"Alright, no kidding." I asked He Wenjing seriously, "So what is the married life you look forward to?" It's okay to talk about that, we're just talking about knowledge and insights, and I'm really not making fun of you. ”

Indeed, I am really a little curious about He Wenjing, although discussing marriage issues with her is indeed a bit ahead of time, but what does it matter? If she doesn't mind.

He Wenjing is down-to-earth and generous, she is not a shy girl, in fact, as long as a person's heart is clean, is it important to talk about anything? There's nothing out of the blue.

He Wenjing thought about it with her hands on her cheeks and said: "Well......, what about the married life I imagined, in fact, there are no too high requirements, I want to have a man who really loves me, a simple life, we go to work during the day, come back from work at night, we share the work experience of the day together, and there are some interesting things to see, we have nothing to say, no one is allowed to hide their hearts, and, even if it is awkward, we are not allowed to spend the night angry, and the things of the day must be solved on the same day, We can't pile up some dissatisfaction or resentment in our hearts, we must communicate often and be sincere with each other, so that we can understand each other and live a happier life. ”

Finished? Is this He Wenjing's highest requirement for marriage?

I didn't expect it to be so simple.

When I heard it, I didn't feel a little yearning, yes, the married life I longed for before, how could it not be so.

In fact, the life of two people should be simple, and simplicity is the greatest happiness.

It's just that life is always complicated, the simplicity we advocate, sometimes we are always hit head-on by reality, reality is not a dream after all, and we can't blindly live in the dream we weave.

I couldn't help but say: "Maybe this kind of life is indeed perfect, but have you ever thought that life is not just a simple two people, for example, the pressure of life, all aspects, especially the problem of money, how do you grasp the balance between money and marriage?" This is a real problem, and if you don't have enough money, there will be many problems. ”

"Oh, the money." He Wenjing thought for a while and said, "Actually, I don't think two people need to have too much money, it's good to have enough, both of us go to work and have their own incomes, it would be better if we could have a little savings every month, accumulate a lot, and don't spend money indiscriminately, how can it be insufficient?" ”

"What about you...... Don't want to have more money? Don't want to live a better life? It takes a lot of time and energy to make money, maybe in this way, it will objectively affect the relationship between two people, how should you grasp this balance? ”

As soon as I said that, I suddenly felt that this question might have been asked a little deeper.

How many couples in real life can't solve this problem, and finally fall apart, I now put this problem that most people can't solve in front of He Wenjing, and it's really a little difficult for her.

I didn't expect He Wenjing to have her own point of view, and she actually broke through the sky with one word.

"Well, I think, in fact, two people really don't need to have too much money, money enough to spend and not enough to spend, maybe there is a big difference, but the money is enough to spend and not to spend, basically there is no practical meaning, I think two people work normally, there is no additional cost to each other, and the money earned is enough, there is no need to dig out the hollow to think about more money, put time and energy in it, what's the point? There are so many beautiful things in life, clear skies, good moods, traveling around the world, and so on, we accompany each other, rely on each other for life, sweet happy times are not enough, why do we have to be slaves to money. ”

I couldn't help but feel a move in my heart when I heard it, maybe He Wenjing was really right.

In fact, the life of two people can really be so simple, simple is the happiness of two people, as for hollowing out to make more money, maybe the money is earned, but the love is gone, and then on this basis, other things happen to each other, those things are the real money, no wonder there will be not enough money, and then you have to make more money, step by step, in the end, you can't find the direction.

He Wenjing continued to look forward to saying: "Usually the two of us, if we have money, we will spend more loosely, without money, we will not be sad, let alone unable to raise our heads in front of people and behind our backs, because we have more happy time with each other than others, and what is there to be inferior, we will not put the cart before the horse, money, is just an accessory to marriage, not the essence of love." ”

"Maybe the money is not enough, we can't realize all the wishes, but the dream is not one day can be realized, we come step by step, that is more expected, otherwise everything will be realized all at once, what fun do we have, life, is a process of pursuit and exploration, we pay attention to the experience in the process, and the perception of life, rather than blindly obsessed with the result, the result is not so important, as long as the two of us can go on with each other, experience life together, Are the other things really that important? ”

I couldn't help but ponder again, yes, are other aspects really that important?

If other aspects are important, and even affect the relationship between the two parties, then what's the point of making money?

Many people struggle for love, but in the process of struggle, they unconsciously alienate love, and in the final end, they (they) stand at the peak of their careers, but the question is, is the peak of their careers their (her) goals at the beginning?

Their goals have changed unconsciously, fighting for love, only to lose love for the sake of struggle, which ...... What is your original intention? Do you remember what you fought for in the first place?

It's a very simple truth, but unfortunately too many people can't see through it, maybe only a pure girl like He Wenjing can really see through its essence, we all live too complicated.

"Do you think I'm right?"

At some point, He Wenjing's voice interrupted me, she had already finished explaining her opinion, but I had been pondering.

I nodded, looked at He Wenjing very seriously and said, "You're right, I don't seem to understand what real life is until now." ”

"Oh life, when did you change the subject again?" He Wenjing was slightly surprised, "Didn't we discuss marriage just now?" ”

"Marriage is also a part of life, and it is a very important part." I retracted my thoughts and asked her, "By the way, do you have any dreams in life?" ”

I'm also curious about this, what is He Wenjing's biggest dream in life?

For a girl like He Wenjing, her dreams should be otherworldly.