The family of diplomats and the Western elite are born with these superficial things, and they can't fight for the East that people have cultivated since childhood polo, fencing, and daily shengxiao.

Yang Wei also tried his best to mention the superficial personal qualities, and found some foreign embassies to play a cameo role as an etiquette teacher to teach, and the formal etiquette teacher had to be slowly found from the Swiss French Hotel Group.

But this is all superficial work, and when you really do it, you refer to the core guiding ideology and code of action, not to see who is fluent in a foreign language and can eat Western food.

Whether it is the East or the West, the appearance of the goods will be broken as soon as they are poked, and he is not afraid of those Western pseudo-aristocrats who raised ponies when they were young, played horse racing when they were older, and gathered celebrities and ladies every day.

Tiger wolf and sheep are by no means born, no matter how demon the sheep is dressed, they can only bluff the same kind, in the eyes of the tiger wolf is always a dish, sometimes there is no such demon sheep for the time being, not because of the demon sheep itself, it is waiting for the lion behind the demon sheep to grow old, the hero is late, as soon as the time comes, the blood curtain will be opened.

Not only does he not define international and public relations, but he also does not define the relationship itself, so as not to be constrained in his thinking, and he does not emphasize foreign languages or analysis.

The analysis method can be taught, but the analysis itself cannot be taught, and without that ability, the wrong samples and functions will be collected, and the process and results of the analysis will be useless, no matter how beautiful they are.

What he teaches is all informal, and the core is the cultivation of strong thinking and the relationship between interests, emphasizing experience and practice, and making the sense of smell of interests instinctive.

You can make mistakes in analyzing because of your own cognitive limitations and lack of quality, but you must instinctively be highly sensitive to interests, and once touched, it will be like being touched by someone's eyeballs.

The strong thinking can be cultivated, not a nihilistic thing, just as the knife is not out of the rules, this is the samurai's will to develop the necessary spirit, the samurai can not just draw the sword to scare people to play, just as the middle earth is a drum and then decline three and exhausted, once the knife is drawn, it is not allowed to return to the sheath without seeing blood, and blood must be seen, if it does not hurt others, what should I do if the shameful knife is difficult to enter the sheath? It's easy to do, cut your own blood and raise a knife. It's not the knife that raises, it's the spirit.

Where is the pride of the real samurai, lies in the fact that this spirit is not something that cats and dogs dare to touch, it has been nourished with its own blood since childhood, and it has survived a very cruel set of exercises from the spirit to the body.

The spirit of the bright sword is the same, the ancient Chinese scholar is different from the king, the king can endure humiliation, the soldier can not be humiliated, since the sword, the humiliation is unbearable to draw the sword, that is not an ornament, it is a killing blade to defend the spirit of the warrior, you can't meet the weak to insult you to draw the sword to kill, by the strong insult to endure the humiliation and steal life, that's not good, that's not called a scholar, that's called bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, that's not the spirit of the soldier.

Knowing that he is invincible, he must draw his sword, and he would rather be splashed with blood on the spot than steal his life, this is the spirit of a soldier.

Tian Heng restrained himself in the spirit of a scholar, and would rather kill himself than be humiliated, and later generations would seem to be humiliated, it is clear that Han Gaozu did not care about his previous suspicions of cooking and eating his life, and he was thirsty for recruiting him as an official, which was a good story for monarchs and ministers.

But at that time, Han recruited Tian Heng, and in Tian Heng's opinion, this was that the Han court did not treat him as a soldier and regarded him as a repeated villain, which was a great shame for the scholar. If you can't be ashamed, you will die with the spirit you uphold, and the five hundred subordinates who hold the same spirit as you, when the news of Tian Heng's self-killing comes, all of them will kill themselves, and no one will steal their lives.

Everyone wants to be a gentleman and a scholar, and there are many people who claim to be a gentleman and a scholar, but not everyone dares to suffer that and is willing to bear that injury. The samurai lost the caesarean section, you lost and ran away; The soldier was recruited to kill himself, and you went to become an official with one move; A gentleman is hard to chase, and your meaningless nonsense comes as soon as you open your mouth, you can only see the bright side and not see the bloody side. If you only wish to enjoy happiness and do not want to suffer, you will not be able to cultivate gentlemen and scholars.

When weightlifters pick up Olympic medals, they don't know how much sweat they have wrought, and the sin they suffer and the destruction of their body physiology are almost a lifetime, and medals have a price.

The more elite the troops in each country, the higher the casualty index, the dead can be trained in every subject on weekdays, the glory is forged by blood, and some armbands you hang up, bearing not only honor, but also the consciousness of facing blood, when death comes, you will not knock on the door.

The spirit of the strong is also like this, to cultivate this spirit, before hurting the enemy, you must first hurt yourself. In the face of the same failure, the weak should not take it seriously, but as long as the strong fail, the mind and body will be greatly destroyed, which is determined by the nature of the spirit of the strong, sometimes more fragile than the weak.

Sheep can be injured, slow to move without delaying grass, tigers and wolves can not afford to be injured, an injury will affect the predation, the smell of blood emitted from the wound will attract the same kind of watch, it is difficult to retreat.

In order to avoid injury, you have to learn to be injured first, in order to feel the habits of the tiger and wolf, you have to peel off the sheepskin first, you can't stand the pain of peeling, you can't see your own blood, don't want to let others bleed, just sing a song that has no losers such as a beautiful world and love peace, and singing a song with a win and a loss must be out of tune.

Not to mention the unspoken rules of the negotiation field, Yang Wei even taught the specific reasons why the unspoken rules appeared, and deduced the background of the times and the loopholes of the rules according to the unspoken rules, and let the friends try to design the unspoken rules under the table.

For example, Zhang Wei, the manager of the sound room, was asked by Yang Wei to design a set of unspoken rules that did not violate the regulations of the Bear Army, requiring him to obtain benefits from all the users of musical instruments in the sound room, snacks, money, or any promised benefits, even if he made a little girlfriend for this, but he just couldn't touch the regulatory bell of the Legion Regulations.

The original intention of the design of the various regulations of the Bear Army is not only to be complied with by the friends, but also to encourage everyone to find loopholes for profit, Yang Wei even designed a loophole medal for this purpose, a woodpecker medal made of 8 grams of silver, specifically to reward those children who can use their positions to obtain benefits.

Once a vulnerability is discovered, there is an exclusive right to the vulnerability, which can be enjoyed for a period of time like a patent, just to encourage everyone to be naughty and not to stick to the rules. Just as British and American lawyers can't find loopholes, and if they can't create loopholes, they can't win and lose lawsuits, the dividing line between lawyers and barristers is here, the former understands the law, and the latter knows how to find loopholes and artificially create loopholes.

The legal market in the United States is not like the domestic double-blind, all the lawyers' literacy resumes are false, and the big customers don't look at anything else, the firm chooses the senior in the industry, and the litigation lawyer directly checks your winning rate in the association.

What is familiar with laws and regulations, has professionalism and professional ethics, enthusiastically answers customer questions, no use at all, a lawsuit is not to find a psychiatrist, there is a game of losing and winning always to lie down, what you want is the killer is not a loving mother.

What comfort do rich people want, what do they want to solve their doubts, and as soon as they put things in place, they ask if they can win or not, which is essentially the same as the requirements for a killer, and the only thing they need is their own lawyer to kill the other party.

Barristers are all killers, they solve problems for their clients, not solve psychological problems and doubts, and big clients will not ask killers for advice on how to kill people.

Put things in place, how do you need me to cooperate, what do you provide to win, everyone does things cleanly, whether it is okay or not, you have to be responsible for saying it, and the check can't bounce.

A barrister who sees the law in his bones will not talk to his clients about the law, which is a waste of time.

Because the law is the rule of the game, it is played by legal practitioners, and the customer does not play this, what is the use of knowing the rules?

The premise of respecting the law and abiding by the law and understanding the law is to know the law first, and the key is that it is impossible to know the law. All I know are scattered fragments, and when it comes to the time of the lawsuit, these fragments are useless at all.

How thick the law is, it is a whole set of systems that are vast and interrelated, and various provisions can bury people, not to mention ordinary people, the justices still don't know the law, and you don't know anything about other industry provisions.

Big customers won't bother with this thing, waste time, and it's easier to get hurt if you understand everything than you don't understand it at all. It's like becoming a doctor after a long illness, thinking that if you know a little pathology, you understand medicine, and if you don't listen to the doctor, you will delay your illness.

The old prisoners in the detention center who are waiting for the sentence have committed something, and the sentence is suspended. But it's useless, knowing what's the use, but instead getting stuck in a certain mindset, and the real big players can't get in at all.

Everyone plays differently, and all that goes in is the cleverness that has been accumulating the dark side, and the twists and turns of the appearance are clear, and they follow instinct and appearance. What you can't get in is all the rules of the game, there is a dark side, but it is always taking the yang to make up for the yin, dissolving, moving, there is something not to solve, it is to follow the law.

It is very difficult for such a person to get in, and ordinary people can't tell whether he is a good person or a bad person, which is great wisdom.

The big player is to hand over the professional things to the professional people, listen to the professional explanations of the professionals, and a pastry chef will listen carefully if the big players are interested in how to make cakes, which is called absorbing experience. But if the pastry chef asks why there is haze, the big players ignore it, which is called nonsense.

Many parents and teachers can't listen to the words of this reason, parents are older, not necessarily have any great knowledge, teachers come out and stay in school to teach teachers around the school for a lifetime, what social laws do you know?

The reason why there are more civil servants in civil servant families is also here, political families, merchant families, lawyer families, diplomat families, police families, railway worker families, inheritance is here.

In the realm of parents and teachers, the experience in those fields is useful, beyond a specific field, and that kind of experience and life teaching is essentially utopian, without any guidance, but can mislead and detain people.