Chapter 344: It's You, Me and Him (5)

Look at what you have lost, keep a normal heart, continue to gain successful experience from failure, discover what you have gained, and dig out what we really have. Pen, Fun, Pavilion www.biquge.info be a person with a normal heart and do things with an enterprising spirit, so that we can correctly estimate the happiness of life!

Without an ordinary and calm heart, you will not appreciate the true meaning of life, and you will not taste the beauty and happiness of life; If you don't cherish ordinary people, you won't create earth-shattering greatness and glory. Because, the usual embraces everything. In this complex social environment, people will experience many things, gains and losses, successes and failures. Whether you gain or lose, succeed or lose, the key is to judge the situation in the face of gains and losses, success and failure, stick to your beliefs, and always maintain a normal heart. The state of mind full of ordinary mind is a harmonious, harmonious and beautiful state. Ordinary mind is a kind of psychological state that is not swayed by feelings, not drawn by fame and fortune, has insight into the essence of things, and is completely realistic. The ordinary mind must be based on knowledge, and ignorance cannot have an ordinary mind. In a normal state of mind, life has the highest significance, and there is a broad space for behavior -- many times there are high-level tricks and tricks, and you can get out of the predicament and danger.

People do have a kind of ordinary heart, which can make people detached, make people good, and make people know that they can do what they can, and what they can't do but not do it; Know what it should do, and don't do it. Only those who dare to be ordinary can have a normal mentality, love ordinary life, and feel the mystery of life from ordinary happiness. The ancients said: Life is as thin as a cicada's wings, and existence should be satisfied, which has a certain truth. Under this weather, all troubles and difficulties can be discarded, comprehend the true meaning of life, know that it is precious, and treat everything with a peaceful mind, the Japanese scholar Suzuki Daisu said: "The morning glory by the well entangles my barrel, and I borrow water to drink." "What a broad and magnificent state of mind, and what a heart-wrenching feeling, in order to cherish a weak life, I would rather borrow water to drink, without a compassionate ordinary heart, it is difficult to do. To have a normal heart is to have a correct principle of life, not to overestimate yourself, and not to be willing to fall. With a normal heart, you will not only pursue material luxury, but drown your soul in the sea of dust.

The ordinary mind is a state of mind, and before reaching this state, the path of the mind is often extremely bumpy. Ordinary heart not only makes people have the bearing of the sea, but also makes people stable like a mountain. In the midst of the storm, the stormy waves, the pine forests rolling, but the depths of the sea are as calm as yesterday, and the mountains are immovable. Zhuge Liang said: Indifferent to Mingzhi, quiet to far-reaching. Calmly facing the rights and wrongs of the world, maintaining peace of mind at the same time, not forgetting the pursuit of ideals and the reverence for precious life, in the long run, will surely make life carry forward.

Comment on one thing with your own cognition, everything is not perfect; Use your own mind to save people, everyone has shortcomings; Asking others with their own eyes is not up to the task. The eye is a ruler, and the person is measured first; The heart is a scale, and it is called oneself first. Picking on others' faults, they also have their own imperfections; blame others for their shortcomings, and they also have their own flaws. blindly pressing people step by step will not let others go to a dead end, but will make themselves have no way out; The eyes are always fixed on right and wrong, which will not make people lose face, but will make themselves lose face. There is a way for talents in the eyes, and there is love in the heart to have a degree.

A person's tolerance comes from a heart that treats others well, a person's cultivation comes from a heart that respects others, and a person's cultivation comes from a kind heart. Only those who can tolerate others in their eyes can make people tolerate him; Only those who know how to respect others can be respected by others; A gentle attitude is always accompanied, so that you can be peaceful everywhere. Don't judge a person with your own judgment, and don't let your emotions ripple through others. Each person is an individual and should respect the choices of others. People can't be domineering, domineering and friendless; The heart cannot be selfish, and selfishness is sleepy. There is love and friendship in the heart, and the world can be contained in the eyes. The road is not in the actions of others, but in self-cultivation.

Meditate and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others. There should be room for doing things, and there should be some morality in speaking, and the evil words are not enough to lose one's life, but they are enough to lose one's virtue, and the evil of words is greater than making false accusations. People's mouths should spit out the truth and good words, and do not make things out of nothing. The mouth is a hurting axe, the words are the tongue-cutting knife, the words are measured, and the banter is measured. Knowing people doesn't have to be exhausted, leaving some virtues; The blamer does not have to be harsh, leave some stomach; There is no need to fight for reason, but to be tolerant; You don't have to do everything, leave some virtue. Ask yourself more questions and blame less; Be more introspective and less critical. If you are conscious, you will find problems within yourself, and if you are not enlightened, you will only shoot arrows at others. Be kind to others and be kind to yourself; There is a way with others, and there is a retreat for yourself. Others are not held accountable, there is no thought of kindness to others, love others first, love yourself first, and blame others before asking your heart. Those who are filthy on the earth are full of living things, and those who are clear in the water often have no fish. You need to be tolerant of your partner, and you need to be tolerant of your friends. A gentleman has the grace to tolerate others, and will not compete for trivial things. Everyone is like a cup with a notch, as long as you don't look through the gap, the cup is complete. If a friend is panicked with you, you should consider whether he is in trouble; When others cause you trouble, you should face it calmly. Don't be arbitrary, don't rush things out, wisdom doesn't give rise to troubles, and compassion has no enemies. True love is to take care of your own heart; True compassion is in every word and deed we do in our daily lives.

Only with a mind like the sea can we have a life like the sea; With the tranquility of the sea, you can calm the waves. Being a man is like the sea, with ups and downs, and no waves. The heart is wide so it can be accepted, and the sea is wide so it can be wide. Smiling in the face of harm is self-cultivation, and ignoring ridicule is tolerance. If you have the clarity of water, you are not afraid of suspicion; If you have a heart for water, you are not afraid of gossip; If you have the tranquility of water, ignore the distractions. No fighting, no discrimination, no fear, no fear. The fool seeks the realm but not the heart, and the wise man seeks the heart but not the realm. Troubles are like the wind, rising without roots; Sorrow is like snow, coming from nowhere. Think for others, live for yourself, do not take advantage of things, and do not be demanding. The road must be measured with heart, and life must be completed by oneself. The purpose is the scenery, the forgiveness is tolerance, the concession is compassion, and the indisputable is wisdom. Do things, advance and retreat; To be a man, the heart is boundless, and there is a degree. Look down on the troubles, look down on the gains and losses, come, go, and rejoice with the fate. Fame and fortune are all fleeting, don't force it if it's not your own. A true gentleman is one who knows that there is an opportunity to invest but is unmoved. Being a man does not seek a clear conscience, but only a clear conscience.

Everything that happens is seen as a difficult encounter. Fall, just to get up stronger; Frustration, only for better success. It is better to rejoice in the betrayal of a friend than to know at the end; If you are badly betrayed behind someone's back, don't be annoyed and expose it, so that you can see the true face of people. Look at things with joy, and everything is born for me; Treat others with gratitude, everyone is my teacher. Relatives let you know great love, friends let you know gratitude, opponents let you know tolerance, and villains let you know to see clearly. A good mood comes from a good quality, and a good quality comes from a good attitude. The eyes are wide enough to accommodate people, and the heart is wide to jump out of the Three Realms. Enron, natural; Suddenly, leisurely. (To be continued.) )