Chapter 501: Every Family Is Like This (Two in One)
Xia Jingru looked at her little cousin with envy: "Xiao Wu'er, my sister really envy you, you can handle everything so well, how can you handle everything so well, how can it be like me, always like a reel, spinning around, always spinning in place, hey......"
"Sister, you can't always be so arrogant, compared to me, you can be considered good enough......" Xia Luowu looked at Xia Jingru with a serious face, "If I lived a life like you since I was a child, I would definitely not be more confident than you." Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info"
What she said is indeed the truth, whether it was her in the past or she is now, she is very lucky, she has a family that really loves her, unlike Xia Jingru, her father doesn't love her mother, and it is not easy to be so good in that environment.
Thinking of her, she used to have such good conditions, but her family was ruined, and now the original owner, although her mother protects her very much, is also timid and cowardly, so no matter which one of them is, Xia Jingru's life will definitely not be as good as Xia Jingru's life.
Xia Luowu's expression was so serious, at first glance, it was not a nice deception, Xia Jingru's mood also flew inexplicably, such a powerful little cousin said that she did a good job, she was sincere!
The two sisters chatted and really alleviated Xia Jingru's premarital phobia.
When Changdong came back in the evening, he saw his little fiancΓ©e, who was obviously different from before, and wondered, why did he change so much after he went out for a day? As soon as he came back, Xia Luowu dodged away to create conditions for the young couple who were about to get married, yes, Changdong looked at it for a while, then put his arm around Xia Jingru's shoulder and asked, "Ruru, what happened today?" Look like you're so happy, right? β
"Xiao Wu'er said, I grew up in that environment, and it's very good to be able to be like this......" Xia Jingru couldn't hide the smile on the corner of her lips, "She really praised me and recognized me." β
"Fool...... Changdong took her in his arms and sighed softly, "You, you are indeed very good, otherwise how can I like you?" Looks like you didn't listen to all I said, didn't you? β
"It's different......" Xia Jingru broke free and looked at him seriously, "We are lovers, you may often say nice things to coax me, so I must let myself have the ability to discern, and I can't take all the words you praise me seriously." β
"Crooked...... Changdong looked at her helplessly, "According to what you say, what I say to you, as long as it is not opinionated, you don't take it seriously?" β
"Not really." Xia Jingru smiled embarrassedly, "Okay, don't pursue this matter, I promise, I won't be arrogant in the future, okay?" β
"Okay...... Changdong stretched out his hand to scratch her nose, "and he will do what he says he will do." β
"Definitely." Xia Jingru's chin nodded out of the door, "Xiao Wu'er's father is still down there?" β
"Yes." Changdong nodded, "Why did he come over today?" β
"Xiao Wu'er's sister came today, said that she was going to study abroad, came to say goodbye, and told Xiao Wu'er's grandmother that her father had reformed and asked Xiao Wu'er's grandmother to forgive him.
Actually, Xiao Wu'er's grandmother should have forgiven him a long time ago, but because of Xiao Wu'er's face, she didn't admit it, and when Xiao Wu'er's sister said that today, she looked at Xiao Wu'er, no matter what she thought in her heart, did Xiao Wu'er have to express her position? β
Speaking of this, Xia Jingru pouted dissatisfiedly, "So, no matter how good Xiao Wu'er is to her grandmother, in fact, the old lady is still worried about those unsuccessful sons and grandsons in her heart." β
"This is also human nature...... Changdong patted her soothingly, "Just like your grandfather and grandmother to your father, don't you also forgive him again and again, and give him opportunities again and again?" This time, I was really heartbroken, so I followed your sister-in-law to the capital.
But I dare to guarantee that if your father puts on a corrective posture, your grandparents will be the first to relent, and as long as he needs it, your grandparents will also return to him as soon as possible, believe it or not? β
After being silent for a long time, Xia Jingru had to nod and admit that it was indeed the case, thinking about how many unreliable things her father had done before, but as long as he admitted his mistake, even if his grandparents were fierce, they would still treat him well or how they would treat him in the future.
If it weren't for her father and her mother becoming more and more excessive, her grandparents would not have lived with her sister-in-law, and as for what she can do now, it is also because her father was played by the newly married woman.
But to say that they really don't worry about her father in their hearts, she doesn't believe it at all, as far as the Chinese New Year is concerned, her grandparents look very happy, but as long as the second elder stays alone, his expression will inevitably be a little lonely.
What does this mean?
She believes that her sister-in-law's family can also see it, but everyone doesn't say it.
She also asked her grandparents privately if they were unhappy for the New Year in Yincheng, but the second elder denied it, saying that they were very adaptable to the capital, and there were old partners around them who could speak, so they would not feel uncomfortable because they couldn't go back to Yincheng for the New Year.
And the second elder also said that what her father did really broke their hearts, which is also the reason why they said that they would not return to Yincheng for the New Year this year, as for what will happen in the future, the second elder shook his head and didn't say much.
The meaning couldn't be more obvious, of course they still hoped that her father would change for the better, otherwise, they would die of words.
So thinking about it this way, Mrs. Luo's approach is normal, and compared to her grandparents, Mrs. Luo doesn't seem to be doing too much, and she was upset for Xiao Wu'er just now, to put it bluntly, it is nothing more than because she is completely on her aunt's side.
"It seems that I have a lot to learn from you......" Xia Jingru looked at Changdong with a serious face, "Originally, I was afraid that Xiao Wu'er would be unhappy, so I kept holding back and didn't mention it, but I felt uncomfortable in my own heart, and when I heard you say this, I felt that I was really too one-sided." β
"People are like this...... Changdong smiled bitterly, "Even if you are a parent, it is impossible for a bowl of water to be so flat, and each of us looks at the problem from our own point of view, and there will naturally be many contradictions."
Of course, it's not that these troubles are all found by ourselves, sometimes, it's true that the water end of the parents is too uneven, just like my family, when my grandparents were alive, they could go to my uncle's family.
When my parents got married, my grandparents didn't care about anything, and our family was able to be what it is today, all because my father worked hard, and I also know that the rumors about me from the outside world have always been bad, but do you know why I am such a character? β
Sighing, Changdong continued, "Actually, when I was young, I didn't have such a character, but under the partiality of my grandparents, I found that if I was always so serious, I might really be bullied to death, and my parents would always make wedding clothes for my uncle's family."
So, I've changed, cynical, moody, love whoever I want, as long as I get angry, I'll play with him, at first my grandparents didn't take it seriously, thinking that scaring and scaring me would work, but later I found out that I was really desperate and not afraid of death, so they didn't dare to stand up to me.
Of course, I can succeed without my father's support, his tolerance of grandparents is nothing more than because he is their biological son, there is no way, since my method has worked, he is simply happy to see it.
Do you know, when my family first started doing business, my grandparents were sneering at my father, meaning that my parents were whimsical and felt that they were still like my uncle, who had a good job and face in the government unit.
But after my dad's business made money, they began to say something to my dad, brothers worked together, worked together to break the money, let my dad take the money to my uncle to get in touch, and said that my uncle was too big to protect my dad.
After being rejected by my father, the old couple sat at the door and scolded my father for having no conscience, and in the end, my father couldn't bear the pressure and gave my uncle a sum of money according to their request.
They took the money, not only did they not praise my dad's approach, but they also reprimanded my dad with a cold face, saying that he had done the right thing a long time ago, and then, the conditions that our family had just changed fell back again.
It was also after that time that I forced myself to make a change, they came to my house again to ask for money, I took a knife and fought with them, my reason is also very simple, the money was given to my uncle, I can't afford to go to cram school, and the person who delays my future is my enemy......"
Speaking of this, Changdong shook his head helplessly, "So, I can't say how to evaluate the old people of that era, some of them may be really good, but some of them are so inexplicably eccentric."
Fortunately, my grandparents died early, otherwise, our family still had some trouble, after they died, our family and my uncle's family simply cut off contact, my uncle came to the door once, was scolded by me, and since then, there has been no contact.
Of course, he didn't make any stumbling blocks for our family, but with the development of my family's industry, the more he went on, the more he couldn't intervene, and without the ties of my grandparents, my dad wouldn't get used to him. β
Speaking of this, Changdong stretched out his hand and put his hand on Xia Jingru's shoulder to hold her and shake her, and said with a smile, "How about it, listen to me talk about this history, do you find that we still have something in common?" β
"Why is every parent partial?" Xia Jingru looked at Changdong with a distressed expression, "Look, your grandparents are eccentric, my grandparents are eccentric, and Xiao Wu'er's grandparents are also eccentric, fortunately you are the only one in your family, otherwise, it would be sad to think about it." β
"yes, so it's the right thing for you to look for me, right?"
"Is it any time you can find words to boast?" Xia Jingru looked at Changdong speechlessly, "It turns out that this person's personality really wants to change, look at you, how natural is this cheeky now." β
"yes, if you weren't cheeky, how could I chase you?" The smile on Changdong's face faded, and he looked at Xia Jingru seriously and said, "I'm telling you this, there is another reason, when we get married, I can't guarantee that my uncle's family will go to join in the fun, and when the time comes, you will be indifferent to them, no matter what they say or do, you don't have to care." β
"You mean they may still find trouble with me......" Xia Jingru was speechless, "Just like the relationship between the two families, they still have the face to provoke my trouble?" He pouted, "Don't worry, I won't bother with them!" β
"That's right." Changdong's eyes were unconsciously filled with a smile, and he was really grateful for Xia Luowu's help, look, this has been figured out, the state of the whole person is different, and Xia Jingru before will definitely panic when he hears that someone is looking for trouble.
"No, I'm still curious, what qualifications do they have to come to me for trouble?" Xia Jingru looked at Changdong with a look of curiosity, "You haven't been in contact much for so many years, where did they get the confidence to give me a solution, okay?" β
"Well, you will understand when you see my aunt, it is absolutely eight-sided exquisite, to be honest, to describe her with the word eight-sided exquisite, it is a bit derogatory to use the word eight-sided exquisite, she, even if she hates you to death in her heart, she will still have a bright smile on her face.
Then, hasn't my family been developing better and better in the past few years, but my uncle is fixed in the position of a small section chief and does not move, she is not in a hurry, it is useless to come forward by herself, so I want her niece to come forward......"
Speaking of this, Changdong spread his hands, "You understand what I said, right?" She won't be difficult for you, but I'm sure she'll say something in front of you that will make you feel uncomfortable, so I have to give you a vaccination in advance.
As for her kind of person, it's not that if she doesn't invite her to get married, she won't really go, when the time comes, their family will really go, and on the day of the big day, it's really hard for the listeners to pull down their faces and beat them out, right? β
"Oh, I see." Xia Jingru's face was eager to try, "I'll discuss with Xiao Wu'er to see if there is a way to make your eight-faced aunt half angry......" said that he stood up helplessly and was about to go out.
Changdong grabbed her and hugged her tightly: "Why are you in such a hurry to leave, people have suffered so many injuries when they were children, do you want to comfort me well when you know?" β
Xia Jingru: "......" someone who was kissed with seven meat and eight vegetarians, a few words "stinky and shameless" came to his heart!
After dinner, a group of people went to the restaurant to solve it, and Mrs. Luo, who reunited with her son, was in a very good mood, and ate an extra bowl of rice for dinner.
Of course, the second elder of the Xia family understood what she meant, if it weren't for her daughter's generosity, it would be impossible for Mrs. Luo to live here, this is for fear that they will be unhappy, and try their best to please them, how can the second elder who also has a difficult scripture to read at home really care about her?
Mrs. Xia interrupted Mrs. Luo, who had been talking good things: "Old sister, we are happy for you, really." β