Chapter 190: Care
(Okay, everything that should be foreshadowed has been laid, except for Lin Xuefei's parents and fiancΓ©, the image positioning of each character is basically completed.) From the next chapter, the relationship between the characters begins to mess up...... οΌ
"This ......," the sissy pointed at herself awkwardly, "just wear it like this, and you won't be laughed to death if you are seen......
Qin Yue couldn't help it, and after laughing on the spot for a while, she pouted under a street lamp in the distance: "Look." β
When the sissy looked over, he saw that it was six or seven young men about her own age gambling, gleefully gambling around the card table under the street lamp. These young people are also wearing only boxers or briefs, dragging slippers and holding cigarettes outside, and they don't care whether they are "gone/naked" at all.
"Smoke less! ...... for those who are not in good health," Qin Yue said with a frown.
"Uh...... It's actually a habitual action......" the sissy replied embarrassedly, "I haven't sucked ...... at all", which is definitely the truth. After exchanging bodies, the new sissy doesn't know what smoking is all about, and his understanding of "smoking" is only limited to the "smoke" itself, that is, taking a puff and not inhaling it in the lungs, but holding it in the mouth and spitting it out. In fact, the main reason why more than half of smokers smoke is basically that they are suddenly bored in their leisure time at work or life, and they subconsciously want to have a magic horse show between their fingers.
The focus of tobacco addiction is not on "body addiction", but on "heart addiction". Many people subconsciously light a cigarette when they are bored or use their brains. When it comes to quitting smoking, the most difficult thing is this, the ultimate meaning of quitting smoking is not the body addiction, but the heart addiction. (Well, I have been a smoker for 12 years, and I forcibly quit smoking after smoking e-cigarettes for a month, but I really quit, and I have insisted on not smoking for 10 months, so I should say that I have successfully quit smoking.) οΌ
"Then try not to smoke either!" Qin Yue said in an accentuated tone, "You all know that this is just a 'habitual action', why can't you quit?" β
The sissy stall spread her hands and said: "Then I can't help it!" I've been smoking this pack of cigarettes in my pocket for almost two months, and I still have more than half of it left! I've always wanted to say that I've quit smoking, but no one believes me! During this time, most of the time, I only lit a cigarette when I smoked with others, and after lighting it, I would never take a puff, and I would only pinch it off when the cigarette burned to the end. Supposedly, this is also the etiquette of intercourse between men, right? β
This is the truth, Qin Yue has no opinion at all. But when the sissy said this, Qin Yue felt that she suddenly broke out in a cold sweat. Not for anything else, but she suddenly realized a problem, that is, if it really comes to the workplace, the theory of the sissy seems to be more open than her own personal opinion.
In the workplace, even if you don't smoke, you have to learn to "pretend to smoke" in public. And you have to be able to "smoke", if you put on a posture of "I'm a good man, I don't smoke", neither smoke nor smoke, then you just wait to eat deflated! In the same way, even if you don't smoke, you have to pretend that you can smoke on some occasions, even if it's a puff, and then take it in your mouth and spit it out after a while, which is an interpersonal philosophy. For example, if you are a senior smoker, and you give two top-quality cigarettes to the leader of the competent department, and then the leader gives you two other cigarettes of lower grade, this can only be regarded as a "friendly exchange" between smokers, not "bribery/bribery"; If you don't know how to smoke and give two top-notch cigarettes to the leaders of the authorities, then there will be something else.
You must know that party discipline and state law will also take into account our "public order and good customs". I'm a veteran smoker, but I just like shoddy cigarettes with heavy flavors, so I take those relatively light flavors but have no price in the market to find a certain leader to exchange two "front doors" or "white sand", "double happiness" and the like, it's not a bribe, right? It's just taking what you need, right?
This is "art", the "art" of playing "edge ball".
Qin Yue obviously understood the meaning of the sissy, and she naturally knew more about these "doorways" than the sissy, so she nodded and said, "I also know your difficulties." But fortunately, the clothing company is definitely non-smoking, and when I work here, it is all wooden and building materials, and I will not allow smoking...... As for Lili's side, I can't take care of this, and I guess she won't ban your smoking...... It's all up to you......"
The sissy smiled and said, "I've basically quit." Under normal circumstances, I don't smoke myself, and I only come to ...... when I meet special people."
"So...... Am I a 'special person' in your eyes? Qin Yue asked with a smile.
The sissy knew that she had said the wrong thing, so she quickly shook her head and said, "No! I didn't mean that...... I mean......"
"That's it! I don't blame you! Qin Yue seemed to know very well, and continued, "You should think it's more embarrassing to walk with me like this, and you want to cover up something by smoking, right?" β
Seeing through it, the sissy nodded a little shyly, not knowing what to say.
"Actually, you don't need to think so much," Qin Yue smiled, "You think, just now I sent Fei Fei back to the company, if I have any ideas, she will definitely call you as soon as possible, do you see that she has asked you about the crime now?" β
This is the truth, this is what the sissy was particularly surprised by, he really didn't expect that the female man didn't ask the teacher to ask for the guilt. In fact, the sissy herself also understands why the female man did not "ask the teacher to ask for the guilt", to put it bluntly, the mentality of the female man is much stronger than that of other women. While other women are trying to think about whether their boyfriends will hook up with other women, the thinking of female men has reached the point where normal people think it is incredible: Do you want more women to add more boys to our family?
It should be said that most men who are born as only children will make similar choices when the same thing happens. Because, there may not be many opportunities for filial piety in this life, but the credit of "spreading branches and leaves" can still be fought for. And the female man's dependence is even greater, after all, Gao Guizhi already knows the relationship between the two, if the sissy dares to play tricks, led by Ai Lili, a large number of characters who have become human spirits will definitely play the sissy to ruin her reputation, and the sissy herself is reluctant to suffer "herself"; What's more, women themselves are not interested in men......
Therefore, the sissy avoided answering Qin Yue's question.
"Don't be shy...... Moreover, I don't have any crooked thoughts about you," Qin Yue explained, "You also know my identity, and my identity is doomed, even if I don't open my mouth, there will be many men who deliberately please me in order to get close to my brother." Although my experience is not shallow, I am too far behind when compared to these people in society. My every move and every word is mostly unintentional to me, but in the eyes of those who have a heart, it is different...... Thankfully, you won't overthink it! That's why I'm more attached to you, not because I want to ruin the relationship between you and Feifei......"
"Oh......" After hearing this time, the sissy vaguely understood Qin Yue's distress. The former sissy was also a woman, and of course had similar troubles. There are some things that you can't talk to your closest friends, but this kind of person who can make you talk and help you keep it secret until death is rarer than a national treasure. Fortunately, the sissy is just one of them.
The sissy cannon, whether it is the handsome soldier before or the "Lin Xuefei" after, has maintained a consistent tradition: Pixiu.
What does Shenma mean?
In other words, whether it is a sissy or a female man, it is the kind of goods that "only enter but do not leave". No matter what the nature of the "gossip" is, it will end up in front of the sissy and the female man, because these two people invariably choose "not to believe"; No matter what happens, even if he (she) sees it with his or her own eyes, he will not take the initiative to bubble up, these two belong to the typical "national model".
Based on this understanding, whether it is a sissy to a female man, or a female man to a sissy, there is basically no "uneasy" factor for the two; As for other "special needs", these two have not yet reached that point......
Qin Yue looked at the sissy's expression that seemed to understand whether she understood or not, and probably estimated the degree of "purity" in the sissy's heart, so she didn't say much, but just instructed: "Anyway, you just pay attention to it in the future, and you should touch less cigarettes and alcohol." You yourself don't understand...... During the period when I worked in the provincial capital, many seniors in the company passed away, and some people were after retirement, chatting with people well, and suddenly fell asleep with squinting eyes, and when everyone reacted that he had suffered a stroke and died of breath, it was too late; Some people, usually don't have a big problem, but they never take the doctor's instructions to heart, and they just mess around all day long, and they still end up in an urn......"
"Forehead......" the sissy said embarrassedly, "I ...... It shouldn't have gotten to that point yet, right? β
"I'm not a medical student, how do I know!" Qin Yue said freely, "Of course it's a good thing that you can quit smoking now." It's just that you have to think about the people who asked you to quit smoking, few of these people think that you smoke and pollute the environment, and the people who are really worried about you think that your smoking is not good for your health. The former reminds you to smoke in a different place when you smoke, while the latter strongly urges you to quit! It's not that the academic qualifications of the two will really be very different, but that the service concepts of the two are not at the same level at all. In the same way, everyone advises you to quit smoking, and you have to understand who is just happy and who is really feeding you to consider. β
"I see!" The sissy nodded seriously and wrote down Qin Yue's words.
"I didn't expect you to be a national treasure with these words," Qin Yue added, "It's just the experience of my life as a person who has come before." If you think it's useful, take it! β