Chapter 166: Qiu Yun's troubles
The sissy could understand the sourness in Qin Yue's heart when she said this. As a mother, of course, she wants to be with her child every second, but Qin Yue always has to worry that she will hurt her child once she gets out of control, so she can only send her child away from her in foster care. However, judging from Qin Yue's current situation, she has already understood where her "lesion" is, so it is not far from "self-healing".
The biggest difference between mental illness and physical illness is that. If you are suffering from a physical disease, if you are not a professional doctor, even if you know what your disease is and where the lesion is, you don't expect to be able to cure yourself, such as a simple appendix surgery, even if the doctor knows where the lesion is, he has not seen that he can operate on himself; Under normal circumstances, people with mental illness or mental illness subconsciously think that only their own thoughts are right and others are wrong, and if the world does not agree with their opinions, then the whole world is wrong...... No kidding at all. However, as long as the psychological counseling is completed, the patient with mental illness knows where his "lesion" is, and his psychological condition will quickly improve with the help of everyone.
For example, gambling addiction is also a mental illness to a certain extent, and gamblers who fall into it often only feel that they are just "playing two" and will not be harmful, and others will only find others very annoying if they are persuaded to do so; But when a gambler loses a large amount of money and realizes that he is wrong, he will have the idea of quitting gambling, and if someone is willing to help him quit gambling, the success rate is still very high.
Qin Yue had already realized the root of her problem, as long as the people around her could create a good environment for her, she would become normal sooner or later.
"Does the third brother know this?" The sissy hesitated, but finally asked.
Qin Yue shook her head: "My parents and my brother only know that I have suffered from postpartum depression before, and they also know that I have been cured. They just thought I was in a bad mood because of the divorce now and didn't think much of it...... But I think that ignorance may also be a different kind of happiness. Since they don't know yet, don't let them worry too much...... You tell me? ”
The sissy nodded thoughtfully.
Qin Yue raised her wrist and looked at her watch, stood up and smiled: "It's almost time to go back too, it's too late to get up tomorrow morning...... I've listened to Lili, get up tomorrow morning and run......"
The sissy smiled: "Then you really have to go back quickly." Waking up early to run, for the first month, and getting up every morning is a difficult decision...... Go back quickly, or you may not be able to get up tomorrow. ”
Qin Yue nodded, exited the sissy's bedroom, and closed the door casually. The sissy heard Qin Yue's voice greeting outside: "Aunt Gao, I'll go back first, and I'll ask you for it......"
"It's okay, it's okay! Be careful on your own roads......" This is Gao Guizhi's voice.
"Goodbye Mama!" The voice of the heart is much more simple.
The door opened a crack again, and the sissy saw Qin Yue waving her hand at herself through the crack in the door, and after making a "goodbye" gesture, she gently closed the door, followed by the sound of the door opening and closing.
It was not too early when Qiu Yun came back. If it was usual, the female man had at least played two games of chess with Zhou Gong. When the door opened, the female man was sitting on the small sofa and napping, and when Qiu Yun poked the key, the female man woke up excitedly.
Qiu Yun was still panting slightly when she came in, her face was flushed, the corners of her eyes were still slightly raised, the T-shirt on her body still had obvious sweat stains, and the hair on her sideburns was sticking to her face. The female man has also "read countless films", of course, what is the situation of Qiu Yun's demeanor. But she had learned to look at Qiu Yun without being shocked or annoyed, on the contrary, she could see a slight anger in Qiu Yun's expression.
"What's wrong?" The female man rubbed her eyes, "What's going on?" ”
Qiu Yun sighed and said, "A man...... You also know, I used to have a lot of boyfriends and a lot of situations, no, this time I met a ...... who refused to break up."
The woman's heart skipped a beat, and she pretended to ask casually, "It's still up to you?" Want to marry you? What are the conditions? If the conditions are good, you are gone! Who to marry is not to marry? ”
Qiu Yun said disdainfully: "There is a little bit of money, the question is whether it is good for people to have wives?" I told him to break up, I should also start a family, but he is simply crazy, and he wants to divorce his wife and marry me......"
The female man was taken aback, of course she knew that "he" was Shi Xiuzhu's husband Ni Haifeng. Ni Haifeng wants to divorce Shi Xiuzhu? What kind of kidding is this? He ...... Have a wife? The female man pretended to be surprised, "I want to divorce his wife and marry you again?" You asked him to do that? ”
"I'm crazy, I let him do it!" Qiu Yun rolled his eyes and said, "A man like him, in front of his wife, he doesn't even dare to take a breath, his wife asked him to go east, he doesn't even have the courage to look west!" What's the use of this kind of man asking for it? I promised to get along with him, that is, I took a fancy to him and was a bit ambitious...... also has a little money, now it seems that he is much worse than Shuai Xiaobing, what's the use of more money? I'm not bad for money now, I want character! ”
"What are you going to do now? What if he's still pestering you? Aren't you afraid that he will come to die? ”
"Humph! This kind of person only cares about himself, where will he care about others! Don't look at his hard mouth now, in fact, he himself is too scared. It's public, I'm still me, and it's not like I can't find anyone to marry, but what about him? Absolutely nothing! Qiu Yun said indifferently, "I'm not worried that he will shake things out!" ”
"Well, since you're so confident...... the woman shrugged her shoulders and asked instead, "when you're waiting until this point, do you still want to put on your face?" ”
Qiu Yun stood up angrily, and said helplessly: "This body is sweaty, I have to take a shower and wash my clothes again!" Forget it, you put on your own face, don't wait for me. ”
The female man nodded, and turned into the bathroom to cover her face.
This night, many people could not sleep, and they tossed and turned in bed with their own thoughts.
After two days of calm and calm, the day of the company's big holiday is approaching. The beginning of the school season is undoubtedly the busiest time for parents, not to mention that so many front-line employees in the company are busy, Shi Xiuzhu is also a parent, and she keeps running for the education of her children. The things that should be prepared must be prepared, the "rites" that should be fulfilled must be fulfilled, and the incense of one less temple is not burned. The Shi family's economic conditions are good, so naturally they have to make an appointment with Shi Yaya's teacher for a meal......
Everybody's busy. Every year when the school year comes, the company's production line is almost paralyzed. Later, it was very simple that the whole company was closed for two days at the end of August.
On the day of the big break, the female man got up early to run as usual, and when she came back, she found that Qiu Yun also got up early unexpectedly.
"Huh? It's rare, an hour earlier than usual! The female man said while undressing and preparing to take a bath, "Is there an appointment?" ”
"There's no one to make an appointment, there's dinner tomorrow, little soldier...... So today is enough for me to be busy, I have to buy clothes, I have to do hair, I have to do eyebrow shaping, nails, and skin care...... I still have to go around the streets, plan the route and the 'offensive strategy' for tomorrow night," Qiu Yun said as she cleaned up, "There is basically no rest." ”
"You're not idle......" the woman laughed and cried, "where are you dating, look at you so excited!" ”
"Originally, he said that I had better not eat heavy food these days, so I recommended the food of Pudu Temple," Qiu Yun was very happy, "But I said that it is strange to squat in the temple to eat like this, it is better to go to Jianghaizhou to eat casually." ”
"Jiang Haizhou? You can think of this place......" The female man smiled bitterly, "It really took a lot of thought!" "Jianghaizhou is a small sandbar, about the size of five or six football fields. Its location is exactly the mouth of the canal into the river, and about ten kilometers to the east, it is the mouth of the river.
This river and sea continent is not on the central channel of the canal, but on the river bank, and when the sea is high, the canal rises with it, and the sandbar is separated from the land by the river; After the tide goes down, the sandbar is connected to the land again. There is a bridge between the sandbar and the land, and there are few distinctive buildings on the sandbank, but more than half of the local food stalls are concentrated here.
It is not very far from the city, and at night I ask a few friends to come here to look at the canal that passes through the city, while looking at the river that has flowed next to the city for thousands of years, and looking eastward, you can see the endless sea; If it is the fifteenth day of the lunar calendar, you can see the moon slowly rise from below the water level like a huge silver wheel without any shelter, until the silver light is scattered all over the water.
It's not an officially recommended tourist attraction and doesn't appear in any promotional texts or pictures, so only locals know what it will be. The reason why there is no publicity is probably because there is no admission fee here......
The female man praised Qiu Yun for picking a place, because it was not far from the city, but also not close to the city, and the sandbar was lively, and it was sparsely populated when it returned to the land. This gives Qiu Yun a lot of "room for operation"; And eating here, not only the taste is good, but there is no problem of difference in taste between the two, they are all roadside stalls, even if you don't eat stalls, you can also eat snacks, buy what you like, you can sit down and play skewers, you can always find a common language. Eat both the taste and the atmosphere.
Shuai Xiaobing before the body was returned also liked to go here very much, because it only took less than twenty minutes to walk from his home to here on the elevated road, and there was no red light, and the car was parked under the bridge, and then he could eat with his belly open on the sandbar in a sightseeing car.