The Brightest Star in the Night Sky (14)
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Lu Qiba is a little incomprehensible, Lianyin has experienced so many worlds, and it is not the first time to raise children, but how can she act like a person who is raising children for the first time? It's not that she doesn't know anything, she doesn't understand anything. Rather, she said that she was full of interest, and after paying attention to Lian Ruohe's food, clothing, housing and transportation, she was concerned about Lian Ruohe's academic problems, found a tutor, and went to the school to meet Lian Ruohe's teachers after the parent-teacher meeting, and got the impression of Lian Ruohe from the mouths of the teachers.
I thought that this would be regarded as a dedication, but when Lian Yin said the words "my daughter should be rich", and after the teachers of various subjects uniformly commented that Lian Ruohe's temperament was not very lively, she began to focus on cultivating Lian Ruohe's temperament and her vision.
Since that authentic French meal, Lian Yin is no longer limited to Lian Ruohe's craftsmanship of eating Lu Qiba at home, there will always be one or two times a week when he eats out of a big meal, and after eating, Lian Ruohe thinks which food is delicious, and which one he wants to eat, but as long as Lian Ruohe says it, Lian Yin will not refuse.
Under Lian Yin's guidance so slowly, even Ruohe slowly went from not daring to say it, embarrassed to say it, to slowly being able to express his opinions. The transition has been slow, but at least it has worked. In addition, the three of them always go out to eat and drink together, which also plays a good role in enhancing the relationship between them and Lian Ruohe. Although Lian Ruohe still likes Lu Qiba more, at least he won't say that he is afraid of Lianyin.
After Lian Yin asked Lian Ruohe a tutor to help her with homework, Lian Yin asked Lian Ruohe for her own opinions and helped her learn two amateur interest classes, a musical instrument and a dance.
In the end, Lian Ruohe chose guzheng and folk dance.
In view of Lian Ruohe's age, learning these things of interest can only be really treated as interests, not as futures, and Lian Yin has no hard requirements. However, in terms of learning, Lian Yin is very attentive, and from time to time he will ask about the tutor's tutoring, and sometimes he will stay by Lian Ruohe's side and watch the tutor's tutoring.
Under Lian Yin's serious treatment, at the end of the semester, Lian Ruohe's grades really jumped in three quarters and entered the ranks of the upper reaches of the class.
This good result surprised the head teacher of the school, but it made Lian Ruohe very happy, and he went home as soon as he got the report card, and couldn't wait to show the results to the two.
Lian Yin looked at Lian Ruohe's report card, smiled a little gratifyingly, and said directly: "Well done, as a reward, I can take you out to play this summer." ”
Lian Ruohe's eyes suddenly showed a happy expression, and he asked her in a tone of disbelief, "Are you ...... to take me out to play?" Does this play mean tourism? ”
"yes." Lian Yin responded with a smile.
The happy expression on Lian Ruohe's little face became more and more obvious, and he couldn't speak, and after holding it for a long time, he cautiously asked Lian Yin again, "Then Uncle Lu will go with you?" At the beginning, Lian Ruohe never called Lu Qiba and Lian Yin, and it wasn't until they got along for a long time that Lian Ruohe called Lu Qiba and Uncle Lu Qiba, but Lian Yin didn't let her call her aunt. Just say to Lian Ruohe, if you want to call your mother, otherwise don't call it. As a result, Lian Ruohe never gave Lianyin a name.
Lian Yin knew that Lian Ruohe's fascinated liking for Lu Qiba and the ass mode would definitely ask her this question, so he didn't joke with her at this time, and answered her directly, "Yes, let's go together." ”
Lian Ruohe was suddenly even happier.
Lian Yin has long intended to take Lian Ruohe out to see the world, no matter what the results of this exam are, she has already set the itinerary of the trip, and now she has said it with her obvious results.
Next, Lianyin, a "family of three", began to prepare for the trip.
The summer vacation is long enough, and on this trip, Lian Yin set a month to take Lian Ruohe to visit many places and see different customs and scenery.
Lian Ruohe had never traveled, and before this trip, she was so excited that she didn't sleep all night.
It is also with this trip as a door to open a new world, Lian Yin and Lu Qiba both felt the change of Lian Ruo after the trip, she became lively and energetic, and she was slowly shedding the caution and timidity of the previous years, and slowly changing towards what she should be at this age.
After discovering these changes, Lian Yin and Lu Qiba couldn't help but feel relieved, the two of them were like daughters-in-law for many years who were about to become mothers-in-law, and they had already seen victory in front of them.
When raising a child, I didn't feel the speed of the alternation of the years, and in the blink of an eye, Lian Ruohe had already gone to high school.
After more than a year of tutoring by a tutor, Lian Ruohe's grades in the high school entrance examination were very good, and she was admitted to a good high school with her own efforts. And with Lian Ruohe's beautiful and lovely little appearance, she just went to school to report and attracted the attention of a group of students, because her personality is easy to get along with, and she is not as squeamish as some girls who think they are beautiful, and she has made a lot of friends during military training. Not to mention that after the start of school, the students were given the title of a small school flower. Lian Ruohe's high school life was quite comfortable and smooth.
Since the summer vacation of the second year of junior high school, the tour program has been arranged every summer vacation.
For three consecutive years, Lian Yin and Lu Qiba took Lian Ruohe everywhere, but in the fourth year, Lian Ruohe asked Lian Yin and Lu Qiba to let her go out to see the world alone. said that it was a person, but in fact, it was not really a person, but Lian Ruohe and his classmates made an appointment to travel together during the summer vacation, and five or six children planned to break away from their parents' wings and really go out to see.
Lian Ruohe, as always, first informed Lu Qiba of this request, and after getting Lu Qiba's consent, he handed the request to Lian Yin, and with Lu Qiba's help, Lian Ruohe finally got Lian Yin's consent.
The day before I was going out for the summer vacation, I didn't even sleep well for the excited night like the first time I went out.
Seeing Lian Ruohe so excited, Lian Yin was a little depressed. The old mother has been doing it for so long, and she has entered the role very much, so naturally there are a lot of worries.
Lu Qiba saw her like this, and couldn't help but say: "Since you don't feel at ease, it's better to ask someone to pay attention to it in secret, so that you can protect it." ”
Lian Yin felt that Lu Qiba's proposal was very good, and immediately nodded, "Although it's time for her to go out, but if something really happens, the two of us will fall short." You really should keep an eye on it, and I'll find a few good skills to follow me tomorrow. ”
The two reached a consensus, which slightly diluted some of the worries that the children in the family were about to go out alone.
However, neither of them thought that this trip to Lian Ruo would bring more differences.