What does this "wonderful" mean? In fact, it is not complicated, and when most people encounter delicious food, they are "so delicious!" This "wonderful" has to be taken to the next level compared to "really delicious". "It's delicious" is a comment on the taste of the food itself, while "wonderful" is a review of cooking skills. This is the highest appreciation of cooking in the dialect.

The sissy holds chopsticks in one hand, and the other hand is used to naturally placing under the chin to prevent the dish from falling on the table, and sipping a sip of wine every time she tastes it, with slow and rhythmic movements; The chewing action was quiet and elegant, without making any sound or swallowing in a hurry, but chewing very carefully before swallowing, and the lips were closed tightly during the whole process, not even the gaps between the teeth were exposed.

Old Lady Shi was surprised at first, then became more and more satisfied, and nodded incessantly. First the old lady, then Aunt Zhou and Aunt Qian also noticed, and finally even Qiu Yun noticed, Qiu Yun even forgot to eat herself, and watched every action of the sissy tasting food. And the sissy obviously didn't realize that she had become the focus, and just slowly tasted each dish according to her original attitude. When the sissy put down her chopsticks and wiped her mouth with a wet towel, she was about to boast about her cooking skills again, and when she found that everyone was looking at her.

"Forehead......" The sissy was suddenly a little embarrassed, "I...... These dishes are so delicious that I forgot about everyone...... Sorry ......"

Qiu Yun shook his head again and again: "No, no, no!" I'm the first time...... Men can still eat ...... So beautiful. ”

The sissy was dumbfounded, and couldn't help but look at the female man. The woman still sits solemnly and eats in the same posture as him...... In fact, the female man's eating posture was also trained by the sissy and Arilie's assault. Although the female man was silent, she could fully understand the embarrassing state of the sissy at the moment. She completely saw the action of the sissy just now, and since the exchange, the action of the sissy eating has been like this, and the female man feels that there is an indescribable taste; At first, I thought that eating like this was too careful and too sinful, right? The waist should be straight, people should not shake around, the neck should drive the head forward when the food reaches the mouth, and the plate should be placed under the chin, and the hands should be used if there is no plate...... This is clearly the rhythm of the whole person!

But the sissy actually did it all, and every detail was meticulous, and the most surprising thing for the female man was that she felt that these actions that did not pay for the death were actually quite good-looking...... also started from eating, and the sissy used her actual actions to tell the female man a fact called "upbringing".

Upbringing, in Huaxia, sometimes has nothing to do with family conditions. Many families with poor conditions can train children with excellent upbringing; Many families with good family conditions may have a second ancestor. In other words, behind a well-educated person, there must be an overall well-educated family, and this kind of upbringing is often called "family style" or "door style", all of which has nothing to do with money, only the quality of family members.

Of course, how meticulous you are when you eat, how you drink water, and how respectful you are when you walk, this can only be said to be a part of upbringing, not the whole of upbringing. Many people want to make themselves or their children educated, but when they see dozens or hundreds of words and deeds, they always can't help but complain: Raising a hairy person, people live like this, are they tired?

In fact, the cultivation of upbringing is complicated to say, but it is not complicated to implement. The core of "upbringing" is actually "thinking about others and not causing trouble to others". To put it bluntly, that is, when you are doing your own thing, if you can help others do things together by the way, then you can do it by the way; If you can do some things yourself, then no matter how tired you are and how tight your time is, you would rather sacrifice a little rest time to do it, and don't work others to do it or make others obstructed, this is upbringing.

For example, it is the same dormitory, every time I use something, it is only a matter of a few seconds and a dozen seconds to throw it away and put it back in place, it is a matter of a minute to fold a quilt after getting up, and it is a few minutes to dry a quilt when the weather is good, and it will not kill people; You did it, others didn't, you can't see the difference in a day or two, but after half a month, whose bed will become a "pig's nest", everyone knows very well.

A well-educated person suffers in a small way, but takes advantage of a large place. When crowding the bus and subway, educated people can't play with the uneducated, but when it comes to interviews, negotiations and other occasions, educated people obviously take a big advantage.

The action of the sissy eating is not "elegant", but it is very regular. His every movement is not exaggerated, neither hindering others, nor making any sound, so that others can continue to eat with peace of mind. From a psychological and sociological point of view, this must be achieved by relatively strict parents, who are more strict with their children (sad children) and do not spoil their grandchildren. When interacting with such a family, they all know the rules very well, and they act within the established "unspoken rules" when dealing with people, and they basically don't spill when something goes wrong. (Well, in the future, the basic judgments of sociology and psychology will be slowly penetrated, and unmarried book friends can refer to it when choosing their father-in-law or mother-in-law or in-laws)

"Okay, okay, don't look at it," Mrs. Shi said with a smile, "Eat well, you guys, make the young men embarrassed to eat!" The weather is so hot, we still expect the young man to clean up the seafood on this table, otherwise, will it still be delicious if it is left for the evening? ”

Everyone smiled kindly, indeed, this table of seafood is counting on the sissy, he is embarrassed to eat it, who is responsible for being the "messenger of the pure altar"?

"Eat silently, sleep silently", everyone here understands the rules, and under the reminder of the old lady, they are no longer troublesome, except for toasting, they are all eating honestly. About twenty minutes or so, everyone put down the chopsticks one after another, only the sissy was still eating with his head down, and suddenly the sissy found that everyone had stopped, and he was also a little embarrassed, and put down the chopsticks.

"Lao Zhou, is there any soup? Serve me a bowl! The old lady seemed to see the embarrassment of the sissy, and pointed to her empty bowl.

Aunt Zhou understood, immediately got up and went to the kitchen, and brought out a soup pot. In the soup pot is a very ordinary green vegetable and tofu soup, and the female man knew the old lady's intentions, and then said: "Trouble Aunt Zhou, give me a little too...... There are too many differences. Qiu Yun also came to her senses, and also picked up the bowl and said, "I want a little too." Everyone understood, just smiled, no one directly said to the sissy "You are free, eat slowly" or something like that, but invariably chose to "eat together".

The sissy was a little touched. In fact, his stomach is not hungry, but everyone is too enthusiastic, and these home-cooked seafood made by Aunt Zhou not only tastes good, but also is not greasy at all, this high-protein and low-fat diet is not better for the muscle development of the sissy, so the sissy is happy to continue to eat.

In fact, there is a customary rule in Huaxia, that is, when inviting guests, the host must find a way to make the guests drink too much and eat, and it is best to have a lot of dishes left, which makes the host "polite"; If a table of guests can sweep away the food on the table and then leave drunk, it means that the guests are very satisfied with the hospitality of the host family, which is to save face for the host family. Just imagine, if a banquet is over, the wine and food on the table are almost untouched, which will inevitably make people think more about the relationship between the guest and the host.

The female man drank the soup unhurriedly with a spoon, and saw that the speed of the sissy was gradually slowing down, knowing that the sissy was still stalked, but she couldn't take care of the sissy directly, so she had to stretch out her foot and step on Qiu Yun's foot under the table. Qiu Yun was stunned for a moment, and looked at the female man puzzled, the female man didn't say anything, but gestured to the seafood on the table with her eyes, and raised her chin towards the sissy.

Qiu Yun immediately understood, hurriedly picked up the chopsticks and picked up the dishes, and sent them directly to the plate in front of the sissy, and said, "This is good, you can taste it...... Well...... There is also this, I heard that those who practice fitness should supplement a lot of protein every day and eat less fat...... This seafood is just right for you......"

The sissy suddenly felt a little dumbfounded, and she didn't know what to do.

The female man didn't move, silently stretched out her foot under the table and stepped on the sissy lightly, and said: "Yes, even if you don't exercise every day, you have to consume a lot of protein, not to mention that you have to practice every day!" I just can't fit it in my stomach, otherwise I can eat all such delicious seafood by myself! ”

The sissy still just glanced at the female man with "resentment", didn't say anything, and continued to eat. After a while, the sissy finally put down her chopsticks and said helplessly: "Grandma, you all spare me, I really can't hold on!" ”

"Then it won't hold up!" The old lady waved her hand and slowly stood up with her crutches, "Let's go, go around the yard!" "This is also one of the traditions of the Shi family, that is, not to sit or lie down after dinner, but to go out for a walk or walk in the yard.

However, although it is a villa area, it is still in the urban area, and every inch of land is expensive; The yard is there, of course, but the space is not large. In the small courtyard, there are only a few rows of flower shelves, a loquat tree and an osmanthus tree. There are no precious varieties on the flower shelves, nothing more than some common orchids, dripping Guanyin, cacti and the like, occasionally a few pots of carefully built boxwood, and nothing else.

"I'm old, except for walking around the community every day, that is, I spend the longest time in this place...... "The old lady introduced to the sissy unhurriedly, "I don't have the ability to raise cats and dogs, and planting flowers and grass is so-so." I don't dare to get those precious things back to raise, just these easy-to-serve flowers and plants are enough. After that, he stretched out his finger and pointed to the loquat tree and the osmanthus tree, and continued: "You missed this year's loquat, but wait another month to come to my house to pick some osmanthus ......"