Chapter 516: Visiting (2-in-1)
For a while, looking at the sensible Xia Jingru, Xia Huarui was full of emotion, but Xia Jingru saw her emotion as not believing what she said, and grabbed the other party's arm and shook it a little anxiously: "Auntie, what I said is the truth, and I definitely didn't talk about it to make you happy." Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info"
"Aunt believes." Xia Huarui sighed faintly and said, "Auntie just thinks that the growth of children really can't be generalized, your sister Xiaoxian always blames us for all the responsibility, thinking that her lack of interest is because we didn't create good conditions for her, but if compared with you, her growth environment is better than yours, I don't know how many times, what is the result?" β
Mrs. Xia answered: "What you said is that things really can't be generalized, some children's parents have bad personalities, and their children's personalities are not good, but some, their parents have bad personalities, but their children grow up very well, and they all say that parents must set an example for their children, in fact, not necessarily." β
"Grandma, there is such a saying...... "After everyone looked at themselves, Charlotte continued, "Let's talk about the child's character, seven points are innate, that is, from the mother's womb, the child's character is formed, and the remaining three points depend on the influence of the parents before the age of three."
So, there is the kind of situation that grandma just said, some children, the parents have a bad personality, and the child's personality is not good, because in the mother's womb, the personality follows the root, and it is affected again after birth, isn't it bad?
And the other is that when congenital development, genes absolutely determine that the character is good, even if the parents' character is not good, the influence before the age of three may gradually disappear after the age of three, and then, when the child grows up, the personality will be completely different from the parents.
Or there is another kind of that, when in the mother's womb, the personality tends to be modest, then, this kind of child, the influence of parents is crucial, but he should be different from the first category, that is, if it is corrected the day after tomorrow, there should be hope, and the first category should be the kind that can't listen to others. β
"What Xiao Wu'er said makes sense." Xia Huarui was the first to agree, she felt that her niece's statement was completely valid, otherwise, how could her Fengxian's situation be explained?
Xia Yuerui glanced at her daughter helplessly, turned to look at Xia Huarui and said: "Sister, there are no absolutes in everything, sometimes, people always have to touch some walls and encounter some things in order to really change, so what will happen to Xiaoxian in the future, I can't say it now......"
Xia Huarui waved her hand and interrupted her sister and said: "Xiaorui, you don't have to persuade me, the daughter I raised myself, I know in my heart, everything she did is there, if I am still there to deceive myself, it will be pure stupidity."
This time, I will do what I say, she no longer regards me as her mother, and I don't need to treat her as a daughter, if one day she realizes her mistake, I will still recognize her and help her, but now, I don't want to get used to her anymore.
The reason why her character has developed to this point is that I always insisted on half of her requirements, and finally I was compromised by her trouble, again and again, to give her the bad problems that she was used to, thinking that as long as she made trouble, I had to compromise.
Okay, let her run into the wall by herself, if her life is ruined like this, then she also found it herself, as a parent, as a relative, they have already done their best to her, there is nothing to say. β
Xia Huarui was extremely disappointed in her daughter and had already made the decision to give up, while Feng Xian was also extremely disappointed in her parents, and after waiting for a day without waiting for the signs of compromise from her parents, she submitted the lawsuit without hesitation.
And her decision, of course, was discussed with her mother-in-law's family, and the Li family naturally had no objection to this.
Whether it is Li Gang or Li's father and mother, when they decided to marry Feng Xian and enter the door, what they fancied was the support that the Feng family could give, and as a result, in the past few years, except for the rent in Huafeng Shopping Mall, which was cheaper than others, they did not get any other benefits, which was far from the imaginary stain.
Especially watching the old man Xia and Mrs. Xia move to the capital with their little daughter to enjoy the blessings, the envious eyes of Li's father and mother Li turned red.
In their opinion, since they have fallen out with their son, they should have a closer relationship with the two daughters' families, and naturally they have to pull the children of the daughters' families, otherwise, what will they do when they marry a daughter-in-law who has no education and looks not outstanding?
Especially this daughter-in-law hasn't given them a grandson for several years, so they can't raise their heads among their neighbors and relatives and friends, if it weren't for the fact that Xia Huarui can change her mind and help Feng Xian, they would probably have given Feng Xian home a long time ago.
At this time, Feng Xian wants to make such a fuss, which is not a bad thing for them.
If they win, they can follow the light, and if they lose, it doesn't matter, they can just kick Feng Xian out of this house, and when the time comes, they don't even have to find an excuse, a daughter-in-law who can be ruthless to their own parents, they don't dare to ask for it!
Feng Xian didn't know what they thought, but she had reached this point, she was simply difficult to ride a tiger, as for the last step, she felt that there was really no way, she was soft to the end, and her parents didn't accept it at all, so she could only use the hard one.
Anyway, for her, if it doesn't work out, the result will be the same.
Even if she doesn't tell her parents, if she can't get anything, Li Gang and her parents-in-law still have more tolerance for her? At most, it will last for another year and a half, if her stomach has not moved, it is estimated that divorce is a sure thing, and when the time comes, maybe she will not be able to have children.
Sue, the worst result is nothing more than that, so why didn't she gamble? At the same time, she is also betting on her parents' love for her, from childhood to adulthood, as long as she makes trouble, even if her parents insist at the beginning, they will eventually follow her wishes.
This time, she will see who is more energetic, of course it is good to win, but if she loses, she doesn't think that her parents are more comfortable than her!
When she received the notice from the court, even if she already knew what her daughter was like, Xia Huarui was still so angry that she cried, Feng Shan looked helplessly at his wife, who had always been hard-mouthed, and sighed: "Look at you, you always say one thing and do another, not that you don't have hope anymore, why are you crying like this again?" β
"Anyway, it's also the meat that fell from my body, when I was angry, I really felt like that, but when the anger subsided, I remembered what happened to her since she was a child, this heart, how can it be hard.
But as a result, I can't be hard, she really can't go down, in her opinion, we have to be eaten to death by her, hum, this time I don't like her, I'll see who can't hold back! β
Feng Shan was also uncomfortable, but looking at his wife, who was obviously disappointed to the extreme, but was still reflexively worried about his daughter, he could only force himself to suppress the discomfort in his heart and persuade his wife to harden his heart: "Yes, we will not compromise on anything this time, and she will choose to live better than bad, and she will definitely not worry about her blindly in the future." β
The date of the trial is the twentieth day of the first month, which happens to be the second day after Xia Jingru's marriage, looking at this day, Xia Huarui doesn't want to mention how complicated it is, as she said before, her niece can become a sensible and good girl in such a growth environment, what about her daughter? People are more angry than people.
But things in this world are so unfair, there is such a good daughter, but the younger brother and sister never cherish it, they always just want to get benefits from this daughter, so thinking about it, she feels even more uncomfortable......
After Mrs. Xia, the old man and Mrs. Xia, learned that Feng Xian really sued Feng Shan and Xia Huarui, she was so angry that she didn't eat for a day, and then she was told by Xia Yuerui and Xia Luowu, so she finally recovered her mood.
Xia Luowu was really speechless about Feng Xian's approach, she could only say that Feng Xian had really only grown longer over the years, and she didn't want to think about it, who paid for opening a clothing store? Why did she say that the Fengshan couple were appropriating her reasonable income?
There is no doubt that this case will really be tried, but the key to it is the diaphragm.
Even if she was in her heart, in the following days, Xia Huarui still took the time to come over every day to help prepare for Xia Jingru's wedding, or because she had encountered betrayed relatives, the relationship between Xia Huarui and Xia Jingru became unprecedentedly harmonious.
Well, it's no exaggeration to say that in the first twenty years, the aunt and nephew were simply relatives, and in the past few days, they have become absolute relatives.
When the wedding is over, Xia Luowu's family and Mrs. Xia will rush back to the capital, and then Xia Jingru's relatives here will be left with Xia Huarui's family, Xia Huajun and Li Meiqin.
Although Xia Huajun and Li Meiqin are Xia Jingru's biological parents, these two of them have no consciousness of being parents at all, and it is better to have such relatives than not.
Originally, the relationship between Xia Jingru and Xia Huarui was average, so calculated, Xia Jingru in Yincheng means that there are no other relatives except for the Chang family, and now, the relationship between her and Xia Huarui has developed by leaps and bounds, which is really a matter of everyone's mind.
On the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, Xia Huarui's family and Mrs. Lu's family all came to the Xia family and spent a reunion festival together.
Compared to the last time they met, Ning Ying's parents were a little more relaxed, and it seemed that Ning Ying and Lu Gang's efforts had made progress these days.
On the sixteenth day of the first month, Charlotte went to Donna and Chris's shop, if it was before, she didn't have to pay a special visit, but Jiang Long is Qiao Mu's subordinate, or the kind that has a good relationship, as Qiao Mu's quasi-fiancΓ©e, when Qiao Mu didn't come, she should do her best.
In the first month, the business of the small shop was relatively deserted, only Jiang Long himself stayed in the store, and when he saw Xia Luo Wu, he unconsciously put a smile on his face and greeted, "When did you come back?" β
"It's been a few days, what day did you open?" Xia Luo Wu handed the gift to Jiang Long while making noise, and sat down at the table by the door by the way, so that Jiang Long could greet the guests who came in.
"We opened on the ninth day of the new year, but for the New Year, the business is average, but we are idle and idle, anyway, the rent is paid, and we will open earlier." Jiang Long was not polite to Xia Luowu, took the gift and put it on the counter, helped Xia Luowu bring a cup of hot milk, and picked a small plate of delicious snacks and brought it over, before sitting opposite and said, "Didn't the boss come over?" β
Charlotte shook her head: "No, he's busy over there, so he can't get out." AFTER GLANCING AROUND, HE ASKED, "WHERE'S SISTER DONNA?" β
"Her mother has a cold, and she is taking care of the old lady at home these days." Jiang Long's face turned cold as he spoke, Xia Luowu looked at him suspiciously, and saw him staring at the door in a daze, so he followed his line of sight and saw four men walking towards him in a daze.
"Who?" Charlotte asked.
"DONNA'S EX-HUSBAND." Jiang Long frowned, "My brain has been pumping a little bit lately, so if you have something to do, come over and brush up on your sense of existence." β
As he was talking, the four men had already entered the shop, and the man led by him pouted at Jiang Long: "Yo, this is taking advantage of the absence of the good friend, will be a little girl?" Saying that, his eyes widened on Xia Luowu's face, and his eyes showed surprise, "Yo, boy, you can do it, don't say that you hooked a rich woman, this is another little tender girl, or a beautiful bubbling little tender girl, I said, are you a little better with peach blossom luck?" β
Jiang Long looked at the other party coldly and said, "He Xinjun, this is the fiancΓ©e of my comrade-in-arms, don't talk nonsense." β
"Don't deceive your friend's wife, boy, are you knowingly committing a crime?" He Xinjun pursed his lips, sat down at the table with a big grin, patted the table and said, "Come, give us four portions of the freshest cake you made today, and take four cups of coffee with you, if you want Blue Mountain, don't lie to me with that product." β
Jiang Long didn't say much, he put all the things on him, sat down opposite Xia Luo Wu again, and said with a wry smile: "Don't take it to heart, he is such a bastard, otherwise, DONNA would not divorce him."
IT'S JUST THAT THIS MAN IS ALSO A COWARD, WHEN HE HAD AN AFFAIR, HE WAS FOUND OUT BY DONNA AND WAS STILL ANGRY, SAYING THAT A SUCCESSFUL MAN SHOULD BE LIKE THAT, WHEN DONNA MENTIONED DIVORCE, HE ALSO ASKED THE OTHER PARTY NOT TO REGRET IT.
As a result, now that his father has been arrested, and the family's property has been recovered, he began to regret it, and if he has nothing to do, he will bring a few fox friends and dog friends to brush his face, but he will not make trouble, and he will leave after eating and giving money, but it is really very satisfying, right? β
"It's quite a good fit." Xia Luowu looked at Jiang Long with some sympathy, "It's very hard to endure, right?" Do you want to hit him in the face with a fist? β
"HEY......" JIANG LONG SIGHED, "EAT A TRENCH AND GROW WISE, THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM THAT CAN BE SOLVED BY FISTS, HE DIDN'T FIND FAULT, MY TEACHER IS UNKNOWN, LET HIM GO, ANYWAY, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE BETWEEN DONNA AND HIM, WHY SHOULD I BOTHER MYSELF?" βγ
Sure enough, as Jiang Long said, although He Xinjun didn't say good things when he entered the store, he didn't stay long after eating, and he really took three fox friends and dog friends away......