For Zhao Yaru's infatuation and persistence with Wang Yang, Xia Luowu and Zhou Yuanyuan are both helpless and distressed, indeed, Zhao Yaru is such a personality, what she recognizes, it is basically impossible for outsiders to want to influence her, just like her recognition of Zhou Yuanyuan and Xia Luowu, from the moment she recognizes them, no matter who says bad things about them, it is her Zhao Yaru's enemy, unless, the two of them really did something to hurt her, or when she saw it with her own eyes and all kinds of evidence was conclusive, It was possible to make her mind change. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

This is a persistent and loyal girl, it's just that in the relationship, if you meet a good man who is really good to her, it is an advantage, but if you meet an inappropriate man, it is really a hardship.

Zhou Yuanyuan turned her attention to Xia Jingru, who had been listening to the excitement and didn't say a word: "Jingru, what is your opinion?" ”

"Huh?" Xia Jingru, who was coldly named, was stunned for a moment, I don't know why this question fell on her, the problem is, she doesn't understand, how should this opinion be published?

"It's okay, you just talk about your views based on what you hear, combined with reality." Zhou Yuanyuan looked at Xia Jingru encouragingly, "Brainstorming and soothing your own opinions can help Yaru, right?" ”

Xia Jingru really began to think about it seriously, and then looked at Zhao Yaru's expression, and saw that the other party was not bored, so she spoke: "I'm quite inexperienced emotionally, but I think that if I love someone, I won't let the other party suffer again, if I can, I hope he will never bear everything I have endured."

But in the same way, if he loves me, he should also think the same as me, the two of them are together to make life better, and not to take the common suffering as the only criterion for determining the truth of the relationship.

In principle, we all think that boys should spoil girls a little more, but I think that it doesn't have to be that men have to bear more and women bear less, the key is whether both parties are willing to bear for each other.

Asking for it and being willing are two different things, and if my boyfriend asks me to suffer as much as he does, or else he thinks I don't love him, then I will seriously consider our relationship. ”

Although there is no direct conclusion, Xia Jingru's meaning is also obvious, and it is absolutely consistent with Xia Luowu's opinion of Zhou Yuanyuan.

"Yaru, why did I ask Jingru to also talk about her thoughts, because, the age difference between us is not too big, Xiao Wu'er is the youngest, but her mind is very mature, and Jingru is a person who is already going to get married, so emotionally, she must naturally have her opinions.

As for me, although I have never been in love, it does not mean that I am an idiot emotionally, and the marriage of the people around me, or even the marriage of our parents' relatives, can be used as a mirror for us.

You should know the character of Uncle Zhao and Aunt Zhao, they have never been people who hate the poor and love the rich, and even, since childhood, they have asked you not to fight for something that you know has no results, but this time, why are you so opposed to being with Wang Yang?

When everyone around you is thinking against you, you should really think about it, are all of us blind? All the people are looking at Wang Yang with colored eyes?

Yes, do you think we don't want you to suffer so we will object to you being with Wang Yang, but in this society, no matter whether you are too lazy or not, as long as you are willing to work hard, who dares to say whether you will be poor or rich in the future?

Don't bully the pulsatilla, don't bully the poor young man, he is only in his twenties, we will never veto him because of economic conditions, what we veto is his way of doing things, and it is his excessive requirements for you.

Don't you think that his demands show that he is a person with extreme inferiority? kept saying that he had to rely on his own efforts to make his family happy, and he couldn't let Uncle Zhao and Aunt Zhao be affected, and he would rather boil it step by step than take shortcuts.

Yes, it was his persistence that made you make up your mind to stay with him, but Yaru, you have been with me for so many years, and your grandfather never missed you when he taught me, do you really agree with his point of view from the bottom of your heart?

When effective resources are in front of you, you have to run your legs to find resources again, and then, use ten days or even half a month to complete things, but the result is the same as doing it in one day, is it really worth it? ”

Zhou Yuanyuan's analysis and questioning made Zhao Yaru speechless, but even so, looking at her face, she could still see her thoughts - she didn't want to give up.

Sighing and looking at Xia Luowu, Zhou Yuanyuan said: "Are you looking at me like a bear now, the emperor is not in a hurry, the eunuch is in a hurry?" Let me tell you, I am really afraid that she will take the wrong path and regret it for the rest of her life, this fool is now very unhappy for Wang Yang and Uncle Zhao and Aunt Zhao, Aunt Zhao already has high blood pressure, she will continue to toss like this......" sighed, Zhou Yuanyuan did not say any more.

When it comes to her parents, Zhao Yaru's face finally changed, and it can be seen that she is also very worried about her mother's body, but at the same time, she can't let go of Wang Yang, so Zhao Yaru, who looks like nothing now, should be the most painful person.

"Actually, I quite understand your feelings...... "After a moment's hesitation, Xia Jingru continued, "I have a good friend who encountered the same thing as you, and she was also very painful at that time, I have been by her side during that time, I can fully understand what it feels like, that is, the truth is there, everyone knows what is going on, but the parties in the relationship just can't get out of that horn."

Of course, you will never feel that you are drilling the horns of the bull now, you just feel that everyone's concept is different from yours, because everyone has not found Wang Yang good, and what you like is the things that everyone thinks are bad about him.

Even, do you think that such a person can really live a life together in a down-to-earth manner, to be honest, it may not be ......" After a pause, she continued, "We just met for the first time, and speaking of which, I have no qualifications or position to say this."

However, now that your parents are involved, Xiao Wu'er and Sister Yuanyuan are so anxious about you, then, when I have seen such a thing with my own eyes, I can't really pretend that I didn't see anything.

My suggestion is that if you think everybody's opinion is wrong, then you can arrange a play to test him, and I'll tell you how my friend ended up solving the problem.

At that time, she was really trapped in that relationship and couldn't extricate herself, and several of our sisters who lived in the same dormitory were very anxious for her, and they were really afraid that if something happened to her family, she would regret it for the rest of her life, and the eldest sister among us had an idea that sounded bad at the time.

That is to go behind my friend's back, find a girl that the man doesn't know to test her boyfriend, and the girl's identity and background, and my friend are completely two extremes, let me tell you, the result of the temptation is that on the one hand, the man is telling my friend that the two of them can live a good life by working the other hand, when another girl, well, a girl with a particularly good family background, is willing to accept him and help him, he dumped my friend in seconds.

When my friend heard about the breakup, he was very sad, and cried and asked the man, didn't he say that the two of them would live a hard life together and be together for a lifetime? Why did it suddenly change? Then the man said that he also wanted the two of them to stay together and be together for the rest of their lives, but he couldn't afford to let my friend suffer with him for a lifetime, so it was better to let my friend live and let her find her own happiness.

My friend went back to the dormitory crying, saying that we were all wrong, that the man had been bullying her and that she was selfish with him, in fact, he was not selfish at all, and now, he chose to let go for the sake of her happiness.

Then, we took her to watch a good show, and, in front of the man, exposed his ugly appearance, and the rich girl was our eldest cousin, and she revealed her identity at that time, and clearly told my friend that the man was an absolute scumbag.

Actually, what the man said to our eldest cousin, we can guess with a guess, it is nothing more than that he doesn't like my friend, what about him, in order not to make my friend sad, he has been with her, and now that he has met his true love, of course he can't deceive others and deceive himself like this......

Anyway, the gold is all on his face, you say that a shameless man like this, if you really want to live with him for a lifetime, how sad it is, in fact, can you still talk about it in this life, if this man is developed, it is a matter of minutes to be kicked, if the man is not developed, then follow him to suffer for the rest of his life.

Of course, I'm not saying that Yaru is the same for the one you encountered, but since you are quite entangled yourself, it is better to test it in that way, no matter who is right, the result will not be too bad, right? ”

Zhao Yaru was a little entangled, feeling that it was disrespectful to Wang Yang to do this, but now, everyone is against it, and her parents are also against it, and she is also uncomfortable in her heart, or, if you try it like this, everyone will be relieved......

But who to let go?

"Just let Jingru go." Zhou Yuanyuan came up with an idea and said, "He has seen Xiao Wu'er and me, definitely not, we can't believe the people next to us, so ......" She looked at Xia Jingru with a smile, "Are you confident?" ”

Xia Jingru licked her lips a little nervously: "I'...... I can't. ”

"What's not to do? Listening to what you just said is reasonable, and besides, you've already participated in one of these operations, there must be no problem, right? However, ......" looked straight, Zhou Yuanyuan said seriously, "You have to say hello to your fiancé first, if he agrees, you can go, if he doesn't agree, don't do it well."

It's a big deal, just delay it for a few days, my cousin is back from vacation, and it's the same to ask her to help, anyway, as long as it's during this time, Yaru will do foolish things......" She looked at Zhao Yaru and discussed, "Didn't he say that you would take a vacation to let you go to see his parents, you better not be in a hurry, wait until you are sure, right?" ”

"Okay." Zhao Yaru responded, she is not a person who doesn't know what to do, her best friend has been worrying about her affairs, if she is so unappreciative, she really doesn't know what to do.

After discussing the matter, Xia Jingru called Changdong to talk about it, and after listening to the detailed description, Changdong immediately refused, and asked Xia Jingru to give the phone to Xia Luowu, and asked directly: "Xiao Wu'er, do you think your sister has that ability?" ”

"Brother Dongzi, what do you think, just say it, don't ask me." As soon as Xia Luowu heard it, she knew that Changdong was angry with her, and just brought her fiancée over, so she let her do such a shameful thing, no wonder he was angry.

Seriously, when Zhou Yuanyuan proposed it just now, she didn't think it was suitable, Xia Jingru's personality was too gentle, and letting such a girl do this kind of thing, the chance of success was even worse than the chance of failure.

"That friend is important to you?" Changdong asked.

"Yes." Charlotte replied in the affirmative.

"Okay, I'll arrange this, don't worry about it, just take care of the results when the time comes." After speaking, he snorted coldly, "Xiao Wu'er, Ruru is your sister and your sister-in-law, let me tell you, if you do this kind of unreliable thing in the future, my brother will really be disappointed in your sister, when did you see my brother pulling your family Qishao to do such an unreliable thing?" ”

"Do you dare?" Xia Luowu pursed her lips, "Brother Dongzi, I'm very happy that you care so much about my sister, but please be realistic when you speak, okay?" ”

"No conscience." The voice fell, the phone hung up directly, Xia Luowu smiled at Zhou Yuanyuan embarrassedly, "My brother is angry, I don't protect his baby fiancée, and I push it into the pit, but don't worry, he said that he arranged it."

It's okay, anyway, Chang's has a branch in the capital, and he picks a familiar person from the company to do this, and the chance of success is greater, as for the final result, let's wait and see. ”

"It's me who doesn't think about ......it," Zhou Yuanyuan smiled wryly, "I was in a hurry just now, just thinking that there was no suitable person around me, in fact, I should have asked my brother for help at that time, and there should be that kind of girl around him who is willing to do this kind of thing." ”

"By the way, Sister Yuanyuan, how is the relationship between you and my brother Chen?" Now that Zhao Yaru's matter has been decided, Xia Luowu directly diverted the topic, so as not to make Zhao Yaru always uncomfortable there.