Chapter 342: It's You, Me and Him (3)

It's often said that the devil is in the details, and that's not the case with a thing. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 infoMany things seem ordinary and ordinary, but when we look closely, you will find some details that are unique. No one is noble or low, all beings are equal, and humility comes first. Humility is self-respect; Arrogance is self-contempt. Humility before men, all directions; Arrogance is in front of people, and it is difficult to move an inch. Don't arrange life too much, don't design life too crowded. Whatever you do, give yourself some space so you can turn around. Leave a little benefit for others to occupy, leave a little path for others to take, and leave a little time for yourself to think. At all times, we must remember to leave some room for life, not to be aggressive, not to be decadent, not to be nervous, not to be slack, not to be complacent when you get, not to be depressed when you lose, and to be calm and calm between gains and losses. The width of the heart determines the height of life. Capable people don't care about their moods, they only take things seriously; Incompetent people are not serious in their work, but only emotionally; Confused people don't take themselves seriously, they only care about the results.

Some words need to be spoken, and if you hold them in your heart, you will eventually hurt your body. Some feelings need to be confessed and deliberately hidden, which will eventually hurt people. Between the heart and the heart, lies in the spirit; Between love and affection, there is warmth. When it hurts, someone hurts; When it hurts, someone understands. When you are wronged, you have a hug; When you are vulnerable, you have something to rely on. When you are lonely and helpless, you can do something; When you are down, you will never give up. The words in the heart, someone listens to it is warm; Depressed things, someone understands is happiness. With love, the heart will be warm; If you have affection, your heart will not chill. When people live, they will be lonely; Moving forward, there will be ups and downs; If you are tempted, you will have emotional wounds. No matter how beautiful the words are, if they can't be said in their hearts, they are in vain; No matter how strong the affection is, if you don't know how to cherish it, it is in vain. Some people think that no matter how far the road is, it is also close; Some people worry that no matter how fresh the water is, it is also sweet; Some people miss, no matter how long the night is, it is also short; Someone cares, no matter how cold the day is, it is also warm. When people meet each other, it is fate, and they should be cherished; Heart-to-heart communication is love, and it must be sincere; Affection and affection are blended, that is, to understand and be honest. Life is gathered because of fate, and warm because of love.

Human life seems to be searching for these things, and whatever you do, whatever you will do, the starting point is happiness. So what is happiness? Different people have different understandings and feelings about the connotation of happiness, but all understandings and all feelings are inseparable from a fulfilling life. In fact, being able to live this life to the fullest is the greatest happiness.

Life needs to be confused at the right time. One can live authentically, but not too seriously. As the saying goes, when the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives. The greatest sorrow of perfectionists is that they live unrealistically, demanding others and themselves with almost perfect standards, and living a life that is both hard and causes endless troubles. The reason why people are happy is not because they have more, but because they care less. Optimism comes from tolerance, generosity, empathy, and indisputability. There is no perfection in life, if you figure it out, if you think about it, it will be perfect. Reality is the most real reality, in the real world, there are joys and sorrows, there are bitter and sweet, there are troubles and confusions, there are liberation, you can appreciate the true meaning of life from it, and you can live happily and happily in this life, and those fantasies that are divorced from reality are inappropriate. Pursuing everything well is a positive thought, but it is not the best way to live. Timely confusion, you will get a lot of joy and happiness from it, or that sentence, you are easy-going, life is easy-going.

If you want to be happy, you have to be easy-going; If you want to be happy, you have to go with the flow. Happiness is the pleasure of the heart, and happiness is the satisfaction of the heart. Don't quarrel with others, arguing will hurt each other's feelings; Don't quarrel with yourself, arguing will affect your mood; Don't quarrel with fate, quarrels won't change its course. The heart is not careful, and the heart is always happy; In addition to dedication, follow the fate of the beginning, with the encounter and peace, contentment and happiness. You are easy-going, it is your own heart that is happy, you are careful, and it is you who are troubled. The mood of the day depends on easy-going, and the happiness of a lifetime depends on contentment. Happy people know how to control their emotions, and they don't let negativity control them. When something seems to be bad for them, happy people think in terms of the positives, believing that no matter how bad things are, there are good aspects. Our happiness or sadness is not due to what situation we are in or what situation we are experiencing, but how we will face it. In fact, happiness comes from our hearts.

The realm of life, in the final analysis, is the realm of the soul. If you are confused, no matter how far you go, you will not be able to capture the true image of life and appreciate the charming scenery. Only the tranquility of the soul can create the elegance of human nature. This kind of quietness is the peace after gains and losses, the tranquility in the face of temptation, the calmness in the face of hardship, the smile on this turbid world, and the slow to see, see through, see through, and look down on this long road of life.

Look at the world with an optimistic heart, the world is beautiful everywhere; Walk life with a pessimistic heart, life is gloomy everywhere. Leave a pure fertile soil for the soul, do not doubt the length of the rights and wrongs of the world, just like being swept by the wind, pure, simple, look at the world with a simple heart, and you will naturally understand life.

The greatest joy of human life is to find happiness in suffering. Don't torture yourself for anyone or anything, such as annoyance, sadness, autism, depression, these are all things that fools do. Learn to endure pain. Some words are suitable for rotting in the heart, and some are painful, suitable for silent forgetting. When you have experienced it, you have grown, and it is good to know it yourself. A lot of changes, you don't need to say it, the facts are there. Happy because you see it; Because I look down, I am happy. We are all passers-by of heaven and earth, many people, many things, we cannot decide, such as the passing of time, the ever-changing human heart. The word "heart" is three points, there is no point that does not jump out, the more you want to grasp, it is often the fastest to leave you. Life is still good with fate, those with deep fate gather more, and those with shallow fate go with it. In life, how much you look away, how much happiness will increase, how much you look down, how much pain will leave.

Three thousand weak water, only take one scoop, contentment is happiness. The world is endless, the sea of suffering is boundless, and the back is the shore. There are three thousand prosperous in the eye, and they are all like empty illusions in the blink of an eye. Only by suffering can we enjoy the blessings of the blessings. There is leisure in the heart, happiness every day, and hope in the heart, but I know how to stop at the end of fate, and the sky will be clear when I turn back.

(To be continued.) )