Chapter 138: Filial Piety Before Life or Filial Piety After Death?

Lan Jiayin said this, although it is the most high-sounding reason, but this reason has always been the most popular for the elderly. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

Mrs. Liang's eyes narrowed slightly when she heard this, and she praised it with a smile, "They all say that you are a good boy who is really filial, and today the old man heard your words with his own ears, and he knew that what they said was true." ”

"This is very good, today's saints govern the country with benevolence and filial piety, and we who are courtiers should also take the holy will as the will."

Old Madam Liang was just able to sit next to Duchess Zhu Guo, and the position was still in front of Jiang and Feng, not for no reason.

There is a sentence called family history, and this sentence is really the most suitable for the three generations of Mrs. Liang's ancestors and grandchildren.

Don't look at Liang Qiaoqian's current reputation in the capital, if you dare to go back for another twenty years, you will find that in the capital twenty years ago, when it comes to the double walls of the capital, everyone knows it.

And Liang Wenyu, one of the double walls, was finally married back to Pingjing by Xuanping Marquis, which is a big regret in the hearts of the people of Beijing.

And Mrs. Liang, who taught such an outstanding aunt and nephew, was also a model of a lady in their generation back then.

Because she treats people kindly and fairly, and she is a very respectful person, she is very prestigious in the circle of noblewomen, and if something irreconcilable happens in anyone's family, most of them will ask her to maneuver one or two from it.

It is also in these years that Mrs. Liang is getting older, and her body is not so good, so she gradually faded out of this circle and no longer cares about the trivial matters of those parents.

But as long as she appears at someone's banquet, it goes without saying that the seat is definitely a conspicuous place next to the host's house.

I didn't have much contact with each other before, and I didn't think much of it, but now that the two of them sat down and gossiped, Lan Jiayin quickly noticed that this old lady had an affinity that could not be refused.

It is easy to let your guard down, and from the bottom of your heart you feel that this old lady is a loving person.

She barely resisted, and then said what was in her heart, "The saint is wise, he has seen through people's hearts, think about it, but if you are a normal person, who will not respect your elders?" Don't love children? ”

"Although my grandmother was quite strict with our younger generation when she was alive, it was also a deep responsibility of love, and she hoped that we would all be successful."

"For her old man, don't say one year of filial piety, even if it is three years of filial piety, the little girl will keep it."

Regarding the matter of keeping filial piety, the rules of one dynasty and one dynasty are different, the Great Zhou Dynasty pays attention to keeping filial piety for three years, heavy filial piety for one year, and in a year of heavy filial piety, children can only wear white and black, and the jewelry is mainly plain silver and pearls.

After the first year of heavy filial piety, the remaining two years, clothes can be colored, but they can't be red and green, and the food can be meaty, but it is not suitable to drink and meat.

When the three-year period expired and the receptive service was performed, everything returned to normal.

Lan Jiayin's previous sentence 'shouldn't come,' also came from here, but it's a pity that she has this heart, but due to practical reasons, she can't fulfill it.

When Mrs. Liang saw what she said, everything came from the bottom of her heart, and she liked it more and more, and comforted her with kind words: "Good boy, don't be sad, you are still young, and many things are like watching flowers through the fog, and you can't see clearly." ”

"When you reach the age of the old body, you can understand that in fact, everything is empty, why does Buddhism say that the four are empty?"

"It's because everything is empty, but everything is real, the old body lives your grandmother's mind with her own heart, she just wants to see that you are all well, safe and healthy, better than anything else."

"In a word, as long as you have filial piety in your heart, what does it matter if you wear filial piety clothes or not, and eat vegetarian food?"

Lan Jiayin thought deeply of this remark, nodded and agreed: "What you said is very right, just like Ma Xiaoshu, who was famous in the previous dynasty, he didn't know how to fulfill his filial piety during his mother's lifetime, and let his mother be a slave all day long. ”

"Such an unmanned wheel actually tortured his mother to death, but after his mother's death, he beat his chest and feet, cried bitterly, and swore to guard the grave of filial piety for ten years, and he wanted to eat fasting and chant scriptures to pray for his mother in the next life."

"It can be said that he has done his best, many people say that he turned back to the shore, but the song is respectable, and it is a model that the son of time should learn, and finally this beast who abused his mother to death, he actually got the reputation of a filial son, relying on his dead mother, he was stunned to rise all the way, and he did the Taichang Temple Shaoqing of the fourth grade."

"It's really speechless, in the eyes of the little girl, instead of arranging after death, it is better to be filial piety before death, even if you only let her have no worries about food and clothing, it is better than ignoring human ethics."

The Ma Xiaoshu that Lan Jiayin said can be said to be the most controversial person in a hundred years, and those who admire him can't wait to say that he is a model of the prodigal son's return, and those who hate him are commensurate with brutes when they open their mouths and close their mouths.

Lan Jiayin is undoubtedly the latter, and Mrs. Liang, who nods frequently, will not be the former, the two have the same point of view, and there is naturally less estrangement when they speak, and the difference between the old and the young is more than forty years old, and it is actually a happy conversation between you and me.

Later, Qiaowen looked at the time when it was almost time to start the banquet, so she softly reminded her old lady, Mrs. Liang nodded with a smile, looked at Lan Jiayin's sideburns and asked, "Why don't you wear the jasper hairpin that the Duchess gave you just now?" ”

"Huh?" The topic changed too quickly, too big, Lan Jiayin was a little surprised, and blinked before replying: "Oh, my cousin said that this jasper hairpin was given to the Duchess by the Queen Mother, such a noble object, the little girl did not dare to wear it like this, so she took it off and collected it." ”

"What? Would you like to see it, old lady? ”

As she spoke, her hand was already deep in her arms, and when Mrs. Liang saw her sincerity, she couldn't help but smile dumbly, and hurriedly waved her hand to stop her, "No, no, this hairpin has been seen dozens of times, and I can remember what it looks like with my eyes closed, so don't look at it." ”

Lan Jiayin paused, and then thought of something interesting from these words, and couldn't help but chuckle, "It seems that Duchess Zhu Guo cherishes this jasper hairpin very much, why did she reward the little girl today?" ”

Mrs. Liang saw that her brain was spinning fast and she was clever, so she just clicked, and she asked about the point, not to mention, just with this kind of energy, she is much more flexible than her granddaughter.

She invited Lan Jiayin to come, and she was really curious about this girl, although the old lady said that she had long been ignorant of family affairs, but what happened in the family, she was clear.

The excitement of the past few months has not fallen at all, the grandson struggles for the family, and the grandson is the boy who fell in love at first sight, tossing and being a demon......

One by one, one by one, they are closely linked to the person she loves the most, and invisibly, they are forcing Mrs. Liang to come out and seek a final answer by herself. (To be continued.) )