Ning Wei said with a faintly gloomy expression: "However, I have never said anything to her, and I can't say anything, because I don't deserve her, and I can't give her the happiness she deserves, I just feel that I can help her do something, and I will be satisfied when I see her happy." ”

I frowned and said, "Ning Wei, your way of thinking is obviously wrong, since you like her, why don't you dare to confess?" And you always say that you don't deserve her, and you can't give her so-called happiness, so I ask you, in your mind, what is real happiness. ”

"At least she should have no worries about food and clothing, be able to buy her a house, buy a car, and if she has any wishes, I can help her realize them."

As he spoke, Ning Wei's gaze darkened even more.

"But I can't do all this, so I can't confess to her, what if she really likes me, what should I do, now I have nothing, I can't give her anything, I can't let her suffer with me, let alone let her suffer in the slightest......"

"Stop, stop." I interrupted Ning Wei and said, "You are right, it's not that it's wrong, but you pay too much attention to the material aspect, I don't deny that two people need a material foundation to be together, but the material foundation is not the whole of love, such as what you just said about buying a house and a car, I think if you have your current ability, when will you be able to achieve these two aspects for her?" ”

"Estimated...... It's going to be a long time. ”

Ning Wei lowered his head in silence, there was no trace of brilliance in his eyes, this sentence had been a long time, and he had lost all confidence in himself.

I couldn't help but smile bitterly, in fact, it's been a long time, I think that with Ning Wei's current lifestyle, unless there is a miracle, it will be impossible to achieve at all.

Think about it, he bought diet pills with a little money, that little salary, not to mention saving, even his own living expenses after buying the medicine became a problem, I know that Ning Wei is usually very thrifty, and the fundamental reason is not that he makes trouble buying medicine.

I said bitterly: "Yes, it will take a long time, it turns out that you yourself know that this vision is difficult to achieve, let's not talk about whether you can achieve it in the end, even if one day you really have that ability, but how many years will it take for this long time?" Ten years, twenty years, brother, don't lie to yourself, okay? Do you think it's possible to keep a girl waiting for you for twenty years? Youth, time, just for your house, your car, to put it bluntly, is your vanity, and people have to spend it with you all the time? ”

"I ...... I didn't mean that......"

"So I want to say to you, wake up, brother, the most fundamental reason why you are now is actually just a matter of your face, people love you as a person, understand, what kind of car and house, those are external factors, according to your meaning, there is no love without a house or a car? Or once you have a garage, you can automatically harvest love? That's a simple thing, what kind of love do men still pursue, it's more convenient to make money with one mind, buy a car and buy a house and then change women when you earn money, just like now Bao (0) Raise a junior The same reason, do you think that is love? ”

"Of course not, how can love be like that." Of course, Ning Wei shook his head.

"So what are you still inking, let me tell you, if you love someone, you have to chase it hard, don't you know what you think in your heart, and a woman's youth is not to accompany you to spend fun, youth is short-lived, understand? Drag it around, both of you are in pain, so you don't feel wronged by her? I think you know this feeling best. ”

"Indeed, that taste...... It's uncomfortable. ”

Ning Wei lowered his head again, because what he experienced was originally this kind of fact, whether it was pain or not, he could not know.

"The question is, what should I do? I can't give her happiness, but I do really like her, I even have insomnia all night for her, I think about her every day, every minute, I almost collapse. Ning Wei's eyes were full of contradictions.

"Put down all your pressure, travel light, love, it's not as complicated as you think." I turned my head, looked at Ning Wei, and told him the true meaning of love, "Love, in fact, can be summed up in one sentence, being together is happiness, if you like her, chase her, if you love her, her, it's that simple." ”

"Ahem......"

Maybe I said this too bluntly, Ning Wei didn't come up directly, and choked and coughed.

"No, Brother Bin, I really can't accept it when you say that."

Ning Wei frowned, I think if this sentence hadn't come out of my mouth, he would have turned his face a long time ago.

I didn't care about that, but said categorically: "What's wrong with me saying this, the words are not rough, it should be like this, don't think that aspect is not important, in fact, the most important, much more important than those cars and houses, what women need is love, is gentleness, is the physical and mental communication between two people, is everything and all of each other, that kind of thing is not only you think, in fact, she also thinks, as long as it is two people who love each other, it is impossible not to think about that, men and women love, human nature, what is unseemly?" On the contrary, it's you, what's the point of thinking about love so complicated? What you lack now is bravery, decisiveness, not the waste of people's youth with your ink. ”

Ning Wei's expression was a little strange when I asked him, and he was silent for a long time before he hesitated: "But ...... But the question is ......"

"There is no problem, the problem is in your heart, first of all, put down your face, can't you love her without a material foundation? She's waiting for you, understand this, what are you hesitating about, let go of the courage to chase it, first hold happiness in your hands, give an explanation to the youth of other girls, and then what car, house, you can achieve it step by step, two people accompany each other, even if it is hard at the beginning, at least it will not waste time, but it is your wrong thinking that is the most headache, even if one day you have a strong material foundation and full of self-confidence, and then you go to confess to others, is it too late? Even if she didn't get married at that time, but her youth is no longer there, if she is as entangled as you, she feels that she is old, she has no confidence in herself, and she feels that she is not worthy of you, so she begins to run away from you again, so tossing each other, do you two still have a chance in this life? ”

Indeed, if a man has no material foundation, he feels that he is not worthy of a woman, and a woman who has lost her youth will also feel unworthy of a man.

"I ...... But...... This ......"

Ning Wei was speechless by me, but for a while, he still couldn't change his thinking, he just hesitated, but he didn't have the courage to be decisive.