Chapter 10 The Family Atmosphere Emerging from the War
"I've got to make an inch, at most I'll put your hat on, and I'll have to pay it back when I go back." Yang Wei glanced at Mr. Huang.
"I belong to the legion, for everyone's service, there is definitely no lack of legion emblem on the hat, why don't you report it to me?" Huang Datong was not angry.
"That's a good reason, try to propose, and persuade everyone to report to you. Either it is proposed, and after the meeting, it is the legion bill, and in the future, all flag captains will naturally enjoy the same rights. I won't raise my hand for you, I only have one vote in my hand, and it's useless to just tell me. Yang Wei ignored Huang Datong and continued to eat peaches.
Huang Datong understood what Yang Wei meant, and raised his hand to represent that he took the initiative to run, and that Yang Wei would use his influence to actively help him fool. One vote is a vote that everyone in the legion has, and it only represents personal support, and it will not do extra work for him.
"Deal!"
Huang Datong stretched out his hand and decided to take profit. In order not to be angry with the unrighteous bastard on the other side, not to mention the hat, the flag captain who promised to help him operate must be yellow stall.
The unrighteous bastard threw the fork into the bowl, reached out and shook hands with Mr. Huang, and the behind-the-scenes deal was announced.
"Go south to see your grandfather? What kind of tank have you prepared for me to top? The teacher asked me what I wanted to do when I grew up, and I didn't think much about it, blurting out that I grew up and went to the top cylinder of the overpass! ”
Huang Datong was trained by Yang Wei and had a psychological shadow, and he didn't believe that he was looking for him to accompany him just to relieve his boredom, and he looked sad, "I told you Yang Wei, acrobatics is really not my strong point." ”
"I promise Chairman Mao that if I walk around, in a land of bird language, I will never forget my hometown when I see you."
Yang Wei's eyes were hazy, he squinted and called affectionately, followed by his expression, and sneered, "You really think of yourself as a corner?" You are a big burden, and I have to cover your consumption, just to wait for my grandfather to cry, make trouble, and hang himself to play sadness with me, you quickly pull me back. ”
"Say it earlier, you just see, your Mr. Huang is the best at this. Whoever dares to sabotage compulsory education and not let us come back after the school starts, is the object of the people's dictatorship, and if your grandfather dares to run rampant, we will let him perish. ”
As soon as Huang Datong's heart fell to the ground, his spirit was immediately high, he had seen Yang Wei's grandfather, and he was not afraid of the smiling little old man at all, and immediately expressed his determination.
"It's not to the point of killing your relatives in righteousness, you know it anyway, don't patronize it. My grandfather's sugar-coated cannonballs are sticky to fools and beat bad guys, so don't just get caught in the way. ”
"Don't worry, you have a look, buddy absolutely understands, and immediately lie down and howl. Eh, no, isn't your grandfather in Malaysia, where is Ice City from? Can we go without a photo? "Huang Datong is a family member of a diplomat, and he has no shortage of common sense, so he immediately thought of the key place.
He was not afraid that he would not be able to convince his parents, because his family, like Yang Wei's family, was also a revolutionary family that came from the war years.
Children from some families in the capital are very precocious, and many things can be judged very early, and they really know where their behavior margin is. Know what belongs to the circle and can be done, what belongs to the circle, and what is called thunder must not be touched.
The circle here is not a circle, but the circle at the edge of the action, a range that allows you to jump.
It is normal for some children from families to run around since they were young, and it is normal for them to run around with their parents' relatives, or their parents' comrades-in-arms and colleagues.
One is the welfare or nature of the work of the unit, and the other is the treatment and activities. There will be many opportunities for business trips, recuperations, travel, training, meetings, etc.
When someone came to take it, the child followed, and when I was a child, I was taken to see war drills. Since I was a child, I would look at plastic bags, look for grass that shouldn't appear, and know that when I fired a cannon, it was not a sound, but a shake pushed by the sound. There are more report performances from the police academy and the armed police force, hum haha, splitting bricks and grabbing daggers. Earlier, he even broke a big stone on his chest, and the car walked from his body, and he was led by the people, and the children of the public security and the army watched it as a sports meeting since they were young.
Many of the rules that will be taken by the master after going to work are not rules for these children, but they are used to it since childhood.
Such children have been exposed to the work of adults since childhood, and they are as familiar with the fields of their parents' colleagues and comrades-in-arms. Since childhood, they have been led by each other's families, and they are all their own children. Playing together from an early age, playing in a ball.
One is that some families who have experienced certain eras together, and families are close to each other, and life and death depend on each other. The children do not distinguish between each other, and they are led out easily, not outsiders.
These families treat each other's children the same as their own, boasting as much as they do and beating them just as hard.
There are even children who, when they reach adulthood, go to work or go to the military, are told by their parents that they are adopted.
Many of the parents of these children are heroes and martyrs.
This tradition has been around for a long time, and it was common during the Red Army period. On the road of revolution, if someone falls at any time, the children of martyrs will be adopted.
During the war years, everyone would die at any time, and everyone's children would become orphans at any time.
So, for everyone, everyone's child is their own child.
The chairman's children will also be adopted by others, and the prime minister, Sister Deng, will also adopt other people's children. The more senior the cadre, the more common the adoption, and the more common the adoption of cadres in the army.
When this tradition continues, families that have come from the war years will have an unimaginable blood bond. is much closer than blood, and they can trust each other in life and death, and entrust their wives and children.
The will left before the mission did not treat the other party as an outsider, and it was written that there was something I couldn't do now, and you did it for me.
Don't watch on TV that Europe is fraternal, receiving refugees all day long. In fact, China is the country that receives the most refugees.
It's just that only Chinese are accepted, and nothing else is needed.
Some children of overseas Chinese who have returned to China due to war, persecution, or special reasons in their home countries also have the experience of growing up in different families. Many of the children in China are also handed over to overseas Chinese, either as host families or as their own children.
In addition to the heroes of the special front, the children of some martyrs, adoption and mutual entrustment of children are common in revolutionary families and are a habit.
When this habit lasts for a long time, an indescribable atmosphere is formed.
Families who have come from the war years are really close to each other. Don't play the etiquette or go back and forth, empty-handed door-to-door ordinary things. If you are in a good mood, you can bring some cigarettes and alcohol to the two kings, and if you are in a bad mood, you will come to vent it, except for a belly full of anger, there is nothing.
During the war years, there was no great division between military and political affairs, and such families basically had military characteristics. The head of the family is the cunning old men who came out of the smoke of gunpowder, and battlefield camouflage is instinctive. When taking pictures, they were all kind and kind-eyed, modest and cautious, with a shy smile and a simple pretend, and when they turned their heads, they were all warlords, and there was no one in their eyes.
At home, it is all feudal patriarchal style, hugging grandchildren but not children, except for smiling at grandchildren, the face of the wife and children is very tense, and the penguins freeze to death. If you can't hold back a little, you will blow up, scold at home, find old comrades-in-arms to scold, and scold each other in the air.
Whoever scolds will expose the shortcomings, and the old accounts will be lifted by each other, and whoever will stand by and watch when he is in trouble, who is not worthy of the name, and he even remembers the box of grenades owed by the other party decades ago. But even if there is a dislike for each other, there is still a natural sense of familiar identity.
It's like a wanderer returning to his hometown, and his hometown is no longer good, but as soon as he returns to that environment, he is suddenly down-to-earth. The heart is quiet, and there is a kind of magnetic field-like fit.
Parents and grandparents scolded each other, and the children played together as well. Fathers and grandparents don't care, they should be scolded. When the other party's child comes to his own house, he should still be his own child, he should be called to eat, he should be beaten and scolded. Don't be afraid of being injured, your noodles and eggs are indispensable.
This very strange atmosphere has continued to later generations, weakened a lot, but has never disappeared.
Huang Datong's family and Yang Wei's family both came from the war years, and they were both in this atmosphere. Each other's parents led each other's children out for a walk, and they had nothing to do on a rainy day, they didn't take each other seriously, and they didn't complain when they died outside.
Huang Datong understands that he can do this, but he is worried that he can't do it without a photo.