Chapter Eighty-Three: In Vain
When Li Yao said this, Fu Jingheng naturally understood what she was accusing. He pursed his thin lips slightly, bent down slightly and apologized: "Miss Li San, I have no intention of spreading rumors...... However, it was indeed my fault that you lied during the spring outing, and I apologize to you. ”
Fu Jingheng apologized solemnly, he didn't wait for a response, and said righteously: "It's a fact that you lied and lied. If you don't lie at first, then people won't accuse you of lying. Ah Ying is a meek and kind person, but you slander her, and it is your fault here. ”
does not shirk responsibility, knows that mistakes can be changed, and is willing to listen to persuasion, although Li Yao still has grievances against Fu Jingheng at this time, but in the end it has been alleviated.
She put down her resentment and raised her eyebrows in response: "What did I say to Cousin Ah Ying that day, because as far as she and I know, if I say that I didn't lie, just because of the lying in the first Chunyou, you won't believe me." But you and other people who don't know the truth come to accuse me of lying because of some previous events, don't you think it's biased? Just because you are familiar with your cousin, and because your cousin is your fiancée, when you come to conclusions, you favor her and say that she is not wrong. Am I telling the truth? ”
At this time, she felt that she was talking again.
Fu Jingheng already had a slight remark about the other party's lying nature, and the other party framed his fiancée earlier, he also believed in this matter, so he responded in a deep voice at this time: "What Miss Li San said is not entirely wrong. But isn't it true that you slandered Ah Yu? You sold the recipe and earned the money but kept it from your grandmother, aren't you also lying? If you do this, then you will not be blamed by others for thinking that you are lying. In short, lying makes others misunderstand you, it is the consequence of what you have done, and this is also a helpless thing, who made you lie in vain? And you still don't admit that you slandered Ah Jin, your personality is good and bad, but the bad is always bad. I said that there is no malice in these things, you borrow money and I will also accept your kindness, I just pointed out the fault of the third lady, I hope you can repent. ”
Han Jin is kind-hearted and attaches great importance to love and righteousness, but his cousin borrowed money and was blamed, he couldn't help but feel unhappy, so at this time, his reckless angry words rushed out of his mouth: "Since you are dissatisfied with my cousin, then you don't want to borrow my cousin's silver." My cousin's silver was intended to be kept for me to trade, and if I gave all the money to my grandmother of the Li family, the money would never come out at all. “
"Besides, my cousin has earned money, what should she do with others and others? Moreover, this silver was given to my grandmother of the Li family, and the one hundred and fifty taels of silver you borrowed today were not so easy to get. My cousin is lying, what can you do? ”
Because there was no money to receive help, the Fu family couldn't help but do things at will, and they couldn't straighten their waists. At this time, Han Jin was so squeezed Fu Jingheng, because he had to take care of his grandmother, he couldn't say that he didn't want silver. Because of these words, he was depressed in his heart, but he clenched the borrowed silver ticket in his hand at this time, and his face was so dark that he couldn't speak.
After all, he is old, and Li Yao can also understand this personal thought. She didn't want to borrow money from her family and not get the other party's gratitude, which would hurt the other party's self-esteem, and Ji'er would have a grudge against her family.
At this time, she said calmly: "The grandmother of the Fu family needs silver for recuperation in her illness, and I know that Gongzi Fu will not say that she will not borrow this silver because of her grandmother." It can be seen from this that Fu Gongzi has a tough heart, can bend and stretch, and is very filial. My cousin spoke out of concern for me, and I hope you will understand and forgive me. Take the money, and don't have a pimple in your heart. ”
Li Yao said this, Han Jin thought that he had indeed said angry words, it was important to save people, because of his angry words, Fu Jingheng returned the borrowed silver to him, and Old Lady Fu had a mistake because of this, which was not his. But if he was asked to apologize immediately, he couldn't say it. So at this moment he turned his head away, and only remained silent and said no more.
Li Yao explained in a good voice that Fu Jingheng was not an impulsive person, and he could listen to it. Because she understood everything he thought, Fu Jingheng knew that Li Yao was a well-informed and empathetic person. Since this was the case, he didn't say anything anymore, just bowed his hand to Li Yao and Han Jin and planned to leave.
But at this time, Li Yao spoke again: "Fu Gongzi, wait a minute, I still have something to say here." ”
was stopped by Li Yao, and Fu Jingheng's lowered head was raised at this time. The eyes in his eyes when he looked at Li Yao were clear and clear, and there was no anger or anger.
Seeing Fu Jingheng's appearance, Li Yao knew that although he was only fifteen years old, except for the occasional detour in dealing with others, he was free and mature and steady. This is also one of the great strengths of this person.
In view of his upright temperament, Li Yao said slowly at this time: "There are some things I still want to say to Fu Gongzi." There is no clear line between black and white. You read a lot of books, don't you know that in the history books and biographies, everyone looks at a person's comments differently? I know that Fu Gongzi is a square person, but you also have to know that it is not wrong to be square, but is it wrong to be tactful? Of course not. ”
"You know, the colors of the world, in addition to black and white, there are gray, and there are other colors. I hope that you will look at things in the future and look at the essence of things, and do not take things out of context, and I also hope that you will not think that lying is wrong in itself. You see, some lies are innocuous in nature, and some lies are forced to do so. I'll admit that I lied, but if I hadn't, I hope others wouldn't misunderstand me. ”
Li Yao said so much, but Han Jin listened to it. But he felt that these words were a bit mysterious, but most of them were nonsense. Say so much and do something, just how it should be or how it is. These words are also in vain for those who do not understand!
Fu Jingheng himself knew that he had a square temperament, and his grandfather taught him earnestly first, most of the time to correct his temperament. He knew that Li Yao's words were for his good, so he arched his hand to Li Yao again, which could be regarded as thanking others for admonishing him.
But at this time, he looked at Li Yao squarely, and couldn't help but say solemnly: "Lying is a last resort, it doesn't hurt to lie, if the girl thinks so, combined with the girl's family background, combined with the situation of the girl and her sisters, I can understand a little." But the girl slandered Ah Yu, can this say that the girl's lying was forced and harmless? Apparently I don't agree with the girl lying here—"
Li Yao interrupted him, and argued with reason: "I said that I didn't slander my cousin, but you don't believe it." It would be in vain to say anything here. There is no lying, there is yes, there is no, there is no. What happened between me and my cousin, I said I wasn't lying, and you don't believe it, unless my cousin admits that she lied. ”
Fu Jingheng was noncommittal about her reasoning, he thought that everyone had a scale in his heart, but at this time he still believed in his fiancée. Because what he was about to say just now was interrupted by Li Yao before he finished speaking, so at this time he continued: "Let's not talk about the girl and Ah Ying for the time being." I'll talk about the girl's temperament, and I hope the girl won't mind. ”
"I don't mind, please."
"The girl's temperament seems to be sleek, but in fact she is a person who is upright and does not mix sand, and she is too clear about right and wrong. There's nothing wrong with that, but if you act impulsively because you don't have sand in your eyes, it's easy to offend people. Just like on the day of the spring outing, the girl impulsively quit the marriage in front of everyone, no matter what kind of hardships the girl had, and no matter whether the girl was wrong or not, it was a fact that she offended Miss Xu Wu just because she acted impulsively. ”
"Then the girl gets into trouble and offends people. After I was exiled and sinned, others would insist that it was because of you, and even if it wasn't for you, you wouldn't be able to argue with anyone. I hope that the girl will act in the future and act before acting, and think twice before acting. If the girl is more gentle, it will be more likable. And if the girl thinks more about the consequences, there will be less trouble. I hope that in the future, the girl will read more female precepts, the four books of women, or copy more Buddhist scriptures and pick up Buddha beans, so as to hone her heart. ”
Both of them wanted to explain what they wanted to say, although they looked for tat, but they did not have malicious intentions towards each other, and they both persuaded each other with sincerity. Whether the other party accepts it or not, it depends on whether the other party is tolerant or not. Apparently both of them knew each other. Therefore, the situation between the two is not tense.
Li Yao responded to these words: "Thank you for your words of warning. Because I offended Miss Xu Wu. So I waited for the exile officials to be mistreated, and I don't think it's very likely. As for why, I think you can figure it out too, Master Fu. At first, you and Miss Xu Wu were still friends, but after we were exiled, we were still treated harshly by officials, which can only mean that you don't know people clearly, and I hope you will see people clearly when you make friends in the future. ”
What Li Yao said, Fu Jingheng also thought about it, he tapped his chin and said with emotion: "I understand everything you said." I'll pay attention to meeting people in the future. ”
What do you understand, what do you pay attention to? You don't understand your current fiancée. There was an implication in Li Yao's words, and there was also an insinuation to Li Jin, but Fu Jingheng didn't understand it in the end. But her words couldn't be more profound. Regarding Li Jin, Fu Jingheng didn't believe what she said. She said it for nothing. In the end, I can't say that the other party still thinks that she is provoking the relationship between other people's fiancés.
knows what her temperament is, but she doesn't want to listen to Fu Jingheng completely. In this life, she only wants to live a comfortable life without affecting others. Therefore, she only does what she is willing to do when she admonishes others. As for what self-cultivation things are to read women's vows, then let's talk about it. (To be continued.) )