Repair relationships

After finishing eating, Sister Li picked up the insulated lunch box that had been prepared and went out. Bian Junyi didn't know that his sister was hospitalized now, but he thought that his sister and brother-in-law didn't treat their mother and son very well, so he deliberately hid and didn't come back.

He felt panicked in his heart, and there was an indescribable discomfort. Since his sister got married, he felt that the relationship between their sister and brother was much worse than before, how could that old man in his forties be worthy of his sister? And he is her own brother who is related by blood, why is he not as good as an outsider?

This kind of depressed but unimaginable strong frustration in his heart is something that Bian Junyi has never experienced in his life for more than 20 years, Sister Li's ignorance of them, Bian Jun also saw it in his eyes and remembered it, a nanny with a salary from his employer, where did he have the confidence to dare to ignore the employer's relatives so much, there must be someone behind her to support her, and this person should not be a sister, then it can only be a brother-in-law.

Qiu Lianxi treats Bian Jun well, and Bian Jun is really too lazy to care, because in his opinion, his brother-in-law is a complete outsider, and he, his mother and sister are a family whose blood is thicker than water, and Bian Jun doesn't care about an outsider's attitude.

But what if this outsider influences the attitude of his relatives? Bian Jun also stared at the 55-inch large color TV installed in his sister's living room in a daze, and a scene came to mind.

A year ago,The TV in their home was broken,Mother came over since she was a child,Always thrifty,Now it's easy to buy a TV for thousands,She went around the mall,Finally reluctant,I dispelled the idea of buying a new TV,Ready to repair the old brick machine at home,Let's watch it。

His sister got married, he lived in school, his mother lived alone, and the loneliness of the empty nesters can be imagined. Bian Jun was really afraid that his mother would always go on like this, and there would be mental problems, so he proposed to his sister that she should pay for her mother to buy a new TV, and the old one basically couldn't be repaired.

As for asking his sister for money, Bian Jun also felt justified, where did the family need to calculate the economic accounts so clearly? Mother has no pension, so many years of savings are all spent on a pair of children, to the old, sister and brother support her is due, and he is still in college, no financial resources, sister has worked, the income is very high, the mother carefully cultivated the sister also paid a lot of effort, now is the time for her to return first, give her mother some money to spend, support the younger brother to reduce the burden of the mother, only to have the appearance of the eldest sister.

But he called, and his sister didn't say anything when he heard him, but he was heard by his brother-in-law who had very long ears next to him, and the man denied the request to buy a new color TV for his mother, and kept saying that his sister was married, and there was no reason to make up for it to his mother's house every day. Anyway, the meaning of the words, Bian Jun also understood very clearly, the brother-in-law was taking over from his sister and wanted to separate the relationship between their family.

Isn't it because when my sister got married, my mother accepted a bride price from my brother-in-law, but she didn't give my sister any dowry. But her mother has her own considerations, she is getting older and older year by year, her body is overworked when she was young, and she has not taken good care of it, and now she has a small problem, she needs to take injections and medicines all year round, and she has no source of income, medical expenses are the most realistic problem in front of her, and she must think about her own life in the future.

And my sister can have her current life, and her mother contributed a lot to her. The family is so difficult and her livelihood is a problem, but her mother gritted her teeth and stubbornly carried through the most difficult years when her sister went to college. She got up before dawn every day, and didn't drag her tired home until midnight to rest, working two jobs by herself to earn tuition and living expenses for her sister. At that time, my mother had never complained in front of their two siblings that she was tired, but Bian Jun also saw her mother suffering from severe back pain countless times, in addition to putting two pieces of cheapest rheumatism ointment and beating her waist from time to time, she was reluctant to take out a penny to see a doctor for herself.

Who is she doing this for, and it's not because her sister is going to college and needs to spend money! The mother with strong self-esteem does not want her sister to be sympathetic and pitiful by her classmates and teachers at school because of poverty, in her mother's view, poverty is only temporary, if you want to put this label on your body, you also admit in your heart that you are very poor and need help from others, and you may not be able to take off the big hat of poverty for the rest of your life. If you are accustomed to low self-esteem and reach out to accept the help of others, where can you stand on your own feet in the future?

Therefore, when my sister was in school, her mother allowed her to work to supplement her living expenses, but she was not allowed to accept the school's subsidy for poor students. I have to say that although my mother is an ordinary housewife with no culture, her understanding of life can sometimes be called wise, at least her education of her sister is successful.

Mother has given so much, is it that such a big living person is taken away by others, and it has nothing to do with her from now on? Who would want to raise a daughter in this way? The brother-in-law's money was reluctant, 150,000 yuan, which was just the standard financial gift money for ordinary people in their city to marry their daughters, and the mother didn't ask for anything excessively, even if it still caused the dissatisfaction of the brother-in-law. I don't want to think about his forties people, who feel hard to even take out such a little money, how can he give his sister a happy life in the future?

Bian Jun also knows that the little girl that his sister gave to his brother-in-law and ex-wife, a person who has no blood relationship with her, also has a laptop worth more than 5,000 yuan, but when he was in college, his sister was only willing to take out 2,000 yuan, and the posture she put on, like charity, he didn't know what kind of mentality he had to take the thin twenty pieces of paper.

In the end, under the interference of my brother-in-law, the plan to buy a new TV for my mother was aborted, and to this day, my mother's home is still that small, dead and heavy brick, because it has been repaired repeatedly, and my mother has never seen it again.

At that time, he only thought it was because of his brother-in-law, and his sister was still his good sister, but then his sister also changed, she only had her own child in her eyes, what was good about the little girl who was thin and small, with sparse hair, was a crying bag, but it was also extremely sticky, and she had to be hugged all the time.

Because of her existence, Bian Jun is no longer the youngest person in the family, he has to look like an uncle, and let his niece do everything.

In the corner that no one sees, between the three people who are happy on the surface, the contradictions accumulate bit by bit, and today, the estrangement between the mother and son and the sister has long been difficult to return, and there is no going back.

A crystal tear slipped from the corner of Bian Junyi's eye, and it happened to be seen by Xing Su'e. She has been holding her breath for a long time, her son's tears have become the last straw that overwhelmed her, and her dissatisfaction with her daughter has reached its peak, in the past few years of marriage, her daughter has become more and more disobedient to her, and she has become estranged from her son a lot, how can this work, Xing Su'e is old, she knows that her health is not good, she can still take care of her son for a few years, and when she is gone, she still hopes that the two sisters and brothers can support each other, but she is not dead, the two of them are almost estranged a lot, and when she is gone, I don't know what it will look like, How's that going to work?

Xing Su'e couldn't help but pull her son out of her daughter's house. The hospital where the girl entered with her child, if she wanted to be hospitalized, she must be the closest to their home, so Xing Su'e went straight there at the first stop, she turned around the obstetrics and gynecology ward of the hospital several times and did not see her daughter, and thought that she had misestimated, and just wanted to make a phone call to ask, she saw Sister Li carrying a lunch box and turning out from the other end of the corridor.

Many big hospital buildings in China are built like a labyrinth, Xing Su'e didn't know what department was in the corridor over there, Sister Li just took the elevator downstairs, and didn't see Xing Su'e's mother and son, and after she left, Xing Su'e pulled her son to the corridor, and saw Qiu Lianxi at the end.

The five big characters in the intensive care unit hung there brightly, of course Xing Su'e saw it, she suddenly remembered the last time she called her uncle, her uncle said that there was something wrong with her daughter and child, and she didn't go to her heart at the time, but now she saw this battle, and her uncle, who had lost a lot of weight after not seeing her for a few days, chuckled in her heart, and couldn't help but tremble and stepped forward to ask about her daughter's situation.

Qiu Lianxi is in a good mood now, just 10 minutes ago, the nurse informed him that his wife had woken up, and the doctor preliminarily determined that she was out of danger after an examination, and if there was no accident, she should be able to eat normally the morning after tomorrow. Therefore, even if he looked up and saw his mother-in-law, who made him feel a little disgusted, he answered his mother-in-law's question with a pleasant face.

Knowing that her daughter is sober now, there is no big problem, her grandson has also been saved, and she is in a good situation in the incubator, Xing Su'e's heart suddenly fell again. She said, what a natural process it is to have children, she gave birth to two by herself, and there was no problem at all, it was still thirty years ago, and it can't be compared with the current level of medical care. The girl herself gave birth to one before, and now she is the second child, what's the big deal, but both of them are hypocritical people, and they are also admitted to the intensive care unit to scare people, but they scared her a lot just now.

A few people spoke in a rare atmosphere, and Bian Jun was also recovering from a serious illness and had a short mental head, so he sat next to him after a while, drowsy and nodded. Xing Su'e hurriedly said a few polite words, and pulled her son back to her daughter's house to sleep first, which was convenient for taking care of nearby, and also allowed Qiu Lianxi to have a replacement person to take a breather.

Qiu Lianxi didn't expect that his mother-in-law would be willing to leave her newly recovered son to take care of her daughter, but no matter what, her mother-in-law took the initiative to bring it up, so he agreed with great gratitude, and thought in his heart that he couldn't have any opinions on his mother-in-law, she was that kind of character, with old eyes and old thoughts, but in essence she still loves children.

So it was rare, Xing Su'e suddenly found out in her conscience that she was attentive to her daughter, and wanted to mend her daughter's estranged relationship with their mother and son. Now be kind to her when her daughter needs her to take care of her, I believe that my daughter feels good about herself, and she will no longer complain about her eccentricity as before.

Bian Junfan recovered quickly, and on the fourth day, he came out of the intensive care unit and transferred to the general ward, because of Xing Su'e's help, Qiu Lianxi was finally able to work normally for a few days, rush to the performance, and someone could replace him at night, and he had a good rest, and he was very grateful to his mother-in-law.

Bian Junfan was equally flattered. From childhood to adulthood, her mother taught her to let her younger brother, take care of her younger brother, and everything must come first to her younger brother, and now her mother actually puts her younger brother alone at home, saying that it is all fake, in the end it is her own biological mother! People's hearts are made of flesh, and this time I suffered a big sin, how could my mother not feel distressed.

It seems that overnight, even with his younger brother, he is a lot more sensible, knowing that he came to accompany the bed and told jokes and novels to make her happy, Bian Junfan felt very heartwarming, he had not hurt this younger brother in vain for so many years.

The good news continued to come one after another, and when a week passed, and when Bian Junfan was finally allowed to be discharged from the hospital, their son, who had been living in the incubator in the neonatal intensive care unit, could also be visited—of course, the incubator would continue to live, but it was better to see it than not to see it. The little guy can only eat one tablespoon of milk at the beginning, and now he can swallow on his own, eat 20 to 30 ml of milk well, and gain weight every day.

Bian Junfan ignored the pain of the knife, insisted on coming to see her son every day, not caring that this little thing almost killed her, full of maternal brilliance, she looked at her son as if he had the most precious treasure in the world, and he looked like he had a son who was full of everything.

Even Xing Su'e is very concerned about her newborn grandson, while taking care of her daughter, she took time out to make a lot of diapers with old clothes, steamed, washed and dried repeatedly, making it soft and clean, ready to wait for her grandson to come home and give it to him.

Bian Jun's body is almost recovered, he has pulled down a lot of homework during this time, and he is about to catch up with the final exam, many professional courses in computer science are highly professional, if you don't study hard, the probability of failing the exam is very high, so Bian Jun also said hello to his mother and went back to school.

Xing Su'e is now full of her little grandson, and her adult son has fallen out of favor early, she waved her hand carelessly, signaling her son to hear it and let him go. (To be continued.) )