Peng Jin was slightly angry when she saw this, and felt that Liu Zhan and Liu Che were really squeamish, they didn't have the atmosphere of boys at all, and they didn't want to exercise by themselves after eating, how could this work!

Subconsciously, Peng Jin also felt that Liu Zhan and Liu Che were disobedient this time, which made her fold face in front of the Huang family of three, and she was a little annoyed in her heart. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

Because of the presence of the Huang family and others in front of him, Peng Jin did not have a seizure on the spot, but after the three of Huang's mother and son finished eating and left, Peng Jin immediately called Liu Zhan and Liu Che to his side, and tried his best to educate them patiently and calmly: "You two are so old, you can learn to eat by yourself, don't always stretch out your hands to eat and open your mouth." How can a manly husband not even have the ability to take care of himself at all! ”

Peng Jin was a little angry, and his face was much calmer than usual when he spoke, and he didn't care for a while that Liu Zhan and Liu Che, two children who were just over a year old, could not understand this.

When Liu Zhan and Liu Che heard this, they just looked at Peng Jin and didn't speak, but they could see from their expressions that the two of them not only understood, but were also slightly dissatisfied with Peng Jin's accusations, and their identical little faces were serious and aggrieved.

Peng Jin was even more angry when she saw this, feeling that the two children were really disobedient to discipline, and they didn't know what it meant to "know that mistakes can improve a lot", and was about to open her mouth to continue to teach them, Sister Nuan Nuan hurriedly said on the side: "Mother, don't be angry, the younger brothers are not lazy and don't want to eat by themselves, but there is Aunt Huang and their family, and the younger brothers are afraid that they will be very sloppy when they eat, so they are embarrassed, so they have to be fed." ”

Nuan Nuan, who is nearly four years old, can already express her thoughts clearly, and the reputation of her two younger brothers is at stake, and she is eager to defend Liu Zhan and Liu Che, which is a big string.

Peng Jin disagreed when he heard this, thinking that a child who was just over a year old knew that he didn't know what to lose face, and even so, Liu Zhan and Liu Che, the two children, did not eat by themselves in order to keep them tidy in front of outsiders, but resolutely let others feed them to save face, this kind of behavior is wrong.

However, Peng Jin thought about it again, although Liu Zhan and Liu Che usually don't like to talk, they are sensible very early, and what Nuan Nuan said may not be without this possibility.

It was all because she felt that Liu Zhan and Liu Che had refused to eat by herself before, which made her lose face in front of the Huang family of three, so she lost her usual calmness, and there was a lot of harsh criticism between her words, and she lacked her patience and persuasion in the past.

This is probably a common problem of parents in ancient and modern times, even if they try their best to warn themselves not to use their children as a tool to gain face, they always can't help but subconsciously think about it.

Thinking of this, Peng Jin slowed down his face and asked in a low voice, "Is that the case?" ”

Liu Zhan and Liu Che glanced at each other, paused, and quickly nodded in unison, but still didn't say a word to defend themselves.

Peng Jin sighed helplessly when she saw it, how could she think that it would be so difficult for these two little ones to say a word, think about the twitter appearance of Nuan Nuan when she was a child......

Sure enough, if a woman talks a lot, can three people sing a big opera......

Peng Jin sighed in her heart, looking at the two children in front of her with a look of grievance and sincere fear, she couldn't help but feel distressed, her expression became more gentle, and she patiently educated: "You are still young, and you can't eat by yourself, just get your clothes dirty a little, Aunt Huang and they won't say anything." Aunt Huang also came here when they were young, and they never knew how to eat by themselves, and slowly learned to eat by themselves. There's nothing to be ashamed of here. But if you don't learn to eat by yourself for fear of getting your clothes dirty and losing face, that's what you should criticize. ”

Do more mistakes, do less mistakes, don't do well, such a way not to make mistakes, it's really unbelievable! If children have this idea since childhood, it is estimated that they will not do much in the future.

Peng Jin doesn't ask the children to be prosperous, but she doesn't want them to do nothing, spend their lives in vain, and then regret it when they are old.

There is only one life, so naturally we can't be held back because of many worries, and we must strive to let it bloom with its own light!

In this way, Liu Zhan and Liu Che still don't understand it, and they don't have such feelings, so Peng Jin can only talk about eating and eating, and educate them bit by bit from a small place and guide them.

It is said that the best education is to "go with the flow" and not stifle the child's nature, but "going with the flow" does not mean inaction, but to be properly guided. Let the child feel that his life is "going with the flow", and that there is no external force to interfere with it.

This is much more difficult than strict discipline and education!

Liu Zhan and Liu Che didn't seem to understand, but they both nodded, although they still didn't speak, their faces were very serious.

Peng Jin felt funny when she saw their serious little adults, but in order to implement her own education and avoid the two children's contempt and negligence, she tried to hold back, and said softly: "If you two are really afraid that you will lose face if you don't eat and get dirty clothes, then you should hurry up and learn to eat by yourself, right?" ”

Liu Zhan and Liu Che met Peng Jin's expectant gaze and nodded seriously.

Seeing this, Peng Jin finally showed a comfortable smile, touched the little heads of the two children, and said with a smile: "If you know your mistakes, you will be a good child, and your mother is still waiting to see your performance!" ”

Liu Zhan and Liu Che both laughed, leaning on Peng Jin's side, shy and coquettish.

Nuan Nuan on the side saw that her mother and younger brothers had finally reconciled, and she breathed a sigh of relief, the smile on the corner of her mouth couldn't help but rise, and her bright eyes smiled into two crescent moons.

A little later, Liu Shi came back from the previous banquet, Peng Jin told him about it, and finally sighed: "In the past, it was said that children were still young and ignorant, but you see, children who are just over a year old know how to save face." Therefore, the education of children must start from a small age! It is said that 'three-year-old looks old' and 'three-year-old looks old', and the character of the three-year-old is not developed when he is younger. Don't look at these two children as small, and they seem to be very quiet and easy to control, but in fact, there are a lot of ghost ideas! They're like dumplings in a teapot -- there's it in my heart! ”

Liu Shi smiled and nodded in response: "You're right, but I don't think Zhan'er and Che'er are not necessarily bad like this." They love face, and they will work hard to maintain their face, which is also a kind of motivation for progress. We just need to guard against them, don't just save face. Moreover, their concern for face is not a manifestation of caring for the overall situation of the scene, which is much better than some people who are unable to carry it clearly and lose face. (To be continued.) )