he will fly to the gods, Yongzhou Chang'an will kill Dong Zhuo, Hebei will fight against the Black Mountain thieves, Yanzhou Puyang will fight Cao Cao, and Xuzhou will finally have a place to settle down after passing through Qingzhou. He is not alone in the journey of tens of thousands of miles, but also his relatives and family.

When he was in power, Wen Hou's family could still take a carriage to the place where Lu Bu worked to enjoy happiness. When the situation suddenly changed, Wen Hou became a lost dog, and when the army was defeated and fled, he often couldn't take care of his family, and the wife and children of the Lu family at this time became live fish on the chopping block.

Lu Bu's family has also been constantly moving. The first time, Lu Bu followed Dong Zhuo to defeat the battle, and he still had the time and ability to flee to Chang'an with his family. The second time, Lu Bu was defeated by the hands of the Four King Kongs of Xiliang, and he was unable to take his family away. But fortunately, Pang Shu helped and hid his wife and children.

Lu Bu then defected to his fellow countryman Zhang Yang first, but Zhang Yang's power was too small to tolerate him. So Lu Bu borrowed part of Zhang Yang's men and horses to help Yuan Shao fight the Montenegrin army, but with Yuan Shao's mind, he couldn't even tolerate a single Yi, how could he tolerate Lu Bu, who had the name of a flying general? Lu Bu was unloaded and killed a donkey, and returned to Zhang Yang. Fortunately, at this time, Pang Shu sent Lu Bu's wife and children to Zhang Yang.

voted for Chen to stay with Zhang Miao, and got some of the generals supported by Zhang Miao. So under the internal response of Chen Gong, Xu Yan and others, he seized the empty Yanzhou, but the good times did not last long, and he was defeated again. Fortunately, Chen Gong Gaoshun will protect his wife and children from evacuation.

Cao Cao crusaded against Xuzhou, and Lu Bu finally learned to be smart, and placed his wife and children in the rear Xiapi in advance. As everyone knows, this time it was the trick of the old and cunning Chen Qi and Chen Deng's father and son: Lu Bu arranged for many close confidants to be next to his family, as long as Lu Bu's wife and children find a way to get to Xiapi, then those generals who are loyal to Lu Bu will naturally be transferred to Xiapi, so won't my old Chen family be able to easily control Xuzhou City at that time?

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Behind the scenery of Lu Bu's horses roaming the world and no one can stop them, how many unknown worries and fears of his family members are upside down?

So when teaching Lu Ling, Lu Bu taught him the riding skills that are unique in the world.

In the era of the Three Kingdoms, the ideological remnants of the hundred schools of thought were still very large, and Confucianism, as the supreme academic thought in name, was not very absolute. The feudal program has not yet been formed, and the etiquette and morality have not yet begun to be established. Like the extreme inequality between men and women in the world for thousands of years in the future, the situation has not been particularly apparent at this time, Cao Wei has Cao Cao's original wife Ding's refusal to remarry Cao Cao, Sun Wu has a bow waist Ji Sun Shangxiang on the horse-drawn bow, and even Shu Han Liu Bei, who claims to inherit the orthodoxy of the Han Dynasty and adheres to the exclusive status of Confucianism, also married a widow as a queen.

It can be said that in this era, it is not a deviant thing for women to learn to ride horses and fight without husbands and children, although most people are surprised, but they are still acceptable, and even give amazement and appreciation. The most representative in this regard is Sun Shangxiang, who can fight on horseback and row Liu Adou on horseback, and has no appearance of a good wife and mother at all. But Sun Wu Renshi is very proud, and even Liu Xuande, who studied under the great Confucian Lu Zhi, likes it very much.

Therefore, Lu Bu will teach Lu Ling equestrianism, which is quite reasonable and explainable. After all, there are many ways to survive with multiple skills in chaos.

So since even the most difficult equestrian skills have been taught, it is reasonable for Lu Bu to teach Lu Ling some fighting techniques. Who made me Lu Fengxian the number one general in the world? I don't have a son to inherit my name as a flying general, but I have a daughter who can't lose to an ordinary man when she fights. After all, the tiger father has no dog girl.

After teaching his father's most proud equestrian and martial arts, what else would Lu Bu teach his daughter?

Naturally, what will teach what, so what skills does Lu Bu himself have besides charging into battle?

The answer is: zither, piano, calligraphy, painting!

Don't be dazzled when you see this, that's right, in addition to charging into battle and taking the head of the general between the two armies, Wen Hou is also proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting!

Do you know what kind of official position Lu Bu held when he was recruited by Ding Yuan at the beginning?

It's the master book! He is the master in charge of the paperwork, a full scribe!

Do you know how Lu Bu escaped in the palm of Yuan Shao's hand?

In fact, Lu Bu was aware of Yuan Shao's dissenting intentions in advance, so he proposed to Yuan Shao that he be appointed as the lieutenant of Sili and take the area near Luoyang for Yuan Shao. Yuan Shao also wanted to take this opportunity to kill Lu Bu, so he agreed, and sent additional troops to Lu Bu.

Lu Bu is not really stupid, he would naively think that Yuan Shao has such good intentions. When he fought Zhang Yan's Black Mountain Army for Yuan Shao before, he kept asking for a new force but was always shirked. Now it's obvious that I'm going to start my own business, will you kindly send troops to help?

So that night, Lu Bu asked people to play the kite in the big tent, but he lurked out of the camp. Sure enough, in the middle of the night, the soldiers sent by Yuan Shao changed and rushed into Lu Bu's tent to slash and kill, but the result was naturally in vain.

Being able to bluff Yuan Jun with playing a kite is enough to prove that Lu Bu is also a little famous in terms of timbre. This can also explain to a certain extent why Lu Bu was addicted to wine and dance in the later period, and he almost couldn't extricate himself.

cited these two deeds, just to illustrate that Lu Bu is by no means only martial arts, he is by no means a brave and unwise person, at most he is unscrupulous, but it is not impossible to say that he is both martial and artistic.

This is actually related to Lu Bu's background. His father was a middle-level and high-level general in Biansai, but according to some wild biographies, his mother was a local lady and belonged to the kind of good mother who was knowledgeable and reasonable. So Lu Xiaobu played a small civil and military training, but he had different talents in martial arts, and he also dominated the world in the name of a flying general in his life.

In the end, we say that Wenhou is actually literate, and quite literate.

Because he has sufficient cultural taste, Lu Bu is under the Tiger Prison: he wears a three-pronged purple and gold crown, hangs a Xichuan red brocade and hundred flowers robe, wears a beast-faced head-swallowing chain armor, and wears a delicate lion belt around his waist; With a bow and arrow, holding a halberd, sitting down and neighing the red rabbit horse, the world let out a heartfelt sigh of "Lu Bu among the people, the red rabbit among the horses"!

Because of his basic cultural literacy, he can still be qualified for the position of a prince in the end, and there is nothing wrong with governing the huge Xuzhou.

So here, we say that Wen Hou is also the tutor of his daughter Lu Ling who has benefited for life. Lu Bu was deeply influenced by his knowledgeable mother, so he never reduced his respect and love for his wife Yan throughout his life, regardless of wealth and poverty, and the impact on his daughter Lu Ling was also quite positive, and he also unconsciously led her to the direction of a knowledgeable lady.

Compared with her husband's teaching of all aspects of her daughter's civil and military skills and some subtle influences, Yan, who has always been the first woman behind Lu Bu, has more requirements for etiquette and religion for her own daughter.

As a strong woman, Yan is full of confidence in herself like most women. Therefore, she was born in a big family, and she should be strict with her daughter. Since ancient times, it has been said that strict fathers and loving mothers produce good children. In the Lu family, because of the only child, Lu Bu, the father, doted on his daughter to the point of being a "loving father", and never taught privately on both the civil and military sides. So Yan, who has always been strong and full of wisdom, naturally doesn't want her daughter to grow into a vase, and she doesn't want her daughter to end up with her husband's first reputation, so naturally she must achieve the point of "strict mother".

This point can actually be verified in the scene of Yuan Shu's courtship. A mother who is confident that her daughter can be the queen, that is a mother who has great expectations for her daughter, and how much she should discipline her daughter and how much she pays!

So to sum up, Lu Ling has a "loving father" and a "strict mother". And because of Lu Bu's identity, Lu Ling actually lived with her mother for a longer time, so what should Lu Ling's character be?

We can only say that Lu Ling is a daughter who has often not seen her father since she was a child, and a daughter who grew up under her mother's ardent expectations; At the same time, she is also a girl who often rides in the same car with her mother Yan since she was a child, and experiences the life of being displaced and moving in each other's arms, and is a girl who has the love and protection of the strongest father in the world.

Now, Lu Ling is just a girl who murdered her father, her mother committed suicide, and she left home overnight and went to a foreign land.

She was powerless to take revenge, for her daughter was a woman, and she was alone. When she smuggled into Jiangdong from Guangling, she was just in time for a sudden storm to strike, and several die-hard guards worked hard to rescue her from the capsized boat, for which the two guards died at the bottom of the river. When I set foot on the land of Jiangnan, I realized that this is not a paradise, there are also steep mountains and rivers, and fierce mountain people. A robbery by thieves and the death of the remaining guards made her flee alone.

met the mountain people again and turned into mountain bandits, but it happened that the leader of this group, Du Laoda, died of his eldest daughter, and his mother-in-law cried endlessly, so she accepted Lu Ling, named Erya, and became the second daughter of the head of the mountain people.

It is said that the reason why Boss Du took care of his daughter was because Lu Ling's body was petite, and the amount of food was definitely not large, maybe it was not as good as the only local dog in the village who warned with his head. But being petite also has the trouble of being petite, for example, no man wants to marry Lu Ling as his wife!

The uneducated mountain people have never seen the rouge world, and they never pick a daughter-in-law with the world's beauty standards. If a man in the mountains is looking for a daughter-in-law, he has to find someone who can walk the mountain road with big feet, a thick waist and a thick waist that can climb mountains and forests, and a strong arm that can carry food with a hoe.

But a figure like Lu Ling, who is a little petite, with fine skin and tender flesh, knows at a glance that he is not doing rough and heavy work, which is not what the men in the mountains want. After marrying for a lifetime, you have to be supported as your own mother, and people in the mountains don't have this pair of chopsticks for your daughter-in-law!

So Zhang Xiu was lucky.

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