"Alas......" Mrs. Xia, who also gave birth to a daughter, understood Mrs. Lu's mood very well, sighed, and comforted, "Sister, don't bother, after a long time, seeing the sincerity of your mother, you will naturally get along." Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

I also raised two daughters, even if I am a bit patriarchal, but when my daughter gets married, she is also worried about all kinds of measurements, and you should think so, you should think so, it is better to have such a family of affection and etiquette than the kind of in-laws who always feel that they enjoy everything for granted because their daughter is married, right? ”

"It's such a reason, but it's such a family living in it, always so polite, and I don't feel comfortable." Mrs. Lu said helplessly, "Sister-in-law, you haven't tried to live together, sometimes I have a feeling that I am a landlord and a long-term worker." ”

"Grandma Lu, what you say can only explain one problem......" Xia Luowu answered with a smile, "It means that Grandma Lu, you also think that Aunt Yingzi's parents will be uncomfortable living here, and you have to think about each other everywhere, don't make people uncomfortable, right?" ”

"Why are you so good little girl?" Mrs. Lu looked at Xia Luowu funny, "Wu'er, tell Grandma Lu about it, is there anything else you don't understand?" ”

"Come on, I've been a neighbor with you for so many years, it's not that I don't know you, but I understand it when I think about it." Xia Luowu looked straight, looked at Mrs. Lu seriously and said, "Grandma Lu, you should think so, Aunt Yingzi's parents will inevitably have a little inferiority complex in their personality because of their own reasons and their previous life.

When Aunt Yingzi got married, the old man and the old lady of the Ning family and the uncle made a fuss, and Aunt Yingzi's parents felt even more ashamed and panicked, and then, if they lived together again, there was always a feeling that their own family took advantage of their son-in-law's family.

Then, they always want to do their best to do a little more, take on a little more, not only to reduce the burden of Uncle Gangzi and Aunt Yingzi, but also to look like they are staying at home for idle meals, if you really let them stay at home and do nothing, they will definitely not be able to live.

As Uncle Gangzi's mother, of course, you have to show attitude and sincerity to let them see your sincerity, but if you do this, they may feel even more guilty in their hearts.

After all, in the minds of our people, the woman's parents and the man live together, unless the son-in-law is in charge, so it is difficult to let Aunt Yingzi's parents live calmly in this family in the short term.

Of course, if you are not polite to them, they may be more uncomfortable, so this matter is not solvable in the short term, and it can only be solved after a long time and everyone understands. ”

Mrs. Xia immediately echoed: "Yes, what Wu'er said is right, sister, don't bother, you should treat them in the future, you will see people's hearts over time, as for saying that they like to do some processing work or something, it is normal, the age is there, and there is no pension, so you can earn some money by yourself to be sure, right?" ”

"Yes." Mrs. Lu said with a wry smile, "No, when they do processing work in the future, they don't need me, and I will resolutely help with it, anyway, just to see that they are busy working, I am idle there, and I feel uncomfortable." ”

"Auntie, I guess you do this, they feel even more uncomfortable." Xia Yuerui said with a smile, "Originally, people just thought that they had taken a big advantage by living with their daughters, and then they saw that you also suffered with them, what do you say they feel like in their hearts?" ”

"Hey......" Mrs. Lu sighed helplessly, and looked at Xia Yuerui with a tangled expression, "Xiaorui, we have been neighbors for so many years, and you also know your aunt's temper, so people are working there, let me watch, I am really unhappy in my heart."

And when it was time for me to cook, Yingzi Niang had to rush to help, I said that I didn't need people to eat and drink for nothing with an embarrassed expression, which made me feel very uncomfortable, and I had no choice but to let her help.

And when they were working and I wanted to help, they said they wouldn't let me go out and forced me out, saying that those Mao Mao were too choking and not good for the trachea, so you explained that you know that Mao Mao choking people are not good for the trachea, and they are still so busy every day, how can I stay?"

"What kind of processing do they take?" Xia Yuerui asked.

"It is to stuff the fluff cotton inside the toy, and then sew it up with a needle, the fluff cotton is a whole pile, and it must be torn apart little by little and stuffed inside, and it must be stuffed evenly, but it has to be pulled little by little, and the mask is taken off, and it is stained with a thick layer of fluff.

They are afraid of making the house dirty, so they have been working in the basement, where there are no windows, and the ventilation is not good. ”

Saying that, Mrs. Lu sighed, "Gangzi and Yingzi persuaded them not once or twice, but the two of them said that the work was much lighter than what they used to do, and said that if they were not allowed to do it, they would simply move back to their previous residence, there was no way, Gangzi and Yingzi could only let them go." ”

After listening to this for a long time, everyone understood that the main reason why Mrs. Lu was embarrassed was that she felt sorry for her in-laws, and the in-laws were the kind of diligent people who resolutely did not eat idle meals.

"Auntie, let's do it......" Mu Nian said, "Since Uncle Ning and Aunt Ning don't want to eat idle meals, they must have some work at hand, let's change them to another one, I have a friend who is in the peanut wholesale business, and the workers in the factory need to pick peanuts, let Uncle Ning and Aunt Ning go to work there, the job is to sit there and pick out unqualified peanuts from the conveyor belt, the salary is calculated according to the working hours, and the distance is also close, and the salary will definitely not be less than the processing work they receive." ”

Mrs. Lu's eyes lit up when she heard this: "I know there, I wanted to go before, but it's a pity that people don't clean up, so I'll go too......" said and smiled embarrassedly, "Danian, it won't embarrass you, right?" ”

"Don't be embarrassed...... Mu Nian smiled, "It's true that he generally doesn't have a shortage of people there, and he can't get in if he is not an acquaintance, but I have been friends with him for many years, and my aunt is a real person, so it's no problem to go together, but this matter, my aunt still discusses it with Gangzi Yingzi, okay?" ”

"Okay." Aunt Lu immediately couldn't sit still, "The two of them are almost back, I'll go back and take a look, it just so happens that Yingzi's father and Yingziniang are happy." ”

Mu Nian should come down: "Okay, you go back and discuss with them, let's have dinner together in the evening, and I'll pick you up when we leave in a while." ”

When Mrs. Lu went out, Mrs. Xia looked at Mu Nian with a worried look on her face, "Da Nian, are you really not embarrassed about this?" "After all, it was a three-time plug in at a time, either because she was old or had a physical problem, and she was really worried about her son-in-law.

"Mom, I'm really not embarrassed." Mu Nian smiled, "The two of us have a good relationship, and he and Mu Shi also cooperate, the key is that whether it is Aunt Lu or Yingzi's parents, they are honest people, and there will definitely be no problem." ”

"That's good." Mrs. Xia breathed a sigh of relief and said, "I am happy that you can help you Aunt Lu, but my mother still doesn't want you to let yourself complain because of your help, which will affect your relationship."

It's not that mom is stingy, it's really, if this kind of thing introduced by a friend is not good, it will not only affect your relationship, but also make the person who introduced the past unable to stay in the end, then it really outweighs the loss. ”

"Yo, grandma speaks in idioms one by one......" Xia Luowu looked at Mrs. Xia laughingly and said, "I've been with Master Tang for a long time, and my level is different." ”

"It's as if your grandma and I didn't have any culture at all......," Bai glanced at her granddaughter, and Mrs. Xia couldn't help laughing again, "Also, I've been with Old Man Tang for a long time, and I don't know if we're all gone, and they don't adapt to staying at home." ”

Old Man Xia glanced at the old lady: "You have a lot of heart." ”

"Yo, you're getting older, are you jealous?"

"you, you old man, what's there to be jealous of?" Old Man Xia glared at Old Lady Xia with a dissatisfied expression, "Am I not a cultural person?" I've lived with me for so many years, and I haven't seen you influenced by me! ”

"...... you," Mrs. Xia's eyes widened, "cultural person? Then he laughed exaggeratedly twice and looked at Xia Luowu, "Xiao Wu'er, have you ever seen such a shameless old man?" I can't tell the difference between a halal cultural person and a fake cultural person, and I'm embarrassed to put gold on my face. ”

was scolded by the old lady like this, the old man's face immediately pulled down, snorted coldly, and simply went back to the bedroom to stay, Xia Yuerui looked at Mrs. Xia helplessly: "Mom, you know that Dad wants to save face, why do you mess with him like this?" ”

"Don't worry about him, it'll be fine in a while...... Old Lady Xia pouted, "I just did it on purpose, everyone is very good together these days, but he always goes out of his way to compare with Old Man Tang."

Do you think he is the same thing as others? Yes, I admit it, your dad is considered educated among his old friends and colleagues, but when a junior high school student compares culture with a graduate student, don't you say that he laughs off his big teeth?

When I was over there, in front of Mr. Tang, I didn't want to talk about him, so as not to make my face look good, and make Mr. Tang think more, now that I'm back, I have to change this problem for him, lest he always be embarrassed in front of others and not know it. ”

"Grandma, you're more serious, aren't you?" Xia Luowu hurriedly smoothed the hair for the fried old lady Xia, "Grandpa Tang is not the kind of joker, maybe he still likes Grandpa, a diligent and studious old man." ”

"Just you are facing your grandfather, I estimate that the housekeeper of the old man Tang is about to laugh at your grandfather in his heart, Wu'er, grandma can't let your grandfather always embarrass you, we will just not, we won't, we understand it, I don't understand it, we just don't understand it, we are at this level, if you have to pretend that you are a high-level person, you will make people laugh!"

Xia Luowu looked at Xia Yuerui helplessly, Xia Yuerui shook her head at her daughter undetectably, she is a daughter, she knows her mother's temper too well, even if her personality is better than before over the years, but compared with the real good temper, there is still a gap.

Come to think of it, in her mother's heart, her father's approach is embarrassing, no matter how they explain, she won't listen to it, this is the generation gap, the things you care about are different, and it's useless for you to persuade.

Let the old couple toss it by themselves, they have their own way of getting along, and after a lifetime, she doesn't have to worry about it.

When they had dinner together in the evening, Xia Luowu found that Ning Ying's parents were really like what Mrs. Lu said, and always put themselves in a relatively low position, especially after knowing that Mu Nian had solved the problem of work for them, their attitude towards their family was even lower.

After returning to their respective homes, Ning Ying specially came to the Lu family and apologized to the Xia family, saying that her parents were such characters, and she had no choice, so please understand.

Xia Yuerui smiled and pulled her to sit on the sofa and said: "You don't need to explain, we all understand, but you, now that you are pregnant, you must pay attention to your body, the company's affairs, if your body can't bear it, let it go first, and let the finance department of the head office first assign someone to come over for a while." ”

"Sister Xia, I can eat now...... Ning Ying hurriedly said, "Sister Xia, you still let me go to work, if I really go home to rest, my parents don't know how to be nervous, anyway, they always think that I married into the Lu family, I burned high incense."

It's also because of this that they always feel that they are shorter, and if I don't go to work, they will probably be really worried that they won't be able to sleep at night......" said and couldn't help sighing, "Just like them, sometimes I feel tired, but I can't help it, I persuaded and persuaded and said, it was useless." ”

"Your mother-in-law also said this, since you can't persuade it, don't persuade it, it's good to live together for a long time." Xia Yuerui patted her comfortingly, "Don't think nonsense, go back and rest early, you are pregnant now, and you have to pay attention." ”

"Well, listen to Sister Xia, I'll go back and rest." As soon as Ning Ying stood up, Lu Gang, who was sitting there chatting with Mu Nian, hurriedly said goodbye, came to Ning Ying's side in three or two steps, and carefully helped her out.

After the two of them left, Xia Luowu noticed the envy in Xia Yuerui's eyes, so she deliberately leaned over to her: "Mom, your expression is a little interesting, are you envying Aunt Yingzi for being pregnant, or are you envying Uncle Gangzi for being good to Aunt Yingzi?" ”

Slightly stunned, Xia Yuerui hurriedly said, "It's not." Can she say that at this time, she remembered that when she was pregnant, she had never received this kind of treatment at all, so she was envious?