"The things of this life, you can't worry about the ...... first" After returning home, Mrs. Xia looked at the big guy with emotion, "You said before, who would have thought that Gangzi could marry such a desirable daughter-in-law?" ”

After the end, the Lu family and the family were sent back, and they came back, there were no outsiders at home, and the old man Xia also rarely followed the gossip: "That's right, just a few days ago, as soon as Xiaorui said that we were going to move out, we were all worried, so I felt that I had bluffed people over and bought a house, and we were gone, not authentic." Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

The sister-in-law of the Lu family is almost stuck to us, and she is reluctant, and she is worried about the days to come, hey, how could I have thought that in less than ten days, the daughter-in-law has also married, and there is someone who is a companion, and she is closer than us.

Therefore, this person has to go forward step by step, as long as he does not do bad things, and his heart is good, sooner or later there will be a day of happiness, and the day of retribution for the calculation and contention will also be retribution sooner or later. ”

"But no, look at our Xiaorui, isn't it, how much did you say we were worried about her before?" Mrs. Xia smiled embarrassedly at Mu Nian, "I'm not afraid of your jokes, just in the past years, the two of us did a lot of foolish things."

Xiaorui didn't want to marry again, so we always forced her to marry, thinking that if she didn't find it earlier, the older she get, the more difficult it would be, and maybe she would be really lonely for a lifetime.

said that it was a big family to eat together, but as a result, she and Xiao Wu'er went, and then the man we went to go on a blind date with her.

With so many times, we were so scared that we didn't dare anymore, you said that as long as she earned that little money, it would have been difficult to have a hard time with Xiao Wu'er, and if you toss it a few more times, wouldn't we just hurt her? ”

"Mom, in fact, I guessed every time that you and my sister might be lying to me, but I didn't want to disappoint you, so I went, and I also knew that as long as I checked out, you would definitely not lie to me like that in the future." Xia Yuerui looked at Mrs. Xia with a smile and told the truth.

"You kid ......" Mrs. Xia looked at her little daughter speechlessly, she has always regarded her little daughter as an honest and heartless person, dare to be affectionate, she and her eldest daughter are the ones who lack heart, and they have been letting their little daughter play......

"Isn't it fun to talk about it now?" Charlotte Dance also joined in the fun, "Grandma, grandpa, did you look at me at that time and get upset, thinking that I am a harmful spirit, and my mother has not had a good life." ”

"At first, I didn't like you, if it weren't for you, your mother wouldn't have needed to be pointed at, but later, the longer you go, the more likable you become, we don't feel so much." Mrs. Xia couldn't help but smile as she spoke, "This will be thought about in retrospect, it's like telling a joke, at that time, I really felt that I couldn't get over, so I said, through our family, these things of your Grandma Lu's family can be figured out."

We are all at this age, don't worry about it in the future, just let it be, how long can we live, how long can we live, I don't want to help you much, and we must not make trouble for you, your uncle's side, what is the love, we will definitely not mix in the future. ”

After a pause, Mrs. Xia looked at a few people seriously, "Our old couple discussed it, Xiaoru's marriage, she still can't let her parents get involved, just those two people, now they each have a litter of drags, thinking that it is absolutely impossible for them to stop for the sake of their daughter."

So why don't we explain the situation directly to the Chang family, if it's because this person doesn't want to, it's just right, it's early, if people have no opinions, it's just right, there won't be so many troubles in the future, do you think this will be done? ”

"Mom, Cheng is Cheng, but after all, my brother is Xiaoru's parents, if the marriage notice is not notified to them, isn't it a little ...... Inexcusable? Xia Yuerui looked at Old Man Xia with a hesitant expression, and Old Lady Xia said.

"What's wrong with that?" Mrs. Xia snorted coldly, "If you want to be reasonable, you have to be angry with the whole family, Xiaorui, why are you not as good as your mother, we live for ourselves to be comfortable, not for others to see." ”

Old Man Xia echoed: "I agree with your mother's words, so many troubles, they care too much about what others think, what others say, so that they are so tired, life is for our own, what does it matter to others?"

That's right, we Chinese all pay attention to face, but this kind of face, I don't think it's really necessary to talk about it, if you really have a bad opinion of us because of this matter, don't come and go, in this life, it is impossible to satisfy everyone. ”

"Grandma, grandpa, why do you feel like you've suddenly been reborn?" Xia Luowu looked at the old couple with a surprised face, to be honest, she was very unhappy because of the old couple's tolerance of Xia Huajun again and again, but today, looking at the tone and expression of the second elder, you can know that they really figured it out.

"Xiao Wu'er has always been very disappointed in us, hasn't she?" Old Man Xia looked at his granddaughter with a smile, "Actually, we have always understood the truth, but we are always ruthless, at this time, the comparison of several families can be regarded as thinking through, and the final consequence of being ruthless is to harm the big guys, so it is better to earn everyone's life." ”

Seeing that although Old Man Xia and Old Mrs. Xia had figured it out, it was inevitable that she was still a little shocked, Qiao Mu said: "It's a good thing that Grandpa and Grandpa can think so clearly, but Grandpa also said that everyone's life is earned by everyone, or maybe the uncle's family can gradually change, and when the time comes, we can help them, and we will still help them." ”

"Then borrow wood for good words." Old Man Xia couldn't help but sigh as he spoke, "Speaking of which, it's still a lot wrong with me and your grandmother, if we weren't always biased towards our son, how could we make him what he is today?" ”

Well, how did this turn back?

Xia Luowu was speechless, but then he felt that he was still taking it for granted, what the old man said was also true, Xia Huajun became what he is today, and Mrs. Xia, the old man Xia, is indeed responsible for the unshirkable responsibility.

Therefore, it is impossible for them to really have no burden at all.

It's just that they have figured it out now, their son's life is for his son to go by himself, they will no longer mix, let alone drag their daughter into it, so that the whole family can continue to live for their son's family.

Then, if one day the son changes, it is the son's blessing and their blessing, if it does not change, or, until the day they close their eyes, it is impossible for them to really let go.

Therefore, there is really no absolute answer to whether to see or not to see.

But no matter what, it is not easy for Old Man Xia and Mrs. Xia to do this, and Xia Luowu does not plan to continue to be more serious in this matter, no matter how serious it is, it is really her fault.

As her mother said, when she becomes a mother, or she can understand this kind of helpless concern in the world.

Of course, if she were a mother, she would never spoil her children like that, and her habit is like a murderer, which is not an empty word.

I think she herself is an example, if she was not so pampered by her parents, as for raising so bad, she has no ability to protect herself? As a result, after so much suffering, she finally grew up.

So sometimes I think about it, should she love her parents or hate them? It's really a puzzle that can't be explained.

A large family was chatting, Xia Jingru and Changdong came, looking at the looks of the two of them, they knew that things should be going well, because both of them had very happy smiles on their faces, especially Xia Jingru, that happiness came from the heart.

"I took Ruru home at noon, and my parents saw her and liked it very much." As soon as he entered the door, Changdong truthfully reported the situation, "I also talked about our early marriage, my parents are eager to do it, so let me come over and discuss with my grandparents to see which day is suitable for these two days, the two sides will meet, and discuss specifically, that is, if we have any requirements here, we will mention them." ”

"The requirement is to be kind to Xiaoru, this child has a hard life, she didn't meet a parent who loves her, it is not easy to grow up to be such a promising child, if she marries at this time, she can live a good life, it is also her blessing."

Mrs. Xia glanced at Old Man Xia and saw that the other party had no objections, so she continued, "Dongzi, we discussed it, Xiaoru's parents, let's not notify it, so as not to make trouble when we get married."

It's not that we can't trust you, but we know them too well, it's really too difficult for you to make them honest and not make trouble, even if Xia Huajun is willing, Shao Mei may not be willing.

Over there, let alone Li Meiqin, after divorcing Hua Jun, she wanted to come back, but Hua Jun didn't want her anymore, I don't know who gave her the line, she married a child again, and the man heard that it was not a thing.

But this person, it's really a wicked person who is biased by a wicked person, when she was with Hua Jun before, Hua Jun had to listen to her everywhere, and now she is with that man, and she has become her to listen to that man in everything.

If he knew that Xiaoru had found such a good in-law, would the man be able to stop? If you don't need anything else, just blow the yin wind in Li Meiqin's ears, and you can make Li Meiqin pounce like crazy and don't care about anything.

We also know that the Chang family will definitely not let such people get their way, but, no matter what, they are the weaker party, and if they make a fuss, it will be bad for the reputation of the Chang family after all, so it is better to leave it like this, when we get married, I and your grandfather and two aunts and uncles are the parents of the woman, what do you think? ”

Changdong listened to Mrs. Xia's words, and said with a touched face: "Grandpa, grandma, thank you, I know, you want to do this for my sake......" He turned his head to look at Xia Jingru, "Xiaoru, I want to hear your opinion." ”

I didn't expect that the matter of taking the idea would be spread on herself, Xia Jingru was a little stunned for a while, and after a while, seeing everyone looking at her, she blushed and said, "I...... I listen to you. ”

Changdong looked at Xia Jingru seriously: "Xiaoru, marriage is a lifelong event, I hope you don't have any scruples to say your own thoughts, if you want your parents to attend, then I will definitely try my best to make them attend without making trouble." ”

"I don't think they have to attend...... Xia Jingru also became serious, she bit her lip, and her eyes swept over everyone's faces one by one before she said, "Just like my grandparents said, since I was a child, they basically have no affection for me."

When I was young, my grandparents raised me, and when I was older, my aunt raised me, so my elders should only be grandparents and aunts.

As long as the elders I care about are present, I won't have any shocks, and as for them, if they don't interact for the rest of their lives, I won't be shocked, that is, they will know sooner or later, so it's probably impossible for them to stay out of their minds for the rest of their lives. ”

She looked at Changdong apologetically, "So, in the end, but I still want you to be this wicked person to deal with them, I ......" She bit her lip embarrassedly, "I really can't do anything about them." ”

"Okay, if you say that, I'll understand." Changdong rubbed her head dotingly, "I've seen my parents today, you should be able to feel that they really like you, and they will definitely treat you like your own daughter." Don't worry, after getting married, they will make up for the father's love and mother's love that they lacked before. ”

The interaction between the two of them made everyone sit down in their hearts, they believed in their eyes, if such a Changdong is pretended, or will change, then it can only be said that this world is really unbelievable......

Early the next morning, Mrs. Xia, an old man and Mrs. Xia, accompanied by Xia Yuerui's family, met with Changdong's parents.

The two old men did not hide it, as soon as they met, they told the things they had discussed before, and told Changdong's parents very bluntly that if they couldn't accept such a family, they would understand and never complain.

Changdong's mother was a very kind middle-aged woman, and she took Mrs. Xia's hand with a smile and said, "Auntie, we really didn't expect you and Uncle to be so straightforward, but we like it." ”

She glanced at her husband and saw that the other party nodded at her with a smile, so she continued, "We really like Xiaoru's child, we are married to her daughter-in-law, not her parents, so those have no influence at all."

This child is a solid-eyed child, and she also told us in detail about her parents yesterday, and even more serious than what her uncle and aunt said, we have clearly told her, and we don't care.

Your second elder can rest assured, the child is married, and he can't stand ......it," she looked at Mu Nian with a smile, "Boss Mu and our Chang family have cooperation, what kind of people are the two of us, Boss Mu should be clear, right?" ”