Chapter 419: Tonghua (14)

There is no shortage of vigorous and outstanding people in the world, but there are always ordinary people, and the reality that everyone wears a wedding dress must not exist, and there must be someone who makes a wedding dress. If you can do what you can do in ordinary practical work, I think this should also be a reflection of your own value.www.biquge.info From young to white-headed, from complacent to ordinary, how many compromises will we need to go through, this compromise makes us more steady, I think this should also be another success in life, shouldn't we feel happy and satisfied?

A poem by the famous poet Hai Zi "Facing the Sea in Spring" has been passed down as a masterpiece by the world, "From tomorrow, be a happy person." Feed the horses, chop wood, and travel the world. From tomorrow, care about food and vegetables. I have a house facing the sea and spring is blooming. Reading between the lines fully reflects the poet's understanding of happiness, so plain and so simple. Peking University was a talented but untimely death, only twenty-five years old when he died, it is a pity that he was in the prime of life, this is a poem published two months before his death, it should be a kind of epiphany of his happiness. Mo Yan also said in response to the reporter's question about happiness after winning the Nobel Prize in Literature, "Happiness is not thinking about anything, letting go of everything, being healthy, and having no mental pressure." "These two famous people are supposed to be wise men, and their hearts will have a higher spiritual pursuit of the real society and their own life and work, but their understanding of happiness coincides with such simplicity and plainness. If Mo Yan can have such an understanding when he is almost old, it must be the life insight he has gained after countless compromises, and it is rare for Haizi to be so awake at the young age of twenty-five.

Happiness is simple, compromise is a must, life is painful and happy.

Modern people are under too much pressure, and at the same time have many expectations and requirements, many people have too much dissatisfaction with the real society and their own life and work, and I can always find a point that can make me feel satisfied in many unsatisfactory situations, perhaps this should be attributed to my own understanding after a certain life experience.

I think that a person's life is never smooth sailing, and life is a process of constant compromise. Compromise again and again may leave us with too many regrets and unwillingness, and compromise again and again will make us suffer a lot of pain, but after meditating and thinking, we slowly learn to let go and get a feeling, this kind of understanding will let us know how to choose, know what to insist on and give up, and many times taking a step back will be the sea and the sky. This kind of perception can make people settle down, and feel the happiness they have in reality more attentively and be satisfied.

Since ancient times, unsatisfactory things have always existed in the real society, and the society will not disappear in the future, but the society we see is always improving, and people's living standards are also constantly improving. I never oppose the cry of those righteous people, which to a certain extent strongly spurs the development of fairness and social progress, but I do not think that for those who can only complain. We must not only see the dark side of society, but also see the progressive side of society, not just blindly cynical, but also need everyone to start from themselves.

Some people may think that I am an extremely negative thought, and I think I am just an optimist, I understand this as a compromise, but this compromise is by no means an endorsement of that unsatisfactory thing, let alone complicity, but the courage to face the objective existence of ugly phenomena in reality, and treat it with a plain attitude to give hope, allow for a process of continuous improvement and perfection, and at the same time strictly self-restraint.

This is true in the real society, and it is not the same for personal love, marriage and practical work. We will all have our own understanding and pursuit in love and marriage, who has not had a vision of ideal love when they were young, and has planned for a happy family life, but romantic and passionate love is only a short time, and family life is not only warm and beautiful, and finally in the process of continuous compromise again and again, I have to admit that plain is true, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar is the nature of life. From the former idealist, who had strict requirements for a perfect love marriage to having to face the reality and admit and allow the existence of flaws, he experienced a lot of painful struggles, but the compromises again and again made his heart more and more firm and peaceful, and more and more able to truly feel happiness and satisfaction from the plainness and bits and pieces.

There may be many people who still adhere to their original beliefs and pursuits and are not willing to accept reality, but such insistence is nothing but adding too much pain and trouble to themselves for no reason, even if they give up this way of life that they think they don't want, it is not another compromise, and how can the new way of life they have is what they wanted in the first place. I respect those who hold on, but I really can't do it anymore.

At work, when he was young, who was not full of ambition and enthusiasm, but after many years, in addition to impetuousness, he precipitated and thought carefully, what he wanted to do and how to do it. In fact, in actual work, it is more necessary for us to have a sense of responsibility and normalcy, be honest and do things in a down-to-earth manner. There is no shortage of vigorous and outstanding people in the world, but there are always ordinary people, and the reality that everyone wears a wedding dress must not exist, and there must be someone who makes a wedding dress. If you can do what you can in ordinary practical work, I think this should also be a manifestation of your own value. From young to white-headed, from complacent to ordinary, how many compromises will we need to go through, this compromise makes us more steady, I think this should also be another success in life, shouldn't we feel happy and satisfied?

A poem by the famous poet Hai Zi "Facing the Sea in Spring" has been passed down as a masterpiece by the world, "From tomorrow, be a happy person." Feed the horses, chop wood, and travel the world. From tomorrow, care about food and vegetables. I have a house facing the sea and spring is blooming. Reading between the lines fully reflects the poet's understanding of happiness, so plain and so simple. Peking University was a talented but untimely death, only twenty-five years old when he died, it is a pity that he was in the prime of life, this is a poem published two months before his death, it should be a kind of epiphany of his happiness.

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