Chapter 127: Reply?
Qiu Yun can mix to this day, and she is definitely cultivated in women, seeing the sissy from the sitting posture to the posture of holding the bowl and chopsticks, to the details of picking up vegetables and chewing, there is no doubt that this upbringing is definitely not something that a man from an ordinary family can have. Seeing this situation, Qiu Yun couldn't help but mutter: Shuai Xiaobing's family background is not good at all, why did he have such a well-bred child?
Originally, Qiu Yun's strategy of borrowing dinner to watch people was not wrong, not only was it correct, but it was very correct. There is a clear saying in the Celestial Empire: "Cangli knows etiquette and knows honor and disgrace when he has enough food and clothing." In fact, it is to explain a truth, that is, the quality of a child's character is not necessarily related to the family environment, but the child's upbringing and family environment have a great relationship.
In the previous article, both rich and poor families may produce talents, and they may also produce unscrupulous children, which refers to talent; "Every time you slaughter more dogs, the negative heart is always a scholar", which means that people living at the bottom are often much more generous than those who enjoy privileges, the former sticking a knife in your ribs, and the latter sticking a knife in your ribs, and the latter sticking a knife in your two ribs. Therefore, there is no necessary connection between the quality of character and family background.
The latter article is to say that character belongs to character and talent belongs to talent, but there is one thing that is absolutely clear between the poor and the rich: upbringing.
This is something that cannot be helped, because families of different classes always have different lifestyles and life goals, and these families naturally have different requirements for children's etiquette education. At first glance, there may not be much difference, but the difference in family conditions can be seen in the details.
There are many details that can be seen through at a glance, the most common example is that men and women with good family education, when eating, no matter what the situation, will keep their backs straight, and their upper body will always be perpendicular to the ground, and they will not hunch over or even lie on the table to eat under any circumstances, let alone make a mess of the table in front of them for any reason; When chewing, the mouth is not only closed, but also does not make any sound; I don't speak when I eat, and even if I have to say it in the middle of a drinking party, I always wait until the food in my mouth has been swallowed and nothing remains behind...... Well, again, there is no direct connection between upbringing and the quality of character, so please don't sit down.
And Qiu Yun noticed from the details of the sissy's eating that the sissy's actions didn't seem to match his identity. Qiu Yun had inquired about everything about the sissy before, and in the information she obtained, the sissy grew up in a single-parent family who lost her father at a young age, and his mother said that the mine was the captain at a good point, and to put it badly, she was the foreman of a state-owned enterprise, or the kind that did not make money. And all the actions of the sissy at the moment are the upbringing that only a child of an intellectual family should have.
As for whether the parents of the sissy are likely to be intellectuals...... Don't even think about it, just look at the name "Little Soldier" and you will understand. This name is like the names of "Zi", "Xuan", "Han" and other bad streets in the 21st century, which were not worth much at all in the era when the sissy was born, and it was not surprising that there were several "little soldiers" in a class when I was in school. For example, his name, Qiu Yun's harmonic "Qiu Yun", looks ordinary, but it is the result of his father rummaging through the classics; Don't mention the name of the girlfriend, the "Chu Ci" used ......
(Well, Ye Zhenzhen and Shi Xiuzhu are both names taken from the "Book of Songs" and "Chu Ci".) It should be said that except for Gao Guizhi and Shuai Xiaobing, everyone's name can be found in the classics, okay, don't show off. What kind of high-quality names such as "Long Aotian" and "Shui Binghan" are really unaffordable, and people's names have a lot to do with the person's family lineage and the education level of the celebrity, which is still realistic. The sissy family has been a miner for generations, and it is destined that the sissy can only fall to the name of a "small soldier", and the name of the high force is not his turn. In fact, the characters in my last book "Feiyun Jue's Wind and Cloud Change" took a lot of effort when they were named, not only turned over the "Book of Songs" and "Chu Ci", but also calculated the three talents, five elements, and six pillars of each name by themselves, and then assigned the gold, wood, water, fire, and earth to five different personalities before determining the names of the protagonist and supporting roles, but unfortunately, the editor is harmonious. )
This strange phenomenon that appeared on the sissy made Qiu Yun directly confused: what kind of person is he?
In the past, no matter what kind of man he was, Qiu Yun only needed to chat a few words and then eat once or twice, and he could basically determine what kind of character this man was. But today's trip was really unexpected, and instead of achieving the intended goal, it made me even more unable to find the direction.
However, it can't be said that Qiu Yun has no gain at all, at least she knows that the sissy is a very well-educated person, and from the perspective of table etiquette, she can go to a more upscale place for the next meal, and only two people are enough.
The sun is scorching outside, and the air conditioning inside is refreshing. The three of them didn't plan to go out immediately after eating, so they took a piece of fruit and sat down on the seat to kill their appetite.
"Little soldier......" Qiu Yun spoke first.
"Huh?" The sissy took a bite of a holy (small) female (fan) fruit (eggplant) in her hand, frowned and looked out the window in deep thought, and only then did she come back to her senses when she heard Qiu Yun call him.
"You...... Seems to have something on your mind? ”
"Hearts and minds...... Well, a little. ”
"Can you tell me about it? Maybe I'm ...... And Xue Fei can also help. Qiu Yun said immediately.
"Actually, it's not very difficult to do, but I think it......" The sissy hesitated, "Mr. Shi finally decided to let the shareholders call the police...... In this way, there is no room for recovery......"
"This is Mr. Shi......" Qiu Yun took the words of the sissy and said, "Mr. Shi's temper is like this." The world is big, and 'Rongze' is the biggest, as long as 'Rongze' can become a top enterprise, she is willing to let her kill people and set fire to guns. If she doesn't mention the matter of equity with the family, maybe Mr. Shi won't be in a hurry, what does equity mean? It means that if you want to shake the status of the Shi family, Mr. Shi will definitely not let them go...... It's also a shame that Shi is not mixed/black/social, otherwise maybe one day this family will be thrown into the meat grinder in the slaughterhouse and ground into minced meat, and finally turned into dumpling filling and traveled to thousands of households......"
As soon as Qiu Yun said this, the sissy felt that her whole person was not good, and then looked at the female man, the situation was not much better, and her expression was also strange.
"I'm just talking about fun, you don't have to react so much, right?" Qiu Yun saw that the expressions of the two were wrong, and hurriedly explained with a smile, "I just remember watching a movie before that seems to have this plot." And then they broke it off. ”
The female man and the sissy didn't squeak, in fact, both of them can "make up their brains" for this kind of thing. If Shi Xiuzhu is really mixed with "black/dao", the statement "becoming dumpling filling" is not necessarily, but it is absolute if it does not end well. If you really want to talk about it, Ai Lili's experience is also a bit similar to Shi Xiuzhu, but Ai Lili was disliked by her family because of her poor grades and love to cause trouble, so she ran away from home, and Shi Xiuzhu was abandoned in infancy. But today, according to the standard of civil servants' pensions, Ai Lili arranges for her accountant to send a pension money to her parents every month, and keeps the receipts every month.
Sending money does not mean that Alysli is easy to bully. Both the sissy and the female man have seen Ai Lili's methods of cleaning up people, if Ai Lili's family is really like Shi Xiuzhu's family, without Ai Lili taking action herself, there will be many people who are willing to help Ai Lili solve these problems. You know, Ai Lili doesn't have the aura of "young entrepreneur", "people's congress deputy", "charity star" and the like, and many things can be completely free to retaliate, a usurer wants a social image of P! How can you make the bank embarrassed?
But both of them understand that Shi Xiuzhu can be more ruthless. While Ai Lili is old-fashioned, she also takes into account her feelings, she not only has to take care of Qin Bo's overall situation, but also takes into account the interests of all parties, and also maintains her own personal feelings, which are not rich; Shi Xiuzhu is different, Shi Xiuzhu has no feelings, no feelings, she only has her goals, for the goal, any price is fine, if Shi Xiuzhu has any weakness, her daughter Shi Yaya is barely one, even so, no one can imagine that Shi Xiuzhu often does not go home to accompany her daughter for several days in order to work, but she just invited a retired elementary school teacher to follow up the whole process.
In contrast, Shi Xiuzhu is not ruthless enough, but she is still just a fierce beast without fangs and claws, once Shi Xiuzhu does it, this woman can only be described as terrifying.
"But what about ......" Qiu Yun smiled and changed the subject, "I heard from the logistics people, Xiaobing seems to be very good at drinking......
The sissy immediately said: "Not today!" I have to go to work in the afternoon, and I violate the work discipline ......"
Qiu Yun responded: "Forget it today!" But the next time you invite me, you'll have to behave well! It is said that you are a 'one-liter pack'! ”
"A liter pack?" The sissy felt confused.
"It's two pounds!" The female man couldn't help but interject, "The logistics side has already spread, and every time you drink with them, you have two catties...... This rumor has been going on for some time. ”
The sissy understood and continued quietly: "This is all their nonsense. If you drink too much, who remembers how much you drink? When pouring the wine, the end is unstable, and it is normal for half of a bottle of wine to be unentered into the glass......"
"Anyway, I'm going to see it with my own eyes!" Qiu Yun emphasized again, "Wait for the holiday to watch you perform!" ”
The sissy was helpless, so she had to nod her head and agree. Counting the days, it's not too far away. "Rongze" company is equal to no weekends, making clothing are the same, when there are many orders, "voluntary" overtime is a common thing, a month can give you a day off is rare. However, on some special days, the company is absolutely closed. Because most of the company's front-line workers are mothers of students, the company will have holidays on special days such as the beginning of school, the high school entrance examination, and the college entrance examination every year. It's not that the company is benevolent, but even if you don't take a holiday, front-line workers will ask for leave, and if you don't approve leave, people dare to resign. This is inevitable, the children's high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, must be much more important than work, the production line is very hard, the first-line skilled sewing workers everywhere rush to want, "Rongze" is not staying, there are many garment factories that grab skilled workers.
It's already mid-August, and it's just over two weeks and a few days before school starts, which means that the sissy really wants to put this thing in the plan. For men, if a man asks for a free meal coupon, the next time you go back to him for a meal at a food stall, there is no problem at all; But if a woman treats you to a meal with a free meal coupon, if you still use the free meal coupon to ask you back...... Take the consequences at your own risk! This has nothing to do with "pickled girls", this is a matter of men's dignity, if you don't have money in your pocket to ask back, when a woman invites you, you'd better politely refuse, otherwise this matter will spread and you will lose face.