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We are usually willing to spend a lot of time and energy to maintain friendships and manage love, but we are always fearless about our families.

You can throw your clothes, you can lose your temper, you can complain, you can make a lot of noise without any scruples, not because you don't love, but because you know that these people are the ones you will not really abandon you and leave you no matter how you vent and offend.

That's family.

Although Liu Ying is worthless in front of the emperor, she is also the baby bump of her parents at home.

The mother and three children of the family, crying and crying, hugging and hugging, even the great hardship becomes less difficult to accept.

So everyone began to happily help Liu Ning prepare for marriage.

Because in ancient times, marriages were in the afternoon at dusk, so in fact, Xu Wenxiu came to greet his relatives early.

Although it is still early, there are many things to prepare.

We have a long history and profound culture in China, and there are many interesting customs in this traditional Chinese wedding.

The first is 'above'.

It is a prenuptial ceremony that both men and women perform before the wedding.

In ancient China, men and women had long hair, and some poets used to call it 'Three Thousand Troubles Silk', and before young men and women got married, they would invite a comb woman to come to the house to help the newlyweds comb their hair.

We usually watch TV, and there are often episodes of generals who are defeated and then cut off their hair to worship the dead soldiers.

We didn't think it was right when we saw it, just cut off your hair, what are you doing so tragically~~

In fact, this is because we don't understand the ancient culture. In ancient times, cutting off a hair was not as easy as cutting a head.

In ancient China, we paid attention to 'the body's hair and skin, and the parents who received it', and also paid attention to 'filial piety as the sky', so in the ancient times of our country, both men and women were not allowed to cut their own hair.

It is precisely because of this saying that there is such a term as 'cutting the invention of the will'.

This pre-marital 'head' is not just as simple as combing your hair, it is very particular!

Sing loudly while combing: 'One comb to the end, the second to the white hair to the eyebrows, the third to the children and grandchildren, the fourth to the four silver shoots.' ’

Tang Fei didn't have this 'top' experience because the person he married was relatively special.

At this time, watching the comb woman comb Liu Ning's hair, it was really full of envy.

Although the ceremony is simple, it has an indescribable romantic meaning.

It is both sacred and solemn, but also full of expectations for a better life in the future.

When the 'top' is finished, it's the 'bed'.

This bed should not have been done today, it should have been prepared a few days before the wedding.

Bedding is to choose an auspicious day a few days before the wedding, lay the bedding and sheets on the new bed, and then spread the dragon and phoenix quilts, and sprinkle the format of the fruits, such as peanuts, red dates, longan, lotus seeds, etc. These things imply that the newlyweds will give birth to a noble son early.

The one who carries the bed, the one who makes the bed, and the one who sows the fruit of joy are all carefully selected people for good fortune. That is, people whose parents are alive, who have complete brothers and sisters, and who have a harmonious marriage. It is also hoped that such a person can bring good luck to the newcomer.

In fact, this bed is not a ceremony held at the bride's house.

It's just that although Xu Wenxiu is the champion in high school, he has not been appointed by the imperial court in the end, so naturally there is no champion mansion to live in.

Xu Wenxiu's home is in a small alley on the side of the street in the center of Shengjing City, although it is clean, but it is really unorthodox.

The alley was so narrow that it could only allow one person to pass normally, let alone the bride's sedan chair, and even a trolley could not enter.

Aunt Xu and Xu Wenxiu are not stubborn people, and they are reluctant to ask Liu Ning to get off the sedan chair and walk on this muddy road alone when they are newly married.

Therefore, although the groom has to go to the woman's house to marry the bride in person with the welcome book, Liu Ning's sedan chair will turn around a few times on the street, and finally return to the cave room of Shangshufu.

This is nothing in our modern terms, but it is just a stopgap measure.

But in ancient times, it was really a big deal!

In ancient times, it was said that 'marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog', the husband is lazy and lazy, and it is okay to beat his wife, but if the wife dares to dislike her husband at all, it is a snobbish evil mother-in-law.

For example, the husband is in the cave room of his wife's house in order to accommodate his wife, which is really incredible.

Marrying a wife, marrying a wife, that is to marry back to your own family!

What's your name? It's called an inverted door!

In the eyes of ordinary people, Xu Wenxiu's move is indeed quite spineless and despised.

But Tang Fei was very relieved in his heart.

I am afraid that I really misjudged Xu Wenxiu at the beginning, this man who is not amazing is probably really a superb. The best good man!

In this era of machismo, putting your wife's feelings in front of your own face is really a great awakening!

At first, Xu Wenxiu's remarks that 'inheritance is not in the bloodline but in the spirit' had already impressed Tang Fei, but at that time, Xu Wenxiu was still a poor boy after all, maybe he was just because he was weak, so he wanted to please Liu Shangshu's family?

But now it's different, Xu Wenxiu is the first champion in thousands of years!

Not to mention the ancient and modern of this name, let's just say that our emperor attaches great importance to this imperial examination, and his determination to open a precedent with this imperial examination, you know that Xu Wenxiu's gold content is extremely high.

Not to mention that Xu Wenxiu not only won the title of the gold list, but even researched such a new type of potato with such a high yield.

How many people have been saved from starvation because of his research results, and how many people have filled their stomachs because of Xu Wenxiu! This is not only a merit that has broadened Xu Wenxiu's career, but also a sacrament that has benefited tens of millions of people!

To put it mildly, although Xu Wenxiu has not yet been crowned an official, his status has long surpassed that of his father-in-law Liu Shangshu.

Liu Shangshu could still command Xu Wenxiu before, but now he can only look at it.

Maybe it's because there are too many men like 'Chen Shimei' in time, so this Xu Wenxiu is becoming more and more valuable.

However, when Tang Fei changed his caliber this time and praised Wenxiu to Liu Ning, Liu Ning's words were like a big stick, knocking Tang Fei into a dizziness.

"Sister Fei'er persuaded me that Xiuxiu had ulterior motives before, why is she praising Xiuxiu now?"

Liu Ning's words were careless, but they woke Tang Fei up like a big stick: "What is 'wealth and nobility', is this also something worthy of praise?" Isn't that what it should have been? ”

"Listening to Sister Fei'er's words, it seems that Xiuxiu is going to treat me badly if she wins the champion, as if this is normal. Sister Fei'er always says 'men and women are equal', but my sister's requirements for men are too low, just doing what normal people will do, and what a valuable quality it has suddenly become! ”

Liu Ning had a shy smile on his face that belonged to the bride: "Xiuxiu has never changed, he has always been like that." It is you who become, and it is your opinion of him. ”

Yu Yehang said

Because there are five shifts every day, the time is definitely not the same as before.

I get up in the morning and revise it first, and I can only send it after I make it.

I guess I start sending it every morning. Try to change one chapter to another.