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Ning Ying's mother, Wang Mengyan, dragged one leg back and forth, and her father Ning Baojun felt sorry for his wife, and sighed helplessly: "Yingzi Niang, you are resting, what are you going to tell me, you tell me, you tell you, if you are really tired, what can you do when your in-laws come to the door?" ”

"I'm not tired...... Wang Mengyan's face was full of folds, "My daughter is getting married, I'm not tired of anything...... "I squatted down and wiped the corner of the table while looking back at my husband, "You are hairy, how can you do good?" ”

"You......" Ning Baojun was even more helpless, "I can even knit sweaters, can I wipe the ground or not?" Okay, you get up and sit down, I'll do the work, I promise, I won't let go of every corner, okay? ”

"Her father ......" Wang Mengyan simply sat on the ground, wiping a little bit, "I'm just happy, I want to do more, you said that people are mothers, they all earn this and that for their children, I'm a mother, except for dragging down my daughter, there's nothing left, at this time, my daughter is finally getting married, you have to make me feel that I still have a little use, right?" ”

"Hey......" sighed heavily, Ning Baojun wiped the corners of his eyes, indeed, everyone creates conditions for their children, and the two of them are simply creating a drag for the girl, if it weren't for them, the girl would have gotten married early, how could she stay up to such a big age?

This man is too poor for anyone to come near, including his own brother and sister and his parents.

Ning Baojun has an elder brother and a younger sister, his brothers and sisters are all able-bodied people, when he was born, his feet were a little lame, and he was sandwiched in the middle, and he was not liked by his parents since he was a child, and his brothers and sisters thought he was a drag, and he was not close.

After getting married, even more so when there was no younger brother (elder brother) of him, as for his parents, when he got married, he gave him a quilt and a mattress, and everything next to him was accumulated by him and his wife bit by bit.

Of course, the reason why the old couple did this was that they didn't believe that this son could mix well at all, so they could count on it.

On the wife's side, the father-in-law and mother-in-law and the eldest brother don't look down on people, but they live the same poor life, and they can't help if they want to.

Over the years, whether it is with relatives on my side or with my wife, I have met during the Chinese New Year, and I basically don't move around.

Even so, every time we meet, it is unpleasant, the reason is naturally because of my daughter's marriage, to be exact, since my daughter is over twenty-eight years old, the party in any year is unhappy.

The Ning family thinks that after the girl is twenty-five, don't pick and choose and don't know what to look for, especially if you want to have a family background without a family background, if you want to have a good look, what capital is there to choose?

The Wang family didn't say it so ugly, but the meaning was roughly the same, and they felt that it was an extremely embarrassing thing for a girl to be too old to find a partner and not get married, and even something that made the whole family unable to raise their heads.

However, sometimes people are really a particularly contradictory creature, since they don't want to see Ning Ying so much, can they just not show up during the New Year's holidays? The answer is, no!

Don't say that you don't show up, even if you go late, you will complain, how ugly the words are.

Therefore, the family has been really annoyed over the years, God knows how much Ning Baojun and Wang Mengyan are looking forward to their daughter getting married as soon as possible, but as the year goes by, they feel that this wish is basically impossible......

Did they blame their daughter?

The answer is no!

Why is my daughter's marriage so unhappy? Of course, it has a great relationship with them.

They have seen the young man of their first love, and they are quite satisfied, but unfortunately, not long after graduation, they found Gao Zhi'er, and broke up with their daughter, who has no power, no power and no money.

At first, they also agreed that their daughter should find a man with good conditions and let the man who looked down on others realize his mistake, but later, after a while, they realized that such an idea was unacceptable.

The family is poor, and there is only one daughter, and when they are old in the future, they will be designated to point to their daughter, which man with good conditions would be willing to marry such a girl? In particular, the daughter's appearance is not particularly outstanding.

It's just that I thought so in my heart, but I didn't dare to tell my daughter openly, for fear of hitting my daughter, and as a result, after a year of delay, when my daughter realized her mistake and wanted to take a step back, there was nowhere to retreat.

Not to mention that the conditions are good, or the conditions are average, as soon as they heard about their family's situation, they immediately retreated.

When the daughter is over 30 years old, divorced with children, a dead wife with children, disabled ......, etc., they all come to the door, and the best is nothing more than the poor family who can't open the pot......

Divorced with children and dead wives with children, daughters are not excluded, after all, age is there, but the premise is that they can talk, as a result, almost everyone is looking for a "nanny" to take care of children, even so, when they hear that they have to take care of them after marriage, they are all retreated......

As for those who say that the poor family can't open the pot, their family is already in this situation, and if they find another one like that, how will they live?

Of course, they don't discriminate against disabilities, because they themselves are a part of it, but if their daughter is healthy, if she doesn't really like it, of course she won't choose one with a physical disability, just like the two of them, if they didn't have problems, they wouldn't have come together so smoothly in the first place.

Emotional matters, which are reflected in literary works, are all pure and emotional, and in reality, they are basically realistic and rational, so in the end, even they themselves basically have to give up.

Sometimes they also think, or their daughters are unlucky, and they live in the same community, not to mention unmarried older women, even divorced women with children, are married very well......

After thinking about it, there is no family drag, and their daughter carries the heavy burden of the two of them.

Even, the husband and wife have been sick and died early, don't drag down their daughter's thoughts.

And the daughter also saw their thoughts, and clearly told them that the goal of her life is to make them happy, and if they dare to go to any extreme, she will definitely follow!

These words successfully frightened the couple, but also made them even more guilty.

Sometimes, they even regret it, knowing that they are incapable and the conditions are so poor, why should they give birth to a daughter and make her suffer? Especially when their daughters are resented by relatives on both sides, they blame themselves even more......

Because of this, even if their daughter survived until she was thirty-eight years old, they never forced their daughter in marriage, and even, they were ready for their daughter to be single for the rest of her life, and because of this preparation, the old couple paid special attention to their bodies and wanted to do their best to accompany their daughter for a longer time, and then a little longer......

Unexpectedly, just when they were desperate, their daughter actually found her own happiness!

Older, with children, at my daughter's age, it's not a problem at all! The key is to really like my daughter!

As for them, they are all ready, as long as their daughter is happy, they will take care of themselves, and they will never mix with their daughter's life, but I didn't expect that they haven't said this yet, the man first expressed his attitude, after getting married, let them also move over to live together, he will treat them as if they were biological parents, as for the daughter's side, if she is willing to have a child, she will give birth to one, and if she is not willing to want it, it is also up to her daughter's will.

Almost all the problems they have worried about, people have thought of in advance!

They are already clear about the conditions of the man's family, compared to them, although the daughter is older, but in the end she marries no worse than her cousins and cousins.

The daughter of his eldest brother's family got married early, but as a result, he left last year, but he immediately found one, but the man also brought a child, and each of them was towards his own child, and it is conceivable how noisy the life was.

The youngest daughter of the wife's eldest brother's family got married relatively late, and the conditions of the in-laws' family are average, but it is particularly difficult, before, the two of them felt that even if they married like a cousin, it was better than being so single, and now they are very happy, although they think so, they have never persecuted their daughter!

No, after the daughter's matter was really confirmed, they told the elders of the two families the good news, and after learning about the conditions of the man's family, they all looked incredulous - I don't believe that the man would be willing to let his daughter live with them!

In the end, I believed it, but what I said was not very good.

"The man is so old, and he has a child, he must want Yingzi to be a nanny to take care of them, I am afraid that Yingzi will not agree if he doesn't take you, so he will let you live together!"

"That's it, it's absolutely impossible for you to really let them take care of it, don't believe it and wait and see!"

"As for that house, it is estimated that it is not very good, maybe it is not as good as you, and when the time comes, I will deceive you, and I can sell your house to supplement the family."

"Well, this is more likely, otherwise, how could you be so kind to make such a suggestion? Unless fools! ”

“……”

In short, all the talk is that their daughter will definitely not have a good life when she marries at this age, either to be a nanny, or to be counted on the house......

Seriously, for a moment, the old couple was also a little shaken, and even, they told their daughter these words around the corner, they were really afraid that their daughter would be hurt again, then, it was really over!

As a result, the daughter told them with a smile that the designation would not be what they said, of course, she liked the man, not because of the man's conditions, but because of the other party's character, and even, told them in detail about the other party's divorce.

Subsequently, the prospective son-in-law Lu Gang and his son Lu Yi visited them in person, and the sincerity of the two was sufficient, and Lu Yi even told them very solemnly that he was an adult, and he would go by himself in the future, and he would not drag down Lu Gang and his wife, so their daughter married in the past, and she lived a down-to-earth life, and she would not be treated as a nanny, nor as a wronged leader.

Even, Lu Yi showed the photos of their family to the old couple to confirm that they were not lying, but the whole old couple was very embarrassed.

At this point, the hearts of the two people finally let go, but they didn't tell these relatives on both sides in detail, some things, others don't believe it, you say too much, people don't believe it, the days are their own, for a long time, you don't need to say it yourself, people will see it.

However, in any case, it is impossible not to notify the relatives on both sides to participate in such a major event, so when the next day is decided, the relatives on both sides still have to come over.

The elders and brothers and sisters on both sides of the matter are quite happy, saying that on the day of the marriage, they will definitely come over, and they will definitely help with the marriage, after all, Ning Ying is the only one left who is not married in the entire junior, and if you marry her well, you don't have to worry about being unable to answer when others ask!

Whether they want to raise their faces in front of relatives on both sides, or leave a good impression in front of their future in-laws, the two couples have wiped their homes countless times these days, and the dusty old house has made them feel fresh.

The walls are covered with snow-white wallpaper, the floors are shiny and shiny, and the corners of the walls and tables are cleaned.

After wiping the bottom of the table leg again, and then reaching out to wipe it, Wang Mengyan stood up satisfied, as a result, she sat for too long, her legs were a little stiff, she shook it, and almost fell, Ning Baojun was so frightened that she hurriedly stepped forward to support his wife: "Look at you, you love to be able to do it, doesn't it mean that there is nothing at all?" If you fall, it's a big problem......"

Her husband's nagging will not only not make Wang Mengyan feel annoying, but will also be full of happiness, after so many years of marriage, her husband's heart for her has never changed! In the past, when her daughter couldn't find happiness because of them, she just regretted giving birth to a daughter, but never regretted marrying her husband, and now, she neither regretted marrying her husband nor regretting giving birth to a daughter!

As soon as Ning Ying came out of the room, she saw her parents squatting on the ground wiping little by little, and hurriedly stepped forward to snatch the rag from the hands of the old couple: "Dad, Mom, do you have obsessive-compulsive disorder?" As I said, the house is clean enough that you don't need to clean up, so why don't you listen? ”

"Yingzi, that's all your dad and I can do, our conditions are not good, but when we have to let people come in, we feel that our family is not buried." Wang Mengyan smiled happily at her daughter, "This job, your father and I are happy!" ”

"I'm not happy when you're happy......," Ning Ying sighed helplessly, "When grandparents, uncles, and aunts come, do you think there's any point in what you're busy doing?" ”