Chapter 374: Forgetting Hope (19)

Life is like this, whether it has been grasped or gone, those things cannot be left, although some things cannot be looked back, and some people can only be buried forever. There is a kind of love hanging teardrops in the pen & fun & pavilion www.biquge.info but it is very poignant, it is called giving up! Although it is painful to give up, it is also a kind of happiness to have, feelings cannot be forced, if you hold on to it, it is also scars and pain that you grasp. Grip the handle tightly, there is nothing in it, and let go of the handle. What you have is everything.

The expectations of others will become their own disappointments; Dependence on others will become one's own pain; Attempts to possess others will become a prison for oneself; On the contrary, patience with others will become one's own peace; Letting go of others will become your own freedom; The dedication to others will become their own gain; Compassion for others becomes forgiveness for oneself.

Actually, I'm tired. I'm used to pretending to be happy, pretending to be sad, pretending to care, pretending not to care, and being alone in the face of everything. I can say it's okay when it's painful. I can say it doesn't matter when I'm sad. I can laugh when I'm lonely. I can say that the world is still beautiful in times of despair. I just hope that when I start complaining about God's stinginess, someone can say to me that I feel sorry for you.

You can be angry, but you can't trample on the dignity of others. You can be proud, but you can't be arrogant. You can fail, but you can't give up on yourself. You can succeed, but not at the expense of others. You can be happy, but you can't overdraw the happiness of tomorrow.

No matter how annoying you are, don't forget to smile; No matter how urgent you are, you must also pay attention to the tone; No matter how bitter it is, don't forget to persevere; No matter how tired you are, you must love yourself; Be a low-key person, and you will be more stable every time; Do things in a high profile, but not out of tune. Growing old is a compulsory course in life, and becoming mature is an elective course. Laziness, like rust, consumes the body more than exertion; The philosopher is carefree, and the wise man is always happy, not because he has everything he loves, but because he loves everything he has.

In life, there are many people who meet each other, but not many people who know each other; In life, there are many acquaintances, and there are not many people who depend on each other, the world is not lacking a friend who speaks, but longs for a friend who understands himself and understands himself. If, in life, there is such a person, you must remember one word: cherish.

When we are sick, we find that health is the most important thing; When we are sad, we find that happiness is the most important thing; When we fall out of love, we find that being in love is the most important thing; When we are poor, we find that money is the most important thing; When we are depressed, we find that faith is paramount; When we pass away, we find that time is the most important thing...... Later, we finally realized that all the hindsight was just due to not knowing how to cherish.

There are many, many roads to walk in life, but there are only a few important steps; There are many, many things to say in a lifetime, but there are only a few important ones; You will know many, many people in your life, but there are only a few important ones. The difference between a successful person and a loser may simply lie in the fact that they take one or two more steps right, say one or two more words correctly, and make one or two more friends.

When we make mistakes, misses, and failures, we are always busy making reasons, excuses, and steps for ourselves, and rarely find reasons from our personal subjectivity: is it the wrong direction when we choose, and the farther we go, the more completely wrong we will be; Is it that he doesn't insist enough, walking a hundred miles and half ninety; Whether the method is unreasonable, the steps are incorrect, or the lack of learning ability and execution, you must admit that you are not good enough. Self-reflection is a shortcut to growth.

In our lives, we always have to see a lot of people who are much better than ourselves. If you always see people who are worse than you, then you have to reflect on whether your life is constantly sinking? If you're constantly encountering people who make you look up to you as you move forward, then congratulations, you're constantly improving. You will have low self-esteem, but this low self-esteem can be turned into motivation.

There are often only a few moments that move you in your life, as if, when you live, you are waiting for these moments, waiting for them to become eternal. People look for different landscapes, in the end, in order to find a figure that makes their eyes shine, and their hearts are refreshing, when we can't find it, we will be lost, we can't look for it, and we will want to break free.

The smile always belongs to you and looks forward, and the sunshine smile is waiting for you

Hope is to look for the shadow of optimism with a flashlight in the haze of pessimism.

Bones support the body, hope supports the spirit, if there is only the body without the spirit, it is a zombie, a mess of rotten meat, and the spirit dissipates. Therefore, spirit is indispensable, and hope is a must.

Hope should be positive, measured, with an upper limit and a lower limit, but it should not be blind, without edges, without borders, like a whimsical air, flying around, running blind for a while, and so on, neither the east nor the north can be found, a brain of paste.

Subjective attitude determines the size of hope, how cheerful the heart is, how big the hope is, objective efforts determine the quality of hope, the more blood is shed, the thicker the flesh is lost, the harder, the more hard work, the better the quality of hope.

Lying on the bed, shaking the fan, rolling his eyes, fantasizing about stepping on a gold nugget on the road today and a pie falling from the sky tomorrow, this is not a hope, it is an extravagant hope. Having exceeded the maximum range of hope, the hands flew and broke the dial, and hope was shattered, and it turned into an unrealistic extravagance, and the heart was lazy, and the person was lazy, and the depravity was born.

I don't stretch out my hands, I don't kick my feet, I am afraid of suffering in big things, I am annoying in small things, I don't do anything, and I am lazy. No matter how great the hope is, nothing will come of it, and even if it bears fruit, it will be sour, bitter, and not yet ripe.

I didn't work hard at the beginning, but now I don't have to eat, I knew that this was the result, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment in the end, and the hope of losing proportion is a puddle of water, which can be seen and touched, but it can't be grasped.

Hope is not free, it is not an empty shout, come to a plate of hope, God will immediately offer it with both hands, at least sow a seed first, leave the spring cultivation, as the cost of buying hope, so as to be qualified to have a moderate hope for the autumn harvest.

There are many varieties of hope, rich styles, and high and low quality. The more cells are mobilized, the more energy is output, and the more time is burned, then the hope of buying is definitely the best quality, absolutely resistant to falls, pressure, wear, and corrosion.

(To be continued.) )