All for the sake of the children
Xing Su'e was also a little stunned when she heard the news, she thought that Qiu Lianxi was fooling him, Bian Junfan has been pregnant for nearly seven months now, and she has also been there twice when she did prenatal checkups, although the attending doctor has always said that the pregnancy of this daughter is not very good, but so what, now giving birth to a child is not as high as the mortality rate in ancient times, and the fetal position is not a big deal, and then she will choose a cesarean section, anyway, her first child is a cesarean section, what's the big deal.
Therefore, Xing Su'e has never regarded her daughter's bad pregnancy as a big deal, and she used to take care of her daughter, and she also did her duty as a mother. The girl has been sensible and obedient since she was a child, and she didn't care about it, so she took it for granted that her daughter would always be good and independent, she just needed to take care of her son.
Qiu Lianxi didn't have time to talk nonsense with her, and after Xing Su'e pestered him to ask a few more words that didn't matter, Qiu Lianxi hung up the phone without even saying hello. He didn't know what was going on with Bian Junfan now, so he could only paced anxiously back and forth outside the obstetrics and gynecology examination room, expecting the closed door to open quickly, how could he be in the mood to deal with his mother-in-law who had few brains.
45 minutes ago, he was drinking afternoon tea with a customer and talking about a very important order, when he received a call from the nanny at home, saying that Bian Junfan felt uncomfortable not long after lunch, and went back to the house to sleep.
Before calling Qiu Lianxi, the nanny had already called an ambulance and urged him to come back quickly. Qiu Lianxi didn't even have time to explain to the customer, so he jumped up and rushed out, taking a taxi to the nearest hospital to their home.
He hurried and hurried, because the time to come out was just after work, and the evening rush hour road was jammed into a pot of porridge, Qiu Lianxi was in a hurry, and he didn't have the ability to let the taxi driver fly over, the distance that could have been reached in half an hour, he walked for an hour and a half, and in the end, Qiu Lianxi didn't even have the heart to complain, and finally saw the shadow of the hospital, hurriedly threw down the money and ran to the hospital at a speed of 100 meters.
It's a pity that he came too late, Bian Junfan had already been sent to the examination room, and the nanny sister was also in tears. Bian Junfan has a very good personality and is a very good person to serve, the nanny sister got along with their family very happily during this time, so she really felt a little bit for her in her heart, especially when she saw with her own eyes how much blood Bian Junfan shed, the nanny sister herself had given birth to a child, and she knew the danger.
The gynecologist also came out twice just now, one time to inform her to pay the money, and the other time she received a lot of equipment and brought a lot of people in, and the nanny sister didn't care about what was wrong with stopping the doctor at this moment of crisis. The doctor pushed her away and hurriedly threw down a sentence: The mother was bleeding a lot, her life was in danger, and it was not suitable to move in the examination room now, so he hurriedly called the emergency department to come over and asked her not to make trouble outside.
When the nanny's eldest sister heard the doctor say that the mother and son were in danger of life, she already felt that her eyes were a little black, and she didn't have much money on her, so she temporarily turned it out of Bian Junfan's satchel when she was waiting for the ambulance, plus the unspent vegetable money, the total was less than 3,000 yuan. In a place like a hospital, money is thrown in and you can't even hear a sound, and once the deposit is gone, doctors and nurses want to save people, and they have to be able to get out the medicines and equipment used in first aid in advance in arrears, so the nanny looks at the staircase almost every thirty seconds, seeing that Qiu Lian is overjoyed.
Lying inside are his wife and his son, saving people is like fighting a fire, but they can't afford to delay. Just when the nanny's eldest sister was looking forward to it, Qiu Lianxi finally appeared. Urged by the nanny sister to pay the bill, Qiu Lianwei only thought that he had just taken a taxi over in a hurry, and he didn't have time to withdraw the money at all, and now he didn't have much cash on him, so he took out his wallet and stuffed it into the nanny's hand, and he hurried to the bank. Fortunately, at this point, there are not many people who withdraw money from the bank, Qiu Lianxi took out two cards in one go, took a thick bundle of money before coming back, and deposited it in his wife's medical account as soon as possible.
The door of the examination room has not been opened again, although Qiu Lianxi is too frightened, but he has to keep reassuring himself that no news may be the best news, at least there is no news to prove that the doctor is nervously rescuing, proving that his wife and children should still be alive, he must calm down, and the two lives inside are supported by him alone.
For the first time, Xing Su'e was so directly slapped by her son-in-law, she was quite unaccustomed to it, she wanted to scold her with a black face, and she was worried about her daughter. Speaking of which, Xing Su'e doesn't have much of a bad heart, it's just that her growth environment determines that she attaches more importance to her son. She is not distressed about her daughter, but a child who has been worry-free since he was a child, compared with a child who lost his father in infancy, a child who is naturally worry-free will receive a lot less attention, as the so-called crying child has milk to eat, and the child who can't cry will naturally starve and freeze, as for the fact that it is not good for his daughter, it is a big deal in Xing Su'e's opinion.
How can a mother and daughter have an overnight feud, can she still compete with her younger brother for favor? Sometimes Xing Su'e is in a bad mood and has beaten her daughter a few times, but she hasn't beaten her to death, isn't it, she also worked hard for her daughter to go to college, isn't it?
Xing Su'e worried about her daughter for a few minutes, and then met her son's pale and emaciated face. Her son's sin this time was great, but she felt sorry for her, so she should accompany her son well. As for the girl, anyway, isn't there an uncle with her, which woman doesn't have children, and she can't die, and it's in the hospital, there are so many doctors and nurses who take care of her, there is no place for her, she still accompanies her son, there is no one else around her son except her, how can she bear to leave him alone on the hospital bed. So Xing Su'e stayed with her son with peace of mind, not knowing that her daughter's life was on the verge at this time.
The door, which was about to be stared out of a hole by Qiu Lianxi, was finally opened from the inside. He rushed forward reflexively and asked anxiously: "Doctor, doctor, how is my wife?" Please tell me what happened to her! ”
"Are you Bian Junfan's family?" The doctor took the medical record and raised his eyes to look at Qiu Lianxi.
"Yes, yes, I'm her husband, how is she now? Doctor, please tell me quickly. Qiu Lian couldn't help but stretch his neck to look into the examination room, hoping to see Bian Junfan.
"How do you do husbandry? Your wife's pregnancy this time is placenta previa, don't you know? She needs to be well rested and closely monitored, and as the months of pregnancy increase, she can be born prematurely and hemorrhage at any time! Look at you, the patient was already in a coma when she was sent, and we have now transfused her with nearly 1,000 ml of whole blood, and if she finds out a few minutes later, even if the gods come, they can't save her! Qiu Lianxi listened to the doctor scolding him angrily, but he put his mind at ease, since he had the energy to scold him here, at least it meant that his wife's fate was saved.
Qiu Lianxi squeezed out a smile that was even more ugly than crying, and half of his heart was put down, and he continued with the doctor: "Her condition is relatively stable now, and there is no danger to her life for the time being, but she needs to be hospitalized for observation, if the situation is wrong, we need to perform an emergency cesarean section for her." You have to make sure to be by her side 24 hours a day, because we have to find the family to sign at the time of surgery, do you understand? "What obstetricians and gynecologists are most afraid of is that they encounter unclear family members, do not listen to the doctor's orders, have a good idea, and if something goes wrong with the mother and perinatal baby, it will be planted on their doctor.
Fortunately, Qiu Lianxi was quite cooperative, and hurriedly went to go through the hospitalization procedures, and then cooperated with the nurse to carefully push the unconscious Bian Junfan into the intensive care unit, and then took care of it 24 hours a day. Fortunately, the nanny eldest sister is very powerful, and the logistics support work is in place, so that Qiu Lianxi has no worries and can accompany Bian Junfan ********.
Bian Junfan had a difficult pregnancy, and the main reason was still on him. He is already in his early fours, and although he has had two children before and after, he is not blessed to raise two children to adulthood. The two children who died one after another are an indelible pain in his heart. He loves children like crazy and for a long time after his youngest daughter's death, he can't see children of the same age as his youngest daughter at all, and even hearing their voices makes him want to hit the wall.
His soft little daughter, his babbling daughter, his toddler daughter, the daughter he would have just called his father's daughter, because of an oversight, made her life forever freeze at one year and eleven months.
As parents, they brought her into this world, but they did not fulfill their responsibilities and gave her the opportunity to grow up safely. He asked himself over and over again, knowing that his wife had a very poor memory after giving birth, why did he let his wife drive out with her daughter, which eventually led to an accident, and why did his wife and brother who were with her play no role? Qiu Lianxi couldn't blame himself anymore, if he hadn't been able to get out of the shadow of his little daughter's accidental death, he might have jumped from their house and ended his painful life; He couldn't blame his wife, because his wife was in the same pain as him, holding the body of her soft little daughter, crying uncontrollably, and at that time his wife showed mild symptoms of postpartum depression, he was too late to be relieved, how dare he blame. This is the person he chose to spend the rest of his life together, he can't bear to let her be stuck in guilt and self-blame, the couple wants to live well, this family wants to not be separated, Qiu Lianxi must find someone to transfer all the negative emotions in his heart.
Bian Jun also seemed to be the only choice. It's a pity that when the accident happened, it was the end of May two years ago, when Bian Jun was also a junior in high school, and he was about to take the college entrance examination in a week. How important is China's college entrance examination, I believe that parents with children have either experienced it or will experience it in the future, it is not an exaggeration to call it a turning point that changes the fate of life, Qiu Lianxi didn't have time to blame Bian Junyi, Xing Su'e launched seven aunts and eight aunts to start comforting Bian Junyi, and told everyone that they must not disturb Bian Junyi's college entrance examination because of anything. Ten years of sharpening the sword, waiting for these few days, if the test is not good, the child's whole life will be pitted.
When Xing Su'e looked at the couple and wanted them to make a statement, Qiu Lianxi really didn't know what kind of mentality he had before agreeing to the old lady's unreasonable request. Not only did they have to knock out their teeth and swallow blood, and hastily cremate their daughter, but they also had to pretend that they were fine, and in turn comfort Bian Junyi, the accomplice who indirectly caused their daughter's death!
Perhaps because of this reason, Qiu Lianxi couldn't look down on his wife and brother. A child who can't be weaned by his mother-in-law, gnawing on his sister is a normal thing for him, he doesn't realize that his sister has started a family, and he is already a family.
Although these words are a little hurtful, but the truth is such a truth, people want to grow up and have a family to have someone they love more, although they are still a member of the big family, but they also have to learn to plan for their small family, it is impossible for everything to be the same, put the younger brother in the heart.
It's a pity that Bian Jun doesn't understand this truth at all, in his opinion, the earth and the sun should revolve around him, Xing Su'e has no life of her own, everything she does, there is only one consideration, that is, it must be in the interests of her son.
Qiu Lianxi feels sorry for such a mother, in fact, this is a microcosm of the majority of parents in China, who live for their children. Qiu Lianxi only hopes that if he becomes a parent in the future, he will never become a child slave like Xing Su'e, raising children is because he loves children and enjoys the process of raising a young life, rather than turning TA into the meaning of his own existence.
So this time Qiu Lianxi held his wife's hand tightly, and prayed to God so sincerely for the first time, if he was destined to have a weak child, let his wife survive this hurdle, he hoped to be with this woman for the rest of his life, and never have children again.
God didn't seem to hear Qiu Lianxi's prayers, at noon the next day, Bian Junfan was bleeding again, and the doctor decided to operate immediately after a simple examination, Qiu Lianxi trembled and signed the surgical risk notice, and then watched his comatose wife being pushed into the operating room, and he didn't even have a chance to say goodbye.
At the moment before the door of the operating room was closed, Qiu Lianxi shouted in a hoarse voice: "Doctor, if there is any accident, please save my wife, please." The doctor with the mask was stunned for a moment, although what happened on the operating table, the doctor had to decide the rescue plan according to the actual situation of the patient, and if he stayed outside the operating room of the obstetrics and gynecology department for a long time, he could almost see all kinds of life, but if he could say such a thing, at least this man felt sorry for his wife.
The doctor smiled kindly, nodded and said, "We'll do our best."
Qiu Lianxi watched his wife disappear behind the door of the operating room before slumping on the stool. From now until his wife is pushed out, he can't do anything but wait.
He now regrets it immensely, why when his wife was just pregnant, he knew that there was a two-year dangerous period for caesarean section, but he didn't be stronger and let his wife definitely kill the child. (To be continued.) )