Lu Gang sat beside Ning Ying, of course he felt her anger, and he also felt that she was already on the verge of an outbreak, so he quietly took her hand, and when she looked over, he shook his head at her. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

It's all here, and it's already been mixed, as long as it's not too much, let's deal with this day first, and then talk about it, and then talk about whether you want to deal with them or not, whether you want to listen to them.

Before establishing a relationship with Ning Ying, Ning Ying told him about the situation at home, yes, Lu Gang also understood the character of the relatives on both sides of Ning Ying's parents, and when he looked at everyone's performance today, it was really exactly the same as Ning Ying's description.

However, he is also very glad that he is not an old-fashioned character who does not know how to be flexible, and agreed to Mu Nian's arrangement, otherwise, this wedding banquet is definitely a stomach, he doesn't care, it is really inappropriate to let the old lady who has been worried for him for half his life and Ning Ying's parents who have been wronged follow him again.

As long as you don't show impatience on your side, your father-in-law will have no problem, and even, maybe because of their tolerance, it will make your father-in-law and mother-in-law feel more steady.

To be honest, this family is really rich, according to local customs, it is generally divided into several kinds of gifts, one hundred and sixty big steamed buns of one catty and two taels, six catties of raw pork, six catties of cooked pork, six carp, six catties of saury, six catties of shrimp, six catties of brown sugar, six catties of sugar, six catties of beef, six catties of mutton, and then two sets of spring, summer, autumn and winter for the bride, a total of eight sets of clothes, gold earrings, gold rings, gold necklaces, these can be converted into money, Then some of them ask for extra motorcycles, stipulate how big the house is, whether they want to live with their elders, whether they should write their names on the real estate certificate, and note how much extra money is given for the bride price......

Of course, this is in accordance with the marriage habits of men and women of appropriate age, originally thought that without asking for it, the man's family would pretend to be confused and pick up something at will, but I didn't expect that people would do this set properly, and moreover, they were all added, directly double!

Moreover, in addition to these, there are also additional heavy gifts that far exceed the amount of these items, including the clothes of Ning Baojun and his wife in spring, summer, autumn and winter, high-end supplements such as ginseng, bird's nest, sea cucumber, high-end tobacco and alcohol, and some tonic products that are usually reluctant to buy, well, that is, in addition to the twelve large baskets, the other dozen or so super large convenience bags contain these things.

However, looking at it, the Ning family and others did not find the extra wedding money for the woman, you know, this is the main event, could it be that in order not to give the gift money, they deliberately bought more of these things?

Besides, these things sound expensive, but they are really fake, and the price is very different!

Thinking like this, Old Man Ning and Old Lady Ning glanced at each other, then raised their heads, and looked at the Lu family's eyes changed a little.

Seeing that her mother-in-law's family had finished reading it, Wang Mengyan snatched the gift list back, and after reading it, not to mention how satisfied she was, she handed it to her mother's family instead.

Old Man Ning and Mrs. Ning, who had been silent, saw that the Wang family didn't let out half of a fart, and knew that if they didn't say it, the matter would pass properly!

"In-laws......" Mrs. Ning put on a smirk, "It's all on the list, right?" ”

Aunt Lu was stunned for a moment, and looked at Mrs. Ning with some confusion: "You can tell me what is missing." ”

"Money!" Mrs. Ning was absolutely not polite, "Your gift is quite heavy, and the average girl's family is not as heavy as this, but you didn't write the bride price on it, this is?" ”

"Oh......" Aunt Lu suddenly smiled, "This ......"

As a result, before she could say it, Ning Ying snatched the conversation: "Grandma, I married into the Lu family, and I took it with my parents, from now on, Lu Gang wants to support my parents with me, I don't have the face to accept these gifts, and then give the bride price, you just let me die headfirst!" ”

The smile on Mrs. Ning's face froze there, and after a while, she looked at Aunt Lu helplessly: "Mrs. in-laws, my stupid granddaughter, this is what she looks like when she is young, I mention this, of course, I don't go for the money, I just think that she is also the first marriage, if there is no gift money, people will look down on her." ”

"Do you care if I make people look down on me? Since I was a child, have you ever wondered if our family will be looked down upon? ......" Thinking of the grievances she had suffered since she was a child, Ning Ying grabbed the conversation and wiped her tears as she spoke, "If it wasn't for the sake of getting a little cheap today, would you come?" ”

Old Man Ning quickly pulled down his face, stood up instead, and pulled Mrs. Ning: "Let's go, don't make people suspicious here, she doesn't treat us as grandparents at all, now that she is going to get married, she is in a hurry to get rid of us, what kind of heart are you still for her here?" ”

"Hey......" Mrs. Ning fell down, sighing in her mouth, "What's the matter, she is also our granddaughter, today's happy day, don't make a joke, you sit down, the child also misunderstands us, and we are angry, just right, while the in-laws are here, we simply say some words, so as not to have pimples in everyone's hearts in the future." ”

Old Mrs. Ning's voice fell, and Old Man Ning sat back without a squeak, looking at the look on his face, I don't know how much he thought he had been wronged.

"Yingzi ......" Ning Mei, the lobby sister who had not squeaked, hurriedly pulled Ning Ying aside and whispered, "To be honest, grandparents are a bit patriarchal, and our granddaughters can't compare with grandchildren, but, no matter what, grandparents can't hope that we will have a bad time."

Just like me, I used to think that my grandparents were snobbish, and I felt that as long as I fell in love with someone, I would just live my own life.

But the reality really slapped me hard, because I didn't mind at the time, people didn't treat me as a person, and in the end I couldn't live a troubled life, and when I got divorced, I was angry to find a better one and angry with them.

But the fact is that a divorced woman, if she wants to find a better one than her previous home, it is a dream at all, if the conditions are good, the yellow flower girl can be picked, why do you want our divorced second marriage?

If you look at the life I'm living now, you can understand why my grandparents care so much about this, this is asking for gift money, which means that your money is expensive, in case you can't live one day, this is still your reliance, right?

Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if you use this money to help your mother's family, then, when you are really in trouble, can your mother's family ignore you? Why can I go home even after I'm divorced? Because I gave all the money I secretly saved to my mother's family in those years, then I was in trouble, why were they embarrassed to care?

I've just been with Wang Chen at this time, although it has been unsatisfactory, but he doesn't dare to go too far, why? Isn't it because my mother's family is strong, he doesn't dare to mess with it? Listen to my sister, don't bend with your grandparents about this, it's really good for you. After speaking, he also reached out and patted Ning Ying's shoulder, with an expression of "I'm from here, I'm good for you, you have to listen".

Ning Ying was willing to listen to Ning Mei's muttering, firstly, because she was thinking that this cousin was good to her, and secondly, she wanted to see what kind of score her grandparents were playing.

I don't know how many times I've discussed this matter at home, as for why this lobby sister did this, the reason is very simple, she is divorced, and the one she is looking for now is not good, and she has to rely on her mother's family, but she just has to please Mrs. Ning and them?

This kung fu, Mrs. Ning's mouth was not idle, she still vigorously argued how much she thought about her granddaughter in doing that, Aunt Lu didn't answer, she grabbed the conversation and resolutely didn't let others speak, for a while, the atmosphere in the room was not to mention how weird.

Obviously, there are 30 people sitting in the small 30, the room is crowded, and there is only Mrs. Ning who is there alone, I don't know, I think she is the head of the family, and she is holding a meeting for the whole family......

"Mom, it's okay......" Ning Baojun interrupted Mrs. Ning, "Our family affairs are different from other people's families, without the things you said, it's enough for people not to dislike the two of us for dragging us down, and then mention some such and such conditions, where to put this face?" ”

"Listen to what you mean, when Yingzi gets married, you will follow and no longer care about us?" Old Mrs. Ning looked at her son with a natural expression, "Don't forget, all these years, you are incapable, your father and I have been living in your eldest brother's house, and we rely on your eldest brother for everything, that is to say, all these years, it has been your eldest brother and sister-in-law who have been raising our old age."

Now, Yingzi is married, you have that ability, but you only think about yourself, and don't take me and your father in your eyes at all, Baojun, you can't do this as a man, God looks at it, aren't you afraid of being struck by lightning? ”

Ning Baojun looked at his old lady in disbelief, what is she talking about at this moment? Once, when he and his wife got married, their parents said that they would not point to them in this life, so they would not help them anything, and let him figure out his own way to get married.

Before getting married, he lived on the balcony, in such a small place in the open air, sealed with plastic paper, and built a board bed, before getting married, his parents told him that he couldn't get married at home, because they were afraid that his daughter-in-law would not move out if they got married at home.

No matter how he begged, his parents did not allow him to get married at home, and in the end, the director of the neighborhood committee couldn't see it and helped them find a small abandoned warehouse nearby, so that the two of them could deal with it temporarily.

The house he lives in now would have been a little bit close to his wife's family if it weren't for the fact that Wang Minxuan, the director of the sugar factory where he worked at the time, and his wife's family, and they really met the conditions for room division, it is estimated that their family still lives in a rented small house.

That is to say, when their family ate bran and even starved to death, their parents cut off contact with them for fear of being implicated, and when they saw that they were about to turn over, they immediately ran back to make him responsible......

Hehe, to put it mildly, in addition to giving birth to him, his parents really didn't do much of their parental responsibilities to him! If it weren't for the fact that his physical condition could be free, he probably wouldn't have been allowed to go!

Leftovers, leftovers, after class to go out to pick up rags to supplement the family, as soon as he graduated from junior high school, he was immediately forced to go to work in the factory to earn money for his brother and sister to go to school, in the years before marriage, he earned a lot of money was handed over to the family......

In this way, he really doesn't owe them anything!

All the worries were just a thought, and instead, Ning Baojun looked at Mrs. Ning with a faint expression: "Mom, you should still remember what you said to Dad, and you should still remember what you said when our family was about to starve to death."

Today is Yingzi's happy day, I came to you because I felt that after all, it was a family, Yingzi was your granddaughter after all, and you would always look forward to her having a good life, now it seems that I was really wrong.

I even wondered, if the situation of the eldest brother and the younger sister were the same as mine, would you treat them the same way you treated me? Forget it, it's not interesting to pursue these things, so let's talk about something interesting.

If you still treat me as a son and Yingzi as a granddaughter, you can stay and have a meal together, if the purpose of your visit is to scavenge something from Yingzi, then you can go.

From now on, you should not have my son, when I have the ability to be filial to you, I will still do my best to be filial, but this matter is not Yingzi's business, I can't drag her down by myself, and let you hurt her again! ”

"You...... You, you, you, you......" Old Lady Ning was so angry that her hands trembled, "You are unfilial!" Turning his head to look at Old Man Ning, "Old man, when I was born, you should have knocked him to death with a brick, this heartless thing wasted so much food to feed him, it is better to feed a dog!" ”

"Baojun, what you just said was your own true thoughts, or was it angry?" Old Man Ning looked at his son with a fierce face, "I'll give you a chance, and I'll tell you when I'm ready." ”

Ning Baojun really wanted to laugh a few times, their family has always been like this, what his mother can solve, his father will never participate, and when his father also starts to participate, it is when his father feels that his mother can't hold it back......